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How do I get a girlfriend? I'm a good looking guy , but the only problem is 5'7. I don't personally believe that I'm short, but I'm self aware that others think this is super short or something. Especially since the memes about not being 6 feet + , I feel like girls have recently been super strict on men height.

So what is the best way to get a cute white gf?
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>asking /r9k/ how to get a gf
s-seriously?
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Asking how to get a gf?

Where do you think we are ?
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>>29036438
>5'7
That's not bad at all. There are dudes that are 5"- 5'2 that do well with women. Some hoes are 6" tall, some are 4'8. Just don't focus on the tall ones.
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>>29036438
OkCupid is full of them, if you aren't willing to go out there and approach people
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>>29036581
How about Tinder?

Is Tinder still a thing or is it all just people messing with other people now.
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Girl here,

I'm tired of you thirsty betas complaining about not getting pussy. It's a real turn off. I'm considered a very direct woman, so follow these crucial steps to at least get a 6/10

>Be attractive
Now being attractive isn't everything, but if you don't at least 8/10 looks, women will not even pay attention to you. Take care of your face and work out. If you're still ugly, get surgery or settle for some landwhale

>Be rich
The bare minimum is exactly $100, 000 a year. That's the economy for you. It's just the way it is. We want to be taken cared of. Even you do get a girl, she'll just leave you for the next rich alpha

>Social status
Chicks love it when you have connections and actually know how to talk to human beings. Not lonely social autist that can't even say two things to anyone. Having connections can come in handy in the future and doesn't hurt to be a person lots of people know.

>Nice car
All we want is to driven in a car that's not shitty. Just get a $20, 000 car. It's not too much to ask for. Oh and if you can't drive, consider suicide.

>Be tall
HOLY SHIT PLEASE BE TALL!
Why would a girl want to go out with a manlet? Theirs plenty of tall men for us you are not even worth the competition

>have big dick
Yup, size DOES matter. The whole "ocean" thing is bullshit. This is why we let black men do us.

>Don't be a virgin
Virgins are disgusting! They should be condemned to death. How are you still a virgin? Girls don't ask for much you know.

>Get rid of your pathetic interests
No more vidya, comics, anime weeabo shit, no porn, no more cartoons, MLP, and stop coming to this stupid Filipino image board. You're grown ass men, act like it.

>Be an asshole
We don't show it, but we love to be treated like stupid children. Why do you think women would stay with their abusive cheating boyfriends? But hey, if you are really nice, maybe we'll let you be our official orbiter.

That's it. Real easy if you ask me.

Don't forget-- just be yourself! :)
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>>29036629
2/10
Original 100%
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>>29036629
Is this true?

Holy hell, getting a girlfriend is daunting af

:( why are girls not nice anymore and so superficial
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>>29036742
That's a man, baby

Go jerk off, you cuck. You just want to feel sad and you know it.
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>>29036438

m8, at 5'7 you'll have to settle for a 5/10 or less. I'm 5'11 and I've accepted that I won't be able to get anything better than a 6/10

Sorry bro, it sucks but it's the truth
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>>29036629
that .....thats bait so funnay lel grill here oh yeah righttt
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>>29036629
>Girl here
pics w/ timestamp
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>>29036438
I'm 5'7" as well and steadily approaching my 30's. I feel I've had enough experience to notice I'm not getting a fair shake in life. So I actually bothered finding out why.

Turns out people have actually studied this stuff, and the reason might be that the world just hate you because you're short.

