>tfw after u cum u want to an hero
Anyone else have this really shit feeling overcome them after fapping? I'm worried it's only me that has it this bad. The feel itself is a package of all the worst shit: shame/guilt/dirtyness/dissapointment. Is there a solution for this or no?? Someone help!!!
I feel you. I never was raised to feel ashamed of myself or in a religious household, so I'm not sure why I feel like shit after. I just stopped altogether, I never was addicted only did it once or twice a week. Maybe I feel like im wasting my seed when I could be with female. Essentially I feel better if I don't fap /fantasize . I fantasize alot which is good either imo. Gives your brain false satisfaction
>>29091125
Isn't good * oops. In aware Everyone's different so this is just my perspective
>>29091045
I get really tired after I cum so I always fap in bed then roll over and fall asleep.
Ive seen porm where the dude cums twice, legit starts fucking again right after cumming- how the fuck. It makes me super jelous. I just fapped 30mins ago and only now the libido is starting to come back.
Btw im 25yr old khv so idk how this works with girls. For the normies out there, how long after fucking can you fuck again??
In times when humans lived in a much harsher environment, it was imperative that a man mate with as many women as possible rather than stick around with one and help raise the offspring. This feeling we get after ejaculating occurs so that we would immediately feel disgusted with the woman we just mated with, so that the next time we are horny, we would copulate with another different one, and the process repeats itself, spreading out seed far and wide.
Now of course there is probably variability in this. Maybe if your ancestors lived in a calm and peaceful environment you feel like absolute sunshine after you cum, or maybe your ancestors were constantly being hunted, or decimated by disease and famine. Another way to look at is that we were meant to be the brave ones who explored the land and discovered other tribes, fought their men and took their women. Wouldn't be surprising if men who have a stronger 'post ejaculatory slump' also are more intrigued by women of other races and cultures.
You definitely aren't the only one, but that doesn't mean it's natural. Stop fapping to shameful shit, or try to work past your religious upbringing if you don't actually fap to anything bad. Orgasm releases a fuckload of feel-good chemicals, so the natural thing is to feel happy and relaxed afterward. I always feel happier for at least an hour or two.
>>29091273
Fellow khv here.
When I cum it's usually at least a day before I feel like fapping again unless I haven't fapped in 4 or 5 days.
I'm not even old either. Sucks desu.
And to answer your question further OP, I concur that this is a very shitty feeling I do not want n my life at all, and one of the many reasons I resolve to abstain from both masturbation and intercourse is so that I can avoid this in my life altogether. It is the obvious secret to living in your highest potential, which most men will deny, in order to justify their own addiction to sexual release.
I had one wet dream so far this year, and I awoke during it, and felt OK afterwards. Body is intelligent enough to know when to clean the pipes, and ejaculating any more than that is unnecessary and a waste of life.
>>29091313
OP here, recently ive been fapping to black girls. I can get it up for white/asian also but black is 10x hotter. I dont know what the fuck got into me desu. Nonetheless, your theory definitely explains some.
Just get on an SSRI, senpai.
You won't have any libido ever
>>29091443
No it doesn't, it's all ass-pulled pseudoscience. You feel shitty after cumming because of shame.
Also,
>*53 days fap free*
Enjoy your prostate cancer.
>>29091415
I cant stop thinking about black pussy unless i fap. Thats my problem - i cant even fall asleep, its that bad. So going no fap is not an option...btw im white
I never get the post-fap feels and I grew up in a religious household.
>>29091526
Can u go a second round imediately then? Or do u just go limp??
>>29091511
Go fuck a real black pussy then and enjoy the STD's.
>>29091568
Im khv (lvl 25) so its easier said than done :^}
>>29091406
>>29091338
I grew up in the "sex positive" world and only fapped to super vanilla penis in vagina, yet the feeling was always there to some degree. I've read at least 100 reports form other men experiencing similar things, and I think I learned about the evopsych origins of the feeling in some MGTOW video. The underlying feeling is the same, a slump of your mind and body. Will definitely make you feel more guilt/shame if one already felt that way, otherwise the feeling I would describe as a general disgust with sex, and feeling like you never want to fap again- similar to how you feel if you stuff yourself with cake and ice cream and feel like you will never eat cake and ice cream again.
>prostate cancer
Doctor told be masturbation has no effect on prostate disease, and I had what felt like pain in the prostate when I ejaculated as a result of too much fapping (7 times a day and/or several hours of edging). The meme studies are because of reverse correlation- men with healthy prostate usually are more sexually active, while those with prostate disease don't have as much sexual appetite. In any way, hardcore fap addicts are an exception in that chronic inflammation due to overuse injuries is a far greater risk for cancer than abstinence no doubt.
>>29091045
Only if I fap to some weird shit.
So I know what you're talking about.
>>29091313
Kek, this hit me.
I realized that when I fap to women and right after I finished ejaculate I say to myself "she wasn't that hot".
I'm guessing that is that in effect.
In response to comments about immediately fapping after you cum- I have done that. Unless it was like after relapsing from a week of abstinence, it felt a lot less intense than the first orgasm, and the erection was usually smaller/softer. Nevertheless I did it because of sexual addiction, even if I was just using a death grip on my completely limp dick. If you actually can't fap for several hours after fapping, thats a good sign you aren't vulnerable to the addiction.
>>29091561
I can fap again in about 10 minutes after the first time if I really wanted to.
