What does it feel like to have a gf and then have her leave you?
Makes you wanna jump off a bridge
Worse than >tfw when no gf
what's more painful
staying on the ground
or being lifted and dropped on the ground
absolutely terrible
i would almost rather have never experienced those feelings because it hurts too god damn much
>>29109856
it sounds like it could be fun desu
Better off not knowing.
Fucking horrible way worse then being lonely. Its like having someone die on you really. Suddenly you realize your a shell of a human and the what made you whole is gone now.
>>29109858
This is why I never tried to find gf after she left me 7 years ago
I'm sure I become asexual now. I don't talk to girls and I don't take normies "haha u gay something?" offensive
>caring about women
Woah there buddy
>>29109822
really? i feel like that everyday and im 29 yr old kissless, promless, gfless , virgin who never really gave a fuck about women in the first place. i play vidya games, jackoff, go to work, go to school
>>29109780
The trick is to do the break up yourself every time.
They will make it fairly obvious when they want the shit to be over, assuming their are no ulterior motive$, and they'll respect you a lot more for taking the responsibility of doing it.
The worst kind of guy is the one that has to have a failing relationship broken up for him by the girl because his beta ass can't realize it.
>>29109780
It made me want to burn her. She broke my heart.
I feel terrible everyday so that I don't see the point with women
>>29110325
please become the black elliott rodger while there is still such an exclusive title to claim!
>>29110314
This guy's got it.
If you're the kind of guy who can't realize a relationship is over, then you're also the kind of guy who's going to fucking tear himself up when your precious gee-eff drops you. You're probably the kind of guy who's gonna replay every pleasant moment in the relationship in his head, and remind himself again and again that she never loved him in the first place and she was a dumb whore and it's not your fault because she's a slut and you hate her.Kinda sucks dude.
>>29109780
>one more thing to worry about
>pain
>one less thing to worry about
>>29109780
Mine left me and cheated on me. I attempted suicide directly afterward if that gives you any idea of what it felt like. in the past week i have debated suicide many times but since my fuck up i cant afford a gun due to my bail and what not.. even more fucked up i would still take her back because shes the only woman who ever told me she loved me (besides obligatory i love you's from my grandmother, mother was vacant whole life) i trashed her apartment, slapped her in the face, and spit in her face. when she took me home (still dont have a car cause NEET) i was kicking her steering wheel trying to kill us both. ended up breaking her key and fucking her car up which lead to me being jailed.
>>29109780
it's like being locked in a POW camp and then one day the guard opens your cage and just disappears into the jungle
women are all emotional terrorists
Fuck all of you who say we're better off never having experienced it. At least you got the chance. At least you had someone want/love you before. How do you think it feels to be 23 years old and never have anyone find you desirable? To try and just find something as basic as human companionship and never succeed because you're disgusting and worthless. Something everyone else experiences but you don't because society sees you as dogshit. It's fucking horrible believe me. So spare me you're bullshit about how we're better off. The very fact that you were with someone proves you're full of shit
>>29110554
Imagine taking one or two steps in the right direction in the course of a week or two, feeling like your life is finally going to start turning around only to fail hardcore.
Hm. If somebody doesn't want to be with you then it's good that it's over. You don't want to be in an intimate relationship with someone who doesn't really really love you. unless of course you have no soul.
It depends on how attached you're. I was with my ex for a year. Things went amazing at the start, the entire honeymoon phase was lovely. She was supportive, cared for me and the future, we talked all day. Overtime I started to notice she hadn't been truthful about her past, i'm not proud of it but went digging in her Facebook chatlogs and found out she was essentially a huge slut throughout high school. I'm talking hanging out in the football teams locker room after the state title, constantly breaking up with her (hockey boyfriend) to fuck football chads/chads in general whilst being treated like shit by these guys (cheated on constantly by her boyfriends) The most ridiculous thing i read was about her constantly swapping boyfriends with this girl she hated, which included her being kicked out of chads bed on her birthday so he could hang with his ex - read as fuck her - After going through about 100+ pages of chatlogs with her sister/friends and all the fuckery above, i read she got spiked at a party, got molested (not raped) and didn't press charges despite the police showing up and even trying to get her to do so privately. Half a year later I end up finding out this guy bought her coke/drinks on her birthday. After I found out about all of this shit, my image of her literally got smashed. I bought into the entire soulmate shit, but after that day I just couldn't take her seriously anymore. I started being edgy, lot's of fights started to errupt mainly due to me having no respect left for her, things get rocky and she cheats on me. I find out as by this point I had gained access to nearly all her social media. Read logs with this guy, turns out she's proud of it and likes the thrill, no remorse whatsoever. I go a little crazy, confront her, no remorse, we break up.
Now I'm fully aware I dodged a bullet, but that didn't make it any less bothersome. Ruined self esteem, distrustful, long recovery, trust but verify. Went from normie to shut in.
>>29109856
this
this
this
orithis
this
>>29109780
It makes you wish you never had a girlfriend at all.