>Your equally qualified 6.ft man will earn $5,000 more than you annually
>Your odds of becoming the head of a company is 1 in 30 compared to a taller man
>at 5'7", 48% of women will not date you solely on that ground. You have been pre-rejected by ~1.9Billion women

http://edition.cnn.com/2007/US/Careers/02/02/cb.tall.people/
http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/everyday_economics/2002/03/short_changed.html
http://www.businessinsider.com/if-you-have-any-of-these-20-physical-features-your-pay-check-will-probably-be-higher-2011-2?op=1&IR=T

http://www.jonathanrauch.com/jrauch_articles/height_discrimination_short_guys_finish_last/index.html
http://www.timothy-judge.com/Height%20paper--JAP%20published.pdf
http://edition.cnn.com/2016/01/05/opinions/yang-men-height/index.html
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>>29037094
Yeah but are you 5'7" with shoes on? Probably not

Good posture while wearing shoes can make you look like 2 inches taller
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In pic related, guy is 5'8", girl is 5'10", she just hides that she is taller

There is hope little guys.
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Seriously what's up with this height thing? Like I've seen some ugly ass motherfuckers who are fat as fuck and dumber than a box of rocks, but they have hot 7-10/10 girlfriends because "ooooh he's tall". Like seriously what the fuck? Is it really that important a guy is over six foot? As long as he has a few inches on you it really shouldn't matter then
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>>29037336
They're married, too. Five years now.
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>>29037094

>Pre-rejected by 1.9 billion women

HAHAHAHAH FUCKING NORMALFAGS BTFO

>Just b yourself
>Lift bro
>put yourself out there :)

IT'S ALL GENETICS LITERALLY ALL OF IT. IQ, HEIGHT, TALENT, LOOKS ALL GENETICS.

M E A N I N G L E S S
L I F E
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>>29037347
Who are you trying to convince but yourself? Height is king, deal with it. I'm 5'7" and I've completely given up, I'm now pursuing my career instead and making lots of money so I can buy lots of shit
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>>29037336

God damn she is thick as fuck, perfect.
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>>29037094
>You have been pre-rejected by ~1.9Billion women
just fuck my shit up...
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>>29036438
>I feel like girls have recently been super strict on men height.
So I'm not the only one

I, for one, blame online dating
You can see the height listed right there and filter out results. Access to so many males from all over has given them unrealistic standards. In real life, you can't just filter out so many people and still be left with a sizeable portion to pick from.
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>>29037347
As long as the guy is 5'7" or somewhat attractive facially and a couple inches taller than the girl, he's fine.

Yes, a girl would take the taller of two equally attractive guys, that's just simple biology... But being short isn't a death sentence. Robots here just look for any excuse not to work out, take care of the secs and get a halfway decent job.
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>>29037409
> thick

Haha, nope.
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>>29037433

>As long as he's rich, good looking, and At least 5 inches taller than me (half the female population) than maybe I'll look at him when Chad's not arounds

LMFAO
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>>29037347
You've seen SOME ugly ass motherfuckers get lucky, most don't. The exception proves the rule.

and btw
>As long as he has a few inches on you it really shouldn't matter then
Girls don't want you to be taller than them, they want you to be taller than other guys.
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>>29037464
>>29037336
I know this girl... Huh, small world.
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>>29036438
I am 5'4" and have had several girlfriends, including a 5'8" blonde volleyball player. Most recent was an 18 year old half asian qt (Im 22). Unfortunately broke up because i realized 18 year old girls are literally emotion fueled immature wackos. 9/10 cute but damn red flags were everywhere. Only dating women my age now.

Step one is to see a girl you find attractive.

Step two is to find some excuse to talk to them (ask for help if they are working, or if they are a classmate, if they are sitting alone just ask if they would mind you sitting with them). This step works best on girls you don't know, because rejection is much less painful.

Step 3 is ask if they would like to meet sometime, I use the old talk over coffee trick.

Step 4 is meet up again, talk some more and kind of wing it from there. If they like you its usually pretty apparant at this point. Then you go on dates a but and eventually the relationship naturally progresses farther as attraction builds.

Try this with enough girls and eventually one if them will say yes. Just dont go table to table talking to chicks at mcdonalds like an autist.

Im short for sure, and generally only attracted to girls shorter than me which are hard to find, but there will always be multiple people out there willing to give you a shot.
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For the longest time I thought the manlet meme was just a hilarious joke.

Now that I started observing how women react to manlets I truly feel sorry for those guys, it fucking sucks to be born into something like that with literally zero chance of changing it.
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>>29036438
you become a cool human being anon. There's no trick to it. No easy way out.

