>he thinks getting new clothes and a haircut will get him a gf
Sometimes when I get a haircut I feel fresh as fuck, but I dont blindly believe a girlfriend will magically appear in my arms...
>he thinks lifting and having abs and a 4 plate deadlift will get him a gf
I'm projecting,
Been lifting for 5 years now and hit a 4 plate deadlift years ago and I stay lean year round.
Still zero improvements in gf department....and I'm only getting older.
>decide to turn my life around
>get haircut
>spend all my money on brand clothes and shoes
>work out
>finally feel confident enough to ask girls out
>every girl I meet at the mall rejects me
>go home
>never leave house
>gain weight, grow out hair, never wear new clothes for four years after that
>>29315748
It can't hurt
>>29316030
>at the mall
There's your problem. People go there to shop, not be picked up.
>>29315748
Well it's all based on attraction at first so unless you know the girl beforehand making yourself more attractive is the best thing to do.