told my CBT therapist a redpill, basically saying you need to be nomie/chad and alpha(it depends on the situation tho) in order to get a gf,(ust without using the worlds alpha, beta,normie and chad)
>I told her I need to be confidence and more extrovert and in my(a man can't be shy,awkward and barely talking and still have a gf, I Was also talking about someone I know and I say that in his condition can't get a gf(and he never had) and I am just a in little better condition then him)
>she told me she know Schizoid men who are married.
>I told her I never saw someone like that with a gf, evrey one I saw with a gf have more confidence and is more extrovert in public then me
>she says it's not true.
my therapist is usually ok but today she was very blue pilled, and I feel like she can't understand my struggle.
it's almost like she told me "just be yourself"
I am trying to be to be more confidence around women and I am really thing I can get gf.
>cock and ball torture therapist
>>29102037
>going to therapy at all
>having a fucking female therapist
you need more than talk therapy since you're clearly autistic.
>>29102123
if you implied I am autistic because of my bad english it's because I am not native english speaker.
if you implied I am autistic because of what I told her or done, it someting else but what kind of treatment I need?
>tfw feel bad for notable to fully express myself in english.
>>29102189
I had a female therapist and it sucked, I wasn't comfortable talking about my hatred of women and she just wanted to talk about why I had trust issues. I recommend trying a male therapist
Just be yourself
Originalo ffgg
Feels so good being sane. Hows insanity going for you schizoidcucks?
>>29102615
She is OK I guess, better then the previous man therapist I had.
>>29102669
I am not a schizoid
Therapists don't exist to tell you the truth, they exist to make you feel better.
>therapist
pic related. fuck off
>>29102037
>she told me she know Schizoid men who are married.
Wow what a shocker!
A woman who has an actual proffesion to treat mentally ill schizos knows some of them who are married! I ALMOST CANNOT BELIEVE!
>>29102037
Just being yourself is some pretty solid advice
Met my online gf because I said I cried when I was reading a hentai
Idk what this meme is tho.
I told my therapist about anime once and she told me to stop watching it so I told the police she touched me LOL
Your therapist is right, dude.
>>29102898
why are you Emphasizes she is a woman?
>Also imlying every one who is a "professional" is know what he is talking about and allways right about.
did you ever saw a man who is quiet and awkward, insecure with a gf?, I never saw and I am sure that that people she is talking about are not insecure or at least are in some kind of grup that they can be Confidence, not awkward and they got their gf in that group.
>>29102037
You are just making excuses for yourself like everyone else here. Limitations =/= impossible.
>female CBT therapist
>ever
The 3 I've had the misfortune of working with we're basically "just b urself and it'll all work out :^)" tier.
What you need is an older male "life coach" (mentor) preferably with an LMFT cert.
Only real work I've done on becoming normalized comes from male therapists that understand the struggle. Especially if they're in the ~40 y/o range, because they're still young enough to have a fucking clue what modern wymyn are like.
Again
>Female therapist
>Ever
No. Especially if she's moderately attractive, she's just suckin up those neetbux so you can look at her shoes and spew worthless bullshit while she pretends to listen/care or offer some female-wisdom. Which is helpful if you need some wisdom on why calling your mom once in a while is a good idea.
>>29103105
> talking about are not insecure or at least are in some kind of grup that they can be Confidence, not awkward and they got their gf in that group.
Exactly. She knows a lot of people with problems. There is no surprise that some of them have gfs.
COME ON!
>>29103131
I am not making excuses, I am trying to be more confidence and trying to talk to women.(not allwaysbut I get better)
>>29103215
OK, i get you, but they are not in my situation, I don't mind being in a group where I feel comfortable and meet a girl there.
I get what are you saying, I think she didn't explained herself good, but she still had some mistakes, like she still bbelieve everyone can et a gf.
>>29103307
>she still bbelieve everyone can et a gf
>had some mistakes
that's not a mistake. that's what women actually believe
>>29102037
>female therapist
You are retarded
Look m8. an average (and below average) woman has absolutely no idea about the romantic a robot (or any male for that matter) has to go through. they live in a completely different planet where relationships basically fall from the sky and being single for half a year is loneliness. if you want real advice about this you should at least get a male therapist
>>29102037
>having a female therapist
Terrible idea for a robot. She'll just grow to be disgusted by you and won't be able to hide it.
I had a female psychiatrist and she couldn't understand why I was so lonely, then said she was "offended as a woman" because I vocalized my desire for sex and a relationship. After that I could tell she detested me.
I really wish there were therapists specifically for robots because then maybe they can better understand the struggle.
>>29103384
The problem isn't female therapists, it's expecting something designed to make bored housewives feel better about their first world problems to fix your desperate loser male problems.
I just use therapy (which is free) to talk to some 5/10 30yo woman about my nonexistant sex life and failures with girls because I can say what I want to someone without fear she'll use it as bullet against me at the first occasion, or feel disgusted or creeped out (and if she does it's her job to deal with it I can't care). It's not hard to do basic introspection and understand that you need to try more stop giving a fuck to maximise your chances.
