Is being a virgin for life really so bad? I'm 26 and it seems the older I get, the easier it is to cope with virginhood.
im lvl. 23 and im having a breakdown about it atm
Sex is for babies. Jo is for getting off.
Its not sex ppl want....its feeling wanted.
Actually I like my virginity. Makes me feel pure.
Being a virgin isnt bad so much as not being wanted by another person
I could probably deal with being a virgin if I had a gf to cuddle with
>>29387180
You're looking at it from a wrong perspective, I think.
>>29387189
You have a good point, but you can also have friends and family who would care about you more than some broad you met on the street ever will.
Sex is amazing. So is laying naked with a cute girl afterwards and just talking whilr smoking a joint.
>>29387166
The lack of sex I can handle. It is only bothersome when someone asks me about it.
But affection is something I can't do myself man.
>>29387265
>Sex is amazing
>laying naked
Even mere thought of being naked and having sex with other person is repulsing.
>>29387331
Well you're probably gross and could only get an obese hambeast so yeah that would be gross.
>>29387259
>You're looking at it from a wrong perspective, I think.
what perspective should I be looking at it from?
>>29387348
>Well you're probably gross
Good bantz. Even if i'd have Chad body, i'd still be disgusting thing to do.
>>29387351
You're still you, with or without sex. Just because someone has sex doesn't mean that they're exemplary human beings. I've seen all sorts of losers get laid. Having a woman on your arm is not an indication that you're the best guy ever. Also, having a wife or a girlfriend takes time and resources out of your life that you could be investing in yourself.
>>29387467
Lol virgin beta cuck neet with no friends detected
>>29387467
Then I will ask you to consider it from another perspective
Even though I'm a virgin, I don't actually care about the sex, nor is having a gf something i desire for the status of it
I want to have a relationship because I want to have a family and kids one day. Probably the only reason ive never been depressed and/or suffered bad anxiety is because i have fantastic family support. One day my parents will die and my sister will move on and that network will be gone and so I want to have my own family
Whats the point of investing resources in yourself if you have no one to share it with?
>>29387507
You still have time if you really want to make a family. If you want something really bad, you'll get it.
>>29387543
I know but thats why im going through this breakdown atm
I'm 23 but i've lived in this bubble of arrogance and delusion for years. I've always told myself that i'd make it 'one day'. But the reality is in my personal life I have done absolutely nothing to help myself. I'm average looking so I don't exactly have girls queuing up to ask me out. But I'm not hideous either so if I work for it I should be able to make it, but ive never worked for it. Its possibly because i dont know how or it just scares me, maybe both.
and this last week its like my mortality has hit me and that bubble burst
I'm sitting at lvl 19 and I feel terrible at it. The worst part is knowing your peers are getting laid with chicks and I'm sitting here with absolutly no fucking clue how to help myself. I think I'll be a goner soon enough.
The older you get the more your libido goes down
So yes you will eventually stop wanting sex but you will still crave companionship
>>29387166
I'm 25 and almost never think about it
I just want intimacy.
Not even sex.
Just cuddling, holding hands, all of that.
>>29388674
but intimacy comes from a woman's love, and that comes from them being fucked.
>>29388799
Do women really not love the same way men do?
It hurts knowing a girl will never care about me the way I'd care about her.
>>29387166
I never gave a shit desu
almost 23yo btw
>>29387854
>So yes you will eventually stop wanting sex but you will still crave companionship
This is the nightmare I'm in. Spent $300 in the last four weeks on just talking and spooning with escorts. I got another hour session on Tuesday night, and I know they fucking laugh at me when I leave.
Just fucking lie. If someone presses for details just say it was an old gf back in HS, who the fuck is going to check the facts on you.
>>29388824
Women 'love' men like a utility. Like you love your car.
This again?
Does anybody really care anymore?
>>29388943
Only normies care about THE INVISIBLE BADGE OF SHAME OF VIRGINITY
>>29388878
Why even do that tho? Whats the big fucking deal if you are virgin? Do people really give this many fucks about how others live?
>>29388915
I don't feel so bad if that's all I'm missing out on.
>>29388915
all women are gold diggers no point in forming relationships with them. they will leave you if you lose your job.
>>29388975
It can be really nice if you fall for it, I imagine.
I think "loving a woman" is like how some people love their pets. They project their own emotions of loyalty and friendship onto something who is only there because they feed it and give it a home.
I'm sure it builds some sort of mental fortitude, but it's going to create a background level of stress. But I mean so does having sex. It's like how monks take vows of celibacy, it help them find Nirvana.
Do you want to spawn offspring? No? Then why Do you care.
>>29388971
Short answer yes. I'm not going to elaborate because you should know this by now, but yes. Everyone cares about everything, everyone is doing.
>>29389188
You've enlightened me
>>29389201
Yeah, cause you're thick as a brick
itt:underaged faggots
please kill youselves
>>29387832
Are you me?
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