What's the appeal of being sexually dominant? I've always found being submissive more appealing, and never understood dominance.
Power fantasy.
Normal high test males want to be alpha leaders, they want to control their partner and know they have all the power.
Women typically want to know their male suitor can protect them, and thats why on average they prefer dominant men.
Sexually submissive men really shouldn't exist, but human society yet drives them forward.
>>29544078
Most submissive males I've slept with arent actually submissive.
They are just lazy and expect me to do all the work every time we fuck.
>tfw actively submissive
>can enjoy sex without having to be touched myself
>always wanted to be in a relationship where that is our sexual dynamic
Maybe one day
Nothing like holding a guy down and riding him til he moaning like a girl.
Because you lack aggression.
>>29544078
The dominant-submissive sex scenes/situations are what turns people on, then people take roles according to their personality.
>>29544138
Most submissive females I've dated aren't actually submissive.
They are just lazy and expect me to do all the planning but still want to reserve the right to say no every time I want to fuck.
>>29544155
>moaning like a girl
>moaning
hearing moaning is very unpleasant. How can anyone like it?
>>29544191
It gave me a very strong hard on when I heard my neighbour moaning during sex the other day.
>>29544129
>Sexually submissive men really shouldn't exist, but human society yet drives them forward.
What are you talking about? Society just exploits them through selling them porn. IRL the dominant man/submissive woman dynamic is what keeps being pushed forward.
You are right about the power fantasy of it, though. It's a power trip like no other to have a girl *want* to degrade herself for your pleasure just because they're so turned on by you.
>>29544230
We are completely different then. For example i cant watch porn if it's not muted.
>>29544231
Not that anon but being slightly more submissive than average is normal as there are slightly more dominant women than average out there.
>>29544129
Explain then why it is that the clientele of dominatrixes tend to be wealthy, powerful men.
>>29544347
are you retarded?
"oh people who live in middle america go to the beach for vacation? explain why people that live on the coast go to the mountains for vacation then!"
>tfw you will never be a cute girl who gets teased and dominated
>>29544078
Same as the appeal of petting a cat, basically.
>>29544155
>tfw you moan like a little bitch when you cum in gfs pussy
Not eben submissive but it just feels that good.
Because you want to tease the cure girl under you and see her reaction.
>>29544078
I just fapped to that picture OP, just wanted you to know.
>>29544078
For me I think it's because I just want to be desired. If someone's submitting to you, and completely acting to your will, it's like the ultimate assurance that you're worth something and are loved. That might just be my fucked up psyche, though, maybe it's different for others.
>>29546963
that's pretty much my entire reason for being submissive: if i'm being treat like a pet by a girl yet still given affection it just feels like i'm wanted.
sexuality's weird.
>>29546963
Why can't that be the case when you're submissive as >>29547067 has said?
i just want to be a hot slutty girl but instead im just a big stupid fag man
>>29546746
Not OP but that's p hot. Thank you for sharing.
>>29546963
this picture still bothers me because i want to know where the others that aren't pepe sleep
I'm starting to doubt whether I'm really a submissive guy.
I have always identified mostly as a sub, sexually, but I was never really into elaborate BDSM theatrics, pegging, or forced feminisation, and I've never been interpersonally submissive. I find assertive, outgoing, and ambitious women really attractive, but I don't like career dommes who turn themselves into cartoon characters.
If I had to pin down what the "core" of my femdom kink is, I think it's just that women are unbearably gorgeous, and my way of venting my frustration at how gorgeous they are is worshiping them. I like getting them off, seeing them happy, and especially seeing them be assertive, selfish, and in-charge.
But usually girls AREN'T assertive, of course, so you end up doing 90% of the work. You do all the work of approaching, initiating, taking them out, keeping them interested. And then even when it comes to sex, the best you're likely to find as a sub is a "pillow princess" who enjoys being selfish but still sort of wants your male sex drive to be the engine of the encounter.
Am I really a sub if I fucking hate 99% of BDSM, and I do 99% of the active work in any given encounter? It's even getting to the point that, with a few of them, I've been tossing them around, putting them where I want them, doing whatever I want to their body during the encounter, because I'm sick of spending the last five years trying to cajole and trick them into being dominant. At some point it's just like, look, she's never going to be bossy about sitting on your face, so just PUT her on your face.
>>29547970
I think it's less that you aren't a sub and more that you're just having a shitty time because dominant girls don't exist
>>29547970
Tell them you wsnt them to be more dominant?
>>29547781
I think it's Christmas and everyone else is just visiting.
>>29547244
I don't know, maybe that is really what I want. I'm fucked up so I have no idea
>>29547970
Even "dominant" girls still want you to do 99% of the work. Girls are used to being pampered their whole lives to the point where they have no idea how to do any amount of work.
>>29549335
my friend is achad and he is really skinny because he fucks girls a lot and really hard so its good cardio
chads just keep leveling up the more they live
>>29549335
this. dominant girls don't exist.
>>29544078
The true redpill is that being dominant and being submissive both suck
>>29544078
I'm a virgin but when I think about a girl submitting her body to me to please me because that's what she likes it kind of turns me on harder than thinking of it simply as dominance assertion. It's a resonance of hedonism of sorts.
I like 2d girls
fuck 3d girls lol
I guess most of you don't talk to women, but its endless shit tests and them being needy fucks talking about themselves and how hard they have it all the time.
lol
