There's nothing sexy about prostitutes and wearing a rubber makes sex worse than jacking off

You're not a failure you were just too naive to predict that you were trying to have sex in a situation that didn't turn you on

No one even going to laugh at me? For some reason I found it really funny that I have been trying to lose it for all these years and when I get the chance I can't get a hard on.

>>29361556

Thanks mate, makes me feel a bit better, didn't feel any arousal at all, maybe I am just gay or porn has gave me too high expectations. I think I put too much pressure on myself as well built it up too much in my mind.

what did she do then?

origi

My normie friend couldn't sail above half mast his first time, some guys just get nervous. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it, you're not broken or anything.

>>29361612

>walked in and asked for payment straight away (70 quid)
>She was clothed
>I needed a piss so went to the toilet
>came down and she was fully naked
>I thought "well that's new"
>She then gave me a back massage and a shit handjob
>Put condom on while I was still soft and gave a bj
>Gave me a handjob with oil and without condom and I came pretty quick
>I really wanted to have sex so I tried to get hard again and couldn't
>Ended up getting a hard on for like a minute and stuck it in.
>She said "Your dick not hard can't do"
>So I apologized and said it was nerves
>kind of just talked to her for a bit while getting dressed and left.

I think since I came I couldn't get hard, think that is normal though right?

>>29361604
Dude you literally can't get a hardon if you're stressed or anxious. It's one of the main causes of impotence.

Chicks get the same way, too. Maybe try cybering or phone sex and work your way up? Gotta start somewhere. If you know what went wrong, there's no need to be hard on yourself.

Does drinking help you in bed or is it more of a hindrance? I've heard mixed things.

>>29361700
Yea of course she wants to minimize actual sex you fell for her trick.

>>29361700
go nofap for a while then try again maybe?

everyone does that the first time you fucking faggot