How many robots are utter disappointments to their fathers?
My only solace is the fact that I am an equal amount of fuckup as my brother
Your parents are the ones who raised you and molded you into who are
Them being disappointed in you is like having a plant and not watering it then being disappointed when it shrivel and dies
I am a complete and utter loser still living with my mom at 27 (parents divorced) and I know I fall short of everything my dad would have wanted.
Yet he still treats me better than my younger sister who moved out, has a well paying job and her shit together. It doesn't feel good.
>>29402209
there are many other factors in a child's success than just a parent's involvement anon, although that is one of the biggest ones
sometimes kids are just fucked in the head, no matter how good you raise them they won't turn out right
I'm mostly a disappointment to myself.
my dad has been almost entirely absent from my life. he has only himself to blame
>>29402043
My father terrified me since before I can remember. The first memory I have of him is being cold and hungry in my crib but being too afraid to cry because dad might yell again. The second memory I have of him is when he decided it was time to teach me man things and took me to the hardware store without my mom. I snuck my seatbelt off when he wasn't looking and I tried to jump out of the moving car. I was 3 years old and I concocted an escape plan to get away from my father because of what a shit he was.
Did he want me to be handsome and outgoing and shit? Maybe. He made cursory efforts to teach me how to be a man from time to time, but nothing regular or with a lasting impact. I still ca't remember a single thing my father ever taught me. I only remember how he would call me worthless and tell me he hoped I'd die.
So I guess yeah I might be a disappointment, maybe, if he even thinks of me this way, but who cares? I want to never be anything he wanted me to be. He ruoned my life by raising me like that, so the least I can do is show him what he did.
My father never had the opportunity to see how I turned out.
>>29402043
Fixed 4u
>>29402043
Jokes on you, I'm only 260 pounds.
Better luck next time trying to hurt my feelings.
>>29402043
Then he should have aborted me like he wanted and not listened to my dumb ass mother and kept me.
>>29402043
Essentially this, only thing he is really aware of is that I play vidya all the time.
I've tried to be outgoing due to his nagging but he eventually quit when I couldn't make friends at community college. He's fairly well-convinced that everybody in his family has mental issues.
He's always negative but I believe with how everyone has shafted him I should at least be sympathetic. Not too much of his family is aside from his mom.
I'm pretty sure I'm the immediate family disappointment but he does respect me in that I can judge when something is someone's fault despite me not liking them. I guess I'm not a complete fuck-up but he still berates me occasionally.
>>29402043
Well, I'm not all that handsome and outgoing, but I do throw the football with him on occasion. I don't think I'm a disappointment to him though because he really likes that I got accepted to an elite uni. I suspect he really wishes one of his sons was good with girls, though. None of us have so far and I'm the youngest. I think he may be counting on me, and I'm not sure I can deliver.
>>29402043
jokes on you, my dad is dead.hold me guys
>>29402043
>dads been NEET all his life
>ive been NEET all my life
>im in way better shape than him
>i dont play video games or watch anime or jerk off to cartoons
You kidding me? He was a high school dropout in prison at my age. I'm a published author, a business owner, and I have a beautiful wife and a stable job. If anything HE'S a disappointment to ME.
>>29402043
He disappointed me long before I could disappoint him.
>Birth father is in prison
>Step father is a pussy liberal gun hater
>I was a sponsored boxer from 15-18
>I am zyzz tier at 22 but still virgin
>Going to be killing myself when I turn 25
>Been a neet since 18, will be one until I die.
>went through really dark phase from 18-19
>dad just glad i made it out without completely destroying myself
>we're basically bros and he's fine with my neet lifestyle as long as i keep my health up (going to the gym, eating right etc.)
Who else /bestdad/ here?
>>29402371
mean to say you angry lil boy
>>29402682
I really should start eating right again. I attempted it but I tried to rely on my mother, and that was a horrible mistake.
Will have to cook my own meals...hopefully it will keep my father at bay
My Dad is a 280 pound dude who watches anime and plays vidya though.
I'm a 280 pound loser who watches pretentious bullshit and has nothing to show for it.
Good thing I only weigh half of that.
