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what made you bitter towards women, /r9k/? how did you grow out
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what made you bitter towards women, /r9k/?
how did you grow out of it (if you did)?
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a breakup with an incredibly vile piece of shit human being

i'm kinda glad it happened because now i can focus on the important things in life, whatever the fuck those are.
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Being hated and treated poorly for things I couldn't change. Like being short, ugly and constantly angry looking.
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im not bitter at women, i was just grossly misinformed or under-informed about dating, relationships, interacting with women.
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1. Jealously
2. Women don't appreciate that each gender has it's perks and ignore the 'privilege' that comes with having a vagina.
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>>29052844
My stepmother and my mother should themselves to be horrible people. I think I am never going to grow out of it, all women I know are batshit self-entitled people.
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>>29052844
I started fucking hookers and going on dates and realised that I didn't need women in my life beyond sex. Their company is literally torture when I'm not fucking them.

Now I just fuck hookers.
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I'm born female but mentally retarded so I cross dress and pretend I'm male 99% of the time

Let me give you some insider info

I've known women were shit since I was like a fucking toddler. My mom talked to me like I was an adult even at that young age and pretty much confirmed what I thought of women:

1) women take advantage of men using their pussy pass, and other women encourage it.
2) women have less skills than men, but somehow through society they are still always given the upper hand.
3) if you are a female, you can bullshit all you want in front of men just because you are female. Refer to 1
4) most women are aware that they have more rights and privileges than men (at least in that generation, idk about now) and use that to their advantage -- they either pretend they don't to gain more advantages, or just abuse that power

And this is why I agreed with all of that: I've always read a lot since a young age and watched whatever tv drama my parents were watching... Women are bullshit and get away with way too much. I was also bullied by girls when I was younger.

When I was very young I legitimately believed I was a real boy, and felt an affinity/brotherhood for other boys but just felt disconnected with females. Maybe related to bullying, maybe not.
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>>29052844
>Constant rejection made me hate them.
>Nonstop through high school and college.
>Get decent career and start working my way up.
>Nearly 30 now.
>Buy brand new 6 bedroom house in upper middle class neighborhood because I can.
>A bunch of used up whores who have gained weight, covered in tattoos, and some even with kids suddenly want to date me.
I am just one more roastie away from attempting to date me and I will finally snap.
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>>29053433
possible day of retribution?
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I started losing my hair and girls stopped giving me attention so I basically hate everything
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>abusive sociopathic mother and sister
>female figures growing up were no better
>treating them as equal companions instead of walking vaginas you distract long enough to use ends up in rejection
>never associate them with anything pleasant or nurturing or something you should seek out
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>>29053378
We already know that though. We can tell you're a woman, as you felt the need to type 3 paragraphs about yourself. No amount of baggy jeans and jerseys will change the fact that you are a woman, and think like one.
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>>29052844
It wasn't so much what women did to me. I just observed and interacted with them enough to determine that they're nothing to pine over; and that many of them are just shrill, obnoxious, empty, vapid, dull, unimpressive, spoiled brats.
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anyone who says something other than
>mum/mom
is a fucking normie that belongs to facebook and not here.

I'm 100% serious. You faggots are cancer in human form.
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>>29053433

All women are gold diggers. It's not their fault, it's a genetic trait that comes with the ovaries.
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>>29052844
>what made you bitter towards women, /r9k/?

Nothing, I am indifferent towards them, like any person nowadays actually.
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>>29053378
I hate girls like you. You're not a special snowflake, you're just a failure. Such a colossal failure that you can't even manage the failure of being a woman.
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This girl in high school who I regrettably orbited for two years before she told me I wasn't even good enough to orbit her and generally made the rest of high school a living hell from then on

I hope I'll eventually be able to trust women enough for a real relationship. In the meantime, I've been pumping and dumping tinder sluts to make up for everything I missed in high school
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i was/am a beta cuck and allowed myself to be used by too many of them. i accept full responsibility in being a weak faggot and allowed it to happen, but they will never accept the responsibility in being sociopathic narcissists who use people and throw them away like trash

i don't really care about women anymore, i just want to be left alone, i'm not interested in playing their games. does that count as growing out of it?
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>>29053378

Well, even though it's not socially acceptable to call women losers, they ARE losers.

They are the inferior sex, they have an angst towards men, they feel entitled to everything, they can't do much on their own, and they have western civilization (read: western men) working 24/7 to give them every advantage possible, and they STILL whine and they STILL fail.

