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how do i become more fun to be around? im just "there"
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how do i become more fun to be around?

im just "there" in social situations. i cant really get enthusiastic, smile or laugh and i probably bring everyone down
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>>29149824
>i cant really get enthusiastic, smile or laugh
you can but choose not to
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>>29149838
you think so?

origami commento
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>>29149838
but then it's just acting
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caffeine
I've found that if you're just shy or reserved, stimulants will help you become more social. However, if your heart beats through your chest just thinking about being close to people then you'll get mad anxiety from caffeine.
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>>29149917
yeah caffeine increases my anxiety like mad

i still drink it though, thanks for the tip anon
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>>29149913
op asked how do be more fun, not genuity
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>>29149913
>>29149947
>>29149838
life is already fucking exhausting and shit

theres no way i can keep up that act
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>>29149824
Read more. And I mean read actual good books, political analysis, history, maybe some well written fantasy and fiction. It helps you become a lot more eloquent and people just tend to listen to you more because you just sound more attractive. You also have a few more topics under your sleeves if a conversation ever gets stale.
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>>29150126
i dont have the attention span for reading
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>>29149824

Drink a beer, experiences with good friends...
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>>29149824
just try and talk in these situations
learn how people react, try not to be awkward and try not to be a sperglord.

when you feel different all you need is practice and you'll see that, after a while, you're not so different at all.
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>>29150161
Start with short stories.
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