>>29402043
He can fuck off, I'm a human being with my own development, not a dog.
>>29402744
Making your own meals with your folks in the same household can be a strife in itself. Especially if the household cook is pushy/petty about eating their food. Godspeed.
I've lost 80 pounds and given up on vidya, but I've picked up jacking off to drawings
I'm a disappointment to everyone who ever had any hope for me
>>29402661
Wow wow wow, stop right there fag. Why are you going to kill yourself? At least explain it to me.
>>29402834
How do you even get into that? I'm not a NEET or a virgin (classic "alpha nerd" archetype here) but I do watch a fuckton of anime. I've seen a lot of hentai when I was curious, and sometimes I'll get an erection looking at high-quality stuff, but I've never actually masturbated to it. I don't think I could.
I'm so sorry dad ;_;
it's partially your fault for having ASD genes though
>>29402874
You get bored of "normal" porn and you look for better stuff, that's how people get into hentai, JAV and BDSM
>>29402874
Watched a lot of anime and got curious I guess. I used to mainly jack off to my imagination and had a short literotica phase so I'm kind of used to not seeing real people in my porn.
>>29402874
You're into it, or you're not. I can only fap to 3d for so long before it gets stale.
I am a very bitter person towards people since I was treated coldly so their fakeness in pornography and fake-feeling personality kills my erection. I get off more to infatuation and romance.
>>29402630
Then why the fuck are you here you lying normie?
Literally only significant thing wrong with me right now is I don't have a job. The problem is, I can't GET a job. No one wants to hire me for literally anything. EVERYTHING requires 9999999999 years of experience. Even fucking dishwashing. I was at university for five years, of course I don't have any fucking experience. There are only so many times I can tolerate seeing "ENTRY LEVEL POSITION" and "EXPERIENCED" in the same job listing.
>>29403016
>even dishwashing
Wow fuck I thought I was the only one burned by "you need 2 years of *PROFESSIONAL* dishwashing experience."
I hope this labor surplus dies out somehow. It's gonna financially kill a lot of people.
>>29402915
I mean, I have plenty of fucked up fetishes and I like to beat up women in bed. I've just never been down enough to jerk it to drawings. They can be pretty hot though.
>>29402985
I'm also a drug addicted sexual degenerate depressed hateful nihilist trump supporter that used to be a NEET and has been coming on 4chan since 2006.
But I've got my shit together otherwise.
>>29402043
My dad disappointed and failed me first, he has no room to complain if he does.
>>29403099
For many of us, our success came AFTER we came to love anonymous image board culture. I'm successful in real life, but I like to escape the responsibilities of real life with the same refuge I had when I was a loser in middle school back in the early 2000s.
>>29402281
This so much. My mom died a few months back and he blames her for coddling me and making me a manchild despite him never doing anything with me and my mom constantly asked him to do shit with me. What little he did with me usually ended with him basically telling me to fuck off because I wasn't good at doing something for the first time ever in my life. Plus whenever I called out his bullshit he talks about how I'm trying to take over the house and says "YOU THINK YOU A REAL MAN GET OUT OF MY HOUSE" or some dumb shit. I genuinely think I'm going to kill him someday. Only reason I haven't left or did it yet is because I don't want my little brother dealing with anymore stress.
>>29402043
Joke's on you, I have no father
>>29402043
>tfw disappointment and have nothing to show for yourself on father's day
Like fuck, what do I get as a present then
>>29403099
you arent even honest with yourself
>>29402834
You are not that degenerate bro. I'ts just preference you know?
>handsome
Eh, they're both not very good looking, but I turned out better looking than either. Average probably.
>outgoing
Got me there.
>played sports
Grandma wanted to watch me play football. And this anon did what his sweet old grandma wanted even if he hated every minute of it(don't be lewd, grannie was a saint.)
Also dad did/does all three of the latter things mentioned, so whatever. Not like i'd feel bad about it, dad's a failure and so am I.
>>29403342
desu I mainly watch hentai because it has rape porn that doesn't feel fake (just fictional), that's pretty degenerate
>>29403322
No one can be honest with themselves. It's literally impossible. A person is the most inherently biased person regarding information on themselves.