>>29103453
>She'll just grow to be disgusted by you and won't be able to hide it.
I was a fraid this might happend but I am not allways talking like that. today she perceived me pretty negative even who I didn't see waht I told as a problem for me(i just need to work it out)
but she likes me,
I am even texted her happy birthday and she told my "oww thanks what a cute *wink kiss emoji*
>It's not hard to do basic introspection and understand that you need to try more stop giving a fuck to maximise your chances.
I think I just learnedit at the last year.
>>29103105
>did you ever saw a man who is quiet and awkward, insecure with a gf?
Yes, of course. It usually doesn't last though.
oh and I tihnk my therapist is allright because she is also working in psych ward, so she known people with struggles.
>>29103650
She defo shouldn't be sending winks and kisses to clients, that's the sort of thing that can confuse the emotionally vulnerable
The be yourself meme is actually true. It means being comfortable with who you are, even though you are imperfect. Sure, you may be short and balding, but you're not making yourself more attractive by being insecure about it. And when you are one with yourself or against yourself this is something people can feel as if it was an energy or a vibration. You can tell that someone is comfortable with themselves by how they act, how they move, how they breathe. It's just like when you can tell whether someone views the world through a lens of hate or love.
That is BEING yourself.
t, Chad Normie
>>29103434
The first doctor I talked to about my depression just told me redpill stuff (he was natty alpha) and talked about his sex life highlights from his youth. He just told me everything would be allright by telling me I was 6'+, didn't have a microdick nor wasn't a faggot (he asked) and when I explained him I tried to be confident and dominant. He told me to use tinder or something because everyone fucks there. I explained him about how only top tier males get advantage from that and he told me "well ok".
Another one just told me how he had it hard because he lived at his parents home until late 20s but he was a 8/10 well dressed Dr. he probably fucked dozens of girls and I felt like he was laughing inside.
A last one was a bald homo who told me youth isn't always fun and he told me about how for example it was hard for him to get bald and how I'm fine about that. But I'm balding too. He also advised me to find some MILF who could give me affection.
My psychiatrist in the ward was a beta intern about my age and I felt awful talking to him about this stuff. I tried to be less alpha than him but it's hard when you're talking about how the first girl you kissed in 8 years rejected you because you drooled. He was ok but kinda useless at the same time.
>>29102848
this,unfortunately
originale.
>>29103765
sometimes I feel good with my self and sometimes not, I got improved my self but didn't had a chane to try it. I Was angy today maybe because I had a change recently and it was blown away because I can't find enough Confidence because I was with my brother and I do have enough Confidence to with what he bring when I wam with him.
exemple:
we come thoghter to some place and want to check in
>I say some in confidence and get good and the reaction I was accepted
>then my brother say someing and you can feel his Insecurity
>I alos get the bad reaction from the person because people see us a group or even one person,(because we twins)
so I feel I can deal with that by gaining more confidence by myslef and just then be with him around people.
>female behavior therpaist using the 'your have bad body odor' talk againist me
>shut-in neet who has no reason to take daily showers and clean up because will always have body odor
>family talking about me odor but RARELY see me or go in me room
>family is starting to blame it on me shoes/bed sheets/clothes
>they want me to rage because i cannot understand casual normie talk
>they are all blue-pilled
>>29104402
i think i don't understand,do you smell?Take a fucking shower then.
I never understood why people go to therapists, the single biggest waste of fucking time. you can talk your problems out all you want but ain't shit gonna change until you take the first step. you're basically in a therapy session right now with this dumb thread. you either do what it takes (looks and outside resources notwithstanding) and get a bitch or you sit at home and jerk off to anime and call it a day.
>>29104402
You know it's bad when even your therapist insults you
>>29104471
i do take a shower [ every 4days because do not do anything to sweat that much to take a daily shower ]. am guessing it it muh dick area because like am not in a rush to get laid.
i wank every other 2days.
>>29104604
i have no irl friends and just stay in me room all the time unless i have to go out.
i take a shower;
- if i get a rash
- if i just woke up and just need one [i sometimes sweat in me sleep]
- when i go take a dump
- if am going to the store or somewhere
>>29104677
i have had car freshers in me room. cannot open the window or ants will get inside. i like to keep me door shut and me vent works fine.
i have a ceiling fan running.
>>29103008
Holy shit dude that great
>>29102037
Redpill is fucking bullshit. I've met a cute girl on a uni field trip last week and we're getting along perfectly. She's really flirty even though I'm dropping spaghetti like hell.
We exchanged numbers and kept talking and yesterday she said we should hang out. That's as far as I have ever gone with a girl. I really hope I don't mess this up.
I don't think she would've liked me if I had behaved like an "alpha". This doesn't mean I'm a totalbeta, I'm just a normal guy who is generally friendly and somewhat decent looking. But then again, I'm from Europe and have met many sluts when I was visiting the US.
I know you've all heard it but you should go to be-yourself-camp rather than absorbing all this toxic red pill ideology. The women ridpill describes exist, but you can find decent ones.
>>29104712
Jesus Christ no wonder it stinks.
