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Post your weirdest fantasies and fetishes.
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i want to be dominated by a girl until i eventually manage to get out of my bondage and rape her. i abuse her for a few days then she regains control somehow and the cycle repeats.
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>>29352933

I wanna spank a cute, naked dude's butt in public while everyone watches and takes pictures.
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I want a girl to hug and cuddle me for a long time while I bury my face in her boobs and cry. Then I'd like her to climb into my lap and take my virginity, riding me until I cum inside her. After that I'd like to fall asleep with her cuddling me, my cock still buried inside her pussy. All with lots of eye contact and headpats and "I love you" and "good boy."
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>>29353136
Damn anon.. I know how you feel brother.
Good luck out there, love
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>>29353267
good luck to you too breh
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>>29352933

I'm not into femdom for myself but for betas it's alright.
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>>29353136
Came into the thread (no pun intended) to post almost exactly this

I think we might /mommyissues/ here
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I want fem to dress up in Nazi uniforms and yell at me at im not "pure" or "aryan" and speak in German.
Then id get out of my restraints and fuck her while she yells in German that im tainting her and that the Fuhrer "would not be happy".

Ill never have this happen :/
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we're not finished yet desu
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still not finished desu
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>weirdest fantasy
I've always had this desire to be kidnapped by a beautiful witch and become her slave/apprentice. When I was 5 I had these dreams where pic related would take me to her dungeon and I'd pee on her. When I woke up, I'd actually peed.

Anyway, when did you realize you were fucked up beyond repair?
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Who's your waifu?
Patricians only.
Mine's Shiki Ryougi.
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>>29352998
let me be
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>>29356539
sakura is bae
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I want to be a full toilet for a smelly neet gamer grill. She won't want to get up to shit so she will turn her butt towards me and get me to eat it.
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>>29356946
degenerate

comment original
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>>29356871
are you trolling?

even within that entry level anime, there are infinitely better choices.

but whatever, guess i can't argue with love.
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>>29352933
I want a girl to sit on my face while she ruins my orgasm
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>>29357243
something like this, ya?
https://xhamster.com/movies/6178365/cum_jk.html
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>>29356689
the fuck hasn't this been posted yet
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CH Control Manager V4.55
Installation Notes


Welcome to the installation for the CH Control Manager V4.55. The only function it provides over the current version 4.52a is the addition of support for the updated version of the Eclipse Yoke that was released around November of 2011. If you've got an older version working and don't have an Eclipse yoke or you do have an Eclipse yoke and it's working for you, then there is no particular reason to install this. The functionality has not changed since the release of Version 4.52a, it sole function is to add support for the newer version of the Eclipse yoke.


Files Required for Control Manager Version 4.55
===============================================
This disk contains all the files necessary to install the CH Control Manager V4.55. It will work on any version of Windows supported by this release. Those include:

1. Windows 98
2. Windows 98 SE
3. Windows 98 ME
4. Windows XP 32-Bit
5. Windows Vista 32-Bit
6. Windows Vista 64-Bit
7. Windows 7 32-Bit
8. Windows 7 64-Bit

The same installation program is used for all of them.
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>>29352933
i just want a normal gf

who wants to do butt stuff to me

i dont need her to, i want her to want to.
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>>29357714
sorry just testing copyandpaste
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>giving up on femdom because it feels like my partner would rather jerk off to sluts than entertain my demands

Femdom doesn't work because men aren't obedient unless you're a 10/10 manic pixie dream girl Stacey. You should all kill yourselves.
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r8 my femdom story, /r9k/

pic related

also, how do I successfully copy paste my story without being blocked by the robot?
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>>29357771
You have poor taste in sub men. That's what happens when you accept the lowest common denominator of men in a BDSM relationship. Same thing occurs with genders reversed.

It requires a level of maturity most people don't have and the desire for a relationship outside of the fetish play.
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>>29357725
but you want her to want to need to
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I'm just into girls who I'm confident are smarter or better than me somehow.

I don't want to orbit them or willingly be subservient, I want to find myself below them or as a sidekick at best simply because that's just how our dynamic works out, because I'm just never good enough to be her equal. If anything, I'd like to be her failure of a rival. It's a fantasy because I don't think any girl that competent wants to bother having me around, but still.
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>>29357771
sheesh, you can't dom with THAT kind of attitude!
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>>29357779
Far more of a mommy fantasy and less actual domination. Sorry your mom didn't hug you enough.
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>>29357771
Post contact information so we can grovel at your feet for attention instead of him. You know how this works.
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>>29357817
Are you stupid? You just proved my point.

>it's what happens when you accept the lowest common denominator
>same thing happens when the genders reverse

Thanks for affirming what I said originally. That men are only capable of pleasing you when you're a top tier Stacey.
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>>29357858
>>29357771
Let me guess, you're 300 pounds and he wanted somebody "fit".
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>>29357858
It sounds like you chose someone who was only interested in femdom and not a relationship. That's what happens.

