>tfw there's always some other guy she'll go for instead of you
Why am I never good enough? Every fucking time I try it all turns to shit.
>>28944874
Because no one wants people like us. It's Chad's world and we're just stuck in it
>>28944874
it's really simple we are the kind of people who are meant to be alone
>>28945063
I'm starting to feel like this is the only possible explanation. Unlike most people here I tried a lot of times to get a gf, even to just get a date, and it just doesn't work for me.
>>28944874
Or no guy at all!
I've been rejected for phantom boyfriend who doesn't even exist more times than I can count. Or that she's got some excuse that she can never, ever, ever be in a relationship ever...and then oh look she's with Chad next week.
Funny how all these excuses apply to me, the guy with a facial deformity and not to Chad or his normie minions.
>>28945109
your meant for other things in life
>>28945109
We don't fit in even among the robots. Well the newfag robots who think never even talking to a girl makes them a robot, that being rejected doesn't count as >tfwnogf too.
I think those guys are just cowards. At least we had the balls to ask you know Anon? At least you're brave in there somewhere. Too bad she won't see it.
>>28945147
Bravery doesn't really get you anywhere. If you're not an attractive Chad, you can be brave all you want but it won't get you shit.
Girls don't care. It's always gonna be some other guy she'll go for. I literally remember how there was this one girl I was after. Her bf was better than me in many aspects. But I got my shit together and decided to best him at everything, which I did, and in fact he also went to shit a little. Guess what.She still preferred him, even after they broke up.Other girls liked him more too.
>>28945147
ive never really asked
there has been two times where i got so close to actually having someone, i could feel that there was something between us
then i would hit a wall and i would push them away or ignore them because i was scared
one girl hugged me out of nowhere and i just froze up and asked "what was that for" and she backed away and i could see the hurt inside of her
the second i was to the point where we were hanging out even after we graduated and i was even invited to a barbeque with her family
i just couldnt bring myself to confess how i felt and if there was something startimg that is what killed it off
quite frequently ill randomly remember them and feel regret, i remember how they would smell or those amazing little quirky things they would do
it really fucking sucks but i realized im just one of those people meant to be alone, im meant to fall through the cracks of society, be forgotten by everyone but family and fade into existence
ive embraced the misery and pain and accepted it as an everyday part of life
every morning i'm born and ever night i die. a week is a month and a month is a year
i eagerly await the end, almost yearning it
>>28945353
>and i just froze up and asked "what was that for"
wait a min theres nothing wrong with asking that
Essentially if you want a gf, you'll have to settle. It's an unfortunate truth, but actually, everyone does it. Nobody is ever with their perfect partner, such a thing doesn't exist, there are always things about your SO that you wish were different. Of course, most people don't want to accept this because of the whole "you're perfect the way you are, your imperfections make you perfect 2 me" bullshit, but it's true. Even Stacy secretly wishes that she was with a Chadlier Chad.
You'll have to settle. If you're here, then most likely that will mean settling for a girl that is probably not highly attractive, maybe overweight. You may fall in love and marry her, but she will always wish you looked a little more like Channing Tatum and you will always wish she looked a little more like Scarlett Johansson.
The woman that you actually want will most likely never be available to you. You can expend the effort if you want but it will most likely end in disappointment and more heartache. Good luck.
>>28945395
i knew what it was for
we were both having fun in the club we were in for 6 months, we liked the same music and always helped each other out
>>28945420
What do I settle for if I don't have ANY girl who would express any bit of interest in me?
Like literally there isn't a single girl I could settle for.
>>28944874
I know that feel senpai
ex gf left me for a better man
Does anyone else get depressed when you see your crushes social media accounts cause she's having so much fun without you..
>>28945451
Yeah but asking that isn't a reason for her to back off. She could just tell you some bullshit reason like "because I like you anon!" or whatever.
Jesus christ some women are really fucked in their heads.
>>28945529
thats probably it
we would be alot better off if we could just tell each other how we feel instead what is socially expected
>>28945524
Yes, which is why the second I see something like this I immediately hide her from showing up on my feed.
>be me
>get infatuated in a girl
>she seems to reciprocate for some time
>at some point she stops responding to my messages
>ask her what's going on
>"oh anon, i don't have much time"
>later see a pic on the feed of her kissing some other guy with a comment saying something like "today was so much fun, see you tomorrow in a park"
>die inside
>>28945583
social media ruined that special connection you have with people all it does is make realize how irrelevant you are... No one cares about me
This is why there needs to be a beta uprising
>>28945663
I believe social media has caused many people to become narcissistic vapid cunts.
It wasn't ever in the cards for people like us boys, I'll see you in Thailand soon. You gotta do what you gotta do in this life.
Guys
Guys
For real.
Stop stressing.
Get into larping
I am 5'7". I have bitch tits. What a pathetic body. It used to be obese, now it's just weak and flabby. Lifting made me look even more gross. I'd rather just look obese, not like I've actually tried but miserably failed. My nose is big and ugly. I look like a nerd, and probably a freak too with my expressionless, ugly face. I am gross individual, a failure of a human being. Why the fuck would any female not scoff at any advance I might make? Not that I'd ever attempt to do that. I am a sin in the eyes of females, below worthless to them.
Get into larping
Get outside
Meet other nerdy individuals
Get exercise
Feel better about yourself
>>28945663
>>28945769
Social media has ruined getting relationships for non-chads. A girl won't just enjoy talking to me over the phone or texting. She always demands my facebook and there she can only see that I don't have a fucking social life nor many friends, and I also look shit on the only pics I have.
