I see all these posts about people worrying about being cheated

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2016-06-24 10:53:56 Post No. 29501025
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 10:53:56 Post No. 29501025 [Report]

I see all these posts about people worrying about being cheated on by their girlfriend/boyfriend

Don't you realize that the cause of your sorrow is you wanting to prolong something that isn't in your control?

When you're with another person, if you're thinking about different ways to make them stay instead of enjoying their company at that moment, then you're losing out on the moment.

Everything will come to an end at some point, Anon. Don't fret over preserving it for so long.

Focus more on enjoying the moment. Let go of your worries and relish in the energy of the other person.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 11:09:20 Post No.29501143
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 11:09:20 Post No.29501143 [Report]

>b-but then I w-will be le KEK!!

t. /r9k/ culture

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 11:12:23 Post No.29501168
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 11:12:23 Post No.29501168 [Report]

I should sacrifice my current comfort, resources, and time for what? A momentary high that will come tumbling down, causing more damage than it ever caused comfort?

It is a 100% rate of loss, it is a bad deal.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:22:42 Post No.29501730
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:22:42 Post No.29501730 [Report]

>>29501168
Nobody is asking you to sacrifice anything, Anon. Use that time on yourself and people will be drawn to you.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:24:45 Post No.29501745
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:24:45 Post No.29501745 [Report]

>>29501168
Also, it can only hurt you if you're expecting something out of it. Don't make that mistake and see where the moment leads you.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:30:34 Post No.29501786
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:30:34 Post No.29501786 [Report]

>>29501745

You're absolutely right, sir, but sometimes there is so much pain.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:39:06 Post No.29501841
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:39:06 Post No.29501841 [Report]

>>29501025
>getting cheated on
Jokes on you, I need a girlfriend first.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:59:58 Post No.29502036
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 12:59:58 Post No.29502036 [Report]

>>29501786
I understand.

But your pain comes because you went with expectations. An empty vessel can experience more than a full one.