Hola /r9k/
Let's help each other out with Tinder!
How many matches do you usually get? How low do you set the bar when right swiping?
I got a match for the first time yesterday and I don't know how to start the convo, what are some nice but simple openers?
Bumpin some porn in the meantime.
>>29051053
fellow robot here
>How many matches do you usually get?
20-30 a day
How low do you set the bar when right swiping?
i'm very picky
what are some nice but simple openers?
guys always message so i dunno lol, something funny? just try to be 6'1 or taller and offer to pay for her
I only swipe right 6+/10, sometimes 5s to practice game and get a shitload of matches. I get meaningful conversation every now and then but my game sucks in general.
A good way to open convos when you don't know what to say at all is "hey [name], I gotta ask you something". So she says "what" and you follow with something like "ok but promise you wont laugh". she'll say yeah so you can say "I'm not sure yet, are you a fun/kind/confident/etc person?" and then start talking about her personality without asking the original question you said you had to ask. Then you can start talking about meaningless shit like horoscope, make some jokes, and when you run out of things to say you can go back to the starting point and say that the thing you wanted to ask her was if she's down to grabbing some drinks.
It's easier said than done though.
OP here, thanks for the advice.
Is drunk texting a viable option for starting a conversation?
I'm probably getting mildly drunk tonight so I might start writing her.
I normally have good self control when I drink so I won't be an asshole.
>>29051307
If you need it to get the ball rolling, sure. Otherwise I'd say remember to bee yourself. Memes aside, things just won't work out if you pretend to be something you're not.
I say this like I know jack. I signed up to tinder, did some swiping, got 2 matches, spoke to 1 and got her number and have been seeing her for a few weeks now ever since. I'm a 24 year old khv yet I've somehow managed to snag myself a petite qt who likes vidya. If I can do this shit anyone can.
>>29051307
Drunk texting is gr8. Not only it improves your game, but if you fuck up you can play it cool by saying "lol i was drunk af" the next day.
>>29051511
>things just won't work out if you pretend to be something you're not
Biggest lie I've ever seen.
Maybe it's just me but things started working right the moment I started pretending I'm something I'm not.
>>29051561
Maybe I should have said in the long term then? Keeping up such a facade just feels like a recipe for disaster.
Thank y'all