Women are losers. Men get a bad rap for being losers and such, but women are the true pathetic losers on this planet. We serve them on a golden platter and they can barely function still.
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Women are too cruel just because they feel like it.
If women were in charge in the war the world would be a wasteland nowadays.
A girl that I didn't even knew called me "sooo ugly" out of loud in public with lots of people around.
Everyone turned their heads and me and laughed, I was a stranger to her and yet she felt like fucking my shit up.
Tbat crushed me, I stay in my house as much as possible sincethen.
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>>29052844
There's plenty of things that make me hate women, I can't name them all
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>>29052844
I've never been bitter or hateful towards women, all of that energy is inflicted towards me.
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>>29052844
The only thing I hate about women is how they never want to get their hands dirty and just say fuck off. Whenever I try and ask a girl to hang out or something instead of saying no they just ignore you through texts. JUST FUCKING SAY NO YOU CUNT. Just my personal experience.
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>>29052844
I personally don't hate women but I know for a fact most people here have severe mommy issues due to mentally unstable/abusive parents, mostly mothers.

The "I hate single moms" people initially surprized and intrigued me, because you veryrarely see them IRL

Turns out that they are either sons of single mothers they hate (knowingly or not), or more often raised by a father that is abusive towards their mother and trying to degrade all women (starting with his wife). Single mothers are the easiest victims and the most enraging to them (because they often aren't as submissive as their wife) so they get particularly angry and offensive towards them. Their children (aka the anons posting here "OMG SINGLE MOMS REEE") just copy their behaviour.

tl;dr; mommy and daddy issues.
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>>29052844
Two things
>Lack of attention (a weak reason, but easily understandable I'm sure)
>Watching their contradictory actions from the outside

I don't hate all women, I don't even hate women until proven otherwise or anything like that. But it's quite clear that we have a society in which a large portion of the female population is vapid and deceitful, in a way that affects both me directly and society at large.
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Also there's the elliot rodgers category.
These people are typically unfuckable and unlovable for various reasons (fat, ugly, bitter, socially incapable) that could or could not be caused by bad parenting.

Then they develop this hate mechanism to protect their ego. The narcissim might be "spontaneous" (ie purely created by the person) or might be created and sustained by the parents that make think they deserve everything.
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>>29052844
>what made you bitter towards women, /r9k/?
/r9k/
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>>29052844
One day I just realized that all the drama women give us, the shit, the reward, the dream of children, these things we prize so highly are also so ridiculous. It helped me take things less seriously to think that life's biological imperative has so much absurdity attached. It also helped that I came to figure out that my mother had mental illness. Finally, I had stupid expectations of my parents because in reality they weren't as smart or as fortunate as I am. I was a very alone person in that I had nobody to relate to (and still mostly don't). But I'm an adult now, and at least I can live my life and work to new things until I find people more like me.

So all in all, I don't feel bitter toward women. I feel more like a person who is just beginning to explore society and the world at large. I think I am smart and patient enough to find what I want.

Have some massive tits for your time OP; puts things into perspective.
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>>29052844
They act like I don't exist, & I feel like they think they're better than me just because they were born pretty.
Vain pieces of shit, they're walking fuckpuppets that are only useful for reproduction.
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>>29055605
stop with that narcissim bullshit, that's the normie prognosis, and won't be allowed on muh r9k.
elliot was just meek, short, feminine male, as such women never gave him the time of the day. he had basically three options:
1. accept no woman would love him for "who he is", use money to get women / prostitutes
2. forget about romance and focus his life on something else
3. go mad over it (what actually happened)
all his "narcissism", "entitlement" and so on is basically going mad because of choice #3.
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>>29053028
Good for you. I might go the same path.
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>>29055741
He could easily get a girlfriend of his league if he was capable of social interaction and able to understand he's not a 9/10 but a 5-6/10.

His parents have many red flags (western man married to asian woman from the third world, father being a retarded "writer" and "artist" etc) so I believe they initially made him into the fuck up he was, but he is fully responsible for his actions and his delusions. He didn't "have to" do anything, he could talk to others, start getting normal feedback, accept who he is etc.
And yes, he cetainly was a narcissist. That's how you call someone with a massively inflated self image that he created to protect his ego.
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>>29052844
The presence of any man they deem unattractive offends them, and they'll make sure to make that clear, but they'll never say it out loud. They're almost always entitled, snarky and the scary part is it isn't always conscious on their part. It's instinctive to them. Sure some men are awful but there's good men to even it out. Women are less diverse, in all aspects, so good women are rarer. They're nearly all mediocre.
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>>29055984
>He could easily get a girlfriend of his league if he was capable of social interaction and able to understand he's not a 9/10 but a 5-6/10.
no he couldn't, unless "in his league" means a 1/10 hamplanet.

