How do you deal with the soulcrushing fact that you missed out on teenage love and are now so far behind everyone else that catching up is almost impossible?
>>29330174
I try not to think about it until I see threads like this.
Then I get sad
I spend my free time focusing on my hobbies or hanging out with my friends.
It's honestly not that bad. I was real anxious up through about 20 and then I just said "fuck it" and moved on.
>>29330174
I know that girl. She held my hands once.
teenage love sucks, its just a huge drama from the beginning to the end, of course fucking 18 year old pussy is nice but thats what hookers are for
I had teenage love and lost my virginity at 14. Can't say I share this feeling lol. I had girls since I was like 9.
>>29330240
being molested by your mom and teacher doesnt count as having girls
>>29330253
lol it was my girlfriend that I had since 7th grade. Don't be jealous, it's an undesirable trait.
>>29330174
I just deal with it, try to focus on hobbies and life in general
It does make me feel like it's too late to even try
Fuck that shit. I honestly couldn't give a rat's ass about all this touchy-feely "teen love" bs. Love is itself extended narcissism - a pointless quest to find yourself in another entirely different person. People don't "love" anyone but themselves. Love is built with dedication, compromise, faith, and patience. In today's world, if the other person doesn't live up to your irrational "soulmate" standards, then they weren't "the one", as if perfection should be something attainable or that you should even deserve. Fuck.That.Shit. It's difficult enough to deal with my own sickening self-aggrandizement. I refuse to deal with another person's too.
>>29330240
Ok yea, sure bud
By reading fanfiction about teenage love via shipping characters in my favourite media and going "Awwwww, that's sweet"
Also fapping vigorously.
>>29330174
All you missed out on is one or maybe two years of drama, day in day out. I've made the mistake to take the chances I had and ended up in several relationships in my teens
>inb4 normie reeeee get out
>inb4 you just had shitty relationships
Honestly you didn't miss out on anything objectively good. You only missed a hell fucking load of stupid drama 24/7 until the relationship ends. "Teenage love" is overhyped shit and people have completely unhealthy and unrealistic ideas about it because of anime, tv and movies. It isn't nearly as good as it is made out to be so be happy that you weren't stupid enough to put up with the bullshit of teenage girls.
>>29330174
>"catching up"
what does that entail?
>>29330174
Unperturbed.
>>29330174
by jerking it to teen amateur porn18+ pls no FBI
kek what happened to the "missed out on teenage sex" part op?
>>29330240
Rapist cunt, hope you die early.
>>29330517
this desu senpai familia.
op utterly btfo
>you were never her highschool sweetheart
>>29330276
Don't be boastful, its an undesirable trait.
Lol.
>>29330565
I'm glad that I wasn't
>>29330566
nah just telling the truth
>>29330174
Eh, all I really wanted was one of those summer camp loves where a girl you fight with ends up becoming your temporary teenage lover. Then you have a teary goodbye at the end of summer as you realize you two have to breakup and go back to your hometowns which are hours apart. You promise to meet up again next summer, but you never see her again.
That wouldve been nice and bittersweet, but family was to poor to send me to camp.
It's not too late, just get a good job and marry a 17 year old eastern european girl desperate to leave her shit country.
>>29330947
Even if your family could afford sending you to camp you still would've been alone and sad
It's nice to have fantasies though
>>29330195
This.
I mean I'm already lonely, then OP has to remind me how alone I really am.
It's weird being in your mid 20s and a virgin or someone whose never been in a relationship.
You look at woman in your age range and feel so self conscious because you know they've already had plenty of experience and wouldn't want anything to do with someone like you.
>>29330174
At leats I won't get cucked. Also, in the end it doesn't matter much.
I try not to think about it. Each time I do its just another emotion I have to bottle up and only let it out until I cant control it. Maybe in 20 years... quietly victim by victim.
https://youtu.be/be-LbSaEzZQ
They look similar to these
>>29330174
>How do you deal with the soulcrushing fact that you missed out on teenage love and are now so far behind everyone else that catching up is almost impossible?
By dating 3 different women all in the same situation as I was and taking their virginities.
I feel a lot more liberated. Already on to 2 years with my current gf and she was a kissless, virgin who never dated anyone before me.
![tumblr_nqa7zykJq01qk16fko1_500[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/UMtvxxO.jpg "tumblr_nqa7zykJq01qk16fko1_500[1].jpg")
>>29331357
28 here.
I am a member of SADBOYS CLUB
>>29330174
Don't care too much. I'm definitely disappointed, but those were the cards I was dealt. Lamenting would be a waste of energy.
>>29330174
Don't care since I've never had a desire to be in a relationshit. I feel bad for people that do.
>>29332727
Why are you here anyway? Want to brag about it?
Don't look back. Keep moving forward
>>29330174
Probably around 10-20% of men miss out on teen "love" so there are millions upon millions of them, not very lonely. On the other hand, most of these guys get these experiences in their early twenties instead, and this is where the real pain is - the fact that even the unattractive and/or spergy mostly get to experience intimacy eventually while you are left alone at the bottom with a small minority of other failures on their way to wizardhood. Not that there is much good to say about normalfags, but going full wizard is not a great thing either. There is not much room for discussion here, if you're a virgin at 30 there is either something inherently wrong with you (very unattractive, mental illness etc) or you have ended up in a really bad place due to some unfortunate events or a desteructive environment that lead to chronic major depression and so on. Sure there are exceptions like a couple of excentric geniuses that ended up dying as virgins but those are literally one in a billion so not much relevance there.
tl;dr: Missing out on the "last chance" that is your early twenties hurts way more.
>>29330447
Christ you sound like any anime villian.
>New copypasta to abuse
>>29330447
Into the past folder it goes
Why does OP always make these threads?
Psi-Op revenge by dedicated social justice warriors still angry over Gamergate?
>>29333226
This. Feels pretty bad.
By you gotta keep moving forward.
>>29330174
being a "teenager" was made up by the media a couple decades ago and a majority of high schoolers don't have sex until after graduation
this romatization of high school is dumb
>>29332754
You're almost there, anon. Don't forget about us when you master the higher mysteries.
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