> back in summer of 2014
> the day after Elliot Rodger shootings
> I'm doing some shopping in Walmart when I get a call from my dad
> "anon, you know what Elliot Rodger did is evil right?...right?"
> I'm totally caught off guard, don't know what to say, feel my face and ears burn
> manage to speak
> "yes of course I know that dad"
> "alright anon, just uhh making sure. You know that if you ever feel down in life, never to take it out on innocent people, right?"
> at this point my mouth is agape at what my dad is saying
> continue to reassure him until we finish the conversation
I think that is the single most insulting thing my dad has ever said to me. I'm certain he knows I'm lonely and basically friendless which in itself is shameful for me but for him to think I'm unstable to a point of violence totally destroyed me. I felt so terrible. I still do about it today. Should I bring this up with him? He's leaving to go abroad for work for a long time and for some reason this memory has been bothering me lately. Then again I am a pussy who hates confrontation so I'm scared to approach him about it.
Any advice is appreciated, friends.
>>29091353
You should invest in vidya.
Honestly if I don't play video games im either masturbating or thinking every negative thing i can think of about a person I see or a person I am talking to.
Regardless I still feel that way about talking to people online, I feel accomplished being a piece of shit who plays games all day.
Keep your head up anon.
Give him a hug before he goes and tell your old man you love him. Then if you want you can approach the topic by asking him if he remembers that, or you can just subtly say that you feel good or something. Fathers are very conscious of what their son's are going through. Don't make the same mistake some have made, not saying what needs to be said before it's too late and those you love are gone.
>>29091971
He shouldn't encourage his father with a loving reassurance, he should be dawning lines with him when says shit like that.
>>29092017
that's bullshit no, Elliot Rodger's parents didn't give a fuck what was happening with him and never even asked questions. His dad just loves and cares about him, maybe he was a bit too direct, but he still clearly cares
>Everytime a shooter like that pops up, I think of an old friend from my school days
>He'd talk about shooting his parents then shooting up the school and said he wouldn't spare me when I tried to treat it like a joke and asked if he would let me live
>He talked about it a LOT
>He moved away
>Sometimes I worry I'll see him on the news after he shot some people, and I'll feel partly to blame
>Feel like traitor for wishing I had reported him, but also feel like I let a ticking time bomb walk away
>>29091971
uhhhh the OP isn't asking how he can reassure his father, he's asking how he can tell his father that he felt hurt
>>29092044
He said he wouldn't spare you? Sounds like he stabbed you in the back first, should have turned him in.
>>29091353
You should invite him over to watch your favorite porn flick. Mutual masturbation can work wonders for father-son bonds.
>>29092044
>>29092037
>>29091353
Wanting to kill others is a natural reaction to males being forced out of the competitive mating pool. Your biological processes know that your only chance to breed is to fight and that to fight and die is much much better than to die without breeding slowly. If you don't breed that is the worst and ultimate death. Sandy hook, elliot rodgers it is very natural. The male has a biological reproduction defense mech. that makes them viciously attack others when their ability to mate is severely compromised.
Anybody else miss rodgers?
Like him, I'm a hapa and I wish he were alive so that we could both see whether or not it actually get's better.
Sadly he's dead now and he's only contribution is in increasing the anti male hapa sentiment which has been going around since the 60's.
It's sad to realize your gone mate.
>>29092655
why do you have that saved you 9fag
op, I'm a wizard. after our savior performed his miracle, I told one of my few friends about how was , well, inspired, in a way. also, shared some r9k isms.
later on, after some other rants, friendo asked if I was okay and expressed the same sort of thing as your dad.
I was a bit offended since we've known each other for ten plus years.
don't let it rock your sense of self or your relationship with your dad. he's probably a normie and is only looking out for you imperfectly.
remember, no one can truly understand anyone, especially robots. so just roll with it.
I stopped talking with that friend, but this was not the reason why, I just withdrew from everything. they mailed a month ago and I replied but didn't really make any effort, same with anyone from my life really besides family.
