>almost 19 and still never had a girlfriend
It's getting almost aggressive now
NICe b8 m8 lelellelelellel
>>29005488
I can be your internet girlfriend anon
>>29005488
>almost 21 and still KV
I'm getting almost dead now.
>>29005488
>"TFW no GF Amirite?"
"Oh my sweet summer child, what do you know of that feel? You know nothing."
"B-bu I'm out of HS and...I still haven't..."
"Shh...listen. A time will come when you will now the feel, but the time is not yet right.
Feels are for the winter, anon. When snow of regret falls a hundred feet deep and the lonely winds howl out of the ruins of your broken dreams.
Feels are for the long night, when the qt's will hide their faces from you for years at a time - and robots are born and live and die all in darkness.
When even the normies grow gaunt and hungry from wanting of gf...and the chads prowl the desolate bars seeking to reap for themselves whatever remains.
You are young, anon. Savor the summer. Gather for yourself what you can. When you stand where I do, a decade hence, then you will know that feel when no gf."
>friend of mine comes back from abroad
>he has had sex with at least 20 girls in a year
>he has three dates lined up for the next month
>he is in a bar with my oneitis when i see him
>she has a boyfriend
>they are basically all over each other
how does he do it
>>29005762
"When winter comes, you'll hear no Chads roar, no Stacies grazing the fields, no roses growing in the meadows, no snakes in the sand. The normies will freeze where they swim. The roasties will rot and wither. No trouts swimming in the river and no falcons flying in the air. Not even the dragons breath will warm you in your halls. Only the virgins howl in the night. Winter is coming."
>>29005626
>>29005835
>"That which is Chad may never die, but rises again harder & stronger."
>>29005626
>almost 21 and never held a girl's hand or had any meaningful conversation other than school or work talk
I'm already dead.
>>29006669
Actually I'm all of this too.
>Tfw turned 23 and still dateless KV.
>>29006669
Me too m8. How does this even happen? Clearly we're just not meant for this world.
>>29006927 >>29006734 >>29006669 >>29007074
Honest opinion of someone who was HKV a few months ago (and still don't know tfw gf) - I think there's a problem of inertia.
There's a billion little fucking social cues your supposed to learn and pick up on but no one actually teaches them to you anymore - you're just meant to learn them organically.
For a while this doesn't really matter - almost no one has meaningful relationships in high school or even in college.
But then you're an adult and you have no understanding of any of these little fucking miniscule nuances that completely encompass & permeate the entire courtship process.
It's alot like that thing where a company won't give you a starting job because you haven't had a starting job and they want you to already have experience but they won't let you get experience since you should already have experience.
So, yeah. I think we're mostly fighting with who we were in puberty up to like 22. That's a time when you're supposed to be informally learning how to be a 'normie'. We didn't end up doing that so now we're various degrees of fucked and feel really out of place.
26 in five days and still a kissless virgin. It becomes a very cold and very dark world, younglings.
You guys should check out MBTI stuff, maybe it'll give you some personal insights, it did for me at least.
>>29005488
You guys should honestly get a high end escort and get it over with.
I lost my virginity at 17, and it would've been sooner but i literally got performance anxiety when i tried with two girls before that.
The mental anguish, stress, lack of self-assuredness, my anxiousness, all that shit felt like a massive weight untill i lost my virginity.
Seriously, get an escort. Sex is cool and the release feels good but you'll realize its 15 min of pleasure and you can compartmentalize it after awhile.
>tfw 2016
>still no loli cyborg body
I'm outnot even funposting
>>29005488
I've lost hope on even getting a gf but if I don't atleast have sex by the time I'm 22, I'm getting an escort.
>>29007246
26 khv. De-realisation.
>>29007205
I think you're right. We're like animals that were in zoo and are let out in the wild,not quite ready.
>>29007205
23 kv here.
I feel you, I got a full time job year and a half ago after basically being isolated, and I've only really started to go out with some coworkers and make normal friends at the start of this year. This learning process feels like hell but it feels nice finally making a bit of progress socially, though it still feels like I'm talking to another race when trying to talk to normal people.
I still can't tell if the women are into me, even if it's apparently painfully obvious to other people, and I still don't have the balls to try to flirt with women or even talk to them in a way that suggests that I want to date them. Uphill fucking battle
>>29007205
I feel so disconnected from everyone. I've basically forgotten how to interact with people. I sometimes try to watch people's conversations, just to see how they interact, but it doesn't seem to help. It's like people are speaking in another language sometimes, I feel so robotic and awkward compared to everyone else, and its only getting worse. I don't know how I'll ever catch up. I mean, even if a woman liked me how the fuck could I do anything about it? Not like she'd guide me through learning all about romantic relationships and I overthink everything. It's just pointless.