>>29110414
Sounds cliche, but never take back someone that cheated on you. If she ever truly loved you, she wouldn't of cheated on you. You'll meet someone else anon.
>>29110554
You're wrong anon. You think you're right but you're wrong. I've had two gfs in my life and I am 33 years old. The first one cheated on me when I was 15. I never felt such despair. I wish I could post a Simpsons meme and scowl at those who "had a chance". I never had a chance, I only thought I did. It was DESTINED to fail.
>>29110554
Imagine actually finding a gf someday, you're happy with her, you have everything in common, and you could talk to her forever. Her laugh melts you're heart, and you love that you can make her laugh so easily. You imagine a future with this girl, everywhere you go, you wish she was there with you.
And then some event happens and all the trust you both had gathered evaporates. You'll know it's over, but fight to keep it going, just because you miss the good times. You can't sleep at night, all the happiness you remember turns to pain or guilt. The best part of your day is the moment you wake up not thinking about her. And she dumps you at some point, and you feel nothing at all.
>>29110554
You won't understand until it happens - trust us anon.
>>29110554
Never having had a girlfriend and being treated like a dog during a break up by someone you loved aren't too different. You'll see for yourself someday.
>"It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"
What a crock of shit. I've had my heart broken multiple times and it's severely damaged me as a person. I developed serious trust issues and I can't open up to anyone. First girl ruined my life for the most part. Cheated on me and turned my "friends" against me. The relationships I had after that were destined for failure since the first heartbreak fucked me up so bad.
>>29111209
How can you possibly say that with such certainty? I mean he can't either but you've clearly never been in his position so shut the fuck up
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>>29110159
>caring about ANYONE other than your beloved kitty dying
>caring about a roastie that will for sure cheat on you or get bored of you and if you stay together you will still just be a provider cuck as she literally whores herself to you for you to buy her things and feed her
love is a meme and you're momentarily drugged on shitty hormones
it's your own fault you trust people and get easily hurt
even if you have fun with her never EVER trust her or actually fall for her, women are stupid and evil
you're all idiots for trusting them you dumb fucking normies
t. emotionally dead sociopath khhv
>>29109780
>ITT faggot normies who have been in relationships
FUCK YOU NORMIES YOU FELT LOVE SOMEONE CARED ABOUT AND WAS ATTRACTED TO YOU
BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST YOU FUCKING FAGGOTS GET OFF MY BOARD REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Never had it happen. I've always been the one to leave. I hope it never happens
>>29109780
i have a couple of pics that shows how you feel. hint: suicidal and horrible, especially if you have depression and thats the reason she leaves you .
>>29109780
Makes you feel like you lost a part of yourself you didn't know you ever had.
Now instead of feeling alone, you think about her...all the time.
>>29109780
here is the second one.
>>29110410
>You're probably the kind of guy who's gonna replay every pleasant moment in the relationship in his head, and remind himself again and again that she never loved him in the first place and she was a dumb whore and it's not your fault because she's a slut and you hate her.
>>29109780
I miss cumming in her but mainly it's relief, fuck yeah, my spare time is for me again
As horrible as it feels, I do cherish every single moment we had. It also helped me grow as a person.
I do think it's better for have loved and lost.
I still feel empty inside, but that emptiness has some happy memories.
Either that or I still have hope...
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>>29109856
I like this analogy, but I like it for different reason than you. I was in a 6 month long relationship with a landwhale, and I broke it off when I got an obviously false rumor that she was cheating on me. I just used that rumor as an excuse, which made me feel a little bad, but I felt as if I had cut the rope holding me up, but fell prepared for impact, but I landed on a trampoline that put me right back up at the same height, as life was better without her immediately.
Indecently, I found out only a month later that she had asked my friend to tell me she wanted to break up, and he called her a whore and told her to tell me her self. That was only a couple weeks before I broke up with The Whale, which is very relieving to me that I did it when I did.
A few more days, and I wouldn't have been ready for the fall.
>>29109780
depends on how it ends. If you're a faggot it will inevitably hurt, however.
>>29109856
Staying on the ground. Because you never had a chance to fly.
>>29109856
Fucking this!
I was on the ground for 26 years content with
>no gf
then, this girl forced herself into my life and broke down all my barriers. She took my virginity. I latched onto her so hard because I didn't know I could be lifted that high before (cuddling after sex is by far the best feeling I've ever had)... but just as soon as I reached that height, she left me to rot.
Now, instead of being happy not knowing what it's like to fly, thinking you're okay on the ground... I'm constantly trying to get to that height again because I now know it exists. And it's not fair because that one girl that brought me that high was a once in a lifetime event for someone like me.
And it fucking hurts.
I wish I could go back in time and erase that time in my life so I can go through my life in blissful ignorance. But I can't... I've now had a taste, and my heart wants more and reality doesn't have any more to give.
Sorry for the blogpost.
>>29110554
I was 30 when I first held a hand
kissed a girl
fucked.
Then I learned that many girls out there lose interest in you as soon as they know they have you wanting only them. They get bored and sabotage the relationship or just end it cold.