>>29091045
>>29091624
Same for me. I know that many of you guys fap to much weirder stuff then I do but I seriously just can't stop fapping to white girls fucking niggers. The fap feels so good when I do it but then I realize I'm fapping to niggers fucking beautiful white girls and it makes me feel shitty that I'm fapping to it after I nut. So I see this porn as weird even if a ton of guys also fap to it.
>>29091697
What a coincidence.
I have (had) the same fetish.
I haven't fapped to that though in 2-3 weeks though. I'm starting to kick it away.
I'm not really sure of the cause of it but if you visit /pol/ much (like me) it could be that. /pol/ makes you seriously insecure with the constant rage inducing images they post. Can make you really insecure since it's always propaganda and makes you believe things that aren't true. Probably take a break or atleast not indulge in such threads.
Also that is what I said was weird aswell.
I don't feel that way, only hungry. Sometimes I am ready to go again.
Just be glad that you didn't lose hundreds of dollars in the process. Ever since I turned 18, I've had an addiction to porn that has led me to spend thousands of dollars on videos and customs. It amplifies the regret, shame, and disgust tenfold. I'm trying to go clean right now, but I'm not confident that I can overcome it. I'll have a clean streak of several months where I delete everything and just fap in the bathroom to get rid of the urge, but eventually I fold again.
I think this time I may be quitting this habit for good. I paid for a Skype session with a dom recently and that was the first time I did anything personal like that. Blew $100 in an hour and felt like shit after I nutted. She was calling me subhuman filth and all this other shit and I really reflected after she disconnected because I had already nutted and she was asking for more money.
Now I reflect on the fact that I could have at least $6,000-$7,000 in my bank account if it wasn't for my impulses. I reflect on the fact that I could have built a decent gaming PC four times over, but at this point, I can't even afford a nice GPU. Women are poison.
>>29091621
>7 times a day and/or several hours of edging
Jesus christ, I barely do it that much in two weeks.
Are all these reports of feeling terrible afterward from similarly addicted guys? For me there's a sharp downturn in both orgasm quality and post-fap good mood if I do it even two days in a row, so it wouldn't be surprising if doing it multiple times a day caused a terrible mood.
>feeling like you never want to fap again- similar to how you feel if you stuff yourself with cake and ice cream and feel like you will never eat cake and ice cream again.
Like this definitely seems like a corruption of the result of normal amounts of fapping, which is suddenly feeling like you never want to fap again because you're so thoroughly satisfied that you can't imagine needing to. Reminds me of eating a really amazing meal and being full and sleepy in a good way.
>>29091839
>paying money for porn
>ever
>>29091766
Yeah there is an interesting thread up on this board right now about interracial porn. Many people were saying that the fetish is a bit racist and rape like. Which may explain why so many on /pol/ seem to like it.
And honestly? It is why I like it as well. Problem is even if you understand why you might fap to it it's still seems weird to fap to it to me. I also like the contrast too.
>>29091841
no its definitely a feeling of disgust
feels a lot different cuddling with a girl for 2 hours or stuffing yourself with kale and broccoli than fapping so much your balls hurt and surfeting yourself with pastries and desserts
>>29091697
>those eyes
i could stare into them all day
>>29091839
Dont worry about the money, 7K is pocket change in the grand scheme of things and you know it. What worries me more is the fact that women feel great after cumming apparently and can go again immediately.
I feel you exactly op.
This is my discovered solution:
1) stick with a fap schedule then slowly extend the schedule between faps. E.g. Once every 2 days. Then slowly extend to 1 week.
2) do not watch porn before fapping. Imagination is fine. Imagination from previously viewed porn is also fine. The theory is if you dont obtain new sex material your imagination will no longer stimulate you enough sooner or later. So imagining porn you've previously seen is okay. Whats not okay is obtaining new porn to supply your imagination.
>>29091893
Yeah, that's what I meant. I think pacing your fapping results in the first feelings, doing it too much results in the second.
>>29091904
Yeah her eyes are definitely really beautiful. The kind of girl you want to suck your dick.
It's because you experience a certain kind of death of yourself that science has yet to name. You expend energy; tension worked up throughout the day. Whatever you stressed about, and whatever came of your handling of that stress, was concentrated in that moment of ejaculation. The guilt either comes from not doing enough with that stress or in ending the string of moods you've begun to identify with and become that resulted from taming said stress. It's that simple. You are hitting a literal low in being when you masturbate.
>>29091977
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_petite_mort
And this may be the term for what I referred to as "post-ejaculatory slump" but not sure:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse
>>29091511
>I cant stop thinking about black pussy unless i fap
Why is this so funny?
>>29091045
Its 2016.
People are starting to realize that porn and masturbating degenerate you and desensitize you.
Abstaining from watching porn and masturbating is no longer some crazy religion thing.
Its realizing that you can control yourself and your instincts, that you are not impulsive like an animal, and want something more out of life.
>>29091045
Two things I noticed.
>immediately post-fap I feel creative and can produce semi-decent music
>the next day after fapping is always bad and things go wrongreally it's like clockwork
>>29093506
>and want something more out of life.
but it still doesn't change the reality that sexy female bodies are the most enjoyable thing I could ever see or touch on this Earth, and even though I don't want sex I still idealize getting to have lots and lots of cuddles.
>>29091045
its because your brain floods with dopamine when you bust but you probably dont have that much of it to begin with so there will be 0 dopamine receptors active after fapping = feels bad man
>>29091273
they use a shitton of sex drive stimulants
>>29091273
I only managed to fuck a girl twice in one night with about an hour interval.Maybe could've made it three times if I haven't fucked a prostitute the very same day and haven't fapped the day before.
