>Someone I'm hanging out with starts venting about personal

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2016-06-04 20:23:59 Post No. 29055211
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:23:59 Post No. 29055211 [Report]

>Someone I'm hanging out with starts venting about personal problems
>have no idea what the fuck to say to them
Seriously do I relate to them with something similar that's happened to me?
Do I comfort them or some shit?
Growing up I was told no one gives a shit about each other's problems and to keep that shit to yourself
So now anytime anyone is comfortable enough with me to vent about their shit I got no idea what to say or do
Shit
Inb4 normie pls leave reeee

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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:26:24 Post No.29055261
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:26:24 Post No.29055261 [Report]

so abandon that thought and do what you think is right. be a fuckin friend.

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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:29:57 Post No.29055338
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:29:57 Post No.29055338 [Report]

>>29055261
Bruh, I don't just tell them what I was told, I usually say nothing or try and relate to them with a similar experience I had, because I'm afraid of intimacy

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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:31:57 Post No.29055373
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:31:57 Post No.29055373 [Report]

>>29055211
>Growing up I was told no one gives a shit about each other's problems and to keep that shit to yourself

This is true but people get told by TV to "just let it out", "just say it" so they believe it.

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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:36:32 Post No.29055464
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:36:32 Post No.29055464 [Report]

>>29055373
Yea normie culture may be bullshit but it's bullshit I have to buy into and learn if I want to have meaningful relationships with my friends

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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:49:06 Post No.29055730
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Anonymous 2016-06-04 20:49:06 Post No.29055730 [Report]

>>29055464
Preach it, friend.

I have to put up a facade every time I'm with them.