>She randomly stops sending you messages out of the blues after it was going all perfect
Why do they do that? did she just find a boyfriend or something?
You waited too long, her interest waned.
>>29381422
She's busy with Chad now, Anon
>>29381422
Because someone in a higher tier on her orbit list decided to give her attention. Or she got bored.
>>29381422
yup, she was stringing along several guys and you got pruned, and if she found you were doing the same to her she'd be pissed and fundamentally unable to see the parallel.
>>29381434
Maybe but it was going perfect, so i never bothered asking for her Skype or something.
>>29381435
A-are you lying? she doesn't seem like she wanted the chad type.
>>29381422
I understand this all too well. It's happened twice to me the peak of when I cared for them...
Want to talk it out, OP?
Evolution happened. The odds were against you anyhow. Oh well.
i dont understand how do they do it
how do they just throw someone away? just because some guy came around do they not have any feelings?
>>29381541
women see men as things, the concept of emotional self discipline is terrifyingly alien to then so they assume men don't feel, and when they do see a man's feeling, they think he's defective.
>>29381541
I don't understand either. It just makes me want to cry when I think of how I wasted so much time and emotion, and still don't regret it for some reason, though it makes me pathetic,
She stopped messaging out of the blues too I feel yah
Women are horrible and I hate them!
Were you an actual friend or an orbiter?
Anyone have that picture of a girl who lost weight and suddenly thought she wasnt attracted to her husband who she has kids with anymore? She left him and boasted how so many guys want to date her eapsiclly a famous footballer.
Woman are all fucked in the head.
>>29381422
Its because they realize your actually fucking garbage
Atleast thats what i assume happened to me
>>29382004
>Its because they realize your actually fucking garbage
But how? I can coverse like a normie when needed.
>>29382055
its not you're fault, they realize you have traits they dislike.
So I was talking to this one girl for a while she like talking to me and i guess it wasnt until she realised how fucking useless and immature i was she just quit talking to me altogether
>>29382126
>realised how fucking useless and immature i was she just
Funny, when she's a women and both of what you listed.
>>29381913
Answer this question OP.
>>29381463
>A-are you lying? she doesn't seem like she wanted the chad type.
I wish I was
>>29382827
How do you know if you were an orbiter? i didn't shower her with compliments, didn't buy her anything, didn't send her money etc..
>>29382863
If she hung out with you alone, iniated conversations/hit you up first, introduced you to her friends, celebrated your birthday/Christmas/etc even with little things, etc etc. If the answer to those is no then congrats, you were an orbiter and she dropped you.
>>29382924
I never met her in real life but we said if she comes here and she might we will meet etc.. so no i wasn't an orbiter.
>>29381463
>A-are you lying? she doesn't seem like she wanted the chad type.
ahahahahaha oh shit anon come on now
>>29382935
>"online" friend
>not an orbiter
Pick one. She used you for attention.
>>29382951
But why? we had many things in common and i was talking to her just like a real life friend, since we got along. Why me for the attention? when all it takes is for her to go outside (She's not a shut in or from here).
>>29382970
Because guys will flock to women online simply for the fact that they're women and they know it. The fact you're so upset over it means you were probably clingy.
>>29383001
I don't flock to women online
I don't initiate them first
I still fail to see how i was clingy or an orbiter. I was neither of those things mentioned.
>>29381449
Omg, this
I fghjjbkcdj
>>29383011
Would you be acting like this if it were a guy that did it? If not then there you go.
>>29382970
clearly you are starved for female attention. you really shouldn't invest so much into someone you haven't met in real life. like others have said, you were probably several dudes she was texting at the same time.
I have had this happen to me. I met a QT on OkCupid and we had amazing talks over kik and exchanged pictures over snapchat. she texted me good morning for 2 weeks straight. then we met in person and I clearly didn't to turn out to be who she expected. IT WAS WEIRD. definitely one of the more awkward dating experiences of my life. she basically shut me down after that and we never spoke again.
feels bad when someone appears to enjoy you over text, but in person you repulse them.
