>girlfriend crying and shouting at me after finding out i 'still' watch porn and don't try to have sex with her
not all it's cracked up to be folks. how do i shut her up?
Dump her. Clearly you have the right priorities going.
>>29049221
Seconding this. Why even have her around at that point?
>>29049233
I love her, we're a great match, she's pretty fit, and we live together....
I agree with her, why would you watch that jewish shit when you have a gf to have sex with?
>>29049267
>love her
>she's fit
>great match
>don't try to fuck her
You literally sound like a complete homosexual faggot. Congratulations, you just turned your relationship into a platonic friendship.
>>29049211
You are not having sex with her? Just dump that useless bitch then
>don't try to have sex with her
Well there is your "problem" op. Fuck I have privileged normies.
>>29049290
>>29049302
I suck in bed really, really badly and have chronic ED and PE. When I try to have sex it usually ends in me feeling really depressed and miserable, as such, I just end up watching porn to relieve the urges.
>girlfriend crying
GET OF MY BOARD NORMALFAG
RRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>29049267
So she's a friend at best and a roommate at worst. Not a girlfriend.
>>29049333
yeah and watching porn is making that worse you dumbass
>>29049342
Nah she is a gf because we do dirty things together and have sex sometimes.... i'm just really terrible at it so don't do it that much.
>>29049372
IKR... it's a vicious cycle.
>>29049333
Well I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you are no longer sexually attracted to your girlfriend and instead need to get your release from videos of traps and homosexual men getting fucked sideways. Imagining yourself getting fucked by other men is the only way you feel comfortable sexually. Time to dump her and start your new life as a fully fledged faggot.
>Trust me, I am a doctor.
>>29049211
>mfw all these grown ass adult men trying to defend their porn addictions
>mfw their mental gymnastics
I know I'm horribly sadistic but I get a tremendous kick out of threads like this.
>>29049333
...you have a girlfriend that lives with you and who obviously trusts you. take the opportunity, talk to her honestly, and get to fucking her three times a day.
>tfw your gf only watches porn and rarely has sex with you
>>29049422
>Being a grown ass man
>Watching so much porn that only other grown ass men who really want to go through puberty like 10 year old girls do and develop boobies manage to give you a boner
>Being ok with this
>Not helping yourself break the cycle
>Not educating yourself on the topic of addiction and how watching porn literally ruins your ability to perform and makes your fetishes and need for taboo fetishes worse over time
>THE LITERAL CURRENT FUCKING YEAR :^)
Good job you fucking idiots.
>>29049302
Platonic relationships are the best desu
Not sexless, but platonic as in Plato's definition of platonic. Sex should be a medium for love in a relationship. Not a goal on it's own.
>>29049481
>options are X and Y
>X is hard to obtain
>Y is very easy to obtain
>to do X you need a women, to do Y you need a functioning hand
>if the women you have to do X with isn't that good, neither will X be good
>most women are not good at X because they are use to having men do all the work (this is true for just about everything)
>therefor X isn't very fun because you basically have to carry someone throughout it and hope they actually give some effort to make it fun
>Y is all most always fun
it's not really an addiction. it's being able to weigh the pros/cons of each option.
women just suck
>>29049554
Refer to the definition of mental gymnastics to unlock incredible insight into your own psyche.
Though I do agree that most women are ridiculously bad fucks, but then again, so are most men (I've heard).
>>29049584
Men and women nowadays are both shit to be frank.
>>29049537
What's the differences between Plato's platonic relationship and a regular relationship?
Sex is considered to be usually at the top of one's list but that's only during the start of a relationship. Once things are settled and sex isn't a main focus, all a relationship is really just loving each other unconditionally and enjoying ones company with another.
>>29049211
>girlfriend cares about porn
Why? Me and my girlfriend fuck and occasionally I jack off to porn, why is yours being so uptight.
>>29049599
They are. Some of them can be bro as fuck, on both sides too, and others are just shit cunts to avoid.
>>29049584
i guess ur right
there's no possible way the better option is just masturbating, which is easy and gets you exactly what you want
obviously I am delusional for having found an easier and better way to get what I want without needing women
surely I should go out and slave away so a pathetic cunt with sleep with me so I can have a mediocre sexual experience.
thank you Mr. Goldstein for showing me the light.
>>29049629
Did you even read the whole post? He only jacks off to porn and nothing else. He doesn't try to initiate anything.
>>29049211
>he doesn't watch porn together with his gf
>>29049633
>telling a robot that he's getting shilled by jews into watching porn and becoming physically unable to please a woman ever again
>robot reacts by calling me Mr. Goldstein
You're that one fuck. That one disingenuous NEET fuck that never ever uses any form of capitalization and shitposts all day everyday. I'VE FUCKING HAD IT WITH YOUR SHIT.
>>29049708
>yes goy you shouldn't be self sufficient
>you need women goy
>now go work for you worthless prize goy
face it chump, fapping > sex with women
you can try to argue against this, but you will just keep coming up wrong. at the end of the day, the end result of sex and fapping is the same. it's just one is vastly easier, more comfortable, and better feeling than the other.
im sorry you are a weak minded cunt who needs other people to feel good, but not all of us are as sad and pathetic as you.
>>29049211
Happened to me too
I'd rather fap than bother having sex
Cuddling is nice but only I know how to get myself off just right
>>29049211
Tell her you're researching prostate stimulation and want her to peg you.
>>29049211
>>girlfriend
Literally why the fuck are you here. I know it's a meme to hate on anyone with a gf, but it's for a reason. Because if you have a girlfriend, that must mean she's attracted to you.
And you're either really attractive, or just an 8/10 and are a complete normie
You don't face the same struggles as robots, you don't belong here. Why don't you go to another forum that fits your kind more.
Just give porn a break for a week, you'll be more attracted to your girl. Or watch something with her. Porn can make relationships worse when you've got a situation like yourself.
Get your shit together OP
>>29049211
Is no one going to talk about how that big red heart is a Goatse?
Your Major options are real simple:
Reconcile
Breakup
Your smaller options are more complicated:
Stop fapping: This actually will solve all of your problems. You will get so backed up that you're willing to fuck your girlfriend no matter what she looks like. It's just really hard to stop.
Fap Less: Wait till shes on the rag. Or a few times a week.
Viagra/Cialis: Solves all your problems but expensive and dependency forming.
Dump her: Not recommended.
Convince her it's not a bad thing: Difficult, temporary solution.
Spice up bedroom: Solves most problems, turns you into a freak.
Other info:
If you have ED then it is a psychological and/or confidence issue. Seek counseling. No seriously. Go get counseling (Counselor, not Psychiatrist). Also do more manly things much more often.
For the PE just rub one out earlier in the day. Although it's important to realize you're only expected to last about 2 minutes. That's what the experts say.
