>Why are you so quiet?
Literally the worst fucking question anyone could ask.
>>28959642
Who is the woman in that image, I've had it for 2 years now and I still don't know the source.
>"smile more"
>>28960265
I don't know, just some bitch in my image folders.
I smile whenever I talk to people aytomatically, it's a good reflex for faking interest and conversation skills. I hknow what you mean, though, when I'm outside of conversation I look sad as fuck.
>>28959642
do I look like a clown to you that needs to entertain you?
>>28960265
Ever heard of reverse google image search?
Her name is Uta Kohaku. Shes a JAV Model who likes to eat cum. At least, thats who I think she is.
>>28960379
I've tried that.
Original.
I never understood why people are so afraid to talk. Unless you say something super aspie you're fine. You always have a 2nd chance to fix it. Unless you suck at fixing things then IDK.
>>28959642
What's bad about that? Just talk more
>>28960681
I just don't have things to say sometimes. I've found that I can easily hold a conversation, but starting one with someone I share no interests with is difficult. Thing is, there's people much more autistic than me who get asked this question, get put on the spot and have literally no way to respond.
>>28960719
See >>28960744
It's a question without a good answer. Whether someone's just spacing out or is somewhere on the spectrum, you cannot answer that question without looking like a fucking weirdo. Everyone's attention is suddenly focused on the fact that you haven't been contributing to the conversation, which can be extremely threatening for less social people.
I can talk my way out of it, but most people cannot.
>>28959642
How can anybody think it's an acceptable question to ask?
You can either stutter out some random unfunny thing or be a rude motherfucker and tell them to mind their business.
Those who ask such questions must be massive retards, otherwise they're purposely trying to assert their dominance over you.
>>28960778
Still makes you a weirdo for not talking
>>28960801
If you're with people and your creepy lack of conversation makes them ask, it's your fault.
>>28960379
You get nothing but memes when you reverse image a meme picture.
how do you even answer this?
I don't want to pretend to like you so I'll just keep quiet instead.
>>28960805
Fine, whatever, you're completely right and people who can't contribute to conversations are weird autists with no social skills.
That doesn't change anything about the OP. The question puts someone on the spot who, according to you, is already some antisocial weirdo. They can't think of something to say in a casual conversation, let alone when everyone's focused on them because of an unanswerable question. If you ask that question, you're a fucking cunt.
>>28960382
Does this >>28959642 look like the face of someone who likes to dunk the spunk?
>>28960863
No op puts them on the spot by being a creep
>>28960958
Not saying things =/= being a creep.
>I don't feel like speaking. It doesn't have anything to do with you, it's just how I'm comfortable.
Question answered.
I normally just say something like 'I've got to preserve my singing voice' or a similar deadpan comment, the shitty attempt at humour detracts from the original question
>>28960859
Don't say a word, just shrug
>>28960976
Yes that's exactly true
>why are you so quiet?
fuck you how about you start a conversation with me not make it awkward
>>28961030
I mean being quiet is being a creep
>>28961051
Literally Chad-tier thinking.
>>28961036
>be quiet weirdo
>blame them for making it awkward
>>28961077
Literally regular thinking
Nah,
>Why did we even hire you?
Is worse.
>JUST SAY ANYTHING
This is what normies recommend. Should I? I don't have anything to lose, but I doubt I'll gain anything either.
>>28960827
>Randomly approached and asked by this by someone I dont know who im not even sitting near
Fuck off cunt, admit its a dick thing to do to someone
>>28961036
Oh man, I had a friend that sperged out on me because his mom gave him the "You spend too much time playing vidya, you're not social enough" talk.
It only happened once, but he forced me to start a conversation and then shut me down whenever I tried switching topics.
I feel bad for the guy knowing it's all he's ever experienced and he's doing it to stop being so fed up with that shit.
I personally don't give a fuck since I had to deal with assholes for years in college, but fuck if it didn't put things in perspective.
>>28961176
That's literally never happened. Fact is you're making uncomfortable by being silent in social situations.
>>28961176
>Kept my shitpost name from [s4s]
Woops!
>>28961107
>trying to blame awkward people for being awkward, thereby justifying shitty behaviour against those people
JUST WATCH A MOTIVATIONAL VIDEO BRO!
>>28961198
>This shit has happened to me and its a dick thing to do
>lmao it didnt happen
Fuck off cunt, quit trying to shift blame onto the innocent
>>28961113
No, they love to take things out of context and report things.
Just talk about school or some shit. Make stuff up, complain about group projects. Don't go full /pol/ fedora lord talking about conspiracy theories either, faggot.
