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how much does it hurt when you think of your oneitis?
It's almost a physical pain it hurts so bad. I'm still coping with the fact that I'm never gonna see her again because High School is over. The last time I saw her was graduation night all over this Chad I used to know. Honestly though I'm not upset at him at all because he's such a good fucking guy (funny, charasmatic, nice as hell). Wish I could've been like him, instead I wasted my High School years being a fucking loser. Maybe I could've had a shot with her.
it's long scarred over
now it hurts more to think about the other times i've been rejected in one shot rather than constantly by one person
>>29404860
I sort of know that feel
but instead my oneitis is my 12th grade english teacher, and I'm already a year into uni
>>29404564
>still having a oneitis
Well I guess I was young once too. You'll get over it hopefully.
>>29404936
My 12th grade English teacher was a qt3.14 too but I never developed feelings for her. My oneitis was in that class with me though. Sat directly across from me so I got to see her everyday. Funny thing is I never even knew her. Just convineed myself I loved her.
>>29404564
it doesn't because i've never had one
>>29404564
>still caring about women
>thinking she cared about you as much as you cared about her
dude just forget about her lmao. in a few months you'll realize how meaningless and replaceable girls are.
>>29404564
last time i had a oneitis was almost 8 years ago...
i don't understand how some people can continue having a oneitis for seemingly years after they lose contact with them.
shouldnt the feelings just dissipate? if they don't, isn't that because you're continuing to nurture the idea you guys will get married or some shit? if so, why do that to yourself?
literally one week after the last time i saw her i wouldnt have cared if she had gone and joined ISIS (it's a joke ok please don't get me put on the watch list)
femanon here
is it true that guys "suffer" from "unreciprocated love"?
why don't you just get over it? you can't lose sleep over someone not liking you back you know
you guys are seriously pathetic
>Constantly tell myself I'm over her
>Start to feel convinced
>She talks about moving for work and I feel my chest tighten
Why won't it stop. Why can't I turn it off.
>>29405471
please do us all a favor and go away and die
>>29405471
People have the choice to go full Buddhist and shut out their feelings, but most people choose not to sever all ties to the material world. Some choose to feel more than others.
>>29405535
sorry bud but she probably hasn't thought about you since you broke up
just fuggettaboutit
>>29405535
>>29405580
Stop taking the bait. Shxnfmmsdhe
>>29404564
>how much does it hurt when you think of your oneitis?
It doesn't hurt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ui1JiOZ1zp4
>tfw no oneitis because you know so few people you have no one to like
Y-yeah good feels
>>29405471
you fucking bitch I wish I can give you a high dose of testosterone and throw acid on your face so you know how it feel to be the average guy. you will have to most crazy high sex drive but lonely at the same time. then you will know true suffering.
>>29405700
Please refer to this post originalto>>29405626
>>29404564
HURTS A LOT. SOMETIMES I TEXT HER AND SHE REPLIES, BUT I KNOW DEEP DOWN SHE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME AND IS JUST BEING NICE TO ME BECAUSE MY MOMMIE TALKED TO HER
I was fine with being alone but last night I had a dream I went on a date with a cute girl and now I have a crush on my imaginary dream waifu. What an obscure feel.
>>29404564
Thankfully I haven't had a oneitis for several years. But, ironically, my repressed affections towards woman are much worse when there's no one focus.
>>29404564
it's does nothing to me anymore.
months of me masturbating to her facebook pictures has allowed me to reach some sort of peace.
i feel nothing for her any more but lust. not love anymore. it's a good feeling.
now whenever I feel like fapping I go on her facebook and go crazy on her pictures.
>>29406599
>fapping to oneitis' facebook pictures constantly
I'm not alone, feels good.
>>29405471
For those of you who didn't know, this is a blatant shill post
>>29404564
It hurts.
Not even sure if I love them anymore, because now I'm just obsessed with "beating" them, coming off as happy and more attractive. I want them to ask me out, just to reject them.
You can't hate someone that much unless you love them.
>>29405535
>still I'm contact with her
Man I've got this sore in my mouth that I can't seem to get over. Every time I tongue at it, the damn thing hurts worse than before. I'm at my wit's end.
