I am 25 years old and the only man I've ever had a relationship/sex with is now my fiance. We've been together for 8 years and are best friends. I'm here to dispel myths about long-term relationships and provide advice, if anyone is interested.
>pic unrelated, but it is a cool animated stereogram!
>>29435798
Wanna cheat?
How did you meet?
Is he a Chad or similarly mellow person?
How was your first time?
Where do girls like you socialize pre-relationship?
>>29435798
I am also a pure woman. I have never had sex, never been kissed, never looked at a man, never even thought about sex. I only ever wear white dresses and love to cook and clean. AMA
>>29435859
What a surprise, I am a pure woman too!
When do you plan to monkeybranch to the next one?
>>29435865
Wow, three pure women on /r9k/? This place is so much better than I originally thought. I should tell all my other pure woman friends.
>>29435816
No. I would never cheat on anyone, let alone someone I love this much.
>>29435841
We met in highschool in a creative writing class. He was a nerdy shy dude with cool taste in music. He's had three relationships prior to me. My first time was scary and exciting. I thought it was going to hurt, but it didn't.
I'm not sure I can give you a specific list of places "girls like me" socialize, because we're all different. My single friends who are similar generally hang out at bookstores/gyms/college/parks...
>>29435871
No. I plan to get old and gross with him.
>>29435816
I don't think I would ever cheat on him.
>>29435841
Typical boy-meets-girl.
Boy-rapes-girl.
Girl-has-boy-arrested
Girl-falls-in-love
>>29435871
I don't plan on doing that just yet.
I'm a girl too tbqh senpai
I don't like males though.
>>29435978
Cool, I get where you're coming from. I used to think I didn't like men, but my fiance is just so feminine.
Is baldness a death sentence relationship wise.im also 5'8
>>29435994
>>29435952
I think it's pretty obvious who's who here. What do you get out of derailing this thread, anon?
>>29436008
Honestly, no. If you're a nice enough guy, and you do something to get yourself noticed, someone will appreciate you.
>>29436008
No, I don't think it is. I have a friend who had amazing hair in high school and went prematurely bald at 23. He's had several relationships since. Also, my fiance is 5'6, so don't worry about your height.
>>>29435798
>pic unrelated, but it is a cool animated stereogram!
Le cool pic guise XDDD
>>29436049
Why are people so mean on here?
>>29436028
This is the kind of answer I was afraid of desu, because it basically means yes.
>>29436035
I know, I see other guys with no hair get pretty nice girls and everything but for some reason it just feels like the end of my sexual value.
Thanks for the reply, and good luck with your thread.
>>29436084
Why are you so thirsty for attention!!!
>>29435913
you have compromised your purity by losing your virginity even if its within a committed relationship
as tomas aquinas says only the one who die as a virgin will get 100% of the reward in heaven
you puritylet
>ITT people trying to get OP to crack
I'm just going to ignore the other OP.
>>29436101
It's not the end of your sexual value at all. Good luck!
>>29436144
I don't believe in heaven, anon, so I'm not worried about that.
>>29435798
Why am I disgusted when I find out that a girl I like has had a dick anywhere near her?
>>29435798
OP please ignore those trolls.
I had a question, but I feel like I know it. I really want someone who is caring and is willing to invest in me. But the only way to know if she is up to that is getting to know her.
I have enough women interested in me but I have constant fears of them having interest for the "wrong reasons".
>>29435798
>has had sex before marriage
>pure
FUCKING ROASTIE WHORE!
>>29436193
I'm not sure... maybe you're worried she might be comparing you to previous men? I honestly have no idea why that might bother you.
>>29436218
That's really the entire issue in a relationship, anon. It's hard to be vulnerable with others when you can't know for sure their intentions. I'd advise just being honest with everyone you pursue and expect honesty in return. I don't think it's easy to avoid being hurt... even in my relationship with my fiance, we've had fights and problems. Honesty was always the way to solve them, though.
>>29436193
It's just how you are, does make finding a relationship much harder but if it's something you think is important then don't compromise.