>>28945353
>one girl hugged me
ree get out
>>28946675
Look up a local larping group
(preferably dagorhir or belagarth)
You get to Meet people
You get Wear costumes
You get to beat people up and not get in trouble.
You get your picture taken all the time and the normies will respect you for being happy with yourself.
Being happy with yourself produces confidence ladies love confidence
all of this so much.
Why do we even exist?
There is no point on us starting to exist.
Why do low quality humans like us even exist?
I don't get this cruel joke.
there is not even a biologicla genetic benefit for us.
I don't understand anything
the universe is a nihilist playing a nihilist joke on us, we are absolute nil, why giving us emotions?
>>28946752
I don't like larping for fuck's sake.
>ex is single again
>vapid slut, the type who cannot go without a dick for a month
>she doesnt even try to contact you
>eventhough she said she will
why am i uneasy, she was lieing through her teeth the whole time
>>28946828
Sounds like a person who has never actually tried it
>>28946783
The chads and stacies didn't choose their genes either lul. Everyone is equal, there is no worthless human being unless it perceives itself as worthless. Every human being is worthless, meaningless, just waiting to die and focusing on survival until it inevitably does. Do you think other mother fuckers existence matters? At all? No and neither does yours. Might as well say fuck them, considering they are completely meaningless carbon cociousness in space, and enjoy your own carbon consciousness, the only thing that has meaning. Youre only weak if you believe youre weak. Every single human can go hard, its biologically inside of you to be a dominant man beast, youre just a lazy fucktard who refuses to acknowledge it and wallow in self pity because thats whats gotten you good boy points in the past, you conditioned monkey. Find your inner man, the one that is meant to be outside hunting and gathering and fucking, and embrace him, you lazy piece of shit. Life doesn't matter to any but the beholder, and youre choosing to waste yours pitying things you had no control over and comparing those things to other people who are equally as meaningless.
>>28946919
I don't know what are you talking about or what got me gbp, i have never had thoselol, I can see how some of the things you said might work for some normies or something.
I don't even consider my self weak or lazy. but I actually consider my existence nil
But good for you speech, I hope it would motivate someone.
>>28944874
We are all predetermined programs bro.. U cant change shit u are born to. We dont exist in the reality.
>>28947060
Your existence is nil. So is every other existence. It only matters to you, what is stopping your stupid ass from
Enjoying it. Fix it.
>>28947412
yes you are somehow right in that last statement, life is for hedonism.
>>28946919
Do you really believe any of that? There are people with more worth and with less worth. We're the less worth ones clearly. The more worth ones enjoy others company and are actually needed. Wanted.
OP here.
Just learned I got sacked from the job. Just fucking kill me at this point.
>>28944874
>Lift
>Read a book
>Socialise
>Repeat
Anyone else here unable to love unless he is sure the other person lives him/her?
Starting to suspect there's some underlying psychological issue here but I've never felt love unless the other person was interested in me first (which happened once. I felt something, but it was not real love. Maybe I could have lost myself in the feeling but I didn't dare it. i wanted to ask her out the next day and look where it goes. Turned out she had a bf)
Don't think I'm too afraid of confessing it's just that I've never had a crush or felt anything like love.
>What do?
>>28947822
No. I have the exact opposite. I fall in love immediately and then get crushed by the fact that the other person doesn't even fucking want to talk to me.
>>28947861
I'm pretty sure your condition is worse. I'm sorry for you. At least when I don't feel at all I can't experience rejection.
I've seen friends almost break because of it. Can't imagine how shit that must be.
>>28947891
Some say you get used to it and it hurts less but it's a lie. It always hurts, no matter how much you anticipate it. It's horrible. Especially if the girl chooses some other fucking guy over you.
>>28947910
I wish I could give advice but I can't.
Maybe you manage to define your self worth in other ways. That's what I did. Apparently people like me because I am "inspiring" (I have a happy view on live even with disability), and I barely care if they do, the way i see myself has little to do with what others think. It's easier when you don't have strong feelings to begin with though.
>>28947948
I don't have any disabilities so people never cut me any slack. I'm almost normal minus the fact that I'm just ugly as fuck. Like literally extremely ugly to the point where people just hate me the second I enter the room. Getting a girl to like me, being in my position, is pretty much impossible.
You guys are just ugly, that's the truth. I know because I am too.
tfw she she actually downgrades because she just doesn't want you anymore
>>28945195
Exact same thing happened to me, except there was no one for me to compete and she still didn't choose me.
>>28947972
Stop caring about girls, make yourself happy, in the end we are all alone with our thoughts.
And even if you have a girl, reality sucks compared to your wishes and Imagination.
>>28948206
I can't be fucking happy if everyday I'm constantly reminded that I'm fucking worthless compared to literally everyone else.
>>28948096
>have a beautiful face and a great body, 6 feet tall with blonde hair and blue eyes
>she breaks up with me just because I'm an asshole to her
>she gets with the skinny beta that was orbiting her
If only she knew I was her only chance at being with an aesthetic god. She should've just put up with me abusing her, honestly.
>work at grocery store since September
>get trained on register by a short haired qt
>work in another department for a few months
>checking out during break, go through her aisle
>says she was wondering where i was and if I was even working there since I haven't been up front for the past couple months
>realize she noticed I was missing
>take this as a sign that she might be into me since female attention comes once in a blue moon when the planets are aligned
>look at her FB
>has a bf and is veganJUST
