how does one tell how attractive they are?
The easiest way to tell how attractive you are is observing how people people you attract.
Lonely?
Do people occasionally mire you or tell you you are attractive? Do women rarely flirt with you until they uncover your sperglord personality? Then you are attractive.
If none of these things happen, you are unattractive. Which is okay. Women find relatively few men truly attractive anyway, but will fuck you anyway for money/security/status.
>>29297422
>>29297405
this. i have good looking friend and girls (especially teenage ones) just casually come up to him and flirt with him. he was just annoyed by them since female attention is mundane to him.
>>29297368
If you were, you'd know.
>>29297422
>occasionally
>rarely
>then you are attractive
do you mean commonly?
>>29297447
I meant on a relative scale, like how attractive you are on a 1-10/scale
if i don't know, I still have to be something.
>>29297463
No anon even attractive men rarely get hit on or complimented because most women feel insecure about being the initiator.
It's much different for women. Even my pregnant sister had Mexican yardslaves whistling at her.
>>29297535
how does one tell if they are being hit on?
what if the females are uggo?
>>29297405
>observing how people people you attract.
what did he mean by this?
>>29297697
If you can't tell if people are attracted to you, then you aren't attractive.
I'm sorry to tell you this.
would you guys say im attractive?
:/
>>29297440
>just casually come up to him and flirt with him
what does this entail exactly?
>>29297731
no, I literally have no idea what your phrase is supposed to mean. "how people people you attract" does not mean anything. are you a non-native speaker?
>>29297965
How many people you attract.
A context clue here or there will save you.
>>29297731
yeah but there's like a huge grey area
there are obvious people like "you should become a stripper"
and then there's a person telling you she likes your belt and your friend telling you afterwards that that's code for wanting the D
and then there are people just just sorta get a vibe off of that you cant justify
>>29297368
You would know if you were attractive, it would be obvious by the way people treat you. Otherwise, you're either average or ugly, which, as a straight male is basically the same thing because if you're not Chad you're not even human to women
>>29298181
yeah but how do you tell if you are average or ug-
>same thing because if you're not Chad
dropped
>>29297752
eh you're okay. solid 6
grow a beard
>>29298204
it's true though. Anything less than supreme Chad women do not find attractive... they can settle and pretend for betabux but they will never really be attracted
>>29297752
This faggot again. FUCK OFF.
>>29297368
It's really easy, women literally tell you
If they don't, well bad news my friend
>>29297752
Everybody Loves Raymond
easiest way to tell is how people act when they first meet you. are they assholes to you? are they mean? are they dismissive?
if yes, then you are probably ugly.
>>29298276
what if I avoid women constantly
>>29298333
then why do you care about attractiveness?
>>29297422
>>29297731
>>29298181
>>29298276
>reading comprehension
note how the post doesn't say "if you are attractive" but "how attractive you are"
>>29298181
>>29298240
I know from personal experience that /r9k/ memes are wrong.
>>29298220
>he is 6
Then I must be a fucking 100.
Damn.
>>29298240
These charts show that men only message attractive women, while women message men they find "below average" far more than they message "Chad". what's your excuse?
also take into consideration what kind of people use dating sites. they're generally undesirables that lack the looks or social skills to find partners in real life, so it's no surprise that this is reflected in most people being rated below average in dating site surveys.
>>29298345
to see if its worth a try
>>29297752
You look like short guy.
And a faggot.
>>29298356
>I know from personal experience that /r9k/ memes are wrong.
>my anecdotal experience disproves statistical analysis of millions of women
okej budde.
>>29297752
weak chin, fem lips, but pretty average looking all in all. you shouldn't have trouble finding girlfriends or wives unless your confidence and personality are shit.
>>29298424
>statistical analysis of millions of women
>on ok cupid
>scientific
>generalizable to the population at large
nice meme
I know this free dating site that lets you get rated among other pictures. I think that makes for
a fair rate.
It is in German though.
>>29298408
>to see if its worth a try
It never is.
>>29298457
>the best approximation we can find is imperfect so we can't draw on any empirical knowledge and should just assume whatever would be the most pleasant
you don't understand science very well
>>29298457
>discounting objective statistical analysis of the preferences and messaging behaviors of millions of single women on one of the most popular dating sites to have ever existed because they don't fit your personal fantasy narrative.
I don't know what to tell you, other than you're fucking retarded. sorry.
>>29298397
No dummy, the blue line looks like that only because there literally aren't enough chads for women to message, in order to move the curve to the right.
You are absolutely correct about everything else in your post though.
Have you heard about this thing called "mirror"? Legends speak of how looking at one will return the reflection of yourself.
>>29298629
personal bias
my like my guess from the mirror would be a 6-7/10 but how would I know if this were true when people tend to overrate themselves in everything?
