>22yo kv
>start working new job in January
>qt3.14 black grill coworker
>hit it off with her she's pretty much perfect
>has a bf
>still talk to her all the time, even text a lot
>invites me out Friday night to go drinking with her friends
>everything goes ridiculously well, end up at her place
>laying together, start fingering her
>she grabs my dick, it's time
>suddenly realize I'm not hard
>she keeps playing with it, I'm not growing
>eventually gives up, I apologize and say I was nervous
She seemed to genuinely be fine with it but I feel like I need to end my life right now. Of all the problems I've had with women, when I finally got the chance I never thought this would stop me
I'm reading about performance anxiety now and it seems like I'm fucked for life
I'm seriously considering quitting my job and ignoring her forever
I knew it was a stretch but surely some robots have been in my position right? Obviously the worst thing I can do is worry about it, that will just cause it to happen again but I'd like to find a way to fix it
Also I'm pretty sure this was caused by porn and over stimulation, be careful if you still think you'll have sex one day. This is the worst thing that can go wrong
>>29075725
>being capable of attracting a girl
>getting as far as fingering her and having her touch your dick
time for you to leave this board 2bh
>>29076321
I fell for the "lift and better yourself" meme
No amount of muscles can cure my inner shyness
>>29075881
>I'm seriously considering quitting my job and ignoring her forever
That's the worst thing you can do. If she likes you enough to be fine with your ED then the best thing you can do is be open about it and try again with this same chick. Girls love something they can fix and your problem is 100% mental. If you find someone you can get close enough with your anxiety will fucking vanish, and if you let her think she's the one who cured your erectile dysfunction she'll be fucking hooked. This is could be a pivotal fucking point in your life dude, don't runaway, make it work.
>>29076359
doesn't change the fact you know what a vagina feels like and thats more than i can say
now get the fuck out already
>>29076359
>normie has sexual experience
>people tell him to leave
>"I-I lifted/got good clothes/merely acted like a normie! I can s-stay here!"
>>29075725
Happened to me the first time too but luckily I got out of it without too much awkwardness, second time it worked like a charm just don't overthink this shit.
>>29077000
i was like you too (not op), but I lifted and all my fat went away, same with my bad acne scars (Became less visible), im not even tall too (5'8"), anyone can get pussy, but pussy isnt everything, its getting the right girl, a smart girl not some vapid whore
>>29077104
i like guns, swords, anime and video games (things girls don't like)
i want to fuck a girl i don't want to fucking babysit her or be her "friend"
i'm literally invisible to girls, if i can't stick my dick in them and suck on their tits they might aswell not exist so you are wrong about the sex isn't everything part because that is literally all they are good for
you weren't just like me, you were a normie waiting to break out of their shell. if you can get laid once you can get laid again