You don't have to be a 10/10 stacey to find someone who is interested in a relationship. Now you're just being jaded.
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>tfw taking my Domme on a date tomorrow
>attractive girl two years younger than me
>She even lets me do Her grocery shopping for Her

i couldn't be more excited, especially since we share humiliation/sissification fetishes.
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>>29357771
>bait for da b8 god
just become the manic pixie dream girl
what, are you fat or something?
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>>29357889
Did you read the original post, dimwit?

>>29357894
No. The opposite. Or maybe not the opposite.

The point is, I am rightfully jaded. They're all the same. Men just like the fantasy, when it comes to reality they are bored and fickle.
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>>29357966
ur fat
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>>29357949
No, just fucking ugly.

Fat dommes can actually have loyal subs and shit, from what I've seen.

All men are the same and submissive men are no exception.
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>>29357945
do you pay for those groceries?
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>>29357966
You got played. It's perfectly fine to vent in a situation like that, but there's no need to damn everyone because of it.

Could always just slash their tires like a normal person.
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>>29357992
Of course. It feels good to treat Her to things.
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>>29357966

I agree with this roastie. It's just a fetish like anything else when you are not horny it's over.
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>>29357845
whatever

it's gentle femdom anyways
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>>29357999
Read this: >>29358013

If you don't make their dick stand up literally all that happens is you get switched for some other slut. Men have no loyalty. What the fuck?
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>>29353136
I want this but with the girl being more sexually aggressive. Like forcing me to cum multiple times and not stopping handjob or blow jobs immediately after cumming.
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>>29358033
If they're only interested in the sex part of a femdom arrangement, of course they're not going to be loyal.

He just wanted to live out a fantasy and you didn't do the best job of seeing through that. You gotta screen people harder than that senpai.
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>>29352933
>Post your weirdest fantasies and fetishes.

Well, alright.

I want a girl to rape me. I want her to restrain me, hit me and fuck me. I want her to threaten me and say that she'll punish me if I tell anyone.

Then I want her to stop for a while and make me do some random task, only to toss me down and rape me again.

After that I want her to cuddle me and softly kiss me.

Not sure if this is femdom or I'm just fucked in the head.
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>>29358009

dang man i wish sub girls were into findom
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>>29356539
Originaru waifu postan
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>>29358076
Even in long term relationships such as mine where there is """love""" men grow bored and eventually fuck off back to ignoring you
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>>29357779
i think i rate your story 11/10
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>>29358143
>Long term relationship

That's different. Sorry for your loss.

Shouldn't take too long to get over if they're as bad as you're making them sound.
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>>29357825
>i'm just never good enough
not being a woman makes you better by default
seriously, they aren't nearly as intelligent or dominant as you think they are
just seek out what you want and go for it
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>>29358155
thanks for the feedback

screencapped and into my feedback folder
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>>29358196
They're not bad. It's just the male condition.
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>>29357990
just show us how ugly you are, sweetie
post your picture on this mongolian picture board and you'll have hundreds of subs grovelling at your lovely feet within minutes
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>>29353136
>>29353267
>>29353302
>>29353461
>>29353803
makes me feel better knowing that im not the only one with feels like this
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>>29358233
Sweeping generalizations are bad anon
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>>29358109
'course it's femdom

it's just entry level

not that there's anything wrong with that
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I pretty much just want pic related
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bucking-bronco gfd
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>>29358114
findom is wonderful
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>>29352933
Wow I want a real life Motoko to step on my balls
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>>29357771
>implying implications
but seriously you know that people have different tastes and with that comes with different mentalities. Not all subs are poly sluts and not all doms are faithful.
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Anyone else disappointed by this anime? The first half of the episode one made me think it was going to be full of femdom, but it really wasn't.
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>>29358513
But I am loyal and faithful and I have to live knowing that I will never find what I want because the sex that I am attracted to is fickle and gets bored easily. Nice.

Not all subs are poly sluts, but all men are.
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>>29358541
Maybe all the men you've interacted with are. All I'm saying is that I know I'm not poly because I've been in too many relationships where women just get up and leave with no notice and jump right back on to the cock carousal. So get your head unfucked and realize that not everyone is the same and approach them with semblance of openness.
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>>29358541
I reiterate

You'll find someone more compatible eventually
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>tfw just want a monogamous Dom GF
Too bad I'm ugly and clingy.
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>>29358571
You're not "poly" by your own standards.

By my standards you're nothing more than a third-rate slut, most likely. At this point, any man who refuses to wear a chastity cage for his Domme is a fucking worthless slut.
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>>29358599
>Chastity cage
>Implying you won't cheat first if you put that on

We know your games
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>>29358335
i think i know that feel
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>>29358599
Jokes on you I did do that. She cheated on me a month a later.
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>>29358599
>any man who refuses to wear a chastity cage for his domme is a fucking worthless slut
but that's true though
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>>29358635
I wouldn't ever cheat but it's not really in my interests to try and convince you of that. I don't watch pornography or even think of other men or even visualize them when I'm in a relationship. If I masturbate it's to my own personal fantasies. Physically cheating isn't even up for debate - it would never happen. In fact I feel guilty even calling some of the anons names in this thread, that is how loyal I am.

