So why are you still a virgin? let me hear your excuses.
I don't want sex. oringal.
I don't know how to have sex
I'm also scared of being harshly judged by them for my performance and penis size
Couldn't get it up.
I'm not actually tbphwyhm (to be perfectly honest with you here m80(eighty)
>>28942195
Because I asked my wife if we could do some of the penis exercises and stretches she does with her boyfriend and she said she was busy.
I've been told for years that I look either pissed off all the time or scary. I don't like smiling and hate small talk. I usually just go about my day quietly and minding my own business. I gave up trying to get a date or anything a while ago.
>>28942195
I fuck up every time the opportunity presents itself.
Plus it never feels like the right time, or if not that then not the right person.
I have no excuse. I'm weird and I don't leave my apartment outside of work or errands. Gave up on online dating after having a bad experience when I was younger.
Had mental issues when I was younger so middle school was terrible, 10th grade I moved and didn't know anyone and was a loner That had speech problems and depression so I didn't really talk
>>28942195
Been told i'm ugly so I don't even try
>>28942195
I've had several opportunities to lose it. I got molested as a kid by a girl and now have horrible anxiety when it comes to intimacy.
Why do you want excuses when you could have reasons?
I never had the drive to or inclination to win someone's trust, trick them, or force them to fuck me.
>>28942195
I don't try. At all.
>You have been muted for 2 seconds, because your comment was not original
>cant get a gf
>social anxiety
>left the neet life i was been 4 years about 5 months
Im just 18, im young i can still fix things but im almost paying for it.
Because women are not worth the trouble and I do not feel compelled to have sex. I have never tried to develop a relationship or have sex with a female and do not plan to in the future.
>>28942822
Trust me, it will not get better at all, you think you're any different from 28+ virgins? You will likely end up like them
I'm the ugliest piece of shit you could imagine and i could get laid, i'm 24.
It's never too late, also, don't feel shame, everyone has needs.
>>28942870
If you could get laid then you're not actually ugly, so fuck off faggot
>there's hope for everyone
No there isn't
I fucked your mom in the arse once
Then I read online that unless it's full-on penis-in-vagina penetration, it doesn't count, so technically I'm still a virgin to this day.
>>28942195
I don't try, that's literally it
I've seen fuckers 10 times as ugly get cute gfs and have sex daily
I keep to myself and have social anxiety to the point where walking to my one college class on saturday morning makes me want to puke because of the fact that I'll have to interact with other people
it's not like I don't like talking to others, I love when I can connect with people as rare as it is, I just have a hard time doing so
My parents failed, I tried to be normal man, I just can't when my home life is such depressing garbage
but it all boils down to me not trying
I'm not married.
>>28943325
>Implying married man have sex
>>28943701
>implying couples who only have sex after marriage don't have the best sex
>>28942195
I will remain pure til marriage
basically >>28943325
but I think I will an exception for that one special grill, I will make her wait at least a year before giving her the D doe
>>28943767
>Implying I meant only having sex after marriage
>>28942195
because the government punishes male sexuality by making them pay child support. also you risk getting a serious std like aids or a false rape charge. not worth losing your virginity. Lastly I rather not jump hoops like a god just to get sex you need to actually put effort as a guy like making laugh and paying for dates. I will have a better time putting that effort and money on my hobbies instead. I am guarantee to have a good time on my hobby instead of risking paying for dinner while she is probably just leading me on so she can get free food.
I had my chances when I was younger but didn't act on them because I was afraid my penis is too small. Now I'm 340lb and my penis is hidden in fat.
I'm a social failure in every sense, making friends is impossible for me so sex is never happening.
>>28943837
>one special girl
Top fucking kek anon, the only thing special about that phrase is the retardation of anybody who believes it.
Ugly + autistic + poor + friendless.
>>28942195
Don't try, but that's cause I have absolutely no idea how to. Issue is, from what I've gleaned is that most girls think I'm uninterested in dating, and I honestly don't know how to even flirt or whatever.