>>29383066
>>29383065
life isn't fair my fellow robots.
No girl is "different"
Idc how cute she is, how virgin , how ugly, how fat, etc
Once Chad shows up, you're history
Do not get attached to women
>>29383926
no wonder no one is getting married these days
>>29381449
So fucking this tbqhwy senpai anon kun desu
Consider that even if the conversation was perfect from your perspective, it may not have been for her. She may have been losing interest for a while, or maybe you offended her and don't realize.
>>29381422
is that pepe wearing bandos? noice
What if she sends me a message like 2 and a half weeks later. Should i bother replying or just ignore like she has been doing to me all this time?
You ghosted. It happens to every single guy. Chads get ghosted too all the time. Just know that you probably did nothing wrong and there is nothing you could have done differently. Girls are flaky and will do that for no reason.
Move on. You will need to talk to 10-20 girls before managing to meet one.
>>29384279
You got ghosted*
>>29384279
Must have been ghosted by quite the charming guy, probably some 6ft5 9/10 looking alpha male with a shredded body. But whatever i guess I'll deal with it but see here; >>29384263
>>29384015
Marriage is the stupidest thing you can possibly do in modern society
Unless you get off on being a cuck, never get married, never have a gf, don't even have female friends.
Women are all whores.
>>29384363
i just want them for sex desu
>>29384498
Sex is degenerate
Get a good onahole
Save up for VR
Sex is extremely overrated and women will trap you into child support or give you an STD.
>>29384330
It's very possible you were not ghosted because she found another guy. For whatever reason, she just didn't feel like talking to you anymore.
>>29384782
That's still being ghosted .
Whether she found another or just got bored of you doesn't matter.
All women are whores
>>29384805
and yet woman think they are able to claim they are lonely like that of a robot or know true loneliness.
>>29384805
I meant, you were ghosted. But not because she found another guy.
>>29384894
No woman can ever be lonely.
Even the fattest, ugliest, most crippled, most dismembered female will still get a boyfriend.
>>29384945
I'm not even that original guy you replied to, I was just clarifying.
Regardless, all women are whores
>>29384962
All women are whores. Literally. The only difference is the form of currency they take in exchange for sex.
>>29385014
I guess, one in the form of money while the other in the form of gifts / dinners.
>dont you mean im cute lol
>but i dont find you attractive
why in the fuck are you speaking to me then?
>>29385102
Exactly. You always pay for sex, one way or another.
W H O _ T H E _ F U C K _ T A L K S _ T O _ G I R L S , E V E N ?
You are the biggest joke ever. Talk to the girl for a week, and if they don't want to fuck then, they won't fuck when you're friends and sees you as an emotional tampon. Learn it like I learned it. They give you ANY fucking lip and any sign of refusing your cock, you drop that bitch.
The "letz be frindz XD" shit they do is just them using you as an emotional tampon. Don't be a dumb fuck. This has happened to me countless times. In fact, I've pumped and dumped six whores this year. You want to call me "normie reee XDD", go on ahead. If being successful at being a robot in Chad's clothing and leaving my room is a bad thing, so be it.
>>29385222
>robot in Chad's clothing
You're a normalfag
You are not a robot at all
Fuck right off
Happened to me a month ago. Really thought we had something...
I mean shit. I met a girl online and actually visited in person. she was thick but easily a 6.5/10. we talked, never had amazing convos but she wanted to meet me.
we met, and surprisingly, we actually did make out and I got to feel her up. I remember she had a pink dress and I felt her ass...it was nice. about 500x times nicer than my currents GFs ass. Nothing too sexual happened though, just awkward dry humping and then I left.
After that day, I was pretty sure we hit it off and that there might be something for us in the future. WRONG. She slowly but surely stopped responding to texts. When I confronted her about it, she just gave me BS and kept tying to let me down easy. I tried to arrange a couple dates but she was always "busy" and after a while I took the hint.
sometimes that's just the way it goes. does not feel good at all, but we take that risk as men.