Asking the same of a man is "unfair" and "unrealistic" because men are porn-obsessed sluts who are fickle and constantly get bored. These threads are disgusting because they're constantly filled with pathetic virgins claiming that a Femdom gf is "all they want" when in reality they'd get bored after a week and go back to jerking it to fat whores again. Men can never be satisfied, even ones that claim to be "subservient". I firmly believe that men can't be submissive because their submissiveness comes directly from wanting to satisfy their own urges, not from respecting or loving their Dominant partner.

Of course, this is all ignoring the fact that most subs probably end up doing more than just fantasizing about women other than their Domme, they probably end up physically cheating too, like most men do, submissive or not.
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>>29358677
>probably went for the staciest slut he could

You deserved it, cuck. Cucks gonna cuck, would rather suck Chad's cum out of Stacey's asshole than even consider loving a mediocre girl. But let's not turn this into a cuck thread as much as you probably want that.
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>>29358762
Nope she was on r9k. I was devastated because she was just on break with her boyfriend and lied to me for 3 months.
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>>29358656
ho lee fuck how has this not been posted already

anyway time for a fag
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>>29358778
>Staceys don't visit on r9k
>had a boyfriend before hand

Wew lad you're not fooling me...
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>>29358735
You're generalizing again anon.

>>29358778
That's fucking rough. If it's any consolation, that relationship is probably going to fall apart catastrophically for her. All relationships with "breaks" do.
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>>29358795
Look you can take my experience however you like. I just hope you become less bitter someday and open up to people again. You shouldn't let your relationships destroy your outlook.

>>29358803
It did. I'm a bit on the yandere side so I kept tabs on her afterwards.
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>>29358735
To bridge on this again, if you're not doing this already, find someone you have something in common with before bringing the femdom part up.

If the first thing you learned about this person is that they're into femdom, it's probably not going to turn into the kind of relationship you're looking for.

Though sometimes it does. Luck of the draw and whatnot.
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>>29358803
>generalizing

I'm not even generalizing.

Modern men are a bust. "Muh urges" that compel the to be mentally unfaithful.

Keep saying I'm generalizing when in reality you mean I'm asking for too much.
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>>29358866
I don't think anyone is implying you are asking for too much. I think everyone is asking you to give people a chance.
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>>29358846
That's exactly what I did. I didn't know he was into femdom.

Mutual interests aren't enough to keep males loyal. They just aren't loyal.

Real advice would be
>don't get into a relationship expecting to be anything other than a living onahole that talks
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>>29358735
transsexuality is a mental illness and should be purged from this planet
with zyklon B

you'd be awfully surprised how loyal and violent we can be if we trust you enough.
the catch is, you've gotta earn our trust.
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>>29358901
What the fuck does any part of this conversation have to do with transsexuality?

>if we trust you enough
translation:
>if you're our Stacey dream girl
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>>29358866
>>29358896
You're definitely generalizing, but you're venting and I understand the need for it.

You'll get over it and find someone loyal sooner or later. I can't imagine it's particularly difficult to find a loyal sub. You'll get it right eventually.

I have always been more worried about the dom being unfaithful. I'd imagine most men in this thread share the same sentiment. It's generally the more common outcome but not the rule because generalizing is bad.
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>>29358896
>someone's fat
>someone's ugly
>someone's not even a woman

someone's much greater and more beautiful than she will ever know
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>>29358947
I don't think you have nearly as much experience with men as I do. Despite being a man, you have no idea what other men are like in romantic relationships.
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>>29358967
I teared up at that spoiler fuck you
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>>29358974
I'm not gay, so that is probably the correct assumption. I still stand by my opinion.
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What do you guys think a total matriarchy would be like? What would some of the laws be?
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>>29359015
like what we have now, but women are favoured instead
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>>29359015
Probably like a gender-reversed middle ages
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>>29358937
nah, stacey a shit

'course, you're probably just a guy fucking with us
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>>29359015
Non-existent because most women roll over for male attention.

>>29359051
>stacey is shit
>literally posts an alt stacey

Men are a meme
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>>29359073
You have a lot of self-esteem problems if you think that's a Stacey.

She's cute, but let's not get ahead of ourselves.
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>>29359015
there's an entire thread about this on
64/2/4 chan
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>>29359073
so post your perfect woman then

go ahead, do it
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>>29359141
>64/2/4 chan
I don't follow?
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>>29359108
Fuck off. She's an attractive girl with a decent face.