Did you ever need to "take a break" in your relationship in those 8 years?
Pure woman reporting in. I have never even masturbated and am saving myself for a REAL man, unlike the other sluts I see around town. Great thread OP.
>>29436345
We almost did 3 different times. It can be hard living in close-quarters with someone you have different opinions from. These fights were about wanting to move cities, not being able to talk about what annoys us, and once about who had to do the house-cleaning. When it came to actually separating, though, we found we couldn't do it. That really brought us closer, though... realizing how much we'd miss the other.
>>29436268
Thanks OP. Even though I kind of know that. But I am making process.
Question: how do you know the fights and problems are worth it? I have this idea in my head I better abort the ship if there would be to much drama.
GIMMIE ATTENTION GIMME IEJ DMDMASMDMSDSFSLFsfF
None of you are pure, you're whores in waiting.
I mean, the only way the situation makes sense is that every 'femanon' that posts here is a guy. Guys have been pretending to be girls on the internet since day 1, I guess that's still the case. An IRL woman that comes to this board, must be so far gone it fucking bends the mind to even consider.. OP, enjoy your penis, and your boyfriend's penis.
>>29436435
I think you have to try to discern why the other person is upset... it's because they care deeply about an aspect of the argument and need you to understand their feelings about it. Usually, people don't want to fight; have have an end in mind. However, some people seem to like just being upset and their intentions will seem to be to extend the fighting or make you feel awful. I guess people probably have their reasons for wanting that, but no one could blame you for walking away from someone like that. I suppose my answer is it's worth it as long as you believe it's worth it to stay.
>>29436526
I don't know why you believe that... I've been coming to 4chan since I was 17. I like it here. I mean, it doesn't really matter to me if you believe I'm female or not, but it's really unrealistic to think that no women would ever want to be on 4chan. Or that they'd only be the most screwed up ones.
>thinking someone who has had one partner can give good relationship advice
People learn via making mistakes, you and your fiance are living a dream reality which is super rare, making you quite oblivious to real issues/problems/fixes to relationship problems and it shows in your answers so far.
I'm glad for you, enjoy your life you lucky grill, but you are nowhere near an authority on relationships. As much as we hate roasties, they have more useful insight for lonely people here.
>>29436268
>I'm not sure... maybe you're worried she might be comparing you to previous men? I honestly have no idea why that might bother you.
It's not fear or insecurity, it's disgust. The idea of a dick on its own disgusts me, and the idea of a girl I like having touched one or put it in her mouth, it absolutely repulses me. I literally wouldn't give a shit if it was an 8-incher stuck to an adonis, or a 2-incher stuck to a fat toad with body acne. Just the fact that she ever touched a dick is enough to make me depressed.
So... try again?
>>29435798
how do u get the stereogram to work
>>29436631
I know this, I'm keenly aware in fact. But I see a lot of people really pining for this kind of situation and I want them to see what it's really like. It's not perfect. I can only offer advice from my own perspective and I think most people know that before they ask questions.
>>29436659
Are you homophobic at all? Or maybe have issues with germs in general? I don't know, anon. I hope you can overcome it, though.
>>29436667
You kind of have to cross your eyes and look into the image, as if it were far in the distance... it's hard until you get it the first time. This is what google recommends:
>Bring the stereogram image really close to your eyes (until you touch it with your nose). At this distance your eyes cannot focus on the image and they look somewhere behind the image. Now, slowly push the image away from you, while trying to keep the eyes off focus. At some point you will see the hidden image.
>>29436659
>or a 2-incher stuck to a fat toad with body acne
This was actually a deal-breaker for me for one girl. I legit thought she was wife material, but she got trolled into sleeping with an obese dude with a tiny dick, explained it in horrifying detail, but said the guy made her feel good about herself at the time so she 'enjoyed it'.
gross/10, have some standards please grills.
>80-95% of /r9k/ are habitual porn users
>expect gf's that are virgins
Why?
