Please tell me that it's not normal to have tons of sex and for it to be all casual and no big, dirty secret.
I don't want to imagine that I've been missing out on anything.
All this sex that is portrayed and alluded to all over is just fake, right? Just propaganda. People don't have sex outside of marriage, do they?
People aren't having rampant sex from middle school up through adulthood, are they? Please tell me this is all a lie.
...I got bad news for you, buddy. Something like 85% of girls aged 16-24 have had sex.
>>29447660
To be honest, I've been wondering about this too. How much sex is it actually normal to have? Some people in a relationship says 1-2 times a week is perfectly normal, while chads say that they're on a dry spell if they haven't gotten laid for a week. Can anyone give a definitive answer?
>>29447660
It's not a meme.
I have 3 people I regularly have sex with that I have no feelings for whatsoever, and that is mutual.
That said, I have zero friends, and am a neet, so I still lurk here.
The horrible and freeing truth is to go to a public place, look around, and know that everyone there, no matter how old or nasty, gets their genitals touched at least once a month by someone.
>>29447700
It depends on the person you retard.
Obvious two loving people in a long term relationships probably have differing sexual drives to Chad living at home with his mum and doing laps around his old highschool looking for fresh meat.
>>29447660
>Please tell me this is all a lie
I wish I could say contrary, man. It's not a meme though. I've cut through 149 women at this point and I'm only 27. I'm sure women have numbers twice that amount.
>>29447660
People in a relationship actually fuck more than people who meet a new person every month or so. You have to put people in different categories, that is why you have a brain. Some people are in a relationship but they both have low sex drive, and some people probably fuck thousands of partners and get new ones every day. This is going to vary but I would say in general people in a relationship will fuck more in the long run.
>>29447660
Embrace it, normies have sex naturally, on a daily basis, it's a part of their life, as I have said, it's natural for them in the same way as breathing.
Deluding yourself won't help, I know it's hard.
>middleschool: 1% of guys fuck 10% of girls
>highschool: 5% of guys fuck 50% of girls
>college: 10% of guys fuck 90% of girls
>post-college: 15% of guys fuck 100% of girls via tinder, okcupid, etc.
>>29447759
>post-college: 15% of guys fuck 100% of girls via tinder, okcupid, etc.
>tinder, okcupid, etc.
Nah, man. Most guys like myself end up railing girls that we meet in person. You'd be surprised how many whores don't bother with pump&dump apps.
>>29447660
They have sex, but they're not fucking literally every night.
That being said, yes, we are still weird freaks.
>>29447726
Obviously it differs between demographics. What I meant was: what is a normal amount of sex in the interval 20-24 years? There's no reason to call me a retard.
I have a friend group of about 12 Jo people. About 5 of us had sex and lost our virginity after 18 and all to long term girlfriends. The ones that lost their girlfriends had no sex until finding another one, sometimes years later. Also, one of these guys has a mother who works for the NHS and a therapist father and they say most women have sex, whereas most men don't, statistically, and a lot of virgins in their twenties go to therapy over it, because it really fucks you up. This isn't me memeing.
Btw I'm an Alberto barbosa Manlet virgin.
>>29447700
I've been a shut in for 9 years so I'm out of touch with literally everything.
>>29447660
>Please tell me that it's not normal to have tons of sex and for it to be all casual and no big, dirty secret.
>People don't have sex outside of marriage, do they?
>People aren't having rampant sex from middle school up through adulthood, are they? Please tell me this is all a lie.
I'm a failed normie, and I've still been able to have some casual sex before I fucked up big time, so I suppose it's pretty fucking casual in the normie world.
However, it's not nearly as common and frequent as robots portray it here. I know a beautiful girl who has tons of male attention from all sides, who's still a virgin because she believes in God and wants to save herself for marriage.
Simply put - it's not all that black and white. There are virgin normies, there are normies who have regular sex, there are normies who have sex every few months, etc.
Why does it matter afterall? It's just one of the many things you would like to experience, but can't - yet you stress over it like it's the most important thing in the world, while you never even mentioning the fact that you'll probably never be rich and able to drive a Ferrari over a German autobahn - why?
>>29447795
>most women have sex, whereas most men don't
The 80/20 rule in effect.
damn she looks so happy
>>29447835
Its more like 65/35-ish but that's the idea
>>29447800
>I know a beautiful girl who has tons of male attention from all sides, who's still a virgin because she believes in God and wants to save herself for marriage.
mate, this aint true and you know it. I dont know what bullshit story she fed you, but she sure as hell popped that cherry or at least sucked some cocks already.
