>too scared to talk to people online
>>29269983
>people
You're not at the right place.
>>29269983
Iktf Op. I'm really shy and when I push myself to talk to people they almost always end up being normalfags so I quit.
come cuddle with me inreallife then
>>29269983
i love you OP
just remember
anon will always love you, even if i seem mean at times
dont worry deep down i still love you
>>29269983
Well, in a way, you're doing it now. But this is pretty relateable and it's a situation that's easy to empathize with, so don't beat yourself up over it, man.
>>29270920
>>29270903
>>29270809
>>29270124
>op hasn't responded
poor soul.
>>29269983
:( Nothing worth saying. They'd just know I was trash anyways.
Kik: general_lee69
If you want some human interaction
>>29269983
I've lost all interest in that. I don't add anybody on the Internet anymore. I just talk to people on a few anonymous sites, and that's it. I do that sporadically. I'm losing interest.
what's up op, how was your monday?
Same here. Whenever I make genuine posts I get extremely anxious about how you anons will respond. Sometimes If I get a particularly harsh response I feel depressed for hours afterwards. This leads me into trying to convince myself that I'm just shitposting but it hardly ever works since mean responses upset me.
>think about adding someone and talking to them
>paranoid they'll try to use information about me to hurt me and publicize it online
>remain alone
Thanks
>>29271262
I got ~50 negative replies once with tons of "kys" and I still giggle thinking about it.
I do shitpost, but yeah, I when I do post seriously I can get somewhat self-conscious. But the thing is 4chan is a crazy place, and can be extremely harsh. You gotta always be ready for the whole board to join in on making fun of you.
Worst thing is when posting seriously and making a real mistake. Smart people will point it out and everybody will join in and tell you to kill yourself. But that's the charm of this place.
I'm also scared.
I once tried to use omegle but i closed it as soon as i connected to someone ;_;
talking to ppl is kowai desuyo
>>29269983
>why aren't you saying anything?
;_;
it feels so good when anons are nice to me
but it hurts when they are mean
like what >>29271262 said
I have probably made less than 5 online friends in the last 10 years. It's impossible.
>>29269983
Been lurking for eight years.
IKTFB.
>Can't even talk to robots
We're all robots here, don't be shy. We won't make fun of eachother ;)r-right?
whats ur favorite animal?
>>29269983
Iktf. Even robots seem to hate me because I can't even type without sounding autistic
>can't even say hi on multi-player chat
Just end me now
>>29273278
I-I don't hate you anon.
>tfw so fucking invisible I can't even get a reply on this site most of the time
I feel like the next step in robothood.
Robotus Novus
>Bought a microphone
>Haven't been able to say a single word
>>29273296
I notice you, anon.
>>29273296
have a (you) :3
i know it feels pretty good
>>29273296
I can see you
Origeinal don mutei me pls
i joined a discord channel full of anons from /vg/ and played some games with them. I was real nervous at first but when i got to know them all its much easier. This was actually the first time I've talked using my mouth to others on 4chan, and it was pretty awesome. i felt like i had friends.
>tfw experiences with people you considered 'friends' poisoned the well
>mfw the thought of having friends and how I'd act pops up
>>29271790
>tfw same here
>>29271790
>>29273518
what information could they use?
you don't want to add them on facebook, do you?
>>29273536
I don't have facebook. I know this fear is irrational as fuck, but I can't help it.
>>29273289
Will you ever post a reaction image other then that?? wan wan
>>29269983
post your steam id retard boy
>>29273546
if you won't send them pics or anything they can't do anything badi think
i never add anyone online, because i can't hold a conversation ;_;
>talk to people in-games just fine
>they add me
>never speak with them ever
I don't know, I don't want to come off as overbearing or clingy.
>>29273281
>see someone in an online game your really want to talk to
>can't even say hi
>>29270903
>i love you OP
Thanks
>>29270920
It is not so bad posting on image boards. I have time to think about my posts and I can leave a thread any time I want. And of course, I can hide behind my anonymity. The expectations in chat or IRC is what really terrifies me.
Don't even get me started on voice chat.
>>29271201
My monday was terrible.
>>29273257
Penguins.
>lost all my online friends because I can't initiate conversation
>can't make friends in an mmo
How the fuck do people do it? I am sick of playing Black Desert alone. Lev 30 something by myself before I realized how lonely I was
>>29275792
I know its just you that said this but I see it said a million times.