>>29037391
okay, let's assume you're right. By that logic, for even the manletest of manlets, there's still 1,8 billion women who'd be willing to go for a lay with them. lol
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>>29037464
Here is some more.
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>>29037516
>okay, let's assume you're right. By that logic blah blah blah

So? You can only say that AFTER moving the goal posts

>Genetics don't matter
>OK, they do matter but you still have Such and such women left who will look at you! Chad Owns 80% of the market but you can still have the other 20%!

Keep backing up, normie
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That's a beautiful ass. I mean wow.
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>>29036528
>There are dudes that are 5"- 5'2 that do well with women
Not even trying to meme but I've never even met a 5'7 guy that does ok with women ever.
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>>29037559
THIS

I'm 5'7" and IF I ever see a dude my height or shorter with a gf/wife, they are usually southeast asian
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>>29036629
Be an 8/10, make at least $100,000 a year, have tons of friends, drive a $20,000 car (not that expensive? Gtfo), be at least 5'11 (tall compared to average height), have at dick over 6 inches in length and 4.75 in girth (big compared to average sizes), dont be a virgin, don't have any fun and be an asshole.

Let's how much these standards change when this bitch turns 35 and she's all alone because she was a conceited bitch who had RIDICULOUSLY high standards. Lmfao you are out of your fucking mind!
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>>29037559
ummm you sure about that brah
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>>29037538
Your understanding of genetics is pretty flawed, anon. It depends on your environment, training, and a lot of things I can't be arsed to list right now but look up epigenetics and other stuff, it's pretty interesting read.

The point being? Genetics are not the end of the world.

Besides, you assume some archetypal dude owns 80% of the women, which is false. Odds are, you like women with whom you simply have not that much in common with. 80-20%? Have you studied any demographics, anon? Anyone who has will tell you that's bullshit
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>>29036629
nice bait anon, made me chuckle only when i realized some people would believe this
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>>29037495
>literally zero chance of changing it
There's this scene in Gattaca where someone gets a surgery to become taller. Hits right in the feels everytime I see it.
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>>29037644
>>29037538
>>29037391
I have pretty decent height genetics in my family, but my mother smoked, didn't breastfeed me, and put me on the highest dose of ritalin/speed for years when I was young.
All these things can stunt your growth and I am the shortest member of our family. Same height as my mother at 5'6

The other day, while drunk, my mother literally apologized for making me a manlet, as she was, unknown to me, also aware that these things can stunt your growth and spent many nights awake thinking about it.

I've been heavily drunk all week since that day. I honestly don't know how to feel about this, but it's a very bad feel.

My father passed away about two years ago and she recently just made an online dating file to get back in the game. She tells me about the guys she messages and matches up with, and the first thing she talks about is their height. They're all at least 6', the shortest so far being 5'11, but I overheard her talking to my aunt about him, and she said he was 6' that time.

I don't know how to handle all this. This was all in the same week.
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>>29036438
>but the only problem is 5'7.
>the only problem

Nice self-delusion. Your height isn't what's holding you back.

Are you fit? Are you self sufficient? Are you capable of human interactions?
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>>29037890
nigga i'm sorry your childhood sucked.

Second? Your mom's pretty shallow. Height isn't all women are about, like otherwise there would be no men below 5'11 right now. It's just that women don't want to be seen next to a shorter man because culture demands the man be bigger. For some reason.

You need to let the bygones be bygones and take control of what you can control, stop taking drinking as a hobby and take up more meaningful hobbies lol
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>>29036438
>5'7

Give up familovski

I am 5'9 and I gave up
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>>29037946
>Are you fit? Are you self sufficient? Are you capable of human interactions?
Call me a faggot but I believe that all these things would automatically fall into place if I was 5 inches taller.
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>>29037890
your mom sucks

just make it a priority to stop drinking and move away from her ass. Even if you don't hate her it does wonders to live away from retarded parents
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>>29037993
hahahahahahahahaha

That's a good one anon

Short answer is no

Long answer is no, five inches taller wouldn't change a thing, and even if they did it's pointless to know rather than deal with what you got
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>>29036438

>memes influence my irl
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>>29038042
Why not? The confidence boost alone would make wonders.
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>>29037771
Still havent seen that movie...i have been seeding it for 3 years now says my torrent.
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>>29038045
I've literally heard girls in real life talk about that troll image with the man heights chart. And these two girls were normal hot stacies that don't go on internet boards or anything, just facebook. So yes in this case, being the manlet meme, has effected many men in the past 4 years.
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>>29037490
>5'4
stopped reading there.