>>29402269
She probably reminds him a lot of her mom and doesn't even realize he's being an asshole. Or does he?
>>29403382
youre doing it again lol
Whatever, my dad treated me like an afterthought to his precious baby girl. You reap what you sew, and when you put in the bare minimum effort, that's what you'll get.
>>29402043
My dad was deported back to Mexico.
>Feels good
>>29402043
>parents raised me with 18 years of love, care, and paid for every year of my life
>now live 6 states away
>haven't talked to them in 7 years
>they don't even know if i'm alive or dead
I'd say i'm a disappointment.
>>29403076
Far from it. Been trying to get into the wagecuck game for a decade now. shit has steadily gone no-fucking-where.
>>29403534
Why don't you call them anon...
>>29403572
Honestly, i'm scared too. If they freak out, I wouldn't know what to do. If they ask me to come home, I know I don't want to, and won't. If they say "oh glad you're okay" then I won't think they care about me anymore, and my image of them will be shattered. I feel that if I can keep them as almost a decoration in my memory, then I can remember my childhood in a positive light. I know that likely made no sense, but i'm less than sober at the moment.
>>29402043
My father left when I was around 4, so I don't really remember him. I feel that out of me and my siblings I was the most affected by it. Growing without a real paternal figure is fucking tough, especially when all your friends have complete families or are at least in touch with both of their parents.Nonetheless, I wish I could find my father to thank him for helping me become who I am today. Him leaving us is probably the best way things could have gone for me.
>>29402274
There are two factors that determines how a person turns out. One is environment, and the other is genetics. Together these two give rise to the "free will" of the child. Genetics is unarguably 100% controlled by parents, and environment is almost entirely controlled by parents for the first 18 years (and often longer) of a child's life.
Being fucked in the head is always a combination of genetics and environment, literally the only two factors that can exist. And so any child fucked in the head is fucked in the head thanks to their parents.
Simple logic.
>>29402325
Sorry anon. I really honestly think men are never taught or told how to be fathers exactly. They get some shitty meme-tier "BE MACHO MAN" advice and don't know or don't get that yelling, screaming and threatening something smaller than you doesn't do that small thing any good. You're just doing what works for you and I think that's most parents. They're parenting is about making things easier for themselves, not raising you to be able to live and thrive.
>>29403683
There is an enormous body of evidence to show that, barring trauma or abuse, parents don't have much of an effect on their children. There is an episode of Hjernevask about this -- I strongly recommend it.
>tfw dad is a gamer too
>>29402043
>tfw your dad is incredibly proud of you
>>29403683
That's a good way of making a parent sad for their whole life when it just really boiled down to luck.
>>29403744
Unless you're black and your dad is proud of your lack of prison time, you can't have proud parents and be a robot.
>>29402043
>parents want a son
>they get a daughter
>they try again for a son
>they get another daughter (me)
>they only want 2 kids
>mfw I was their last hope to get a son
Tbh at least I'm not an autistic psychological wreck like my sister so there's that going for me
>>29403798
Let me sum up every /r9k/ thread
>innocuous post
>"get out you can't be a robot you're not as miserable as me I'm the most miserable"
>"fuck you I have never even spoken to a girl I'm the most miserable"
>"cucks staceys chads virgins blahh blahhhh women are sluts"
>>29403817
Maybe not as much of one, but yeah you are.
>>29403851
It's the misery olympics up in this motherfucker, of course that's what we do.
>>29403689
I understand this, but I'm not going to orient myself in a way that validates what he did. I'll live in opposition to it until I die. I have to, or else I will automatically, subconsciously accept everything he told me about myself.
I think my father is happy that I didn't turn out gay, or had a kid at 16 and going to college.
Sure there is a bunch of shit wrong with me but most of it I'm learning from side conversations is that it is hereditary from my fathers side of the family. A lot of mental illness runs though that family and I believe my father's closed mindedness towards these realistic things wrong with him and his personality and in turn with me don't exist because he just ignores them and keeps walking because that's how he learned to cope.