>>29447660
Im 24 and very socially adjusted (lots of friends, friends that are girls, good job in the navy, etc.). Until about a year ago I was waiting until marriage because of religious stuff (which I have mostly cast off over time). I changed my mind and in september I lost my virginity in a hookup from a dating app. I've had sex now with 6 different women, 5 of whom were just for hooking up and it was stated as such before hand. One of those 5 was married with kids (I didn't know until after).
>>29447700
Depends on your sex drive, I've known girls that want sex about 1-2 times a week and I've known girls that want it daily. it just depends on the person.
This isn't to brag as much as to answer your question and also say that if you're okay looking (I have a cute face but I'm also kinda chubby) and have a little persistence it's not hard to find girls to hook up with on dating apps on your phone (like okcupid and tinder) as well as in person in bars and clubs (which requires more social finesse and a wingman usually).
>>29447860
>but she sure as hell popped that cherry or at least sucked some cocks already.
This is what I want to find... a christian whore that sucks dick like a fucking animal. It's never going to happen; I guess I'll just die instead.
>>29447779
Thanks for the imput normie, you can leave now.
>>29447701
>3 people
>people
Faggot detected. Gay sex means nothing gayboI. We all know you fruitcakes love spreading your HIV.
>>29447759
>highschool: 5% of guys fuck 50% of girls
Yeah, no. Its more like 50% of the guys fuck 50% of the girls the rest of the guys and girls are just too prude to put out.
>>29447800
>I know a beautiful girl who has tons of male attention from all sides, who's still a virgin because she believes in God and wants to save herself for marriage.
Oral and anal is still sex. I would even consider handies and fingering sex.
>>29447788
It depend on your circumstances.
Do you have autism?
If you don't have a relationship, and are average looking with a decent income, I would say that 3 new people a year for casual stuff every week or two is a good possibility.
If you have a relationship at that age then you are insane and deserve the relative celibacy.
If you are chad then you don't need my advice.
>>29447660
Yea man it's pretty normal but the girls are pretty trashy. For instance I had 2 girls with me today (not bragging But it's a part of the story). Both of them were really hot but trashy. They were talking about their weekend and how they did xnanex and fucked people. One said she was falling for one of the guys she fucked and the other said "oh no you didn't catch feeling did you?"
>catch feelings
As if it was some kind of disease, I lost interest in both of them after this.
Trashy girls have a ton of sex, don't feel bad about it. The ones worth having sex with are a lot harder to get.
I'm sorry to say, man, but since middle school I've heard about kids getting it on and telling people... I'm sorry...
>>29447759
Inaccurate
This is true to an extent but there are ugly guys getting girls all the time.
>>29447905
Two are girls, one is shemale.
I am bi, come at me nigroid, I enjoy all sexual deviancy because I am not being actively cucked by some big pedophile in the sky.
>>29447909
>50%
Not even close unless its a cohort of extremely attractive people.
Mine at least 80-90% of the guys i would say finished highschool as virgins while maybe 30-40% of the girls were.
>>29447749
This always baffled me, how can something that is so unobtainable for a robot be a totally normal and regular bodily function for a normie, like shitting or eating.
I got used to it, but truly understanding it... no, never.
>>29448058
I feel you anon, I am the bi faggot from earlier in the thread.
In honesty though, if you just go to gym, and keep your mouth shut except to say jokes, you pick up some attention pretty quick.
Tinder doesn't work as there are too many chads, grindr is worthwhile because the playing field for gays is minimal, craigslist can be worthwhile to find a fwb or escort if you into traps or something deviant...
Otherwise just try talking to people on the bus or whatever, I always pretend to get angry when someone sits next to me, just to joke about it when they act shocked.
>>29448058
In high school, every girl except the bottom 5% of girls had been fucked by an athelete or a Chad. In college, every girl either already had boyfriends or would meet Chads in class an would fuck that semester. In the work place, women fuck once every 2 days.
So women have sex all the time while most men don't.
>>29448177
I have met far more desperate women in my time than men.
Yes they probably have more sex than the total retards, but once they are in a heavily sexualised culture they suddenly feel left out.
Number of times they go home alone from the more party-style clubs I go to is just insane.
>>29448261
Bullshit, there are men there that would have banged me that the women decided weren't Chad enough. Kys
>>29448261
Its well established fact that if you're a man and you're having regular sex, you're part of the 20% of men that are. If you're having regular sex as a woman, you're part of the 99.9999% of women that are.
>>29448004
>resorting to fedora tipping to justify fucking other men in the ass
Faggot
>>29448350
Then you are competing with the retards.
Guaranteed, if you started going home with the men the women start crying out of both ends and pleading with you to choose them instead.
Gay is the redpill of our current time.
