>finally get gf
>she doesnt text you for an hour or so
>start crying and thinking she hates you
is anyone else really insecure here?
>talk to girl
>she digs me
>see her talking to other guys
>storm out in a rage
yep, pretty insecure here anon
>meet girl
>find out she has boyfriend
>instantly become 1000x more awkward around her and passively ignore her rather than becoming a beta orbiter
>somehow think im better than a beta orbitor
>>29050952
>really insecure
>has gf
You don't know the first thing about being insecure.
>be studying
>receive text after text after text
>know it's her
>"ugh get a life you bitch"
>respond to her messages three hours later
>she doesn't respond back
>get sad and frustrated
I don't miss being all alone, but I can't get used to this.
>>29051037
there's different ways for insecurities to come out anon.
>>29051059
>three hours later
that probably pissed her off
>>29051004
What are you supposed to do? Personally i dont think its morally right to be mrstealyogirl, so you have two options besides beta orbiting. Leave her alone or try to get with her despite the bf
>>29051099
but she doesn't have a bf, its just one day we have a really awesome time together and I think she likes me then the next day she goes hang with a bunch of other guys and barely acknowledges me
>>29051142
she's already in a social group. chances are most of the guys know her better than you and/or want to fuck her. Then it becomes a power struggle among males. I've seen it happen.
Best thing you can do is not think she has fucked any of those guys ever and never wants to.
>>29051067
I wait days sometimes. Sometimes she can't handle me ignoring her and starts calling.
In fact, three hours was an exaggeration. In this particular case, it was less than two hours. It probably turned her off that I replied so quickly.
>29051142
Just leave her alone, sounds like type B bad news.
Unless youre totally overreacting and being clingy. If this is your only friend with a vagina, then this is probably the case. Get more friend girls.
>>29050952
I wish that would happnen to me. God, I hate texting.
>>29051226
do you really care about this girl?
i wouldnt purposefully do that to a girl i care for. i mean if i am working or not handsfree then sure i wont text at an unreasonable time. maybe a few texts per hour or so if i can manage.
>>29051099
Best thing to do in that case is go to the group and talk to everyone but her, make friends with her friends while ignoring her, tell everyone nice things and ask them questions and when you become the center of attention of the group, you gtfo.
That makes girls wet.
>>29051221
I noticed it has become kind of a power struggle, should I just drop the whole thing and move on or keep trying?
>>29051238
not my only friend with a vagina but I am probably being too clingy. waht should I do?
>>29051278
I do. It's game, though. I ignore her all the time to get inside her head, and it works. It fucking works it's kinda ridiculous. I hate doing it, I'd love to text her all the time. But that's what every other guy she's friendzoning do. She's attractive too. I think the only reason she wants me is that I pretend I don't give a shit about her when I'm not with her.
When we hang out, I don't even talk. I just look at her and she talks, makes faces, dances, does things to catch my attention, hugs me and kisses me. It's so sweet. But I miss her so much whenever we're not together and sometimes I even cry. Being insecure blows.
>>29051351just fuck her dude :^)bloxlobx
Yeah, very much so. I do not let on whatsoever, most of my ex's thought I was really aloof and uncaring, but in reality I read into every little thing, and stress about stupid shit like why she didn't reply to my message and shit like that.
>>29051534
That's the plan.
>tfw I fucked up twice by failing to get an erection
Just kill me senpai.Got some viagra pills sitting on my desk right now. It aint happening again.
ok, so i'm not the only one like this.
thanks /r9k/
>Send literally the most "I need to know information from you and you have this information" message to a girl on Steam
>XXXXX is now away
Fucking.
Kill.
Me.
Shits like you are the abusive party in a relationship.
>>29051646
God damn you low hanging genetic impotent fucking trash rofl.