Men aren't capable of loving anything as ugly as me, as I've had proven time and time again.
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>>29359180
Then post and picture or even a look alike and prove us wrong.
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>>29359180
Stop throwing a pity party. Every time someone does this on /r9k/ they end up being at least a 6/10.

And don't be retarded and post a picture to the thread, that never ends well. I'll drop a 10 minute mail if you want an honest opinion and not a /r9k/ - /soc/ opinion.
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>>29353888
Get a sexually adventurous fuck buddy and let all your fantasies come true!

...Fuck I am never going to find another one but goddamn was it awesome while it lasted.

>>29357771
What the hell I never heard of a sub into that time of chick. Closest thing I heard about to that was a tiger mom Asian or dragon lady and fiery petite latina femdom.

>>29358109
Very rare fetish....I actually knew a chick into reverse rape. Go figure I didn't even know that was a thing until then.
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>>29359213
No. I already went on a whole tirade about loyalty. Posting a picture would be betraying the person I hold dear.

>>29359244
See above.
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>>29359263
Then stop throwing so much self pity around.
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>>29359263
I thought the guy cheated on you or something. I am assuming he just jacked off then?

If you're trying to find someone who doesn't masturbate, you're going to have a bad time. They do exist though.
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>>29359180
Your social isolation is self-imposed and self-fulfilling. Unless somebody literally burned your face away with acid, you will have no problem finding guys who are into you if your standards are realistic (are they?).

As a side note, I'm getting really sick of the attention seeking, pity party behavior girls on /r9k/ exhibit
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>>29359174
7th grade arithmetic too hard?
but really, noobs should stay the fuck out.
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>>29359302
Did you not read the first post I made in this thread and then every subsequent one after that? Have you been reading my posts backwards?

No one cheated on anyone. I just don't see the point in being in a relationship with someone who doesn't devote themselves as much as I do. Why is it unfair to expect that of my partner which I expect of myself?

It isn't about masturbation, masturbation isn't a problem I've ever had. It's men being unable to remain mentally and emotionally loyal to one woman because for them "masturbation" entails jerking off to hundreds of random sluts. Whereas women are capable of only having eyes for one man, men can't help but ogle every attractive woman they see.

They're all degenerates sluts. Pure men don't exist.
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>>29359357
Find a virgin then
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>>29359356
>7th grade arithmetic too hard?

Yes actually. I failed math all the way through school, until they pushed me through.
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>>29359357
I can not believe how delusional you are.
>Whereas women are capable of only having eyes for one man
This notion is ridiculous.
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>>29353888
Just like that, only, when you blow your nutgasm in her she hits an alarm. 2 sexy nazi girls come in the room. One begins cleaning out your inferior seed with bleach while the other takes you to the oven.
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>>29359308
I'd rather be alone than with someone who masturbates to other women in his spare time, to be honest.

I don't masturbate to images or thoughts of other men so I'm not sure why I have to settle for someone who masturbates to images of thoughts of other women.

I'm pretty sure ANY man would feel very insecure if I openly admitted to masturbating and fantasizing about other men, in a relationship. I don't for the record. I'm sure my partner has no idea what that feeling would even remotely feel like, and with that he is privileged beyond all belief.
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>>29356306
Realized it just now, when I totally got what you were saying.
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>>29359356
Don't be a dick I'm a math major and I don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
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>>29359371
>virgins don't masturbate
>virgins, who have spent 15+ years on the internet In their basements, don't masturbate

Are you fucking stupid?

And let it be known that I basically did, so fuck you
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>>29359406
see
>>29359371

You're not looking hard enough
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>>29359387
Some women are capable of that.

See: me.

>>29359434
See >>29359432

Literal idiots. Are you all trol
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>>29359357
>Whereas women are capable of only having eyes for one man, men can't help but

I'm sorry, but this just isn't true. You have some serious issues with insecurity and need therapy to sort that out. I suggest this without any malice but I used to think like you do. It's okay for your partner to look at other girls and think "wow, she's attractive", and it doesn't mean he isn't loyal. It's a normal human attraction and it's unreasonable to expect somebody to turn off and repress their sexuality because of your insecurities.
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>>29359446
Double standard much? Some men are capaple to See: me.
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>>29359357
>men being unable to remain mentally and emotionally loyal
>women are capable of only having eyes for one man
>they're all degenerates sluts. pure men don't exist.

pretending to be a woman on a board like this isn't nearly as hard as you think it is. but you've just blown your cover.
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>>29359432
Look for someone who is a virgin of their own volition and not just because of laziness or religious reasons.

They exist. Good luck with that though.
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The way I see it you can get your appetite from anywhere as long as you eat at home.
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>>29359357
Ok, better question. Why are you posting on /r9k/ instead of talking to him about it?

That seems like the better idea senpai.
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>>29359451
>it's male sexuality to want to jerk off to woman other than the gf you are monogamous with

Um, what? Why?