>>29447660
Yeah, it is indeed just a meme. Most people actually straight up lie about it, normies included (they legit fake it until they make it, as far as losing virginity goes). I think robots probably never had access to such HIGH LEVEL intimacy with a normie, so they wouldn't know about it, but it's just a fucking meme.
On the other hand, some people are super fucking slutty and disgusting, but I think that's always been true, the 60s, 70s and 80s were much worse in terms of hypersexuality.
>>29448386
>dislikes faggotry
>becomes upset when religion is threatened
Who woulda guessed it?
There is no legitimate reason other than that to not be bi in this day and age.
>>29448383
>discluding gay men from your sex statistics
You might wanna check the sex act for act instead of participant.
I would be willing to be that men are in the lead over women as a whole, when chads and fags are statistically united.
Women are a meme that is dying, and as soon as they know it, we will see a middle ages level of servitude again.
>>29448412
You're right and wrong. I did lie about being a virgin until I lost it, but I've had sex with normie females before. As I type this, I'm sitting on my gfs bed in my underwear after eating at Olive Garden.
>>29447660
Wasn't this girl made into a meme?
Is there more to the set?
>>29448434
>There is no legitimate reason other than that to not be bi in this day and age.
If you're a faggot I guess not. Faggot.
>>29448389
Sorry you misunderstand and my phone autocorrected.
I meant that there are tons of men that are free and willing and those women that go home alone frustrated chose not to give those men the time of day because they didn't meet their unrealistic Chad standards.
>>29448450
Being triggered by your need to humblebrag aside, I never actually mentioned anything about people who are in relationships and the sex they have. You're obviously going to have sex if you're in a relationship, I fucking damn well hope, that is. That being said, I just wanted to input that one of the good tricks into losing virginity is to just kinda wing it with a ballsy lie about not being a virgin.
>you can't be happy if you don't fit my template for what makes a person happy
>You can't be happy being alone. Humans are social creatures, you are no exception, stupid wizard! Don't you know you're going to sooner or later feel depressed and will want some love in your life?
>It will catch up eventually, you'll see. You're not a special snowflake, you're just like everyone else. You NEED a girlfriend and friends to be happy, you're just denying it.
>But wizard, are you seriously accepting the fact that you're NOT HUMAN? If you're happy living on your own, isolated, without any real friends or love in your life and you don't even want it, you're not human.
These are common arguments for most normal people because for them social interaction is the main thing preventing depression.
But I think there is more to it. I think that these people actually are scared that there are people out there who are happy despite being isolated from other people. People are scared of the concept that it is possible to be contended with the least amount of social communication. In fact humans are neither completely social beings nor completely asocial beings but somewhere in between. Everyone needs a last retirement out of society which belongs solely to oneself, even normies. They fear that you came to terms with this solitude existence since they are not able to do that even though they want to. Every human wants that but barely anyone can so everyone has to be pathetic and rely on social arguments because they don't know better. It's there only way of coping.
The basic fear of every normie is that you created an existence for yourself in which you suffer less than they do. That is why they hate you and want you to change. This is why they are so angry when they can not convince you that their society is the only thing which can make you happy.
cont.
>>29448529
Not saying that every social communication is bad. Under the assumption that with aging suffering increases for everyone this is what society is for me:
Society should be the attempt of reducing and distributing suffering fairly. Instead it's mostly the hypocritical attempt of persons to make themselves better than others and artificially show that they suffer less. This is why I prefer being asocial for most of the time and stick to myself because I can't handle the bullshit.
this makes me depressed...o well i do kind of just see girls just have cum or a dick in her mouth/ vagina.
>>29447660
I wish my dick looked like that. It's not super enormous, but it looks like it has a nice length and girth, the one in the pic i mean. Looks like, at least, 8 length, 7 girth. Not sure, what do you guys think?
>>29447660
I had a unibrow before I could grow a tween pubestache, I was forever tall and lanky, I was always picked last for any and all team sports, I was one of the easy targets for school bullies, I didn't have any real friends besides other loners and autists, I skipped prom to instead whack off to a pokemon manga.
Something like a week after my 18th birthday I got laid, in fact I had a girl cheat on her boyfriend with me and then later break up with him to be with me. She broke up with me after a handful of months but gave me that initial boost and mater another girl, and another, and another.
Actually even before that girl from my 18th birthday, I had met random girls online when I was 17, one of them sucked my dick (but I couldn't cum because of reason)
I'm 30 now, still live at home and am a NEET for the time being and all in all have had sex with 5 girls, dated a few others, felt a couple of extra drunk boobs as well, and actually turned some girls down because they weren't attractive (either physically or psychologically).
