>tfw you dont wish your dad happy father's day because you would rather he just forget you exist
>>29395227
You're not helping the problem
>dad lost his job 4 times in the last few years
>had to move back in with his mom
>owes a bunch of people in the family money from having to borrow to pay bills
>practically never talk to him
>most likely won't wish him a happy father's day
>he still calls me occasionally to ask me how i'm doing, that he loves me, and if i ever need anything i can always call him
why am i such a shit son
>>29395227
Eh its not a big deal its just a day, I just fucked a father in the ass from Grindr, best part is his wife has no idea
>>29395328
>I just fucked a father in the ass from Grindr, best part is his wife has no idea
how is this relevant?
>>29395227
>dad constantly in and out of my life by choice
>calls me a bitch behind my back
>gets mad that i don't want to see him
>>29395281
I know that fell anon, but I'm like that to everyone
the worst is, that I don't know why I am like that
yet I wonder why I repulse everyone, well...
>>29395281
you probably have avoidant personality disorder. I put off messaging my dad because I feel like a loser with nothing to say.
>tfw you will never make your dad truly proud of you
>>29395227
>home for the summer
>parents are fighting
>dad went out for some "dinner" last night
>was gone for 3 hours
>didn't even tell my mom why he was gone I guess (I assume went to the bar to sing karoke)
>Was going to prepare a meal for us for Father's Day since I didn't really have anything I could give
>instead gonna be a shitty day
Anyways - you should really wish your dad a happy father's day. Unless your relationship is at a point where he's expressed he doesn't want to hear from you, at least do it. Once you are at that age, sometimes the only thing that really can make you feel better is hearing from your family even if you didn't have a close relationship.
>>29395521
Im scared to. I avoided doing it earlier all I said was good morning and went back to my room
I also didnt go to my grandpa's 80th birthday party yesterday which makes it harder because he is probably disappointed about that
>>29395425
>avoidant personality disorder
holy shit this describes me to a t
>>29395578
It's because of that you should do it brah. Sometimes I'll do the same thing, but just go up and do it. Go wish him a happy father's day. Hell, if you wanna be even better, ask if he wants to go out and get some lunch or something.
He isn't ever going to get any younger.
I really hate myself sometimes
>>29396222
>sorry I lost phone
>sorry I couldn't find my charger
>sorry I left my phone at work/car/friends house
>sorry I've been preoccupied with a lot stuff. been doing lots of thinking, you know? about life. didn't mean to give the impression that I was ignoring you. sorry dad.