It's bad to lie on the internet, Abu Saeed Al Normali
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>>29038091
you can get that confidence elsewhere, it's nit a height exclusive thing
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>>29038095
Haven't seen it in years, not sure how well it has aged. Liked it a lot back in the 00s.
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>>29037993
You're not a faggot you're a moron. None of these things would automatically happen.
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>>29038136
>>29038158
You literally have zero arguments. Feels like I'm talking to a fuckin' Chad.

>hurr durr just be yourself mayne
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>>29036438
I know of a guy who is 5'7" at most and does extremely well with the ladies.
>hes rich though
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>>29036528
Yeah I'm 5'2, had a few girlfriends. Currently have three girls to go after. One is taller than me, like 5'6, I've dated her before and the other is the same highest, whilst the other is shorter than me, about 5ft. I'm probably gonna go after the 5'6 one because I actually do love her.
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>>29038332
Why do you make this shit up?
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>>29038369
If you wasn't so cucked by your insecurities, you'd find that not all girls are the same and follow the "Hurr I like tall men" standard.
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>>29036438
You make this thread almost every day

Give it a rest already.
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>>29038369
No more importantly why cant people grow the fuck up here? Literally i am 6'3, and the tallest guy at my job.

Ive gotten the numbers of 3 girl co-workers and I am not even actively pursuing them. My best fucking friend is shorter than me at 5'9 and he his DATING AND FUCKING my general manager keep in mind we were both virgins in high school, I still am a virgin and he is shorter than me.

Why do you feel height is suck a BIG FUCKING DEAL when you can be the best you are and PUT yourself out there and meet good girls?

It just doesnt make sense to me, im skinny and tall trying my hardest to work out not for women but for my own self worth.

Dont let women control your happiness trust me it isnt good fellow robots
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>>29038471
Post one shred of evidence that you're a straight 5'2" male that gets laid
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>>29036438
>"but the only problem is 5'7"
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>>29038524
>Why do you feel height is suck a BIG FUCKING DEAL?
>6'3
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>>29036438
Female standards are continually going up. This is what happens when the dating market is vastly in favour of women (supply/demand) and you 'sexually liberate' women.

To be brutally honest, at 5'7 if you're not ULTRA Chad and/or a celebrity, your height IS going to seriously disadvantage you.

Most girls want tall guys. Girls get so much attention and have so many options that you can basically guarantee there's at least one tall guy in their social circle who is interested in them. They literally get to pick out of a pool of candidates and at 5'7 you're usually not the best candidate.

However, not ALL girls value height. A minority of them seriously don't give a shit how tall you are and a larger minority care about height but not a huge amount. The problem is that as a man who isn't TOP tier, your opportunities to meet lots of women and find those who don't care if you're short are limited. It's a numbers game for you. You need to attract a large number of women and find those for whom height is not an issue.

If you have something particularly interesting or unique to offer or quirky rare interests, try online dating and message TONS of girls. You need to do something which makes you stand out from the hordes of (taller) guys that give them attention.
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>>29038654
What the fuck does that havw to do with anything?

Pretty sure any man 5'7 or shorter could get a woman if theyre charming, strong willed and passionate about being the best and making something of themselves.