Why is it considered normal that I have never felt compelled to jerk off to other men while I'm in OR out of a relationship, but for a man in a relationship it is okay to neglect his sexual duties in favour of jerking off to camwhores and pornsluts?

What's with this double standard?

Fine, it can be totally like that, but I refuse to be a cuck. I'm not going to settle down with some worthless slut who can't even remain mentally faithful. There is a difference between thinking another girl is cute and hot, and pulling your dick out and stroking it to her. Fucking retard.

Are you all pretending to be retarded to rile me up so that I bully you? Is that what this is?
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>>29356539
Why post a picture of Claire then?

(Mine is C.C)
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>>29359356
even the stupidest nigger can do entry level division
i'm a stupid nigger
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>>29358735
...I was 100 percent submissive to my femdom ex and somehow that didn't blow up in my face. Only woman i ever met who managed to do that and she wasn't by any means a Stacy. Didn't have the mannerisms or the body type. Arguably she was amazon body type with feminine business woman personality.

Too bad it didn't end up working out.

A very common mistake that is made is believing that someone who is sub in bed is also sub in life and the like. This was a problem we ran into but ended up resolving so it wasn't why we broke up. Some people prefer dom in relationships but are opposite in the bedroom and vice versa while others are both sub in bed and sub in relationships. Thinking masculine is strictly dominate and feminine is strictly submissive. For some reason this is a very common mistake and tends to screw people up. It gets even more confusing when someone will force themselves to be one and fool themselves into thinking that is what they were really like despite how unhappy it makes them.

Me and my ex made some of these mistakes but we managed to talk things out and resolve them so they weren't why we broke up. Such communication is even more important in those non traditional kind of relationships because how common misinformation is.

I will give an example with my former relationship. My ex was a ultra feminine type but who was ultra dominant personality and fetish. You would never find that woman in public without at least wearing a skirt or in a dress. She preferred being dominant in the bedroom and unlike many 'dominant' relationship type women wasn't lying to herself about it. In fact she would pretend to be submissive in public lying to herself and only let her dominant streak run wild in the bedroom. It took some serious coaxing and adjustment to get her to be comfortable with being dominant outside the bedroom which was something she admitted to liked but due to stereotypes and fakers ruining it did otherwise.
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>>29359516
First of all you're pulling a strawman by misrepresenting everything I said. Also, at this point I seriously doubt you're sincere. This seems like an attempt to turn around / reverse the genders on red pill arguments, to see how people would react to them.
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>>29359494
Because why bother, I have before. I just feel guilty because he has the whole world on his side telling him that it's normal to be like that. He can't help it and I end up pitying him.

I'm going to cry but I remember my first introduction to Femdom was on this board probably as early as 2009. There was an anon talking about how his HS gf became his dom and he just sounded so... enamoured with her. He kept himself in a cage because he loved her and let her do anything to him. And I thought men like that were real but it retrospect it was probably just someone lying and writing jerk off fodder. I want to fucking die.
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We tumblr now for real
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>>29352933
I'd like to experience some mild domination by an asian in pigtails wearing leather and/or spandex. By mild domination I mostly mean typical sexual interaction but with the girl taking a more dominant role.

I don't think that's all that weird though, is it?
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>femdom thread derailed by some guy pretending to be a girl

Can we just get back to sharing porn and stories?
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>>29359451
>it's okay for your partner to look at other girls and think "wow, she's attractive", and it doesn't mean he isn't loyal
no retard, a good domme will beat you for even thinking of another woman
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>>29359565
Just because he can't help it due to outside pressure doesn't mean you have to resign yourself to being okay with it.

Just talk with the dude and tell him it's important to you. If he doesn't respond to the conversation at all, you should ask each other if you really belong together at this point.

Don't be dumb and break it off without trying the conversation again though. That would be petty.
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>>29359586
>>29359586

Hi. I'm the girl you're talking about and you're kind of proving my point. Submissive men don't exist, you all only want jerk off fodder and porn. That's literally all men care about.

Why not just call these threads /porn actresses half-nude in leather acting mean/ because that's really all they are. At the end of the day """""""male subs"""""" are just using women to further their own orgasms and then tossing them aside like cumrags.
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>>29359586
I would be cool with that
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>>29359617
>Submissive men don't exist

Yeah, and neither do dominant women. Welcome to the real world. Femdom is, and has always been, a niche fantasy that doesn't exist outside of internet boards and porn studios. Why are you acting surprised by this? And more concerningly why are you so upset by it?
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>>29359534
So a mixture of moronic women faking dominance, stereotyping, and cultural tradition caused her to suppress her dominant relationship type personality. She eventually got over it during the course of our relationship and went 100% dominant inside and outside the bedroom. It took her awhile to adjust to it properly and finally get comfortable with it.

