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Who else has given up and have decided to stay lonely forever?
How's it working for you R9k
I don't know. Is it really giving up if you've never tried in the first place? I can't even imagine myself with a gf. It just seems like such an alien concept.
>>29176332
what this guy said. Also porn just isn't cutting it anymore.
>>29176332
Exactly this feel. Never had a gf, and I don't think it would go well if I did. But of course, that would require a female to like me first.
>>29176202
I decided to give up when I had literally ZERO (0) matches on Tinder, even when I swipped uggos.
I thought I was like a 7/10.
Turns out I'm not, not even the bottom of the barrel wants to acknowledge me.
This experience literally made me want to kill myself for real, you don't even imagine what it is to have 0 matches, what a fucking disgrace I'm not fit for this life.
>>29176202
i never had a choice, only the most retarded and ugly girls show some weak interest in me sometimes and i could never feel anything towards them, i have been born to live and die alone due to my shit genes, at least i can indulge in hedonism without any guilt and be free of responsibility for a wife or children
I gave up on woman
but I can't give up on traps
help me
I was never really interested in a relationship but I worry that I will want one when I get older but it'll be too late
>>29176202
There is no hope, I want this world to end.
>>29176202
I am totally in the dark and at a loss as to how to go about getting gf.
But after critically examining the arguments available to me, and my character, my best option seems to be to not try, in spite of how contradictory and counter productive it sounds.
So yes I can say that for the time being I am committed to being lonely forever.
Feels ok man.
>>29176332
Thanks anon, now I know how to sound cool if I ever need to tell someone why I'm a loner
Used to have a relationship and then figured women were too much effort. Being social at all is too much effort, haven't talked to my father for 2 years soon and even less for extended family or "friends".
Although, every once in a while I do dream about genuine, mutual affection holding a warm, pretty woman in my arms again. Then I figure that would be wasted on the likes of me, as if I don't deserve that kind of happiness.
>>29176524
This. This. This!
I even had to remove any standards I had by swiping fatties, single moms, and tumblrettes.
What a fucking joke. Modern western women are worth nothing anyway why work my ass off to get used goods.
>>29176202
I gave up when I realized I couldn't be a NEET forever.
I'll explain further
Much of my time was spent wondering how to get girls and, because I'm an autist, I neglected to focus on landing a job, so I'm in headed on a long trip down just fuck my ship up lane and facing the prospect of working full time.
Here's another issue: I fatigue easily. I get tired as fuck and need to be alone because muh introversion. Just how I am. And what that also means is I don't want to spend one fucking second of my time competing with a bunch of thirsty betas on shit like OKCupid or Tinder because 'that's what I'm supposed to do.' Fuck that I want to relax and shitpost.
But then there eventually comes that question from relatives:
>"So, meet any girls lately?"
And my response will always be the same. "Oh no, haven't met the right one yet." What they don't know, and never will know, is that I've given up for good and will never so much as try dating again.
If I have to work, I refuse to put my time and energy in towards jumping through hoops to attract the modern day entitled princess. Too much effort, too much money, too little reward.
i dont know, ive never tried because im boy confortable with being partners with someone you know? the whole comitting to a realtionship is an awful thought. but i do like the idea of female company sonetimes. is this a normal thing?
>>29176202
It's a mix of hating the women in my area, not having my own life together yet, and wanting to have all my money and free time just for me.
I kinda want a gf but it's probably at the bottom of my priority list. If I need relief I can just jack off. No bitching or nagging about spending money on frivolous shit just to maybe get a hand job. If I want to lay on the couch and play Monster Hunter all day, I can.
>>29176524
Oh my god get the fuck over yourself.
Nobody wanted you on some normie app. Why are you whining about it? You really want some basic bitch to listen to all the time just to maybe see her rack?
I gave up when I was about 16, recently un-gave up when I turned 22 and recently dated a cool QT.
It's not that I wouldn't mind being alone forever but I'm just bored of it, I know there's more to life out there.
Working out well. No heartbreak is possible and I have tons more time for myself
Sure there's the occasional longing for a gf but I remember the inevitable breakup and heartbreak
>>29176395
>porn just isn't cutting it anymore
youll either start fucking hookers, eventually get a gf or become gay. i choose hookers.