No person is worth your own homeostasis. Fuck that bitch. If I can save somebody's life and they don't owe me shit then you don't owe her shit. You'll never get better if she's still there to keep your wounds fresh, and if she says or thinks otherwise she's a shit.
Move on, man, take it from me, personally and objectively, fucking stop seeing her it's the only way to get yourself back.
>>29405471
>people falling for this fucking bait
>>29405535
THIS
>not even thinking about oneitis
>get text message from them after fucking forever
>panic
>can't stop thinking about it
>feel bad for the rest of the weekend
And it wasn't even like, "hey, sorry, wanna hang out?" It was still fucking expecting me to do all the work. Fuck off and die.
>>29406420
> MOMMIE TALKED TO HER
story time?
Is it still a oneitis if all I have of her is a picture?
it hurts a lot. we've talked about dating, but soon i will move away and never see her again, which is ultimately probably for the best.
>>29405471
I would literally punch you the fuck out right now, I don't even care about it being b8
>>29404936
iktf, qt teachers can be brutal because you can look at them during class and it's not weird to stare, so you fall in love at an accelerated pace. Also the timely manner of it, knowing when you get to see her - then one day you are anticipating her class but she's sick or something and it totally ruins your day. It's like a methadone program, you are a slave
>>29404564
i saw her this week on the line at the bus station, i looked straight at her and she didn't even recognised me.
my oneitis started talking to me again. im so fucking happy.
>>29405349
>dude just forget about her lmao.
that's the hard part, dipshit
>in a few months you'll realize how meaningless and replaceable girls are.
You're a shallow, terrible cunt. Kill yourself
>>29404564
it hurts a little bit that she took a scholarship to oxford and got a divorcee from some britbong chad when she could have had me as her loving house husbando i guess
>>29407353
you
you know exactly how I feel
>tfw that one time I was making my way to school and I can't see her car
>tfw my heart sank like a brick
>tfw I turned my head and saw her other car sitting in the street parking and immediately feel relieved
>tfw she gave me a ride home once
>>29404564
So much, especially knowing she left me for someone else because I bust too fast and am a depressed piece of shit instead of the pseudo-Chad she used to like
>>29404564
oneitis come and go for me, I'm sure with the latet one summer will be enough to get her out of my head completely.
Hopefully I won't be seeing her next semester.
>>29407473
>You're a shallow, terrible cunt. Kill yourself
And yet you're the autist coming here and whining about how your little penis won't find satisfaction. Grow up.
>>29407353
how do you feel about pic related, f@nn?
>>29407680
qt teachers like to flirt and tease their horny students, attention validation and all. You certainly came far with her giving you her number but I wouldn't lose sleep over it if you feel like you had a chance but couldn't quite pull it off.
>>29406475
This used to happen to me a lot when I was younger. I'd spend a while on Google Images trying to find a match.
Know what hurts worse?
Never having a oneitis in the first place.
There's a crazy amazing girl I work with. We talked a lot and I made her laugh a lot and it was good.
One day she asked if I wanted to get food with her but I didn't have my FUCJING wallet so I sperged out and just said no.
On our first day of cashiering a guy yelled at her and made her cry and I put my hand on her shoulder and made her go sit out so i could take over for her
After that our manager cAncelled her cashier training and made her a stocker so now I never see her anymore.
She also said she's planning on moving to Seattle in the next year plus i don't even know if she has a boyfriend but she has mentioned an ex.
Also I'm already in a slowly dying relationship that I feel will never work due to our differences but I'm too scared to leave because the break up will be catastrophic since we've talked about marriage a lot in the past, our friends are the same, etc.
I feel like I'm not in control of my life. At times I feel like just ignoring our differences, marrying her, and trying to be happy with what I'm lucky to have. Other times I remember that she's religious and I'm not, we haven't had sex in 3 months and she outright rejects my advances every time, and she has intense responsibility issues and has never had an actual job and somehow fucks up every prospect she gets despite being 19.