>>29385345
>normalfag
Maybe. I really have absolutely no friends, at all. I only go out, put on my Chad personality, and fuck a girl.
>Fuck right off
No.
>>29385387
>tfw you wish she gets cancer
>She hasn't messaged you in weeks
>Don't wanna ask what's up since it'll make you look like a desperate loser
>>29385699
dont do it, i don't. If they really cared about us, like us, and enjoyed talking to us they would reply and send us a message. They haven't because they are busy with another guy. Women will ditch you the instant a better guy comes around.
>>29385875
Yeah. Kinda trying to just let it go. Closest I've ever gotten to ever getting anything start with a girl though. It was way too much work desu
>>29385983
>It was way too much work desu
I know this feel, even replying takes time if its a long messaged and the hours you waste..All this work so she can go jump on another guys dick.
>>29381422
I did this to a girl to see of she cared
>>29386353
what happened?
did she care?
The girl i liked stopped talking to me for like 1 month
Then she sent me a text asking me to fix things up so i just told her told her to go fuck herself...
I regret it :'(
>>29386402
Why? i would have done the same. She can go get fucked, only coming back because she felt like it and probably got dumped by chad. Imagine if you sent that message, she would ignore or laugh.
>>29386417
Because she was the only person i really talked to, so i kinda felt lonely after we stopped talking.
But yeah, thar bitch was mean
Spoke to her daily, we got along really well, i ended up fucking loving her. She replied almost instantly most of the time, told me good morning first most days, seemed interested in what I had to say, cut me off one day after about 6 months. Just didn't reply one day I never found out why.
I just want off this train desu senpai
>she replies to you after about 3 weeks
>haha oh sorry im been sooooo busy!
blocked
>when she tells you she's not like other girls
I made a mistake. I need to talk to you. Come back.
>>29386619
>tfw no girl will ever say this to you
>>29381422
I had this happen from a girl who I didn't even want a relationship with.
This is, no shit, the responses I get from her.
>Hey you didn't respond to my text did you?
>"Oh, sorry, what? I was texting 'someone'. I don't really talk to people using text, too much credit"
>Haha, hey did you get the image I shared?
>"Oh, I didn't check my Skype"
>Oh, hah, I get it; no more talking to 'me', right?
>"No, no, I just prefer to have conversations in-person"
>Hey, we should do something soon. I'll come over, see your new house
>"Hehe I don't like to see people outside of school really"
>You said you wanted us to come see it.
>"Well, I mean, I don't like being one-on-one with people outside of school."
>"You know, I'm going to visit X on the weekend. And then after that, well, *giggle* I'm gonna have Y come over to my house *giggle*"
>Ok, that sounds alright.
>"...hey about that, you ever put a belt around someone's neck?"
>... I don't need to know.
>"*giggle* ok!"
I'm sure somebody can relate to having a 'friend' like this.
>>29386721
what the fuck did i just read, bitch needs to be strangled.
>>29381541
Because They are bad people that dont give a fuck about anyone.
>>29386721
>didn't want a relationship with
>sharing images
>we should do something
>I'll come over
>b-but you said you want us to come
You are beta and an orbiter.
>>29386888
Not him, but why cant a friend come over? it's what they do. Oh but wait... men and woman cannot be friends like that with a man and another man.
It's either penis in vagina or nothing.
>>29386916
If she came onto him, he would bang her.
That's why they're not friends.
>>29386936
So you admit, men and woman cant be friends. What you said also carries no weight.
If you add in a very good looking guy and the same girl, And she only wanted to be friends. I bet if the alpha man came onto her knowing that she'd still spread her legs and vacuum up his semen.
>>29386959
So they weren't friends, right. He's an orbiter.
