>>29057914
That's pretty much exactly it. If you like someone and actually want them to be your gf 9 times out of 10 you need to actually go and make the first move.

yeah, confidence/assertiveness is probably one of the top 3 most important things for getting a gf, as normoo as it sounds. unless youre shy boy glasses chad of course

>>29057914
I'm not assertive and neither is my dad, betas raise betas in my experience.

>>29057914
yes, pretty much. this is a problem for someone who often as not doesn't even know or have strong opinions about what he wants, let alone motivation in going after it.

>>29058068
No my dad is pretty assertive but i inherited my moms inferior beta genes

>>29058069
Im actually pretty assertive in other parts of my life i was a assistant manager at my wagecuck job and ive solo traveled around burgerstan. Its just the >gf area of my life i havent figured out how to be assertive

My dad is very weak willed, for example there are several places in the house with dangerous electrical installs that need fixing but every time I mention it he just shrugs it off or flat out denies it. He is also a hoarder that can't throw anything away.

>>29057914
Learned to be assertive then suddenly I'm not in L O N D O N anymore and theres no qts I like anywhere.
Seriously I meet no girls who look good to me.
I'm starting to think I'm gay and should hit on the first dude I like no memes.