>>29007246
Only a year behind you, friend.
I wish I could get across to the younger bots just how young they are. Every day that passes it gets harder to change...it's just that when you're young you don't realize how much harder it's all going to get down the line.
>>29007355
Yeah, all this pressure on virgins is really over nothing. I wish some of us wouldn't be so hard on themselves...so you haven't P in V yet? And that makes you less of a person?
No one can take your worth away but you.
>Stay strong, robots. Our watch will end someday, but now it's our lot to hold the line. Just have to hope to be strong enough to actually get out when opportunity strikes.
>We're all gonna make it, bros
>>29007513
>We're all gonna make it, bro
last words of someone who didn't make it
>>29007355
Nah, the idea repulses me and it would just reinforce my feelings of self-hatred and inadequacy. If I can't ever get sex the normal way then there's no point paying for it. I'll accept I'm a failure and don't deserve it.
>>29005762
Good post, bro! I enjoyed it!
Super awesome!
>>29007513
Yes, younger ones do have more time but regardless of age, there simply isn't someone out there for everyone after all.
>27
>ugly
> 5'6 manlet
>only had Sex about ten times
>never had a gf
>it never changes
>time speeds up
>you are a disappointment to anybody who cares about you
>19
Your life has barely begun. Come back and complain when you are nearing your 30's with no gf.
>>29007653
>only had Sex about ten times
ree
>>29007674
In all fairness it goes so fast it's worth worrying as soon as possible. The distance between 18 and 28 is the blink of an eye, then oldness is looming over you. You don't get second chances.
>>29005791
>went abroad
>fucked college age foreign sluts
>came back super confident
EzPz
>>29007455
Exactly. Glad I'm not the only one it makes sense to.
>>29007472
Similar boat. I have to say now that I do have some real friends I would take a fucking bullet for them. But I agree that it's a really uphill battle. Always afraid of saying that stupid thing that will make them turn away like you have before. Learning to trust is almost as hard as learning the actual communication. Especially with chicks.
>>29007486
In my experience the only way to improve is to be vulnerable - which not gonna lie sucks ass. It requires getting hurt over and over until you figure (some) of it out. You don't have to be smooth to succeed, you just need a foothold. And you'll never get that foothold from outside analysis alone.
Also - try to find a good high-quality female friend. Not someone who friendzones you, not someone you doormat for, but a friend who is there for you. You'll be able to build up your tolerance to being around women without dropping spaghetti, and just by being her friend you'll learn a lot about how women's minds work.
Plus, if you hang out with her other girls will instinctively try to 'steal' you from her so you have much higher chance with them.
>>29007074
>>29007205
I work a job where there's a few times more women than guys and we work together.
Sometimes they smile at me or try to start a conversation.
I just give short and most of the time cold answers. Even if these women threw themselves at me I wouldn't know what to do and I would push them away.
I feel like I'm at point of no return.
I will never have any kind of relationship with a woman.
I'm repulsed by women, I find them attractive and all but at the same time can't stand the thought of being intimate with them.
I'm probably going to commit suicide by the age of 30.
>>29007758
>In my experience the only way to improve is to be vulnerable - which not gonna lie sucks ass. It requires getting hurt over and over until you figure (some) of it out. You don't have to be smooth to succeed, you just need a foothold. And you'll never get that foothold from outside analysis alone.
I do find it very hard to open up to people, probably because of my shitty past experiences. Even the slightest knock back makes me want to give up. I have no self esteem left.
>Also - try to find a good high-quality female friend. Not someone who friendzones you, not someone you doormat for, but a friend who is there for you. You'll be able to build up your tolerance to being around women without dropping spaghetti, and just by being her friend you'll learn a lot about how women's minds work.
I have no male friends, so the idea of getting a female friend when I've barely spoken to any in my life is basically impossible. I'm awful at understanding other people, especially emotionally. I'd have no idea where to even meet any.
>Plus, if you hang out with her other girls will instinctively try to 'steal' you from her so you have much higher chance with them.
I seriously doubt anyone would want to be around me for longer than is necessary.
I only like Asian girls, but I don't want to be that creepy guy that looks for Asian girls. So that's me finished. That and I'm ugly and it even grosses me out to imagine me talking to a cute Asian girl from the outside.
I made it to 23 before i first had a gf... i'm probably going to live with her next year,
I told a blonde 9/10 petite tall white 23 y/o that i'd never had a girlfriend and she said "i'm sure you have anon", then we continued the conversation as though nothing happened.
