Basically the girl I fucking love is too busy with her work and life to spend time with me.
She admits this and she said she'll "make time for just us" soon after her work load has lightened.
Why the fuck do girls treat us like garbage robots? Fucking why, I love her and I know sje loves me but she is just so damn active and I hate it
have you fucked? are you officially dating? has she bought you presents?
if none of the above, there isn't any evidence of love. except maybe a friendship kind.
probably cause her dad is dying of mega aids and she's busying fulfilling his father daughter incest porno wish off his bucket list
do you not have a job or a life anon? lol
>>29495418
Im a broke dickhead living off my parents right now. Im 20 so I have a lot of time but she is too good for me.
She has her own apartment, money, a job, and above all in college working towards a degree. Why the fuck does she has to be so damn positive.
>>29495355
What he said.
Also remember when a girl really likes you a lot she will GO OUT OF HER WAY to make sure that she gets your dick. If she is not in this mode, then she isn't super into you, plain and simple
>>29495329
/biz/ here, nothing wrong with he working and trying to achieve her ambitions. Why would you want to interfere with her dreams and be a burden.
HOWEVER
If she is also keeping you out of her life (even though you could help her relax when she gets home) that is a bad sign.
>>29495469
she's not treating you like garbage, she's treating you like how she would treat any boyfriend. you don't understand because you're not used to having school, a job, etc. in your life. no girl should put off those responsibilities to spend time with you, it's not something adults do
>>29495329
girls cant love,. they only can be interested, if u have money, good body. or u are funny enought she will be interested.
well, only while u can be "interesting"
Ffs you just made the same thread like 2 hours ago dude
>>29495524
Ok granted thats true. Maybe I should put more effort into improving myself.
>>29495470
Thats what im saying, ive been thinking it for so damn long. A girl would go out of her way to spend time if she really cared. But in my case, im 99% positive Im the only guy in her life (seen as potential bf) since she really is so damn high maintenance on her work and ambitions.
>>29495607
You attempting to limit this girl is a disservice to her. Get your shit together and improve yourself.
>>29495607
that's always a good thing to do, but mostly I am telling you to be understanding of the fact that she doesn't hate you if she can't spend time with you whenever you want. I've been in her situation before (where I'm in college/working/etc) and my bf wasn't (at the time), so I can assure you that she doesn't hate you or think you're a shitty person if she still does choose to spend time with you at all
I don't know if that's treating you like garbage, dare I disagree? She's putting her ambition and career ahead of the relationship and I can't find a damn thing wrong with that. She says she'll make time for the two of you, I'd latch onto that and have faith in it. Something to look forward to, wonderful 2bh
I'm still sorry you feel that way though
>>29495329
You are in a much better situation than most people on this board
Do me a favor and stop whining
>>29495669
>>29495688
These people get it. There are priorities if you want to live. Work is more important to her because she has to support herself and if her potential love interest can't support her then she has to.
Also say OP becomes a priority.. is OP really capable enough to fulfill her needs fully at this time?
>>29495329
Only option now is to just kill yourself.
>>29495607
BAHAHHAHA you're a beta orbiter faggot whining on 4chan a girl wont pay attention to you while you're a 20 year old no job cuck who brings NOTHING to the table...
>>29495329
I'm seeing a girl whose priority is her career and my career is my priority and we see each other every 1-2 weeks and talk intermittently every 2-3 days.. It's a great deal, because I need my Doctorate to survive. Emotional and professional support system as we're in two similar fields. Also I have a dog so, yeah.
Are you that faggot mudslime who is dating the jap girl
>>29495329
Fuck off to /adv/ fucking normie
>>29495717
I suppose that depends what her needs are, clear communication as to precisely what they are and an earnest effort towards fulfilling her needs should cut it.
>>29495669
But you were still with your bf. It's entirely different than OP's situation. They're not even together.
>>29495329
She's not treating you poorly. She just loves her self as well as loving you.
If you base your whole existence on another person, it's very dangerous because if something happens to them or if they betray you, it's like your life doesn't have meaning. She's smart for directing her attention in other areas too.