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>>29176202
I haven't felt in love since 2012 or so and I hope it will never will happen again. Because falling in love with another guy in my country means 0,5-2 years of agony waiting it to go away.
>>29177942Reeee and such.
Having and losing a gf is bad enough, but actually falling in love and still being in love even after the relationship ended is absolute hell.
anyone here afraid to get close to someone? i like the idea of being with a girl but at the same tine would feel trapped in a relationship
>>29176524
lol I get matches on okcupid and this is my discription
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>>29178007
> after the relationship
heh
I just wait 'till brain chemistry fade away, I never told the guys I've been in love with about anything obviously. And I'm not going to come out.
I can't get over the fact any girl I would eventually date would have had a dick in their mouth at one point. I don't want to kiss a girl and have that mental image
>>29176524
Same
I had a girl tell me I was average, so I tried too.
>>29176332
>It just seems like such an alien concept
i think its called autism.
I can't get over the fact that any girl I would date at this point would have had a dick in their mouth. I don't want that mental image while I'm kidding a girl or having to worry about my gf's number.
>>29178124
Sorry about double post, thread wouldn't update
I never really tried to start with. I have exactly one close friend and I sincerely want to distance myself from him at this point
He's just a dull person - he's not square, so to say, but he has no charm at all. Even his scarce attempts at humor or fluid conversation are uninteresting at best and annoying at worst. Whenever he gets really pissed it comes to light how much of a self-centered, delusional megalomaniac he is deep inside. Every single bone in his body thinks he's the most special and important snowflake out of them all, even with (or because) all his external self-deprecation. It has become apparent many times he thinks he can make dominate people by throwing a tantrum, and that they comply out of fear rather than sheer annoyance. He'd be the most royal twat in the planet if he had the spine to even look at people in the eye.
Having a serious conversation with him is completely impossible, too - whenever his feelings are hurt in the least his response is to yell really loudly, flail insults around and then demand an apology later. Either that or after 5 minutes his attention span runs out and he begins talking about something else.
He's also one of the most dishonest individuals I know.
>>29178119
Fuck off Chad
Your opinion doesn't matter.
>>29176524
>tfw too much anxiety to even download tinder.
Even if i forced myself to download, take a fucking picture of myself, and get a match, I still wouldn't be able to get past my anxiety.
What's the fucking point of my life tbqh.
>>29176524
I think that's why I never used Tinder. I think I'm average looking.
If I get BTFO by Tinder, my ego and self-confidence will be completely gone.
>>29178218
can relate to this 100%. i think i ah e aspergers should i try to get a diagnosis or is there no point?
>>29178218
>download tinder
>get several matches
>delete tinder at thought of actually meeting someone
rinse and repeat.
>>29178237
It'd give you some self-insight and a community to fall back to, at the least
They could give you treatment as well
>>29178218
>>29178263
Same here. I made an OkCupid profile and have gotten a ton of messages from qts but can't even read them, much less respond, much MUCH less call and talk to them and much much much MUCH less meet them in person.
Why even exist
>>29178237
I mean if you think it's that severe, asbergers has pretty specific symptoms, not just social awkwardness.
I just have no confidence and was diagnosed with PDD.
>>29178263
I could try this
>>29176202
My plan:
>stay with parents till i can buy a house
>move out
>pay for utilities, insurance yadayadayada
>don't have to worry about little bitch kids or some gold digging slut.
>>29177844
>I gave up when I was about 16
I gave up at 16 too.
All my life i've been told i'm ugly. I've tried so hard to look good. Hair cut, not fat, etc. I'm just uggo.
>>29176202
>lonely
You mean alone right, because you can be alone and not be lonely
>>29178263
>downloaded tinder
>got matches
Normies leave
>>29178218
Don't, unless you're Chad it will destroy any self-esteem you may have had. That's what happened to me as before Tinder I thought I was average and after zero matches despite a thousand likes made me suicidal.
>>29178299
i dont know ive always had a hard time finding people to befriend in school and it would always be "hey maybe next year" and i have 2 and we never even hung out or anything we just talk on akype some sibce they are across the world now in the military. even then i dont share cery many interests we just have kinda the same sense of humor i guess
>>29178263
>>29178286
If you get matches or actually RECEIVE messages you are NOT a robot and need to leave
>>29178338
post a photo for my collection please!