So in turn he just thinks hes a normal dude, and in turn I should be normal. But that's a whole fuck fest.Also I'm starting to think I might have been molested or something like that as a toddler by my dead grandfather. It would explain why I don't remember much of my life and my strongest coping method is blocking shit out. Also would explain why I randomly started to become terrified of my playpen after my grandfather watched me for one night, but before that I used to love the shit out of it. Also would also explain my strong attachment to sex, and general attachment to love and sex and how I can only get off why thinking of love and cannot enjoy any other physical pleasure from it. It would also explain why my mom/dad would hate him, and what his second wife used as black mail against him. Also why I never got any inheritance and neither did my mom.
At least it would explain a lot of things in life if this was true.
>father kicked my chad stepbrother out of his house at 18
>I'm a 22 year old NEET
I can't help but wonder how drastic my life would be had my parents not divorced. He would have definitely beat the autism out of me.
>>29403817
>i'm not an autistic psychological wreck
says the roastie on /r9k/
>>29403616
Anon. Call your parents.
Every time I talk to my dad, we inevitably get on the subject of my older brother, who is a neet who dropped off the face of the earth. When my parents divorced, my mom moved us far away from him, and it destroyed him. He is not the same person he was when we were growing up.
Most parents love unconditionally, and more deeply than you can possibly imagine. You must contact them. You've undoubtedly done damage, but it's not too late to make a change.
Please, anon. Make them feel whole again.
>>29402874
>>29402971
>>29402932
>>29402915
I don't get this.
Is jerking off to drawn porn "weird" ?
>>29402043
Dad should've been taller and not be bald if he wanted a soically successful son.
>>29404701
Yes, it always will and always has been.
My dad didn't really care what I turned out like, judging by his complete lack of involvement. He's basically admitted as such and apologized for never being much of a dad.
I'm only 180lbs btw
>>29403617
Did you end up searching for a father figure in your peers like I did?
Did your mother date, causing you to turn inwards on yourself and never really develop mentally past 16?
I found a paternal figure amongst my peers. I don't think he ever knew, but we're still friends and roomates now. He taught me how to drive and counselled me a lot.
>tfw he died shortly before 4th birthday
>tfw if he saw me now he'd be utterly disappointed
>>29402043
>dad still expects shit from me
>wants me to go to medic school
>thinks i can make it
After 20 years of consistently fucking everything up you'd think he'd have given up on me
he wanted me to be an alpha chad and is disappointed that I'm not which makes no sense considering he's a bitter angry fuck with no friends which is where I pretty much got most of my habits and personality from. just learning by example tbqh
He cheated on my mom and left his kids. Who cares what he thinks?
>>29405039
have you ever considered your mom was either a whore or insufferable?
seriously, to every faggot in this thread, if you put all the blame on your daddy you're fucking up and haven't truly figured it out yet
no ones forcing women to marry assholes
>>29405039
I'm not jaded towards women like the rest of the assholes on this board, but it's very likely you were lied to about why he left.
Speaking from experience. After getting back in touch with my dad, I decided not to care who is lying because it feels good to have parentS.
>>29402043
Ironically I'm lot more disappointed of my father than he is.
>>29402209
>Your parents are the ones who raised you and molded you into who are
Not really. My parents have nothing to do how I am as a person today.
>>29405110
no ones forcing men to be assholes either.
>>29402744
My advice: cut out red meat, go 1% milk, have at least one fruit and one vegetable a day. And have regular, lettuce, tomato, cucumber, onion, olive salads. Experiment with different dressings, find your favorite and use that. Dressing can make you fucking love even the nastiest of vegetables.
>>29403851
It's called Limbo anon. Robots keep trying to lower the limbo bar down to where only they can get through.
>>29402274
can confirm
all I wish is that I could have been a decent kid who my parents could be proud to have raised and instead I got dealt the tranny card
my father still loves me because I've never done anything wrong by him but I'm so ashamed of what I can't help that I can't even look him in the eyes :^)
Me. I'm a 25 year old neet on disability. I have severe brain damage and am missing a leg. The brain damage is bad enough that it effects every part of my life. I even have trouble controlling my bowels. I shit myself today. Just sitting in my chair in my apartment playing Castlevania. My half sister is 6 and has skipped two grades so far. She apparently reads at a level way beyond her age. Meanwhile I, a grown man, can't help but shit my pants. I mostly post from my phone. It's slow but autocorrect helps with the typos and such.