**ATTENTION ALL ROBOTS**
This is your daily reminder that AWALT. All women are the same. You cannot expect a woman to cheat, but you can expect her to be a woman. In the right conditions, a woman will ALWAYS cheat.
**END OF ANNOUNCEMENT**
>>29435798
Where do you live?
I live in NYC and I'm completely convinced that this city repels women such as yourself while attracting trashy sluts.
>>29436706
oops, dropped my OP.
>>29436775
If this question isn't rhetorical, I honestly have no idea. Some studies suggest that porn overuse can lead to unrealistic expectations.
>>29436789
Not true, obviously. I would never cheat, even if I knew for sure I would never face any consequences. You could easily say this about men, but it wouldn't be true in that circumstance either. All people are different.
>>29436775
Yea, silly. I let that go after I was about 19 years
>>29436738
True, if I had to I would rather be with a girl who only gave a handjob to an 8-incher on an adonis, rather than the tiny dick on a fat toad.
Still, my point stands.
>>29436872
I live in Ontario, Canada. I'd love to go to NYC someday. I don't believe that it's healthy to call people trashy sluts. How they live their lives is their choice.
GIMMIE ATTENTION ATTENTION GIMMIE GIMMIE ATTENTION ATTENTION ATTENTION
GURL GURL GURL GURL GURL GURL
ATTENTION ATTENTION ATTENTION
>>29436872
>NYC
Everything smells like piss and everyone thinks they're some special brand of shit.
>>29436880
>Some studies suggest that porn overuse can lead to unrealistic expectations.
I used to fap twice daily to porn and all I ever wanted is a homely qt to hug at night.
I personally doubt it had any effect on me apart from teaching me positions and the limits of the human body.
>>29435798
I always cringe when people come here with "I am ___ ___ AMA"
Complete reddit bullshit nonsense cancer
2 years ago this thread would have been ridiculed and not taken off. But so much reddit is on 4chan now users are attracted to threads like this like flys to a shit pile and these threads get views.
It makes me sick and hateful that some roast beef whore got up this morning and decided she was a special enough princess to type "IM A PURE WOMAN LOOK AT MEEEE GIVE ME ATTENTION IM FROM REDDIT HEHEHE XD SILLY BOYS HEHEHEHEHEHE IM SO DIFFERENT!"
Fuck you OP. Fuck off you dumb roastie and take your reddit AMA shit elsewhere you piece of shit low life garbage. Youre not a robot and you being pure has nothing to do with highly tested morality but by being lucky enough to find the love of your life at the age of 17 and never needing anyone else. If you never met him you'd be a slutty roastie. You're a normie the normiest of normies to find love in highschool and develop a loving strong relationship.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCeOf2q6_TA
>>29436706
>Are you homophobic at all? Or maybe have issues with germs in general? I don't know, anon. I hope you can overcome it, though.
No and no. If roasties don't know, then who does? Damn...
>>29436945
It's like their sole worth is their cunt.
You should start by proving you're female because you know... everybody can pretend.
So better post a feet pic of yours + timestamp.
>>29435798
>best friends
fucking friendzone man
>>29436960
Maybe try therapy? If it's something that's getting in the way of you enjoying your life, anyway.
>>29437000
There's no real point in proving my femaleness. You either believe me or don't. You either want to talk to me or don't.
>>going to these lengths for attention
Honestly, I respect sluts more. Kill yourself pls.
>>29436923
As much as I'd like to follow the "live and let live" philosophy, that is not possible in this case.
The actions of promiscuous men and women DO affect other people. It destroys the family unit, creates broken households, and encourages antisocial/criminal behavior. As a result, the amount suffering and unhappiness in the world increases.
>>29437117
I don't believe promiscuity does any of those things. You can be promiscuous and compassionate simultaneously. I know tons of women with numerous sexual partners... some of them certainly disrespect other people, but not all of them do. Their behaviour is not tied directly to sex. I believe that it's their disregard for others' feelings that makes them a negative influence on society.
>>29436193
I feel the same. Female purity is a virtue that can't be matched.