>>29176202
pretty good so far. I also removed fapping from my life knowing that I will never experience sex so I just accept that my penis is for urinating only.
>>29176202
You might be content with being alone now, but it'll get to you. I was so happy being alone that I ditched everyone and basically became unsocialized. Now I'm reaching my 30's and the urge to make meaningful relationships is getting harder to resist everyday. I will become an hero one day.
>>29178362
again you're just naming one symptom.
I grew up with a neighbor who has Asperger's. He loves meeting and talking to knew people, He just doesn't understand some social cues or gets frustrated or anxious for no reason around people. But he's not afraid of them.
>>29178385
oh wow. Fap is cool, more convenient that sex, you do it when and how you like just for fun. Why one would give up such a thing?
>>29178411
This is exactly my situation as well. I cut off all contact and it felt right at first. Now I'm in my late 20's with no one in my life and I fear the future and the bitter, lonely old man I will become.
>>29178474
>the (literally) gay furry avatar-fag giving life advice.
>>29178474
Fapping is really cool I'll admit that and that's the reason why I stopped doing it. I just want to be a robot and robots are supposed to be incapable of feelings or desires.
I've never even tried. I can talk to women just fine in regular conversation, but I have no idea how mating rituals work. The idea of me clumsily trying to flirt based on stupid shit I've seen in the movies makes me want to kill myself.
>>29178723
> I just want to be a robot
why
>>29178723
you're a NEET, not a fucking buddhist monk.
>>29178850
I cannot genuinely feel any sort of happiness so what is the point of feeling anything then if you're just going to be full of misery?
>>29178808
If you would be an alpha male you would feel that you have the right to talk and do whatever you want with a female, but you are omega who's not considered ever to have sex with.
>>29178855
I just want to eliminate any knowledge I have on the pleasure of masturbating so that I will never even look forward to achieving the same feeling to just be disappointed.
nice dubs btw
no one will ever hurt me again, not anymore
>>29176202
It goes poorly. Most times I leave the house, I am inevitably reminded of something that I can never experience nor have, and it further erodes the pitiful remains of my humanity.
All I can do is wait to die.
![Mongrels.s01e06.720p.hdtv.x264.mkv_snapshot_27.22_[2016.04.26_01.15.13].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/7hdIpWs.jpg "Mongrels.s01e06.720p.hdtv.x264.mkv_snapshot_27.22_[2016.04.26_01.15.13].jpg")
>>29178894
You can always find small things that make you happy for a short period of time like fap or videogames or whatever.
>>29178933
after about a month, you'll start getting sex dreams, so your method is bound to fail famalam.
I gave up years ago when I realized how much of a weirdo I am.
Seriously, I'm basically incompatible with intimacy.
>>29177893
I'd prefer to just self implode on a murder-rape-suicide-by-cop type deal
>>29177893
> become gay
you can't BECOME gay
>>29178995
I do play some vidya but they only serve as a pastime for me. It is pretty hard to enjoy something when you start to feel good about yourself and somebody just crushes your hopes.
>>29179001
yeah just had one earlier while taking a nap. Hated it, my cum was yellow because it has been stored in my seminal vesicles for a month or two but there is nothing I could really do about wet dreams. I am just hoping that my brain at some point realizes that I will never be able to pass my genes.
>>29179113
> and somebody just crushes your hopes.
like who?
>>29179047
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prison_sexuality
>>29178286
>>29178263
>proto-Chad problems
>>29179132
literally anyone who beats me
>>29176202
>Stay lonely forever
What are you talking about. It's staying happy forever.
>No kids to piss and shit on you
>No wife to bitch and whine at everything she disapproves of
>Shave again and thus never leave gaping wounds as a result.
>Never have to worry about STDs
>Never have to worry about child support
>Able to do everything you want and be free for the rest of your life.
Face it. Letting a woman into your life is the single worst decision a man can make.
>>29179208
It will not make you gay just a guy fucked in a butt. You will not begin to falling in love with guys
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>>29179234
who beats you? why do you even leave your room?