Fuck man
It's pretty painful but I'm getting over it. She rejected me a few days ago, she implied she prefers jerks and possibly that I'm not good looking enough, which was perfect since I can turn it into something like, "she's a typical girl after all", despite her having a similar humor sense, hobbies and outlook for life which is kinda difficult to find. When I'm completely over it it'll be good to have her as a bro, she's always eager to help and all.
It was more hurtful before I confessed, I recommend it even if you're gonna get rejected.
>tfw I tried to accept being in the friend zone
>moved in with her, and her boyfriend
>have to hear them fuck all the time
Why am I alive
>>29407082
It isnt anon
I'll never be able to find out who pic relate is
>>29408795
>moved in with her, and her boyfriend
Holy shit dude
Its sorta numb at this point, maybe due to being told by her I creep her out and that she doesn't want me talking to her. One one hand, being shot down leaves this settled. But sometimes the pain is unbearable and whenever I don't see her around campus my dad is ruined
>>29408795
i don't use this word often but
almost literal cuck status
get out immediately, you're probably already hopeless but please just move out
I haven't seen her in years. Every now and again she'll pop back up in my head. I don't think I'll ever try and love again, it just wouldn't be very fair. Saddest part was that I hardly even knew her. My heart still races at the thought of a girl I'd only spoken with a dozen times or so.
I still regret everything I've done.
>>29408836
Yeah
>>29408919
I wish I could but we have another year on our lease.
I'll just learn to deal with it.
i think my oneitis hates me, we talk often and sometimes romantically but since we had a big falling out in the past i think theyre faking it so i wont kill myself. i dont know if i should confront because if they tell me they really are faking it ill probably kill myself.
It hurts less.
Sometimes I do get mad about everyone else basically being over her death though.
Literally just waiting to run into her in public once more
>>29404564
>Pic-related describes my feelings, I'm dancing with happiness over my future while simultaneously dying over my past
>I "smile" on the outside while I cry on the inside
>I want to die at night
>I still love her
>>29408795
You're literally cucked. That's it, that's the definition. At least I'm not you.
Please save yourself.
being "heart broken" is not a metaphor
this shit can and will kill you
slowly
>having a oneitis
hahaha absolutely retarded. Thankfully I only find real interest in someone that shows interest back. I don't think I could ever become obsessed with someone that doesn't like me back.
>>29409732
What if they ask you to hang out, do nice things for you etc. and you take it as them showing interest but then it turns out it wasn't "that" kind of interestI know, you get over it the moment they reject you
>>29409769
Hmm, it takes more than that, actual legitimate flirting.
But I would get over it pretty easily, unless it was really strung out and I was convinced that's the direction it was heading, but that's never happened.
Fresh from last night
I've seen her at least once a week for 2 years, messaged eachborher basically every day, I thought she was going to change my life
>>29404564
Jokes on you, I'm too dead inside to have a oneitis.
>>29409840
that made me laugh
then sad
Select all images with a store front.
>>29409840
I never asked for this feel, anon. :(
>>29409840
>I don't want a relationship with anyone
I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets that bullshit line.
We're just not Chad enough to make your vagina tingle like that one 10/10 Chad who pumped and dumped you did, just admit it.
>>29405471
All these turbo autists getting triggered by this blatant troll post kek
>>29406475
Turn her into a tulpa f a m
>>29408873
Yeah sure sucks having your father ruined because of your oneitis
>>29409902
She was seeing a guy earlier this year, so I know she's lying. I stopped talking to her for a while because it upset me so much, but Chad got bored and she came back to talking to me.
Pic related is about her new black coworker. My life has become a joke.
>tfw so many cute girls into me
>ignore then all because my true oneitis is God
Feels real good
>>29410058
Don't do this, dude. You are amusing her and nothing more. You are fucking torturing yourself. Just let go, dude. Cut everything off. Forget about her, replace the memories any way you can. It is possible, I can swear. Just please be strong and do what you have to do.
