>haven't seen friend in a long while
>he hasn't been outside for a very long time
>he wants to try out a bunch of new restaurants and tourist attractions that opened up within the past few years
>offer to take him to some of those places since I know what's good
>he refuses because I've already been to all of those places
>he says he wants to experience some place new with me and not do something I've already done while dating or with friends
I am trying to be nice, but it's like I'm the bad one for having a social life. He wants to experience something new that will be new for the both of us. I get out a lot so I visit pretty much anything new nearby my city. During his time away from society I've gone to an anime convention with a guy I've dated briefly and friend got upset he couldn't lose his convention virginity with me. He wants me to save myself for him because he thinks moments don't mean anything if I've already done it with another guy or another friend. He thinks there's nothing special between us because everything I've done with him I already done with someone else.
I love him and all, but he keeps devaluing himself because we have 'no unique moments' despite being friends for over 5 years.
Wow he's really being a little bitch about it seems. It's nice that he cares about experiencing new things with you and all, but geez, he has to be there when you want it, or find new things to do with you. Or you could find new things to do with him if he's really your friend...
ALSO THIS IS A BUNCH OF NORMIE SHIT REEEEEEEEEE
such a bad thing stacey.
your beta provider is getting tired of your shit. well kudos to him.
and fuck off.
what he wants to experience is love with you but you just like chad.
get the fuck out.
>>29466890
He gets so upset so easily.
I'll tell him I'm going to try out Unami burger with a friend and he'll blurt out about he was going to ask me out to eat there as soon as he knew his work schedule was going to be like for next week. I'll offer to invite him along but he says he doesn't want to be a third-wheel in my date.
>Eerie Summer - Weird Around You
Why is this the name of a Sora no Method picture
One of my favorite anime btw
Sounds like he's a fag. If he wanted to do that stuff he'd do it. He just doesn't really want to do that stuff. Also what happens when other people do that thing you did with him first? He would get all pissy that they're ruining your unique event. English is hard.
>>29467015
>Eerie Summer - Weird Around You
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIaVANfX3-M
>>29466971
Why are you friends with this person?
>>29467055
He wouldn't mind.
It's just in the 5+ years of us being friends, we never done anything significant that was new to both of us.
He wanted to go a convention with me. He wanted to travel to other cities with me. He wanted to start working out with me. He wanted to try out new restaurants with me. I ended up doing all of those things with a friend, co-worker, relative, boyfriend, or a guy I've dated.
It's like he expects me to decline these offers and save myself for him just because he's unable to go out for a long duration of time.
Sora no Method thread.
oh my godd how awful :(
upvoted
>>29467073
Cause no one else wanted to be his friend in Highschool. Beyond his weirdness and oversensitive nature, he's actually pretty nice. He wasn't so sensitive but being alone all his live then being forced into solitary confinement screwed him up. Now that he's out and getting his life together he's upset that there's nothing new for him and me to do together since I was living life while he was in solitary confinement.
>>>/adv/
No one fucking cares you washed up normie whore. Fuck off
>>29467109
So is this guy in... l-love with you? It sounds like it.
>>29467172
He likes me but he's so depressed to the point that he claims he doesn't get erections anymore. He doesn't think about sex anymore. He doesn't get aroused anymore. He's in a situation where he feels so hopeless that he doesn't get distracted by cute girls or porn anymore.
>I love him and all
Laugh out loud
>>29467109
Just keep doing what you do normally. Eventually he will change, or you will stop being friends.
>>29467233
You know you don't have to help people just because you can. You're allowed to be a selfish person. It sounds like this person is beyond non-professional help. Even if he's making all that shit up.
go the fuck away
>>29467233
let him kill himself, better than living the suffering of watching his loved one getting fucked by other guys and not even having an erection.
the only one who needs help is him not you.
if you ant to help him be his gf.
the other way is stop talking with him, but not the silent treatment. say to him you want to stop talking.
he will kill himself easier that way.
>>29467347
>>29467307
I keep in touch because I don't want him to hurt himself or do something craay There's a good person in him that's nice to be with. He really has no one else besides me.