>>29179425
beats me in the game fampai
>>29179468
> fampai
/define
> beats me in the game
don't play competitive-shit games they are for aggressive kids anyway
>>29179506
>don't play competitive-shit games they are for aggressive kids anyway
well my laptop can't really run anything else other than hearthstone. Skyrim runs on subpar 10 fps which is a nightmare
>>29179544
I'm deeply sorry, try brutal doom
>>29176202
Yeah I think I gave up, but it's not my fault that women are whores who go for Chad
>>29179655
> Chad
/define
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>>29176202
It's much better to give up on the hope of eventually finding someone. There can be no true despair without hope.
Give up? Boi I never even tried. I've never asked a girl out on a date. Never had the confidence to. The only date I ever went on was when the girl asked me out. After that she decided to move to Germany and nothing happened from it. Haven't been on a date since and that was five years ago.
>>29179732
Grow some balls then faggot, ONE girl found you attractive enough to actually ask you out which means that more will come in the future but only if you try
And you should try, I never had that luck, no girl ever found me attractive so of course I'm fucked, but you still can save yourself
>>29178061
you're probably good looking
profile literally doesn't matter people base everything off the pics
>>29176202
I had a girlfriend in high school who dropped me for a Chad and humiliated me, even spread a rumor that I was gay
Ever since then when a woman even seems slightly interested in me I go into fight-or-flight response, I either reject them before they can reject me or run away
>>29179655
So you have have no personality but instead of acknowledging it you write it off by buying into the bullshit on /r9k/?
>>29179875
I have things that give me a personality, but if whores don't find me attractive then what use do they have?
>>29176202
Yea I've pretty much given up but hope is nearly impossible to get rid of. I tell myself every day that I will be alone forever but that nagging feeling won't leave. The brain must not be conditioned to completely give up romance at such at early age so it struggles against logic. At the risk of sounding like a cringy normie, the lyrics to "Stupidity Tries" are pretty much what I feel like.
>>29176202
I'm in my early 30's and I try, but even single moms reject me over and over. Yesterday was the most recent one.
I don't think anyone can understand how it feels to be so completely undesirable as a man. I've been improving myself, my personality, my fitness, my career, and my skills my whole life and it still isn't enough to get gf. What is wrong with me? I don't even know what I'm doing wrong anymore.
>>29180026
You are just average and that doesn't cut it anymore. Despite the "girlfriend application" joke, it seems like a real concept. Just like a job interview, there are certain words and phrases you should know, hobbies you should enjoy, a certain way to dress and act, and a minimum level of experience or income to meet before any girl today will give you the time of day.
>>29179841
It's pretty much a proven fact that 99% of online dating profiles are based on the pictures and you can put anything you want in the description.
The only exception to this is income. Some women filter only based on income and will accept less as long as the supposed money is there
The last time I tried to get a girlfriend, I was such a fucking pussy that one of my friends had to ask her if she liked me and she told me that she could never like me. Later on that year she gave me her number and told me to text her. We texted twice and she ceased to remember that I still existed. Two years later and the closest thing to a girlfriend that I have is my own right hand.
LMAO
Literally why would you ever date?
>>29178119
WoW!"!! hahahHA sooo funnyyy epiC!1!! roflmao xD
>>29177793
Have you ever had a girlfriend? It's actually great. Even when you have a shit day, my gf is always waiting at home with dinner cooked and ready to cheer me up.
>>29176202
Well I have a gf and we've been together for 3 years so it's going well
>>29178966
Why wait? I'm sure you have a knife or something in your kitchen. Rope is pretty cheap too. You can even order it online so you don't have to leave the house.
>>29179356
Almost but not quite, I'd say MARRYING a woman is the single worst decision you can make for sure. Get a nice gf and your life will be enriched a great deal and you have no legal obligation to stay with her once she starts getting shitty.
>>29181531
>implying common law bullshit isn't a thing
>>29181460
Yes but I was a naive collegefag at the time who was far removed from how the world works and that you need to work in order to survive. Now I am aware.
Honestly I can't so much as fathom how I would be able to balance a love life and a work life.
Better to not have loved, then to have loved at all.
Imo
How do I learn to give up? I know I'm ugly as sin but I keep trying anyway out of loneliness.
>>29181618
This. Wish I never experienced breakup. Would rather still be a KV.
>>29176332
It's like a disease I am immune to and only other people get it.
>>29179029
i wish to die in a hail of gun fire, quick and certain.
