My friend has become a literal cuck, please help me save his life
>25 years old
>been in a relationship with a fat girl for the last 4+ years (she is the same age as him)
>she's really fucking fat and getting fatter every day
>so fat she can't have kids
>so fat she's having surgery on her knees
>doesn't let him visit family, answer questions, make decisions etc on his own
>he pays the rent and bills
>she gets a taxi to uni
>he walks 1 hour and 20 minutes to work
>he doesn't have a drivers licence but he is paying for her to have driving lessons
>their rented flat has no furniture
>says it's because he's spending all his money on her
>he's paying for her uni education since she has dropped out of 2 courses (27k for 3 years)
>he pays for her to go on holiday to New York, Australia etc (without him)
>she threatens to leave him occasionally
>she doesn't do washing up or cooking either
>all they eat is cereal and soup
>she is a Buddhist
>buying a dog that he will also have to pay for
>his sister has told him that her skinny friend is into him but he isn't interested
>near impossible to get him on his own
>when separated from her he is in constant contact with her over the phone
>his mother is being evicted from her home and he won't help, doesn't seem to care
Obviously it's been said that he's fucking idiot but it has no effect on him
tldr How can I help him out of this unfair relationship? It's been going on for so long and he won't listen to reason
Protip: if it's been 4 years of this shit he's beyond saving
>>29410489
He's still a young guy though, he can sort out his life
HE'S STILL WITH HER? Don't even look OP. Just stop looking at them. It's too horrible. It'll keep getting worse.
>>29410509
Can;'t just leave him to suffer
Youre gonna have to take one for the team and seduce and fuck his gf.
Make sure he witnesses it. Maybe the shock of being cucked so blatantly will make him see the light.
If it doesn't, then just give up. It is a lost cause.
>>29411555
trips speak the truth
fuck the whale op. it is the only way.
>>29411575
>>29411555
I'm a virgin, probably couldn't fuck he reven if I wanted to
>>29411555
It won't work, it'll just backfire and he'll forgive the girlfriend and stop being friends.I know a guy who married a chick like that, and despite finding out his wife fucked his own brother he stayed with the wife
>>29411599
>>29411601
then there is no possible way he can see the light.
im sorry. say your goodbyes.
were I you I would take your friend by the side and seriously try one more time to make him understand how he's going to live a wretched life until the end of his days unless he's gonna leave her.
also, it's better to try and help him in any possible way before they have children cause at that point it's gonna be a disaster, especially for the well being of the kids.. seriously dude go for it, and at least to some people in this world, you'll have been an hero
>>29411623
But what do I say?
I feel like everything has already been said before and been said 10 times
Hi OP, Did you try to actually sit down with this guy and talk some sense into him? Also, I kind of just posted so I could tell you you're a good friend and that he's lucky to have you.
OP, do you have any idea what the word 'cuck' means?
>>29410471
H-has he seen her naked?
>>29411741
>Did you try to actually sit down with this guy and talk some sense into him?
We've never "sat down" but in private I (and others) have told how pathetic he is and that he can do better