>le epic sex is overrated maymay

Again, you're doing it wrong. Half the pleasure you get from sex comes from the mental connection/excitement of fucking somebody you love or having a new and exciting experience that you are comfortable with. Fucking a hooker with a condom is the lowest tier sex possible.

prostitutes are for chad who

>tired of their wife/gf and want something new
>not willing to put the effort into a one night stand

you will not get intimacy from them

>>28973557
>having a new and exciting experience that you are comfortable with
Yeah well that's what it was for me. It wasn't all that great.

Though I guess sex with a person you feel something to might be better. I remember how good it felt when I was just cuddling one girl. I'm literally scared of sex now though. For the other reasons I mentioned.

>>28973511
>she's supposedly one of the best in town at it
>she's supposedly one of the tightest in town
>the girl supposedly has one of the shallowest pussies out there

lmao did she tell you that herself? spend some money and get a bird who actually knows what she's doing next time

You got what you paid for, someone to have sex WITH.

You don't have sex brought onto you. You need to put in the effort.

In fact as a dude you feel better if you are the one moving more, because girls work towards their clit and not your.head.

If you ever bother doing it again I suggest having the head of your.cock brushing and rubbing against the girls clit.

Either way you make it sound like you laid down and had her do all the work. Sounds pretty boring.

I started enjoying sex after I got comfortable with my body and the girl I was with.

>>28973605
No. I read reviews of her online. Legit reviews, not the ones that are placed under the ad.

She did seem to know what she's doing though.

>>28973594
No it wasn't, you don't understand what I mean.

>>28973612
>Either way you make it sound like you laid down and had her do all the work. Sounds pretty boring.
Not really. She begun, but later I did the job. Like I said, I hardly thrusted because of short dick even though the girl was tiny, and couldn't even find a comfortable position. Didn't feel anything through the condom. Like literally nothing. Which is weird because I masturbated with a condom and felt stuff.

>>28973511
I sometimes visit hookers because why not, and DESU I miss one times when my crush spooned me through the night every time.
There is no cuddling with hooker, only bj, mechanical sex, and some kinks if you are both int othem

>>28973649
You need to be comfortable with the girl.

And since you can't do that in a reasonable amount of time with a hooker you aren't going to have fun.

Hookers aren't for virigns. And anybody who hasn't gotten comfortable from sex is still a virgin. You need a gf first anon.

>>28973681
This is true desu. After having a bunch of sex and relationships with normal girls, I have been with hookers on a few occasions and actually had a lot of fun.

>>28973681
I don't think I'll ever be comfortable after that. If I ever find a gf, she'll most likely be a little less tiny than the hooker I've fucked, and that means my shortdickness will be even more of a nightmare than it was now.

I mean how the fuck are you supposed to even thrust with a dick that short? How are you supposed to feel anything with a dick that thin?

Your dick is not short.

Anything over 5 will do the job.

>>28973762
Well I just checked and it was short.

Like I said, even though the length is 6,69in, thanks to how much it's curved, the effective length is like 5 inches. And it's thin.

For fuck's sake when she was giving me a blowjob it looked like one of those webms with asians with tiny cocks getting bjs.

>>28973511
Did you cry after you were done?

>>28973511
So you are 15 and just realized sex sucks if you don't know what you are doing right?

>>28973826
No. We've had a fun conversation actually. Such a nice girl.

>>28973829
22 and no

Good sex with someone you're comfortable with and have feelings for > a good long fap session catered to/focused on the sensation >> casual sex for the sake of busting a nut >= a quick fap for release >> mediocre/bad sex.

Oftentimes a hooker would provide you with either mediocre sex or at best, if you're comfortable enough (after having it done often), an equivalent of casual sex.

Sex in general is indeed overrated and praised as if some sort of perfect sensation regardless of with whom or how crappy/awkward it might be depending on the situation.
Although great sex with a lover is a fantastic feeling, especially during those honeymoon phases, it's very possible to live without sex altogether.

Personally I'd say casual or paid sex is not worth the effort most of the time, unless said casual sex is practically handed to you or something I guess. But then again, trying to actively date casually in hopes of finding a gf, as well as settling with a bitchy and nagging woman you'd rather spend as little time as possible with outside the bedroom, are both not worth the effort either to me.
Luckily there are plenty of ways to make fapping very enjoyable.

The main thing that sex has over fapping is the sense of intimacy, which is more present with a lover than with some random fling/ONS/hooker. But even that is something one could try and condition into no longer significantly craving.

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>>28974039
>I'd say casual or paid sex is not worth the effort most of the time
I guess so. Didn't know it until I did it. Didn't even want to kiss her or anything. Not that she was ugly, it's just I didn't feel the thing.

Thought it'd boost my confidence in some way but it didn't. It actually killed it a little.