Relationships are romanticized beyond belief and the only people who speak highly of it here are beta males and people who are incidentally successful but extremely insecure about it. You're actually just sitting next to another biological machine like yourself, there's no magical love aura improving everything. You're going to die obsessing over this stupid thing or wasting your time on another person. And whether you reproduce or not doesn't matter because you'll be dead and so will everyone else.
I'm not even ugly in real life and I have friends and I avoid this, fapping as well because the act is so worthless to me now.
The only time I ever feel any pressure to do otherwise is when I'm on this website. Even then, sometimes I go on a shitpost spree and I am one of those people just for a laugh.
>>29181791
So, the people on this board are all roaches to you, am I right?
>>29181807
Only when I'm shitposting by pretending to be something else and people bite my bait.
I had 2 long-term relationships and was even in a frat for a few years but am now 31 and havent had a gf or friends in about 6 years. Just kinda stopped caring. I probably have a real personality disorder though unlike you young sadfags.
I had bad experiences with the few girls who actually wanted to date me. I hate women in general. I tell myself I've given up and sworn off of it but it makes me feel like I'm lacking purpose. If I can ever start seeing a psychiatrist I'll fill that void with antidepressants.
>Avoid it in High School because it just didn't make sense
>Get out of high school and avoid it because I signed up for the military
>Join military, avoid it while training because I'll be going to my first command soon
>Go to first command, avoid it because we deploy all the time and I don't need her fucking Jody behind my back
>Get out and avoid it because I'm living in dorms
Now I'm 26, and I have no idea how to do a relationship. At my age, it's expected I know how to court a little, but I'd have to learn the basic. That's okay in high school, but it's not at my age.
And honestly? I was just constantly choosing to not do it. A few months ago, I figured out I have Schizoid Personality Disorder (following DSM) and I've never had an any potentially diagnosis fit me like a glove like it does.
But I've been working on drawing myself out of it, and the more I do the more my emotions and desires start to surface again. I and don't really know what to do about it. I honestly feel at this point it's easier to just withdraw again. I'm not sure if it's worth getting my emotions back on the surface, especially if I can't fulfill them.
>>29178119
xD heehee ha ha
>Anon likes this.
>>29176202
I did two years ago. Then a couple months ago i kept meeting this cute cashier in a supermarket who always smiled at me, i asked her out and now im close to having my first gf i think, at age 28. Second date is next week
>>29176524
Currently happening to me.
>Went on r/amiugly
>5 comments saying Im above average
>Ego boost
>Download Tinder
>Even mention Im 6'4
>Honestly expecting 10+ matches
>Not 1, Not even a bot
>Not even a bot
>not even a a fucking machine made to swipe right would swipe right on me
>Even spent $12.00 to get Tinder Plus
HAHAHAH FUNNY JOKE GUYS got me good, you guys built my confidence up just to tear it down LMAO
Why /r9k/?
So many people, even ones who aren't super popular or attractive have sex lives, go on dates, spend nights with those they are crazy for, go through breakups etc.
Why is this one supposedly normal part of life inaccessible to some of us?
i'm a complete virgin and i'm certain that i'm going to die alone and yet that doesn't even phase me
the fact that i'm so apathetic about it all upsets me more than the fact that i'm alone
send help
Not so much a decision as acceptance of the default state of things due to having autism and being NEET
>tfw fembots say they want an average bf and not someone too hot cus they'd be afraid other girls would pursue him
>tfw no qt clingy gf that doesn't want any girls near me
I'm so fucking done.
I did all the memes.
Lifting , university degree, good job, car, good skin, pets, hobbies, etc.
But I'm almost 30 and can't even get a fembot's contact
I'm fucking done .
I'm selling all my shit and moving into an apartment where I can NEET for a good 20 years.
Gg women, you win
Now I'll never have a wife, son, daughter, grandkids, or any family
Fuck
Like many things in my life, dating is just one thing I don't try at, because I couldn't handle if I failed.
>>29183158
The question of this century
>>29176202
During my stay in college I felt attracted to some girls and all of them rejected me
So right now I'm still alone with a side of extra bitterness. I'm actively trying to stay away from dating shit and I mostly tell anyone that sems to have an inkling of interest in me to eat shit but I know I'll eventually go through the whole "fall-in-love" routine and hurt myself again
Fug