>>29386968
>So they weren't friends
Only because it's impossible for a man and woman to just be friends ;)
It happens to me all the time anon. It's what happens when your not Chad. She will hold you at a lower level, and probably only talk to you out of boredom.
Once Chad or a bf comes, then she tosses you away. Along with the other 100+ orbiters/friends on her list as well.
Women aren't the best online friends to have. They throw you away easily, and have hundreds to replace you with.
Either meet a girl irl, or get /fit/ to impress stacies online. If your looking for friends then stick with males. They are true bros and don't toss you aside.
>>29381463
>A-are you lying? she doesn't seem like she wanted the chad type.
HAHahahahah. EVERY GIRL WANTS CHAD
>>29386993
I'm /fit/. It does not work if you don't have the facial aesthetics. You still get tossed aside when someone better comes along.
>>29386959
>she only wanted to be friends
>with Chad
LOL kk
>>29386984
Yeah, I know. I think you're responding to the wrong person.
I had this shit happen to me recently but I'm the one that stopped talking to her. I didn't ghost her though but I could tell she was losing interest in me so I eventually told her we should go our separate ways.
It sucks because we talked and texted every day from when I woke to when we slept but I somehow still fucked it up.
It probably didn't go that well but you think it did because you were already interested in her, while she on the other hand felt like it was laboured smalltalk and eventually just gave up.
>>29387050
if you were texting her constantly and don't see the problem then hopefully I have highlighted it for you
Chad camein her maybe,and well the rest is history. He will eventually get bored and drop her ass, and if she can't find a replacement she'll come back to you.
Maybe you guys should just realize that you are boring and have nothing that sets you apart. You can give nothing to a woman so why would they choose you?
>>29386888
I'm the supposed orbiter.
First off nice trips of infinity.
Second I don't orbit her. In fact technically she orbited me for a long while and still basically hangs around me during class/school day hours.
I did used to orbit her, like 3 or 4 years ago. Ever since then it's been rocky and I'm probably the one of very few non-orbiter friends she has.
Yes she is attractive, but man, while I could take the chance to fuck her, she already has been fucked probably countless times by now by some other guy who apparently is REALLY insecure about me being around her. And she likes it much rougher than I'd be comfortable doing, as in anal play and strangulation with the male.
And my principle is that you don't put your dick in crazy. She may have a beautiful face, busty frame with great legs and be a short little thing but putting your dick in crazy is like docking your ship in Warp space.
>>29381422
This happened to me with a long distance thing after 1 year. I don't talk to women online anymore.
>>29387176
de-luded
man i cant be fucked finding another bitch
spend hours talking
spend hours going over the same things etc..
it's too much work
>>29387498
Same. Got over my oneitits and have no patience doing it again
>>29387577
I don't know how people can get so much patience and keep doing it over and over again. It's tiring as absolute fuck. And you have to keep finding her links and jokes funny.
Imagine a life where you have never been great at anything, never felt the urge to be great at anything, never felt that magnetic admiration to someone who was great at something, wanted to imitate and ultimately defeat him. Just nothing. Literally all you do in life is exist. Occupy space. pass the time.
You're bored, as usual, tweeting about your fucking hair and not even feeling any kind of happiness from it, just soothing your constant need to be bitter and cunty and petty toward other women.
And then you see men, over in some corner, having fun. You've never seen this before. What are they even doing? Instead of their consciousnesses merely sitting in their thick skull and revolving around itself, they are imbuing their conscious energy and intentionality into external objects, crafts, goals, projects. All the bitterness and cuntiness you feel nonstop seems to be absent, as they congratulate each other for being victorious, and happily learn from someone who defeated them. These creatures are truly content to be alive. They have found purpose in a purposeless universe.
And your gaze turns back on itself, on your self, and you realise you've never had that. You can never have it. You're just a stupid cunt.
So you get up, you walk over there, and you fucking ruin everything. Just ruin the whole fucking thing. The five seconds of attention you get will be worth destroying it. Because you're a woman.
>>29388179
i wish we could ban women from the internet