>>29410058
lad, dont ask for a relationship or be straight about your intentions unless you are chaddington
you flirt and once your urge of grabbing her hair and fuck her silly feels overwhelming, you try something physically
this is not normia advice, women (especially young ones) are stupid children
if it fails it sucks, but atleast you tried instead of hearing stories about some niggerdick
>>29407473
kek the guy points out the truth and you're response is call him shallow terrible and a cunt.
someone's jimmy's got rustled over the thought of his pure waifu imaginary relationship girl is anything but. she's had more cum on her face than you'll be alive in years.
go cry moar you buttgaped loser
The cause for oneitisism is the idealization of a person. You must assume woman you're madly in love with is the same as any other whore, but give her hints of interest and build it up as you go along.
And be interesting too.
In all honesty would you date a female version of yourself?
>>29408795
dude.
if I was in your situation I would want to fucking kill myself. You NEED to get out of there.
It bloody hurts, it skyrockets my anxiety to the point I feel physical pain, specially when she's around. Maybe I'm overthinking, but it's like I made a psychical/spiritual bond with her when we first meet, but she has yet to realize it.
Meanwhile I'm on the loser side, I feel drained, in pain when she's around. When she is not, I feel fine for the most part.
She's not gorgeous, cute perhaps. She's pretty boring, almost like a blank slate.
very a lot
>>29404564
just a little bit
just a bit
>>29410424
This ruined my day
I thought I had moved on
I visit her facebook page sometimes.
She works at GameStop.
Oh well live and learn.
>found her on tumblr
>ask her if she has skype, she says no
>ask how im gonna talk to her, she says you can msg me on tumblr
>msg her on there, no response
>wait 7 days, msg again no response
and that was 2 weeks ago
>>29410424
heh that girl... she got fucked and abused by that one loser who's always choking chicks in his pics.
I had a thing for her til I found out she let him abuse the fuck outta her in bed than I dropped her quicker than a ho goes down for 5 dollars.
>>29410456
You poor fool
It's love at first sight, at last sight, at ever and ever sight
>>29410135
Thanks. I know you're right, all she does now is make me incredibly upset, even if we did get together I'd have the memories of this feeling with me forever.
My mum told me recently she was worried she'd never have grandkids, and she's been excited because it looked like I'd finally found a girl. I don't want to have to dissapoint her again...
>>29410424
where did kaleigh go? i remember when her ashley jones vid first blew up on world star and couldn't believe it but she totally fell off the map one day, still weird that at one point i knew her
A lot. To know we won't be together is one thing. To know the reason is entirely your own mistake is another. That, not life, but you made something impossible. You need to look somewhere else eventually, only because of yourself. That's what hurts.
Oneitis feels:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_jXInP4dj8
It bothers me less and less. I think the wizardry is starting to take me, lads.
>>29404860
I asked a my oneitis out 3 days before graduation. She said no. I'm pretty sure I'll never see her again. She was a freshman. Feelsbadman.
>>29410908
>and, uh, I didn't know it but she already had a boyfriend
just kill me
>>29408795
I was consideering trying to become friend zoned so she would at least be somewhat dependent on me. After reading this I've reconsidered.
>>29411008
Do you regret asking her though?
>having a oneitis
You are a bunch of weak ass pussies being swayed by your desires.
In this age succubi have gotten extremely strong by feeding off the infinite attention from the hungry betas like you.
Let them come to you, make yourself desirable for fuck sake. If the majority of men stop being like a horny cuck, you will see that nobody will stay virgin anymore
>>29411293
>You are a bunch of weak ass pussies being swayed by your desires.
This is correct; nice to meet you
>>29410058
Kek, that's shitty. At least my "oneitis" doesn't talk to me about that kind of stuff and is genuinely not interested in relationship because Chad "gives her too much emotions to handle"
It was cucky enough to just hear her talking about how she fell in love hard with Chad-kun she didn't even know that well and who rejected her at first and then they dated for a few days and broke up
At least it made me lose interest a bit to know she has that kind of idea about "love"
When normies forced me to kiss a girl my oneitis vanished
>>29404564
>how much does it hurt when you think of your oneitis?
Not at all. Quite the opposite really, I spend like an hour each night in bed thinking about being with her before falling asleep so I never feel lonely.It's been 8 years send help