>>29104402
Why do you even go to the therapist if you decided to keep under average female hygiene habits?
>>29103650
>she told my "oww thanks what a cute *wink kiss emoji*
She wants to fuck. She's just annoyed that you're talking about dating other girls while she secretly wants your dick.
>>29104761
me parents got me on a program.
cannot get off it until i get a car or i get no CLS help when i do move out.
cannot think of a reason i do not have a car by now.
>>29102037
>she told me she know Schizoid men who are married
Sure. Schizoids are perfect candidates for marriage, all financial support and no love.
You Schizoid OP? Normies literally cannot understand. As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with being Schizoid. You perceive the world accurately; you just hate people.
>>29102059
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
>>29104734
ofcurse you don't need to be alpha, but I think there is a minimum bar.(and I said I think my brother is below that bar and when we go to places together it's affect me because most of the time people see us as a group.
>>29104829
>She wants to fuck
I do not delude myself, she don't want to fuck.I think she has a good relationship with most of her patients from what I understood from taking to her.
>>29104868
>You Schizoid OP?
no I don't hate people and I want to be a normie.
I thnik I am a faild normie with lack of confidence that workin on myself. but didn't have alot of chances with girls to see how much confidnce I am lacking.
>>29105421
My condolences at not being Schizoid master race, then.
I've been trying to train myself out of it though, and it starts with learning to even want to be around people
It's not going well; people are such fucking shit it's not even funny
>>29105469
at high school I used to not care being alone(because I sometimes got bullied), just needed my brother and, PC and vidya.
Anyway good luck with your efforts.
>>29102037
Just want to let you know that most therapists or psychiatrists you may visit are actually chads or stacies and they talk shit about you behind your back. I work in the mental health field, and women are especially vicious when talking about patients. None of them actually "get" you, they're only good at pretending to get you.
>>29102037
>you need to be normie/chad and alpha(it depends on the situation tho) in order to get a gf
that's because it's not fucking true you retard
>>29104868
internet says i am a schizoid, since i was a kid i have a very fertile imagination, and what i feel the most is masturbation.
i do not hate people, i feel empty. i think it will be worst as the days go by.
>>29105665
I exaggerated but you need a minimum bar with the trait of normie/chad and alpha.
if you would have read the whole thread you will understand better.
>>29105715
Sounds like a schizoid
It's not that you really hate people per say, it's just that you consistently make decisions that let you avoid them.
She's right. You don't need to be Chad. You just need to be assertive and have some minimal things going for you like
1. a job
2. a hobby
3. a vehicle
4. Don't be a pushover
OK guys I feel exhausted from this, I am gonna think positive. which is anyway what I need to do.
>>29105974
Think positive all you want
You're gonna die anyway, and in 200 years nobody will have even remember you existed. You'll just be someone mentioned in records, no different than an Irish immigrant dying alone 200 before ago.
>>29106036
it does not bother me desu.
>>29104734
>I know you've all heard it but you should go to be-yourself-camp
You're clearly above average in looks and confidence. The fact that a woman is attracted to you shows that. Women are just disgusted by me, and I look pretty normie. Not fat and try to be polite, but they just act like total cunts towards me. Being myself has made me a kissless handholdless virgin at 22. It's just fucking pointless.
>>29102037
>File
Who cares my crazy doctor said I wasnt getting anyway with her and she wants me to go to a inpatient hospital for a month for reprograming fuck my life senpai
>>29102037
>Female therapist
Why even waste your own time?
>>29102037
>falling for the therapist meme
>falling for the robot bait
>actually complaining to a therapist about your pathetic life, as if she actually cares
>debating a grill
>falling for the redpill meme
You do know there are people who are A. more ugly, B. Poorer, and C. Less confident than you with a gf right now. Either lower your standards or just do what every desperate guy does and ask out every grill you see until one says yes
>have experienced male OCD specialist
>doing exposure and response prevention therapy
>during our sessions gradually get deeper and deeper in detail about my intrusive thoughts
>at the point where I can tell him that I am obsessing over murdering a love one, letting their body decompose for days and shoving handfuls of their maggot-infested, decomposed flesh inside of me
>he stays completely straight-faced, tells me I'm doing a great job, and tries to explain that no matter what intrusive thoughts I have I am not my thoughts, I am the sum of my values and actions
>my fucking face when
From my experience female therapists are absolute garbage. So are social workers, behavioral therapists and inexperienced psychologists of either gender. The only way to get proper care is from someone who has extensive experience in their field with the credentials/education to back it up. For the most part (there are some VERY rare exceptions- for example my psychiatrist is a woman and she's very competent and has helped me enormously) women are incapable of understanding the extent of a mentally ill person's condition and cannot provide them with adequate treatment as a result. Unempathetic or inexperienced men have the same problem. Do yourself a favor, OP, stop wasting your time and your breath on someone who can't help you and get yourself a decent therapist instead.
>>29102059
Imagine that being a legit therapy technique. To get your mind away from negative, self defeating thoughts your psychiatrist screws the ball-crusher down a little tighter...