I meanwhile was started typical dominant personality and was secretly a switch in the bedroom. During the course of our relationship I gradually shifted towards submission to her both relationship and bedroom. While displaying dominance to others which apparently she greatly preferred as she considered the 'submissive' to be personal thing to her alone and got massively butthurt/pissed off when it wasn't her. Honestly didn't really bother me and actually did me a lot of good. It was still rather confusing at first and was tricky to pull of until I got used to it.

Very weird and messed up relationship but it worked.

However it worked because we were willing to talk it through, figure things out, and more importantly were honest about lying to ourselves but goddamn did the current mess of common belief and relationship dynamics really mess us up.
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>>29359615
There's no point. I don't see the point in playing pretend and emotionally abusing someone by """"repressing their sexuality"""" or whatever the fuck. He has already outright rejected chastity and I really doubt I can stop him from doing something that he considers second nature when he's not in my care.

I've resigned myself to thinking this is "le healthy male sexuality" so whatever. My only options are to ignore it and pretend everything is fine or ghost.
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>>29359529
>can't spell clare's name right
>chooses the most pleb tier waifu from one of the most pleb tier animus
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what are some good gentle femdom /mu/sic?
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>>29359577
I'm not really into the whole Dom/sub idea, but it's kinda of hard to find a girl who will understand you wanting to stick your face in her cunt under other conditions so I'll roll with it.
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>>29358901
Oh dear... Anon fell off the wagon again
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>>29359643
How do you expect dominant women to exist when all men do is make women feel like shit, and not enough?

How is anyone supposed to want to Dom your degenerate worthless ass when you've spent most of your time making them feel like they aren't good enough compared to all the Staceys you admire?

I certainly don't feel like doing anything but fucking hanging myself when I think about the person I love jerking it to some slut who is just getting paid to fake another orgasm. Not like malebots will understand that feeling.
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even before i was sexual active i was aware of my subservient nature towards women.

i always imagined being forced to play games like truth or dare with my friends girls and being dared to kiss their butt or being asked truths that are humiliating.

These days my fetishes get more extravagant and crazy, i'm into loads of things like face sitting, humiliation, pegging. and when i'm really turned on things get crazy i'm open to forced-bi.
don't even find men attractive nor do i have any desire to blow guys but being forced to by my beloved mistress... i'd happily lick my own or someone else cum of her pretty feet if she so desired.
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>>29359657
>He has already outright rejected chastity and I really doubt

If he's not comfortable doing something it's really not your place to force him into it. If you are sexually incompatible then you need to find someone new. This problems seems to be between you and your boyfriend, why are you externalizing it to men in general? Plenty of men like chastity, even more don't, neither preference is wrong.
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>>29359675
most girls don't like being rimmed
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>>29359657
Then ghost him and stop whining.

Someone post femdom.
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>>29359565
>men like that were real
they are
>i want to fucking die
then die already
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>>29359724
The men into chastity are only ever into it for the fantasy aspect. Literally no man in 2016 would be okay with full time chastity.
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>>29359740
That's because it's a fantasy. Do girls who have rape fantasies actually want to be raped for real? No.
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>>29359730
They aren't. It was literally probably someone's fanfic. Loyal subservient men don't exist.

Just dimwits who sit around jerking themselves to any woman that makes their cock twitch while writing pathetic fanfic to bait young retards like me into believing that ~*~TWRU LUVB~*~ exists.
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>>29359758
they


......yes?
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>>29359740
I would be fine with it, but if she cucked me during it I'd probably have to try and ruin her life.

The trust there is huge.
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>>29359670
cocktoe twins
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>>29359758
The fact that I have to put a man in chastity full time to make sure he doesn't masturbate to another woman is literally fucking hilarious. I feel like I'm on the Truman show

No one has to put me in chastity to make sure I don't masturbate to other men, and there are so many women like me. It's not even something men worry about on a normal basis.
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>>29359724
You have insecurity issues to the point where you're expecting unreasonable demands from your partners, and then demonizing them when they don't follow through. It's unhealthy and you need therapy.
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>>29359691
where's this fucking wagon?

all i see are different shades of the truth.
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Am I the only one seriously impressed by this thread?

True to the nature of role reversal, we have a dominant woman complaining about how submissive men aren't real. On /r9k/.
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>>29359804
>No one has to put me in chastity to make sure I don't masturbate to other men

Let me ask you a question, WHY does your partner looking at porn of other girls upset you so much? Does it make you feel ugly and unwanted, because he prefers them over you? You're making this problem out like it's his, but it's really about you.
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>>29359804
You're repeating yourself at this point. Dump the guy and stop shitposting.

>>29359815
I would be impressed if I didn't think it was a man.
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>>29359810
Why is it SO unreasonable to expect a partner with values similar to me?