I also had never had sex and my current gf has no idea that i was a virgin because i'm "attractive", confident and have a large penis
21 KHV (HKV?) here. I'm actually glad women don't want me. Now I can spend more time doing what I want to do and not wasting time and money trying to please women who will cuck me anyway
>>29007849
Pretty much this. And being on this board doesn't make the self pity or learned helplessness any better. But oh well, I'm here forever.
>>29007849
Obviously I can't tell you to keep living, anon. But I've been suicidal several times in my life and I've always ended up being grateful that I didn't follow through. Most recent was a month ago. It's hard, but living is the only thing we ever get to know for sure that we'll do.
As for making your life less shit - try even the smallest things. You're stuck in a pattern. I know because I've done that over and over my whole life. Try having one conversation a day. Or three a week. Then, if you get comfortable with that, try two. If you build yourself a foundation you can start living among them without feeling so isolated.
As for getting a gf - I'm sorry but there's no way for that to happen until you get yourself a little more squared away socially. I would try to focus on that less if you can (even though I know how much easier that is to say than to do).
Be strong if you can, friend. And be careful what you read here. This place eats hope.
>>29007995
>I do find it very hard to open up to people, probably because of my shitty past experiences. Even the slightest knock back makes me want to give up. I have no self esteem left.
Exactly. I have the same problem. You have to thicken your skin a bit instead of shutting yourself off. Even though you can't get hurt if you're not vulnerable you also can't feel any of the things that make life worth living.
>I have no male friends, so the idea of getting a female friend when I've barely spoken to any in my life is basically impossible. I'm awful at understanding other people, especially emotionally. I'd have no idea where to even meet any.
In that case my recommendation is to start getting more comfortable around people (in VERY small doses to start) until you make a friend. Then try to make a couple more. Then look into befriending/demystifying women.
>I doubt anyone would want to be around me for longer than is necessary.
That's the biggest hurdle to try to get over...the self-loathing. Please try.
>2 weeks till 20th birthday
>never had a gf
getting dangerous here dudes
Rape is a quick solution to your problem.
>>29005488
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 anon.
Chin up - we're all gonna make it.
>>29008268
>20 this week
>KHV
We're doomed brother
>>29005488
Anon go hire an escort and you will realize that you've been putting pussy on a pedestal. Sex isn't even that big if a fucking deal but getting some will make you realize that you're not some special robot retard snowflake who cant get a gf and maybe you'll gain the stones to start talking to girls and find one
>20
>only thing ive done is make out with a grill once
>we were both really drunk at a party
>tfw she cried the next morning when she found out she was making out with me
When my friend told me it was worse than getting rejected.
>>29008007
While I dont think Im ugly, I have to agree. I liked asian women even as youngling and I just cant get over it. In my country people of different races and colors are really rare, yet I had just had to fucking start liking asian women.
Like you said, I also dont want to be that creep that seeks out asian girls. I dealt myself a shitty hand, I will die alone because of it and I guess a part of me is OK with it.
>>29008212
>And being on this board doesn't make the self pity or learned helplessness any better.
It makes it worse.
Before r9k I had a little hope, but after spending some time here it only helped me to understand that I will never be normal.
>>29008242
Thanks buddy.
We probably wouldn't be talking right now if I lived in a country where I can own a gun.
I've tried going to a therapist and quit after 2 months when I realized even they can't help me.
At this point only a miracle could save me.
Bump for feels
Lets hear it family
>>29005488
almost 21 and still never had a girlfriend.
>>29009002
It's my pleasure, Anon. We're all in this together. One of the best lessons I ever learned is that never is a strong word. All things pass in the end, the good as well as the bad. And even though you might never get exactly what you want, you can at least pursue happiness and arrive at something better than despair.
Miracles do happen, I guess, but the better thing is to just try every day. Rage against the dark. Try to find that despair and turn it to anger. Fuck the world that says you're worthless. Fuck the people who agree with it. You might never be perfect - but you have every right to be worth something.
I hope you never forget that. I hope I don't either. I hope none of us ever forgets that again.
The biggest obstacle, if you're anything like me, is finding the motivation to push through the discomfort that blocks you from bettering yourself.
>Take small steps, achievable goals
>Stop comparing yourself to chad and people further along in life. It'll just bring you down and keep you from ever getting close.
>Try not to worry about tfw no gf for now. In your current state you don't really have a shot to pull that off. Better yourself and you'll actually have a chance.
>Every time you fall...get back up. You don't lose till you stay down.
Anyway, I'm not here to lecture. I just hope you know that I care and I hope you get past this. I hope we all do.
We're gonna make it.