>but he is fully responsible for his actions and his delusions. He didn't "have to" do anything
sure, if he didn't choose to obsess over it and instead forget about love/sex, or just buy sex. but as soon as he chose to continue caring about love and sex, he destined himself to madness. for most people it's just ends with quite suicide, his was a louder one
>And yes, he cetainly was a narcissist. That's how you call someone with a massively inflated self image that he created to protect his ego.
he was in the sense that to deal with constant frustration and suffering the psyche might create those kind of delusions, but he hardly believe he was a "narcissist from the get go (and that's why women didn't like him!!!11 )" as the norms love to think.

really, any analysis I've seen of the case of Rodger was completely wrong
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>>29056091

NPD disorder criteria:

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements, high ego)
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. requires excessive admiration
4. has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favourable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
5. is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
6. lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
7. is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
8. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes


He was a pathetic subtype of narcissit, and I know you can feel some empathy for him, even I do to a certain point, but he killed people. He deserves every bit of it.
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>Only woman I regularly interact with is my mother
>Almost every conversation ends with an argument.
>Closest I come to interacting with them is seeing people talk about them on here and watching porn
> Both depict women as despising all mentioned that fail to meet their standards.
> this board made it clear the extent that women hate short men
>Porn makes it seem as though women cannot be pleasured by anything but the most well-endowed men
>It also regularly depicts women having affairs with men that could better satisfy them
>Watch so much of it that I can't help but believe it's true for the vast majority of women
I just live in an environment in which I only see women as cruel and hateful people.
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>>29053754
Actually, robots are the cancer, and normies are productive, gainful members of society
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when girls in highschool/adulthood idolize those fucking scumbag men who are loud and stupid.
woman are so short sighted when it comes to picking a partner its pretty incredible, there is no mix and and match for them - it all comes to some fucking grocery list of looks money and statues.
everyone who isn't in their range of potential partner is invisible. they don't stand a fucking chance.
also they constantly listen to other jealous females that poison their mind about what guy is good for them like they can't make up their own fucking mind, they trust their girlfriends opinions more than their family or friends like its some sort of mastermind thinktank that knows whats best for her.
i don't even mention the arrogance of woman, its through the fucking roof.
did i mention most of them are degenerate vodka heads too?
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>>29056349
So why do you think you're better than the guys the women choose?

You aren't. Those guys are better than you. They are better people than you are. Think about it.
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>>29056174
Again, he might have become a narcissist, but it was as a result of his 1. lack of success with women 2. obsession over that fact. most people try to claim that he was narcissistic to begin with and that's why he had no success with women which is complete bullshit
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>>29056377
im not saying im better, did i say that?
im saying that woman put personality in a very low order far as what they want, maybe probably the lowest.
so basically they think that just because they are woman the scumbags won't step on them like they step on everyone else and its a one of the most common mistakes that woman do
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>>29056377
the strange question is how come there are 50% males and 50% females and only one side gets to be picky
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>>29056377
>Those guys are better than you. They are better people than you are. Think about it.

Not the anon you're replying to. I don't disagree that they are more compatible with their partners, I think that's true. But better people? What about the guys who end up murdering their girlfriends?

Both sides to this argument are very simplistic usually.
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>>29055984
Girls usually date up, they hate to date across and they never date down
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>>29056377
>men who pump and dump women, abandon them, and leave as single mothers and are a deadbeat to their kids
>"""""good people"""""
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>>29056482
all the shit that woman do to men is because of men.

we basically act like pussy hungry children and let woman walk all over us because we can give them cheap drinks/whatever
if you are awaken to this reality you need to decide what path you follow
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>>29056583
I've known that since puberty, doesn't really change anything. you can't convince those man to stop acting the way they do
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this conversation even though i'm still in love with her
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>>29056548
Eh it really depends. Everyone prefers to date up, but almost nobody can do it.

In any case he could date down. Still better than dying a bitter laugable virgin.
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