Why is it okay for Virgins to ask for Virgins, but what I am asking for is unfair?
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Sounds like this girl can't satisfy her boyfriend and is a failure as a dom. She should quit or get working to gain more control.
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>>29359699
>all men do is make women feel like shit, and not enough?
clearly haven't spent enough time here

>you've spent most of your time making them feel like they aren't good enough compared to all the staceys you admire?
CLEARLY haven't spent enough time here

>i certainly don't feel like doing anything but fucking hanging myself when i think about the person i love

>implying women can love
>implying women can hang themselves
your cover's been blown, honey
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>>29359848
>Why is it SO unreasonable to expect a partner with values similar to me?

It's not, but if your current partner doesn't have those values, it's unreasonable to expect him to change him, the proper course of action is to FIND ANOTHER PARTNER.
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>>29359357
>>29359406
>>29359565
Fuck him more and harder if your worried about masturbation or provide him with porn of yourself goddamn. Never even masturbated when I was with my ex. Didn't even felt the desire.

>>29359612
No anon, a good domme would fuck him so hard his dick wouldn't even so much as twitch in the presence of another woman.

That is just an average abusive domme.
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I like women wearing fur coats and talking about how women are superior to men, and she would never let me touch her fur coats or the furry part of her uggs and I would massage her smelly feet.
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>kind of want to submit to the girl complaining about her boyfriend and tell her how right she is and unconditionally accept her every word as an absolute truth because she's a divine goddess

This happens every time I argue with girls
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>>29359804
>no one has to put me in chastity to make sure I don't masturbate to other men, and there are so many women like me. it's not even something men worry about on a normal basis.

alright, i'm done here.
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>>29359815
I'm impressed everyone is so nice to me here. Whenever I talk about this on normal /r9k/ I get told that I should shut up and sit down.

>>29359831
Yes it is my problem. I already admitted that in my previous posts. It's why I'm not forcing anything on him. Another anon suggested that a "real domme would beat a sub for even thinking about other women" but I'm not sadistic enough to do that, I know he can't help it.

I just want to feel like the only one, the only object of his affection. I want someone to love me similar to the way that I love them. I don't see the point in expending energy loving someone who can't give me back what I have to offer. I feel like I'm "pure" when it comes to loving someone, and I want my partner to be too.

And yes a small part of it is that it makes me feel repulsive. If I make myself sexually available I take it as an insult that someone would reject that availability in favour of images/videos/etc of someone else. It's an insult towards me.

How would you feel if every time you were available to have sex, your gf decided to just dildo herself to pictures of hot Chads instead? It makes me feel like a fucking cuck.
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Jesus Christ, I just read this thread.

There is fucking NOTHING wrong with fantasizing about and/or masturbating to other people if you're in a committed relationship. Yeah, it's a little shitty to describe it in any sort of detail to your partner, but it's sort of an unspoken agreement that both of you are going to be masturbating on occasion, if only because there will be times when the other person doesn't feel like having sex but you're horny anyway.
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>>29359815
Reminds me of my ex but even more unreasonable and less willing to deal with problems.
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>>29359855
Wow, we got fucking Sherlock over here!

Yes, I can't satisfy my boyfriend or any fucking male sub, because males are never satisfied by average women. They need a revolving door of novel 10/10 Stacey sluts to "satisfy" them. Welcome to the thread
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>>29359935
I would feel like shit and probably leave them if it bothered me that much and they didn't seem to care. Which is what you should have done hours ago.

Can we go back to femdom now?
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>>29359976
Sounds like you don't even want to try. Just leave him and save yourself the trouble roastie. WAAAH WAAAH I have a boyfriend who WAAH WAAH it's not enough tho!!!
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>>29359935
post your face, sweetie

i'm sure it's pretty
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I want a girl to bully me who knows that she's stronger than me psychologically and psychologically and uses it to mock me ;------;
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>>29359949
shutup cunt
>submissive male
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>>29359882
I usually fuck him like 5-7 times when I see him. And I see him every single free moment I have. So when I'm not working, I waste nearly $20 in gas to drive to him to basically fuck.

I mean by the seventh time he doesn't even cum anything visible, just a little clear droplet that dries up fairly quick.

Thanks for implying I'm not good enough. Like I said, how is any woman supposed to domme you guys when you just make us feel like we're never enough?
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>>29359935
So...he doesn't want to fuck you while your available/horny and masturbate instead? Why are you still with him again?

Lot of subby guys out there granted many of hem prefer it strictly to the bedroom but numbers wise femdoms have the advantage.
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argument's over post some hot shit
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I want a bully girl to beat the shit out of me, force me into a cute dress with matching panties and make me march (or dance) in public.
Then she'll get everyone to laugh at me as they take pictures/record videos and upload them to Youtube.
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>>29359949
Literally no one cares about your opinion normie, get fucked. Or should I say cucked?
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>>29359935

If you genuinely get the sense that he doesn't respect or value your feelings, then either confront him or leave. That's your right as a human being, and it's your OBLIGATION as a self-respecting human being.
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>>29360019
i popped

post more
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>>29360052
how's this?

i have more
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>>29360019
>literally posts cuck shit