>>29405817
Time stamp your leg them faggot
>weigh 250 lbs and get a girlfriend for 4 years
>we break up and I spiral into depression
>bloat up to 330 in just a few months
Should I just kill myself at this point?
>>29403505
I know this feel and its great
>>29406134
I'm not posting myself for your amusement
If he wanted a hansome son he should've picked another female.
I love mommy, but i got most traits from her and she ugly.
My father is dead.
>>29406281
Who said it was for my amusement? It was just to confirm yourself. Because right now there is no validity that you are actually the way you say.
>>29403683
So Nature vs Nurture...
>>29406457
I don't care if you don't velveteen me. I'd say sorry but I'm not.
>>29406584
Believe. Autocorrect has betrayed me.
>>29402043
Handsome
Outgoing
Sports
(with him) x too busy earning money to spend time with me, I understood though
Watches Japanese cartoons x
Plays video games
Jacks off to drawings x (lol I have sex)
Where do other Robots check off?
>>29406985
For clarification, the blanks were meant to accommodate a 'tick' sign as seen in the Nike logo, but 4chan doesn't seem to support such script, so use your imagination, anons.
>>29405701
>I got dealt the tranny card
no you stupid fuck, you CHOSE to do that to yourself
we all want to dress up like cute girls anon, just DON'T DO IT IN PUBLIC
why did you have to go and cut your dick off
>>29403016
>TFW you get a busboy job at a fairly high end restaurant with minimum wage + 2% of sales with 0 experience the day after you graduate high school
My father can't communicate, I'm fairly sure is bi-polar and has yet to move on from the divorce that he had equal shares in causing (she'd never talk about her problems, he was insecure, emotional and explosive).
The man's got maybe as much education as I do and has destroyed his body with years of hard drug abuse and two separate alcoholic suicide attempts. Family is overrated
>>29405701
>all I wish is that I could have been a decent kid who my parents could be proud to have raised and instead I got dealt the tranny card
>my father still loves me because I've never done anything wrong by him but I'm so ashamed of what I can't help that I can't even look him in the eyes :^)
>tfw
I know my dad will hate me though, I can't tell him
It makes me cry every time there is a cookout or something and I hear him and guys there shittalk trannies. I at least wait until I leave and am alone to cry but still.
>tfw dad was a fat fuck social reject who read comics, raised snakes, and eventually left mommy's basement to become a hippie drifter
>dad's many adventures left him stranded in a trailer in Washington living off the land, and he quietly crawled home to start moving pianos
>one night he lifted too much, and he was never able to do that work again
>returning to the mechanic garage of his first high school job he continued to work until the owner died
>he found some jailbait
>that jailbait was my mom
>together that grease monkey and his child bride had three exceptionally lazy children, including me, most retarded of the bunch
A Chad son would just bully my dad when he went of socialist tirades.
>>29407495
kill yourself, tranny scum. If your father is a good man then he doesn't diverse the disgrace of a mentally ill degenerate like you. Don't tell him, just hitchhike across and country and throw yourself into the sea.
>>29402043
Well My parents won't say it but yeah, there's no way Im not a disappointment to them.
But I have 2 brothers and a sister who are doing well, so at least they got a decent return on their investments, over all
My father is dead but I would be a disappointment to him if I were still alive, although not a complete disappointment.
>tall
>managed to have sex by 21 and get first gf by 22 and now can get sex semi-regularly on tinder
So at least I'll probably give him a grandson in the future and he doesn't need to be disappointed in his son being a sexual failure
But
>got into Cambridge university
>failed Cambridge final exams
>asked to do another degree
>went to university again for another 3 years
>failed this time too
>25 and about to start a pity job working for my uncle as a programmer
And yeah that would be extremely disappointing to him
>>29407546
I can't help being a tranny anon.
I've tried my hardest for 19 years to ignore but I can't anymore.
