Okay. So there's a girl. And I love her. But we stopped talking years ago. I don't know why I fell in love with her. But I did, so here goes. I need your help. I'm going to show you guys what I'm sending and you have to critique it.
Mkayy?
>>29180701
> implying you can fall in love with someone when they don't love you.
> implying that you're not just heavily infatuated
> implying there's no difference
> implying a wall of text is going to fix things
>i haven't talked to someone for a significant portion of their life but I love them
lel
>>29180701
Don't bother sending her anything. I'm not saying that to be a dick, you just shouldn't
>>29180744
>>29180763
>>29180769
Thanks for the advice, friends.
It's not what you think, though. It's not some stupid teenage fuck who saw this one chick and fell into a heavy infatuation. We were an item. For a long time.
>>29180744
>>29180763
>>29180769
Fuck BTFO
A wall of text never helped anyone sorry OP
>>29180821
Probably right. This thread went places. I guess thanks for talking me out of it? How should I approach this? Ask her to coffee or something?
>>29180815
Talk to her and find out who she is now before trying to date her
>>29180815
So go on then. Stand in front of her house with a love song on a chrome ghetto blaster?
>>29180851
That's smart. To be honest I've been drinking and I actually thought this was a good idea.
>>29180859
Hahaha
>>29180859
>>29180701
lets see it big guy 4u
>>29180894
I deleted it. I'm not going to send her a wall of text. I don't know why I thought it was a good idea.
>>29180880
If you genuinely want to get in contact with her, try to make it seem accidental or something. might help. Don't do it tonight obviously
>>29180914
good move. Women don't want walls of text, they want flirtation without anything that could be interpreted as desperation
>>29180849
Actual lurking normie here. I hooked up with an old high school girlfriend 7 years after last seeing her. Here's how I did it.
> housemate gets a pet snake that was shedding it's skin weird
> remember that high school gf had pet snakes, send her a Facebook message asking about them
> then small talk, "what have you been up to since school?" etc
> we should meet up some time and catch up
> she asked to go on the bike
> picked her up, fucked her that night
> dated for a while, it ended with a fizzle rather than a bang.
See how casual and easy going that was? There was zero walls of text and professions of undying love. Those sorts of things freak girls out. Think of a cat playing with a piece of string.
>>29180964
I swear to god if there was a pun about snakes anywhere in that relationship, anon.
Thanks for all of the help guys. Usually I wouldn't even encourage anyone to send a huge message like I was preparing. It's been a rough night. I just wish I hadn't been a cunt and actually told her I loved her when we were still dating. I'll sleep it off and prepare my plan tomorrow.
Thanks for taking care of me. OP out.
>>29181059
>I just wish I hadn't been a cunt and actually told her I loved her when we were still dating.
Is something you should tell her after a few dates when you're sitting around drinking wine and already having a heavy conversation talking about the past, the needs in the present and the wants for the future. Not day 1 stuff.
>>29180744
so what, people fall in love at exactly the same time?