>>29435859
>>29435865
such liars chad probably had his way with you already.
>>29435865
>>29435859
I'm a unicorn as well!
>>29437191
Not the one you are replying to. But I would think that in the worst cases promiscuity can lead to the same problems as too much porn.
The pleasure center or whatever the hell it is called is depleted and you need novelty to get the same "release". You could more easily become sexually bored with your partner and that leads to an unstable relationship.
Otherwise I agree with you. This board has silly beliefs when it comes to promiscuity, but don't fall for the fallacy that it is all good and dandy.
>>29437029
>If it's something that's getting in the way of you enjoying your life, anyway.
Nah, it's unfortunate but nothing that's keeping me from living. I wish more women were less slutty though, and don't jump from boyfriend to boyfriend. Even the more "conservative" ones have a new boyfriend within half a year of breaking up with the previous boyfriend. Really, what's the significance of love if you can move on from someone you "loved" in half a year? Fucking ridiculous m8.
>>29435913
>nerdy shy dude
>3 past relationships
He's a Chad and you know it.
ATTENTION WHORING ROASTIES FUCK OFF
>>29437307
That is true for some people, definitely.
>>29437349
Love is difficult, anon. It's easy to mistake infatuation or friendship for love. 6 months seems like a pretty normal amount of time to try again with a new person.
>>29437364
He wouldn't have qualified, based on what I've read about the chad stereotype. He's much more confident and sociable now, though.
>>29437364
yeah that sound like chad to me as well. shy guys don't get notice all and are left to rot in loneliness.
>>29437422
>6 months seems like a pretty normal amount of time to try again with a new person.
If some cunt tells me she moves on that fast, that's an even bigger red flag than being a giant whore. At least a giant whore doesn't get attached to every dick she sucks, but seriously? I don't want casual shit, and I certainly am not gonna spend my life with a woman who has to be "in love" with a new guy after a half year or less.
>>29437672
Ah relationship hoppers. Gotta be on guard for those.
>>29437422
would you let me lick your soles?
>>29435798
First of all OP I wanted to congratulate you. You had one chance at life and you didn't fuck it up.
Second, have you ever seen Stefan Molyneux's r vs K reproductive strategies videos? Because it pertains to sluts versus people like you and you might find it interesting. You should also watch his peaceful parenting videos if you are going to be a parent, there is great advice in there.
>>29438725
You are now entering geostationary orbit around this roastie.
>>29438851
How can I orbit a woman already married?
What happens when you are too creative is that you just spew a bunch of shit that doesn't make any sense.
Do you ever go through periods of boredom in the relationship? Do they come and go? How do you deal with them
>>29436586
Because women have no taste and are whores for attention.
Look at this shitty thread. You're turning 4chan into Facebook with your very shitty presence alone.
Fuck off, roastie. Your kind ruins everything.
>fiance
Premarital sex makes you a whore.
>>29436162
Atheists are by definition, immoral; i.e. not pure.
bumping this subar interesting threadu!
>>29438725
I've heard of Molyneux, but I've never actually seen any of his work. I'll take a look.
>>29438945
Actually, no. I've never felt bored of my fiance... that's probably because we're fairly adventurous sexually and have experimented with lots of different things to keep the excitement in our lives. Honestly, he's just a really fun person to be around, even when we're just doing boring shit.
>>29438984
Okay, go have fun being gay then.
>>29435798
where do i meet nice wimmin that are looking to marry and make a strong family
>>29441568
I wish I could tell you that, anon. I think it depends on what kind of person you prefer. I'd suggest getting involved in a group activity that you enjoy or maybe volunteering. That's the best I've got, sorry.
You may be a nice girl but human beings aren't pure and even if one was, it doesn't change the rest.
>>29441666
>666
Evidence that you're a lying bitch who's working with satan. Pure my ass, get out.
>>29441762
>post numbers mean anything
>>29441666
thanks op. i'll see what i can get involved in. i have an bad feeling that i'm going to end up being alone.