90% of people I meet are like this, they wait to be talked to. Doesn't matter if they're girls, guys, old, young, fags, whatever. People are followers, and they want to believe someone else will come to them.
Thats why you see friends threads on this board devolve into complete fucking shit. The ones who actually go around and TALK are the shitty attention whores. Want to get friends who aren't steam avatar trapboi faggots?! SEND SOMEONE A MESSAGE.
No one is coming to rescue you guys. No one cares about you. No one wants to find you and fix you (if you even care for it to begin with).
I say that in the nicest way possible. If you're tired of not being talked to then swallow your own ego and talk to everyone else instead even if its terrifying. Maybe you'll find someone else who's like you and not a complete piece of subhuman trash/chad/stacey.
>>29275851
I don't think it's possible. Everyone already has their friend group, and they just want to get their quests done and over with.
>>29274254
Wat
Uh
You get nervous over a username and an avatar?
Do what everybody else does: assume everybody on the internet is a 50 year old basement dweller until proven otherwise.
>want to talk to online friend
>I started the conversation the last few times, don't want to annoy them, tell self I should wait until they message me
>they don't message me
>well maybe they want to talk but just don't want to start the conversation
>but I don't want to be the clingy one who always tries to talk to them
>if I talk to them, I'm going to them, they're winning and I'm losing
>why won't anyone talk to me
>just talk to them, it doesn't matter, if you want to talk you should talk
>no
>no
>alsidkahskjhd
>>29269983
>>29271064
>>29271983
>>29272373
>>29273613
>>29275637
anons, in you want to talk, let me know. I'm always around. The on;y thing I must say upfront, is that I am a little insane, I have broken my morality wall and have a very lose sense of ethics. I'm usually up when the sun is down, and when I don't have anything going on in irl I don't sleep for days. And not for any reason that would merit me to be up, but because I think sleep is a waste of time. If you agree to these terms and conditions, let me know and we'll talk whenever you want.
TFW I am 28 have a job and look handsome
How do you guys feel when I tell you "I just be yourself"
I usually say this to some small guy in our office and I think he hates me for it but he is usually always polite to me.
>>29275923
Call me Gonzo
>>29269983
>too scared to talk to people online because not native english speaker and high chances that i wont find proper words to speak
>guy that deleted me two years ago leaves a message on my steam profile insulting me
what in the fuck he must have some serious mental illness
if you want, you can join a discord server. Its not very intimidating and you can always jump in and say something whenever you want or comfortable.
I have a discord server for lonely virgin robots and hikkis/shut-ins. we don't usually allow normies or roasts, but if you're not unpleasant to others then you can stay
here's a link if interested !
https://discord.gg/0mq1PnFKQN3A83dk
>>29276683
did you even read the thread?
original
>>29276952
of course, i tried to help with the problem
>>29269983
You're anonymous here. It's daijoubu.
Same here, OP.
Earlier this year I got into an /int/ group chat. Didn't say anything upon entering the group chat and they all asked why do people do this (entering a group chat but not saying hello)? I was called edgy, I was just really scared. But they turn out to be bros but this one guy removed me from the group chat for no reason, so I'm back to being a friendless loser.
>>29269983
>leave informative posts on /ck/ because i spent 10 years basically being a shut-in, watching food network, researching nutritional information and learning how to cook
>any time someone shows friendliness or tries to talk in a way that i can't just respond with a simple informational answer makes me get anxious and twitchy
>content just knowing i've helped people get healthier and learn more about food
Robots with the skills to at least talk online, how do you do it?
I've been investing myself in a certain game and I've reached a point where other people are required to make progress.
I'm too nervous to invite anyone.
>>29276683
i can't even think of a username
>>29277379
It's easy if you're not face to face. People wont notice how nervous you are. Just start with the most basic stuff like: >Hi, how are you?
>Let's do (insert game task here)
>Do you need help with (game mission)?
>Can I join your guild? I'm good at (game skill)
If they want to make small talk that isn't game related you can ask them the most basic questions like:
>How old are you?
>what's your favorite TV show/movie/music
>Do you play other games?
And if you run out of ideas for questions just wait until they continue the conversation themselves.
>spend 5 - 10min trying to figure out what to type before closing thread in fear of having robots judge my shitty comment
>>29273281
I said hi, nobody answered. They just skipped my friendly greeting.