>>29403683
>parents are relatively normal stable people
>they reproduce
>the raise you in a nurturing but firm environment
>you turned out fucked up
I mean I guess that would implicate the genetic side of it which is from them, but they did everything they could do. Sometimes genes get "mixed wrong", or whatever.
>>29407637
So again, kill yourself. You have no right to live, every day you exist is an affront to the man who gave you life and the woman who brought you into this world.
You are a failure, you are pathetic. I want you to leave this thread in tears and hurt yourself. Fucking tranny filth
>>29407676
I'm in college and doing well anon, I'm less of a failure than my cousins or brother, who is 7 and has diagnosed autism.
>>29407698
>it thinks being a tranny is better then autism!
>>29407723
Idk he'll probably never leave the house and be functional/normal.
>>29404701
In some ways it can be, depending on what is drawn. In society it will always be looked at as strange.
What is "weird" for one fapper might be different from other fappers.
I still think it could be argued that if you don't get sexually aroused from seeing naughty pictures; drawn or otherwise, there is something wrong with your brain.
>>29407807
Still better then being a tumblr-tier failure. Little jonny autism won't hang himself after letting some stranger off CL ruin his asshole because nobody else will take a malformed freak for a woman.
Accept it. You should die, everyone in your miserable life would be better off
>>29402043
I am an utter disappointment to my father. So fucking what. My entire family is an utter disappointment to me and to each other.
To my father I am a huge disappointment, he would sometimes go on speeches about how useless I have been for the past [x] years.
I used to hate my mother for being the lying whore she is. While I still do, the intense resentment i feel for my father has grown.
No matter how successful he may be in his career, he's an extreme beta and the best he could do was a 34 year old used up whore who had 2 children from a previous marriage. He was 29 at the time
I have literally never met my father
>>29402209
>>29403683
Modern parenting is shit. Parents are boring, poor, stupid people that dont know how use condoms.
I am happy of see how society change to childfree lifestyle
>>29403683
The proximity of people in the area is a big part of environment. Parents can only do so much to a kid; even if it is a sizeable portion. My mom was fairly okay with me since I was usually well-behaved but none of my peers liked me so they saw it better fit to reject me or ignore me. I never got any social experience and I got all the pains of rejection and isolation in the process. I stayed in my room or walked far, far away from other kids so I could get some peace of mind.
I wouldn't say my mom is to blame solely, but she did raise me with that stupid belief that I would get by on smarts alone. I didn't have much else to cling to at the time so I went with it.
The one time I did stand up for myself I was told by the police that if I had won the fight I would have gone to jail. Every time I stood up for myself at school I was laughed at or punished by the school staff. I learned it wasn't worth it. Or at least, not worth it in this society. Normally that would be a method of getting some respect; because the one time the police told me I would have been arrested, the person on the other side of the conflict actually respected me a little. I didn't notice it because I was emotionally distraught, but it clicked later that it was because I had the balls to pick that fight with one of my bullies.
What I'm trying to get at is that it's not just parents that contribute to environment, it's everyone. Everyone taught me that I would be punished if I fought back or stood up for myself, even if doing so would have been better in the long term.
If I could go back I would have at least tried to knock the teeth out of all those people. At least then I wouldn't be invisible like this anymore.
>>29402043
Joke's on you faggot. I'm 265 pounds.
>>29402043
im actually a skinny psuedo hippy desu
>>29402043
If he wanted a handsome son he shouldn't have given me bad genes
>>29405371
I thought dressing had a lot of calories in it though
If you had a dad its your own fault for how you turned out
>>29408481
Depends on the dressing, and how much you give a fuck about eating plain salads.
>>29408439
you should still kill yourself for bringing dishonor to your family.
My dad wasn't around a ton but it wasn't entirely his fault. At any rate, I do feel like shit for being so different than my dad. He's the kind of guy who can literally talk to strangers as if he's known them for years. He has that "thing" that I don't. That I don't even kind of have. The same thing that makes me never want to go outside because everyone can tell that it's missing. I feel deficient and ugly and worthless because I can't be like everyone else, so I just avoid them.
>>29402043
reporting in and bumping