I found so far from real experience that feminism has destroyed the very idea of a loving relationship.
>>29110204
PT.1
I know the feeling. Been 10 years and even though I've had a couple opportunities here and there, or thought I did, I just couldn't bring myself to try again. The idea of real intimacy with a woman has become almost nauseatingly anxiety-ridden. My only foray into sex was a shitty handjob at a massage parlor and then I lost the taste for paid sex. Porn still kind of works but it makes me realyl depressed. I fly into rages thinking of what sex was really like with the only person I probably will ever love and feel close to like that and I want ot kill myself.
Basically, I thought that the first six years of puberty were the worst of it, but in spite of having sex with four women and being in relationships for several years I wound up worse than ever. Everything that was supposed to be some "learning experience" that would make it easier the next time was so traumatic I didnt' want to bother again, especially if it couldn't be with Her.
Here's a song about what happens when you get what you thought was impossible to get and suddenly don't know what to do with the rest of your life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tctfq4tplQ4
>>29109780
okay because having a girlfriend is a nightmare.
>>29114688
What happeens if by some miracle you build this amazing fantasy life with your oneitis and something happens? Break-up or death? Getting ghosted by somebody you pine after for the rest of your life or ? Knowing all this persons flaws and many of her secrets and building them into your unattainable fantasy or knowing only a truly perfect and idealized image? To stop being able to laugh at yourself entirely or to be able to participate in a semi-cathartic yet ultimately toxic collective self-deprecating?
I know people hate "failed normies" here even more than vanilla normies, but it really is possible to fuck up and be fucked up by a relationship so badly that you are worse off than a wizard, although these cases are probably extreme outliers.
What's better, a rocket that never launches because it fizzles on the launch pad and is stored away in some musky warehouse or a rocket that goes Challenger?
And remember, just because you win her heart, if you do win her heart and not just her desperate grasping for approval, you still are just as beta as you were without her. The insecurities don't disappear--often they're magnified and you only obsess over them more when she leaves and you wonder what you did wrong.
it gives you a new meaning of pain
>>29109780
Freedom.
Relationships end all the time. Thinking yours is different will only make you not take into account how frail they really are and fuck it up.
It is kinda paradoxical. The more you care and lie yourself about how unbreakable you relationship is the less you actually take care of it...besides you suffer more if/when it ends.
>>29114222
>forced herself into my life
exact fucking situation. Literally had no problem with no gf.
Feels awful especially when you drunk call her and leave rambling messages about how if she comes back you'll make her so happy. It's been almost a year and I still do this once every few months. Somehow I have some hope left.
tfw crying yourself to sleep in the mental hospital trying to figure out how you got from waking up to her smile to waking up in a loony bin.
>>29114993
delete her number man
>>29114993
Fuck dude that's not healthy.
>>29115154
I'm sorry that sounds really sad.
>>29110975
My ex slutted out on me kinda like that... not quite as serious though. Sorry to hear about that bro.
I hope my ex didn't have the same sociopathic motives in mind, but I guess it doesn't matter at this point. Logic won't let me love her anymore. I'm convinced all women just have this deep flaw.
>>29115447
I wish I could really commit to the redpill but, ironically, every absolutist belief set or religion reminds me of the extremeness of my feelings for my ex. She taught me how dangerous it was to lose your mind like that, and the result is that I'm no longer able to love or trust people and I overshoot skepticism and wind up being cynical even about good advice.
Also, it's hard to see women as the enemy when, I guess, you had your dream girl and realize all the reasons she was too good and were reminded every time you saw her and were filled with awe and the awful fear she would leave. You realize now women can of then be flawed, yes, but not evil. I accept now in a way I wasn't able to that I'm just one of those men who is better off being alone. And society is probably better off without someone like me in a relationship.
I just wish that there society would see betas who peacefully accept their isolation as some kind of protected minority that gets special discounts on pornand eventually sex robots. Bill gates should be focusing on virtual reality porn and not on better condoms. The response to the uprising should be gentle stroking hand and not hte stomping boot. If we had sufficient technology we could have just put Elliot Roger in some kind of pleasure prison of VR porn and given him drugs to make him think it was real. That sounds pretty good to me as a consolation prize for being one of life's losers.
Meh it's not that bad. You get a chance to try out some other pussy brah.
Emotions are for females
I could be in love with 30 chicks at once dude
It really depends on the circumstances on how it ended. My breakup made me sad, because it was inevitable, there is nothing I could have done to prevent it. We got along fantastically well. We were together for 6 months, so it was starting to get serious. Then she suddenly got the opportunity she had dreamed of - a study place at a prestigious school on the other side of the world.
She didn't want to try to continue it over the distance. I was willing to try to see if it could work, but she chose to fully focus on her new life. I still would choose having spent those 6 months together instead of never having been.
Naaaaah dude it's chill, I only pretended to like her for pussy.
Hahah,
Get r-real guys just become Chad and fake your way through life.
She's just a d-dumb slut, nothing more
Nothing More
