>trying online dating
>send message after message
>no replies ever
GODDAMNIT ACKNOWLEDGE ME
>>29121680
post the picture that you're using. post the info in your profile
tfw tried online dating and nobody replied to me ever too
>>29121716
Maybe there's just something wrong with my opening lines.
Online dating is an even more fucked numbers game than offline.
>>29121727
its bullshit altogether I think
most of the actual people are men and a lot of the girl profiles are fake
>>29121680
You have to look like Chad to have any success in online dating.
>>29121763
>MUH CHAD BOOGEYMAN
>>29121680
>>29121716
just got messaged first on okcupid
just keep your profile up even if you dont plan on visiting then after u ou get like 5 or 6 likes go into the quickmatch and start liking anyone you would wanna be with
also actually go into the chicks profile so they know it was you giving em the meme then eventually you should get some likes back
those are the chicks you message first
assuming you look like a regular dude, hell im 5'7, hispanic, and on top of thatI also made myself sound like an asshole on my profile and IM talking to someone
>>29121697
Op, do this.
oregano
>>29121835
I kinda want to stay anonymous here.
>>29121898
Blurr your name and your eyes, and let us see your desc and your pic.
It's the only way we can tell you what's wrong with it.
>>29121941
Can't really blur the eyes, I'm wearing sunglasses.
That's the problem, isn't it?
>>29121979
It probably is one of them. You should have a pic where you show your whole face, Op. Otherwise, they'll think you're uggo and you are trying to hide it.
>>29121979
>dating profile pic
>sunglasses
And you wonder why nobody would want to talk to you? You done goofed. Literally the first thing you see in a person is their eyes. I wouldn't want to talk to anybody if I can't look into their eyes.
Its awful when that happens, like not een one message. You know each girl has looked at you and thought 'I can do better'
>>29122030 (me)
>I wouldn't want to talk to anybody if I can't look into their eyes.
Also probably the reason why I hate talking over the phone.
>>29121680
Maybe they don't want to talk to a clingy weirdo?
Post some examples of messages you send.
>>29122082
I hate talking to you, anon.It's not like im replying to you or anything...
>>29122030
>>29122097
Well shit, uploading a new pic with my regular glasses on.
>>29122097
Usually something like "how are you".
Badoo lets you know if you passed someone else so if that happens I mention that we've passed each other.
>>29122138
What kind of response do you expect from that? It's boring an generic and sounds copy and pasted. You bore them right from the start
>>29122138
POST PICS, RETARD. Whe won't be able to know what you are talking about if we don't se anexample of a convo. Also, Show us which pic are you chosing. Just cover your face or something.
>>29122164
>You bore them right from the start
Thistobequitehonest.
I suggest you register a fake female account (or more, one for hot girl, one for ugly girl) and see how the other betas try to talk to "you", and don't make those mistakes yourself.
>try tinder
>no matches after a month while sweeping all girls right
>>29122187
This. Ffs, Op.
if you're not white, no one will respond to you.
Whatever you put on your profile has no meaning. I got told it was what I had on my profile, I changed it, then again.
I then made a girl account, same profile, but pretended to be a girl. Ton of messages.
>>29122335
It just proves online dating is a scam.
>>29122197
This idea is creepy af
>>29122335
Online dating is full of desperate men and regular women.
>>29122391
wtf, why? I've done it numerous times as have other guys in here. nothing wrong with it.
>>29122403
The fact that numerous guys here do it should be a hint that it's creepy as shit
>>29122430
if anything, it further proves online dating is a scam
>>29122472
No it doesn't. It proves most men are desperate and weird on there.
>msg a bitch
>she reads its imiedeitly (its even showen)
>she doesnt respond anything
>r9k redpill kicks in
>imagine her having 5 chat windows open looking for a sponsor
>start to insult her and report the profile for fake
anyone else
>>29122511
>>r9k redpill kicks in
>>imagine her having 5 chat windows open
You don't have to be redpilled for that because that's exactly true, you're even underestimating.
>>29122511
This is very very autistic. At least we know why you're single
>>29122164
So what's a good opening line?
>>29122541
roastie whore stop defending this is true as fuck
take a qt from google and make an account on some dating site and try to scam money out of the losers
>>29122563
Huh? What are you even trying to say? Calm down.
>>29122511
whenever they don't respond to my message, i realize they're looking for an alpha chad or whatever and i just go about my day
how hard is it to let this go
>>29122546
ayy bb wan sum fukk
>>29122574
succ me 1st
>>29122574
no better arguments you fuckin whore? because of bitches like you i dont feel sorry for the acid in the face victims
>>29122600
I'm a dude. You realize robots creep put men too right?
>>29122238
That's not a problem
>>29122623
you realize you aren't fooling anyone bitch
>>29122605
Whoa edgy. Must be recess already.
Women are easy. I don't even use fake pictures and i'm barely attractive.
You just have to be honest about your intentions from the start, keep the conversation sexual and flirty without going outright sexmaniac at first. Women love anticipation. You have to put the suggestion of dirty things in their head first.
>sign up for OKC several months ago
>make a real effort to try and sell myself
>write about myself, the things I like
>what I'm into and what I want to do in my life
>don't be self deprecating at ALL
>put normal pictures
>start messaging women after reading their profile and try to find something interesting to talk about we have in common
>they view my profile
>don't respond
>move on
>they reply
>it's incredibly short answers
>they eventually stop responding
>get tired of messaging girls with nothing to show for it
>start messaging fat girls lewd shit
>they ignore or barely respond to that too
It's almost been a year and honestly at this point I'm only on here because false hope is better than the crushing realisation that I'm going to die alone.
The only success I've had is that I've had TWO girls view my profile, like me and then message me first.
The conversation goes extremely well, we click and the messages are fun and natural.
Then I get their number and start messaging them on whatsapp
They suddenly go very cold and start responding in short, uninteresting messages.
The first one I stopped responding because I didn't know what to say
The second one didn't respond to the last message I sent her a few weeks ago
Online dating isn't for robots.
Same thing here. Don't ever try to be a womans friend.
>>29122702
Women don't use online dating to actually form a relationship with someone.
They just want the endless attention and occasional Chad fuck.
>>29122585
I said a good opening line.
Some of the girls are from towns nearby, so another opening line I use is asking if they visit my town often.
reminder that cucks have gfs and abuse them
>send a qt a message
>doesn't respond
>send a follow up asking if she received your previous message
>she doesn't respond
OP here.
One girl's profile says one of her interests is swimming.
Would "I'm going to the pool tomorrow, want to come swim with me?" be a good opener?
>>29124887
probably not, imagine yourself in her position. a fucking stranger is asking her out for swimming? that's creepy af.
>>29125011
Yeah, I thought it would be weird.
Any suggestions? She's got a fucking huge list of interests.
>>29125133
maybe post the list of interests here?
>>29124887
No. You need to build it up first.
But it doesn't matter because 0.01% of women there will actually meet up with someone who doesn't look like Chad.
>>29125194
Couldn't post it directly, and it's too big to screencap, so I put it in a pastebin.
http://pastebin.com/CY08a5t9
>>29122727
>Don't ever try to be a womans friend.
What do you mean? You're the one making the conversation sexual