This used to bother me, now I just say something like "I guess that's just my personality" and they usually shut the fuck up after that. Once you hit your mid 20's like me you really stop giving a fuck less and less.
>>28961206
What shitty behaviour? There's nothing wrong with pointing out someone is quiet. It's weird
>>28961223
By innocent you mean the creep in social situations who makes everyone uncomfortable? You aren't the victim. Everyone around you is
>>28961247
You're lucky. I had a normie at work telling me my personality was wrong.
If you are offended by this then even you know being silent is weird.
>>28960305
>I smile whenever I talk to people aytomatically, it's a good reflex for faking interest and conversation skills. I hknow what you mean, though, when I'm outside of conversation I look sad as fuck.
me too, at least I can do that
I hate normies
>are you angry
>are you upset
>cheer up
>you look sad
>are you on your own again
I hate it, if you don't talk much and go to places all by yourself people assume either that you're really smart or creepy, the latter for me unfortunately because I'm also depressed af
>>28961247
>Once you hit your mid 20's like me you really stop giving a fuck less and less
Amen to that.
Fuck em'
It don't matter, none of this matters.
>>28961265
There are plenty of things that you don't just point out just because they're weird. I have a friend like you, just spouts anything he thinks is weird or unusual, regardless of how it might make a situation (more) uncomfortable.
It's putting someone on the spot. You're trying to justify it by either 1. pretending it's okay to call someone out on behaviour that's due to personal deficiencies or 2. pretending that it's somehow their fault that people behave like cunts, because their weird behaviour somehow justifies it in a shitty kind of circular reasoning.
>>28961310
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>>28961265
You're trying too hard m7, you gotta slow down or else people can catch on
>>28961333
But being silent is being shitty and affects the room. Telling you it's weird fixes it.
>>28959642
People don't ask me that.
If I have something to say, I'll say it.
Pushing me only makes me dig my heels in harder.
>>28961383
No, it makes that person even more quiet and insecure, stops any plans they might've had to weigh in, and alerts other people of them being quiet, in the event they hadn't noticed it before. Furthermore, it causes an awkward silence and makes another HUMAN FUCKING BEING feel like shit because they feel more inadequate than they previously did. It's not like these people don't know that them not talking is weird. It's not like you telling them suddenly makes them think "oh all I had to do was open my mouth and make sounds? holy shit". You're obviously someone with no insight into socially awkward people. I can't blame you for that, but I can blame you for the fact that you're viewing this from your own normie perspective. These people cannot just start talking when you tell them to, there's often years of mental blocks and insecurities stopping that shit.
source: me a few years ago.
>>28961383
What? Every time someone points out the quiet person being quiet everyone in the room feels awkward as fuck because its a awkward as fuck question to ask.
>>28959642
>you could be a mime
>are you this quiet at home or around your family
>i can barely hear you
>are you a mannequin
An OP is either a normie or is very good at mimicing one. Nice job, 10/10.
>>28959642
>"anon why are you so quiet?"
>I try talking more
>they lose interest immediately
>go back to not talking and they never say anything again
this happens every time I meet new people
>>28960859
I don't have anything to contribute to the conversation. After this they'll immediately assume you're weird and leave you alone.
>>28960914
>female
Is that even a question?
>>28960859
"Because I don't like wasting my time talking to cunts like you"
It's rude, but it definitely gets the point across. It keeps them from asking the question again (or ever talking to you again), so I figure it's a pretty good response.
>>28960976
not saying things if you're ugly = creep
not saying things if you're attractive = mysterious
>>28959642
I always tell them
"You wouldn't understand, so I save my breath"
>>28961906
Do you wear a trenchcoat in summer? Maybe enjoy Ayn Rand books? What about owning a katana?
>>28960719
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>>28961383
>>28961996There's a place for you.
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>>28960778
I always say "I don't know, guess I just am?" with a perplexed "why are you coming at me" tone, it's passive aggressive enough for them to back off
>>28962114
> Mo-o-om, these meanies don't let me be a musterious and edgy person! Tell them they are stupid!
>>28959642
"And why do you talk so fucking much?"
Might come off as autistic though unless they took one of those disgusted tones at you. If it's just someone asking a question without being a dick just shrug it off.
>>28959642
if qt
> dont have anyone to talk to
else
> fuck off
>>28959642
>cause i dont fuck with yall
this question and "anon why is you face so red"
FUCK OFF YOU FUCKING NORMALSHITS I KNOW MY FACE IS BURNING WITH THE INTENSITY OF A THOUSAND SUNS YOU THINK POINTING IT OUT HELPS ME REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