My best advice, as meme as it is, is to improve yourself for your own reasons and to stop treating the potential of getting into a relationship and having sex as a mystical and amazing life-changing thing. Don't care, or at least pretend that you don't care. Desperation is the biggest turn-off.
Also pick a thing. I don't know what kids are into these days but for me back then it was nu-metal and mallgoth culture. 5/5 of the girls I had sex with were nu-metal or emo or punk or something along those lines. So maybe go with like anime & gaming culture or something, something that you enjoy.
>>29448478
No nigro, as you grow older, you will see that more often than not it is women chasing men as their biological clock counts down.
Just wait and improve yourself, don't sweat it, you will steal chads true love later in life.
>>29448470
Kek, stay mad and a virgin you pathetic christfag.
Everyone has sex starting at age 80
>>29448614
Not a chance thats 7 in girth
>>29448478
that sounds familiar, pic related, and also original comment just in case
>Be me, STEM master race, taking philosophy elective class
>Class is applied ethics
>Thought experiment time, should the government entitle everyone to sex with a prostitute?
>TA says "the minimum amount of sex for a good life, let's say three times a month?"
>mfw I realize everyone is having sex except me
>mfw I realize even the weird philosophy grad student is getting laid
I wasn't red pilled on robot philosophy or I would have made Sir Elliot proud that day.
>>29449065
>STEM masterrace
>Philosophy
hah good one
>>29449080
>not knowing what "elective" means
>not knowing about Liberal Education requirements
I wish I wasn't left out
>>29449335
Is this gay? blox
definitely not a meme. I lost my virginity at 15
>>29447660
Most people have sex all the time. When you're in a relationship you're obviously getting laid, and many single women choose to sleep with men they barely know for fun. It really is extremely abnormal to not be having sex. Pretty much everyone I know except for me is having sex regularly enough for me to hear them talk about it.
>>29448529
most robots do need social interaction to be happy though so they're depressed wrecks because they can't socialize.
>>29450348
I am totally happy being forever alone spiritually.
Most normies are just being decieved about concepts like love, and so equate sex with the term, and outcast anyone who doesn't have sex, when in reality very very few people are genuinely in love with each other.
Robots are the same as normies, there is little love in this world. Get over it one and all.
>>29450348
No you're depressed
>>29450348
>most robots are normies
Nowadays, definitely
>>29447660
why wouldn't people have sex? it's fun. what's the point of avoiding it?
>>29447660
is it weird if i've just never really cared about sex in general? i feel like even normies sperg out about it and i've just never understood what the big deal is
i enjoy a good hamburger every now and then but i feel like if i ate them all the time and talked about how i love eating thick, juicy hamburgers without the buns on them every chance i could, hamburgers would start losing their appeal very quickly
>>29447660
The truth resides in the middle ground.
Chances are, any given person you meet has had sex with at least 3-5 other people baseline - and that is "virtuous maiden" tier. Times have changed tremendously. That's just the way it goes.
Its mostly a class thing. Low class people fuck a lot and have a lot of partners, upper class people are extremely picky. Trailer parks and ghettos are filled with bastard kids and casual sex, almost nobody stays faithful. Upper class people have way less kids and are generally more faithful because they picked the right mate to settle down with.
>>29447660
I've been coming here since 2005 and have dragged my dick through over 40 people. Most were done in 3-4 years, in between serious relationships. Even though I'm in a relationship now and am socially inept, two of the qt3.14s at work flirt with me often. Step up your game son.
>>29450656
stds
that and most people are WAY WAY too plain, vanilla, reserved, and straight-up immature and dishonest about their sexuality. fucking a god would be more interesting.
>>29448261
>I have met far more desperate women in my time than men.
Fuck off, the only thing they're desperate for is a relationship with the Chads that only see them as pump-and-dump material
>>29451795
>implying women are not accutely aware that over 30 Chad stops being interested
>implying they don't want children
It is a known effect that women start playing musical chairs at 30, and none want to be left standing.
>>29451896
Yeah, but who wants to be stuck with some over-the-hill baby-hungry cunt with enough baggage to fill a warehouse
That only sees you as a talking wallet that she'll take to the cleaners at a whim
>>29451974
Exactly why more often than not as tome goes on you will start seeing a total flip in the male-female dynamic.
Beta men can mess around and fuck the desperate whores in every hole before dumping them.
It gets better after middle-school mate.
The person with the highest number of people that I know of is at mid thirties by time they graduated and most were one time thing. But considering this was over 6 years maybe that means that they averaged about 6 partners per year. That's at the highest end of numbers and they had the highest on a college baseball team. Statistically speaking having 8 partners by time you're 23 would be in the upper quartile for the US population and thats for men, 8 would be close to 90th percentile.