>>29467457
then give him the sweet release.
why are you soo cruel?
you think you are doing good?
everytime you say you go to a date or with a group of friends he is dying a little inside because he is not with you enjoying life.
he knows you are with other dudes and that is what is killling him.
you are doing the biggest damage.
>>29467273
Why?
Original comment ffs
>>29467514
Maybe he doesn't mind being just friends? There's a guy who's in love with me that says he simply enjoys being around me, and will always want to be friends even though we'll never be on the same page romantically.
>>29466734
>Girl problems.
How tragic. Who's shoulder are you going to cry on now if Chad rejects you?
>>29467749
the mental gynastic women do just to get attenction from eveybody.
tell me honestly, you belive this? do you belive he likes when his loved one is out with other people? please enlight me.
>>29467154
op stop projecting yourself onto a fictional character that is actually yourself.
worst thread so far today
>>29466734
I'm pretty sure you're the usual poster of these types of story threads and they're some of the best on /r9k/. Thank you.
SUCK HIS DICCCCCCCCCCK
SUCK IT
HE'S A LIAR
SUCK HIS DICK, IT WILL SOLVE EVERYTHING
>>29467956
He said "I love being around you. Whether it's as a friend or a girlfriend, I love spending time with you."
So of course I think that's true... he said so himself.
>>29468053
this
i guarantee if you suck his dick he will go wherever you want
>>29468063
You're not a virgin, you have a social life, multiple people are interested in you romantically.
why are you on this board?
>>29468109
this
if you give him a blowjob and get close to him he will be your bitch
>>29468114
I'm actually a different person from OP. I don't have much of a social life.
>>29467749
>>29468063
>The mental span of women.
No fucking wonder you always get yourselves killed and raped.
>>29468063
I dunno, I feel he'd be better off without you. Would give him the time and space to figure out who he is, what he needs to work on and how to introduce more people to his life. He's just barganing for whatever little affection he can get from you. You gotta embrace the loneliness to overcome it.
>>29468063
Its very obvious that he is in love with you. You're just torturing him at this point.
>>29467749
>There's a guy who's in love with me that says he simply enjoys being around me
jesus fucking christ
>>29468261
it's insane how much women feed off of attention
>>29468326
maybe we just need to understand that they are just inferior
they need attention and value and when they dont get it they turn miserable. Maybe we should treat them like children and just have peace. Give them their candy... we know how it really works.
>friend wants to have meaningful experiences with you to strengthen the friendship
>ugh why cant he just be happy I'm spending time with him at all and not chad
Fuck off
>It's another "Women don't understand the opposite gender at all" episode.
>>29468472
This family
Go fuck yourself and your normie thread OP
>>29468261
>>29468407
I hope this guy from 10 years ago moved on.
>>29468519
Forgot link.
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/138890-unrequited-love-best-friend
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recent one
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classics
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http://www.strawpoll.me/10546379
heres the associated thread
>>29468359
Guys can be in love with their female friends without being obsessive or hurt about it. There comes a point where he comes into terms of never having her and learns to enjoy her company as a friend. Because he is close to her, he'll still want some meaningful interaction.
I wonder where OP went. This was a good thread.
>>29468221
He would have no one to talk to if I leave him. I've seen what happens when he tries making friends. They start acting mean towards him when they find out how much of a loser he is. I know my friend doesn't have much life experience and I'm nice about it. Others will make fun of him for it . He would be worse off without me.
He has plenty of space to figure out things on his own while still being friends with me.
Makes sense to me. No point in doing something that the other has already experienced if you have the opportunity to do other new things together.
I'm the same way with my bf and I don't mind a problem with it. He asks me to watch a show with him that he has seen already and I don't want to. I can watch it on my own time, experience the show like he did, and then we can watch the next season. Why not just do something else new instead?
>friend doesn't bother asking people out to movies so he just waits for the Director's Cut bluray to come out.
>>29466734
He's a fag, dump his ass.
