everytime one of my friend tell me to do something i don't like i say no and they begin to argue like
>u know it will be nice pls anon
>u never want to do interesting things when i suggest
>it's so easy for you, u know i can't becaus *shitty excuse*
and after a little time i finish to say ok and they take advantage of me, i hate it please help
Stop manipulating yourself first.
>>29400644
what you mean by this ?
>>29400696
For others to successfully manipulate you, you have to manipulate yourself into trusting them initially or trusting them again after they've lied. You've adapted a personality made for being manipulated, probably to cope with something in your environment (like your shit friends.)
>>29400611
i have the same problem and i'm 25. but they get me with the same trick they got me with when i was younger. i know it's stupid but i can't help it when they say things like:
> don't be soft
> don't be gay man
> come on, don't be such a faggot
> are you really this much of a pussy?
they make me mix all sorts of drugs and alcohol and get really fucked up until i pass out or just to make me entertain them saying weird autistic shit while i'm messed up on whatever they gave me. i hate it, but i don't have anyone else so i always go back to them.
i wish my mom hadn't driven me out of home, then none of this would have happened. i know i wasn't getting anywhere in life just sleeping all day and playing on the computer... but her attempt to make me "grow up" has really made things worse for me.
i know i'm to blame. but i just wish i could go back to the way things were. i feel like i'm in high school again with these guys. i know it's sad and pathetic to be like this at 25, but for some reason i can't stand it when people egg me on like this and i always cave in like "fine, fuck it, it's no big deal. see?"
>>29400772
i'm 22 and i'm afraid i'm on my way to become like you
i think the only solution is to dump them all but it's definitive and kinda hard to do that and to stay alone after this
>>29400746
I never trust them. I don't say yes because I trust them but because they force me to with their boldness
>>29400611
Who is this guy you posted?