>>28973849
>didn't cry, nice girl
Good for you. With my first gf I always felt somewhat bad after having sex. Dunno what Freud would have to say to this...
Anyway I think that having sex with an escort back then would have somewhat messed me up. I'm genuinly happy for you the aftermath was a nice experience.

Sex will also get better as you gain more experience. That is hard with escorts who do it for the money tho. Plus it's really expensive.
Godspeed OP!

>>28974155
Trial and error, my friend. It's how most people draw such conclusions.

I was once close to trying a hooker but because I'm quite the cheapskate and it somehow felt wrong I luckily didn't go through with it. It probably would've destroyed my confidence as well, the whole idea of having to resort to paying for sex.
Mind you though, paying for sex itself doesn't imply you can't get it any other way per se, but that's the idea I had with it for myself.

As for confidence boosts, finding something you're adequate with (or become adequate first) and using the confidence in your capabilities in that skill/hobby/competence as source of overall confidence will likely be of much better use.

>>28974280
>I'm genuinly happy for you the aftermath was a nice experience.
It wasn't though. The conversation was nice but the entire experience was meh. I felt shit mostly because it was a major letdown. Had many hopes for it, but the fact that I've fucked a tiny girl and still couldn't manage to do it properly and how my dick is so short made me feel shit.

I don't know, either people really have big dicks or porn really does mess it up in your head.

>>28974347
>the whole idea of having to resort to paying for sex
Honestly that didn't bother me at all. The way I saw it was that what's the point of trying to play a retard only to get a gf who just *might* let me even touch her if I can go to a professional, pay her, and both me and her will be happy.

>As for confidence boosts, finding something you're adequate with (or become adequate first) and using the confidence in your capabilities in that skill/hobby/competence as source of overall confidence will likely be of much better use.
Nah, I was thinking more about the sexual confidence. I'm honestly scared of sex now, because I know my dick will be literally too short to make the experience count remotely for the girl.

>>28974381
>The way I saw it was that what's the point of trying to play a retard only to get a gf who just *might* let me even touch her if I can go to a professional, pay her, and both me and her will be happy.
That's a valid perspective as well, yeah. If it is the sex itself you're after, a prostitute could definitely be sufficient. As the sappy faggot I am, intimacy and the idea of having sex with someone who genuinely wants and enjoys sex with me as well was what I desired more than just the physical aspect of sex itself so to speak. Not enough to try and bend myself through all sorts of hoops to try and cater to a woman who only barely acknowledges my existence though which is likely why I only found a gf and lost my virginity at age 29 rather than sooner, with her somehow genuinely enjoying my presence for who I am.

>I'm honestly scared of sex now
For what it's worth, different women have different preferences, different "depth" vaginas, and even different sensitivity with erogenous zones and whatnot. Far from all women (not even the majority) are size-queens, it's not uncommon for women to enjoy an average size as well.
I'm aware that it's hard to consider this when porn and /r9k/ troll/bait threads keep implying that all women require at least a 10-incher to even barely feel something, especially with your 1 experience reinforcing that idea, but I urge you to try and keep in mind anyway that 1 experience is a very limited one and however hard, not sufficient to base a definite conclusion on.
Experience is much more important overall for all non-sizequeens, and that's something that will happen through practice. I had no idea when I started, but now I now what buttons to push to drive my gf wild; communication is key when learning, of course.
Even so, though, every new women will require some adjustment to fit their specific preferences. Same applies to men; not all men will like their nipples played with or assplay.

>>28974356
>porn really does mess it up in your head
Porn does and so does /r9k/. Both suggest sex is about the technical aspect and forget it's also about intimacy and desire.
You'll be happier with and find sex more enjoyable once you get to relax and just go with it.
Most peoples' first time isn't that great (mine sure wasn't) and if you are only focussed on doing it right you'll really miss out. Once you get used to the whole thing you'll find out what makes you feel good. Sexual experience isn't just about making your partner feel good. You both profit from it.

>>28974586
Cont.
Best of luck Anon, I hope you won't get caught up in reliving that experience over and over but instead learn from it and move on without lasting negative effects.

>>28974606
Yeah well the hooker told me that I've been focusing too much on mechanical aspect and trying to make myself feel good.

Hell I don't fucking know anymore. It just feels absolutely bad to know that my dick wasn't big enough even for an absolutely tiny girl. And reading the reviews how guys can't go all the way into her makes me feel even worse.

>>28974586
>As the sappy faggot I am, intimacy and the idea of having sex with someone who genuinely wants and enjoys sex with me as well was what I desired more than just the physical aspect of sex itself
No doubt anon. It's just that I could never find a girl who would enjoy sex with me. At best a girl might just agree to do it with me without much enjoyment.

>different "depth" vaginas
The hooker was tiny and everyone said she's tight. I didn't feel none of it. I knew I have a pencil dick but I had no idea it'd be that bad. Nor that I wouldn't be able to hit her ending inside.