Many of you talk about women as if theyre some fuckinf retarded dog that just look at JUST your physical. They do, same as us, but they look for more you fucking tools.
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>>29036528
actually, if you're around 5'6-5'9, girls who are taller than you, in the 5'10 and 6+ foot range are your best bet
I've put it here a few times, but tall girls usually don't care about height as much as smaller girls, because they face some discrimination because of their height as well and have most often had to get used to men being shorter than them
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>>29038707
Stop bullshitting. There's no way a 5'7" guy stands a chance with a 5'10" or tLler girl unless she's really ugly
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>>29038739
no, seriously.
I'm 5'8 and half of my girlfriends have been taller than me.
The half that were shorter (around 5'2) all left with remarks that they wish I were 6+ feet and that I could never satisfy them, etc.
The girls who were the same height as me or taller always left on good notes and we're all friends to this day.
I know this sounds like a "today, on things that happened" episode, but I'm serious. Short girls tend to be assholes.
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>>29038739

I've seen this several times, actually.

I know a couple where the guy is LITERALLY like 4'11 and she's over six feet tall.

It's weird as fuck. He's also an asshole and looks like he's eleven years old tops.
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>>29038739
I'm a 5'10" girl and I don't give a shit about height. Don't fall for the meme.
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>>29038524
Speaking for myself, the only thing that's keeping me down is my height. I have a nice face and a good personality but girls can't look past the fact that I have the silhouette of a teenager. I wouldn't necessarilly want to be 6'3 but I don't like being 5'8. I just don't look good. 3-4 more inches would complement my features greatly, right now I feel like a bobblehead.
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>>29038703
Of course a top tier 5'7 man can get girls. But a 6'4 top tier man can get far, far more.

They're complaining about that. Most girls value height to some degree. Girls have options. Girls will therefore usually pick a tall guy.

If you're a short average guy, you'll get beaten by tall average guys almost every time.
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>>29038792
That's funny because its been years since I've seen a 5'7" or shorter guy with any gf taller than him
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>>29036438
It's just short guys that are hard on short guys. The they all blame women. Stop being so insecure
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>>29038829

I'm 5'10 and feel like a bobble head too. I have this huge masculine head attached to a early teenagers body.
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Send fucking help what do I do
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These stupid threads with stupid normalfags with their stupid advices. We don't care about "huur this one short guy I know got laid" bull crap. Whether or not it's real or not, it's just anecdotal evidence, Not actual fact. Women do not short men masculine or attractive by sight. There are plenty of tall men to make them feel more validated.
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I'm 5'8 and a spic who hates his life. All I want is a cute weeb bf that likes to dress up and stuff. I have really low standards and I'm not hideous, just socially retarded.
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>>29038842
that's extra funny because I literally saw multiple when I went out to shop earlier
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>>29038987
Where the fuck do you live I'll move there
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>>29037890
i had my mom tell my sister in FRONT OF ME say to find a boyfriend who is NOT MY HEIGHT (5'7") but taller. now i just dont wash any shit or do anything to make the house what she wants it to be
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>>29038987
highschool students don't count
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>>29039043
Las Vegas, Nevada.
I literally see them every fucking day.
It's tall women galore.

I actually went on a trip with my little sister in California a few months ago and the people there were the exact same. Short guys as far as the eye could see, with the occasional 5'9er.
I used to live in Louisiana a few years back and it was the same there too, if maybe the people were just a bit taller.
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>>29039044
Harsh af
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>>29039044
Jesus. That's the kind of shit that I'd never forget.

'anon is worthless because he's short' is literally what she told your sister.

Your mother is scum, my dude. Never speak to her again as soon as you're in the position to do so.
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>>29039044
Fuckin' menopause, man. Makes them say all kinds of mean shit.
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>>29037890
>She tells me about the guys she messages and matches up with, and the first thing she talks about is their height.

If she feels guilty enough about making you the height you are to apologize for it, you should call her out on that shit and tell her how much it pisses you off to hear that.
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>>29039169
yea along with the memes here, its starting to cause some unrepairable damage to my mental state. how can ANY tallfags even complain here? better yet, why the fuck do they even exist on /r9k/?
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>>29036438
a girlfriend? any one?

just go outside and talk to girls. eventually you'll pick up which kind you can get with. wow that was so hard?????
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>>29038846
This

Fucking manbabys
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>>29036629
Holy crap this bait could literally not be of lower quality and people are still falling for it.

I really need to kill myself.
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