ARE YOU TRYING TO TRIGGER ME
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>>29360070
if you're the girl with boyfriend problems, then yes i posted that one intentionally just to suit the context of the thread. not necessarily to trigger you though your lady highness
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Here's one for you friendly dommom people
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is this thread seriously going to die out now?
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>sitting down with a few of my friends shooting the shit
>one of the female friends is being a lazy bitch and tells me to get her a drink
>i do
>when i hand it to her she pats my head and says "good boy" in the most condescending tone possible

i swear to god, i was hard for days
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>>29360139
sounds hot anon, do you think she noticed you enjoyed it?
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I posted this earlier but I'll post it again: I'd have a very sweet, respectful, beta boyfriend who was super dominant during sex. He'd make me get on all fours and let his dog fuck me first. The whole time he'd talk to me saying "look at you, you're such a slut you'll even cum for a dog" and encouraging his pet to fuck me harder. Sometimes I'd cry and I'd hate myself for liking it so much. Sometimes he'd let me give him a handjob or blowjob while it's happening. Once his dog was finished, my boyfriend would either fuck me hard and call me a slut while I called him daddy and begged him to cum inside my cunt, or he'd make sweet gentle love to me telling me how much he cares about me and how sorry he is.
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>>29360015
Well I must applaud your attempts at fucking but your clearly not fucking hard enough. If your that worried the point is to fuck him hard enough to the point where is balls are nothing but a sad sack of raisins and where he is incapable of even dick twitching to another woman.

It can actually work. As my paranoid femdom ex proved when she wasn't willing to offer nudes. She settled for ball draining to raisins instead...my poor pelvis and balls took over a year for the poor bastards to recover.

If not that then offer pornographic materials of yours or homemade porn to masturbate to.
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>>29360153

sweet jesus, i hope not

i think she'd be repulsed, or, at BEST, mildly amused

i'm not exactly a Casanova over here
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Still hoping this series gets continued
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/r9k/ sucks for dumping porn because each and every post requires an original comment, such as this one
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I have two fantasies.

In the "normal" one I just want to be a pretty girl's house slave. I'd have a cage to sleep in, probably in her closet and it would be built into a shoe rack, to reinforce my position as just a thing that she owns. As an object.

I'd wear a chastity cage at all times and pamper her in any way that she wants.

In the other scenario, it's something like that, but I'd be shrunk down to a few inches tall. I'd just pamper her as best I could and live or die at her whim.
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>>29358336
This is fantastic
Source?
More?
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im getting these off reddit by the way

reddit owns you now and you like it
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blah

threads dead

goodnight
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>>29360226
Oh the memories...
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a girl petted my head for like 30 seconds once

it was out of the blue, i just had my head down and she started doing it

at first it thought to protest, but it was the first time i'd been petted and I realized that it would probably be a long time before it ever happened again, if ever, so I just let her do it

i cherish that memory
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>>29360069
asuka a shit
rei masterrace
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>>29360139
>friends
>female friend(s)
i swear to fucking god anon i'd kill to be you
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This thread made me realize that I'm not willing to give up my porn and thus am doomed to being unloved.

>>29359385
>>29359425
>>29359533
Two cubed.
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>co-worker wanted to Dom me, but I was too worried about if she'd stay interested
>didn't want to seem weak in front of others so I told her I wasn't into it thinking I was being safe
I failed you all
>mfw
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>>29361622
>in front of others
good dommes approach you alone
>i was too worried about if she'd stay interested
guess what? we all are. hell, it's not even limited to femdom or whatever.
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>>29359775
They do, but I'll grant they're rare.

>>29359804
You have to realize that quite often, people who long for someone to control them do so because they have no self-control.
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>>29359921
>This happens every time I argue with girls
I always end up running my mouth and BTFOing them somehow.
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>>29360198
Same. I love the cfnm and how much screen time he gets.
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Is the dom girl still itt ?
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>somehow miraculously get a date with a girl
>all goes well, she invites me back to her place
>she pours us a drink and turns some music on
>as things start getting heavy I black out
>wake up in a dark room, dazed and confused, can't remember anything
>realize I can't move my arms
>they're shackled to the wall above and behind me
>after fighting with it and trying to escape for what feels like forever, I hear a heavy sounding door open and see a slender shadow walking through
>hear her feet gently pattering against the ground as she approaches me
>she kneels next to me, places something on the ground, and tells me to open my mouth
>pours a sweet, yet somehow bitter, almost chemical tasting liquid into my mouth and tells me to drink up
>hear something click before something cool touches and rubs my arm
>feel a shard stabbing feeling before almost immediately feeling like I'm about to pass out
>puts something in my mouth, it's tasteless and feels like paper, tells me to swallow it
>she leaves again

I can't be bothered typing this austistic shit up, but I want to be drugged, raped, beaten, and locked in a basement of a female captives house until she breaks my mind and makes me completely dependent on her.
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>>>/d/ general
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