I haven't really tried to pursue any kind of relationship with a female, they're terrifying. I'm also ugly, short and stupid.
i am sexually attracted to docks, not girls
>>28944057
Oh boy. I am stone right now, anon
I don't trust modern women enough not to cuck me or take advantage of me. And honestly, the best partner I could have would probably be another man anyway.
Because I figured out that life is way easier when it's not a race to see who can lose their virginity the fastest, when in actuality it makes no fucking difference whatsoever.
Have a commitment to not have a sex before marriage because my parent did same thing with grandparent.
Never want to have kids, refuse to get vasectomy, pro-life, not willing to risk it.
>involuntary reasons even if I wanted it: NEET, aspergers, no private bedroom, was preoccupied with porn and masturbating.
I think my brain is broken because I've never been interested in sex. Feels shitty.
I'm ugly and haven't put much effort into it
I value the powers being a wizard will grant me more than female contact.
>>28945571
Why? I'd see it as a good thing because you can focus on other things instead of thinking about sex every 6 seconds, like most men do.
>>28942195
Honestly? I never asked or made a move on a woman. I've never spoken to a woman first, and certainly never in a sexual way. It's just something I figured was a futile effort. I always assume I'll be rejected and so I don't even make the effort. Ever since I was a teenager, I always assumed and knew deep down that relationships and dating were something I would never get to do. I'm just not good enough. There are thousands of other guys, why would any woman ever choose me?
Going off by how women never initiated flirting with me and that I've never received a positive compliment in my life from a woman, I never had a chance.
Add to that the knowledge that women hate short, masculine men and you're basically done. And then I'm ugly and now I'm fat.
Iknow non-white guys that travelled the world and met a white woman and they couldn't even communicate with each other and yet he still got her and married her. No point on me ever even trying. I'm just a loan fully average guy with nothing interesting going on.
Schizoid master race reporting in. Having your enjoyment in life come solely from relationships must suck shit.
>>28945736
I just want to be normal. It's like everybody can hear a song I can't. Not everyone enjoys the song, but they can still hear and maybe enjoy it someday. I pretend I'm interested in sex so people won't think I'm weird or just trying to be one of those pretentious assholes who go on about how they're above sex or whatever.
And even without thinking about sex unless someone or something brings it up I still manage to be as useless as my stoner friends even without drugs.
>>28944230
It does considering the inventions of such terms, 'the virgin walk'. I feel as though people who are still virgins are completely emasculated and taken advantage of.
Personally, I am afraid I will lose my v-card and robotdom all in the same 30 seconds, and then find myself without sex for another 22 years... help )):
>>28942195
i'm a fucking LOSER
>>28945857
have you tried opening your ass? Maybe you're just gay.
>>28942195
Because women refuse to have sex with me and I'm not going to pay a prostitute, it seriously defeats the fucking point of it.
>>28942195
I'm pretty satisfied with just jerking off.
Can do it whenever I want at my own pace.
>>28942238
This happened twice to me
Then I got some medical help and afterwards the pressure was gone and its been fine
>>28942195
S... saving myself f... for marriage
>>28945662
What powers are those?
Im not trying and wouldnt stand a chance if I were.
No need to try if failure is guaranteed, only a fool would waste time, and optimism is for cowards
i havent gotten laid for over 2 years, can i be an honorary virgin?
There's lots of reasons for me.
>I was raised in an extremely religious and protective household, I didn't have a whole lot of friends and my family pretty much told me from day one that sex is bad and shouldn't be done if you're not married.
>I'm an only child so even at a very early age I was never good at talking to people and therefore grew up to be selfish, bitter and jaded as fuck. I don't get along with other people, let alone girls.
>I've honestly just stopped caring and I doubt I'll ever have the willpower to start caring again, masturbating and adoption sounds fine to me.
Kinda sounds sad the more I think about it but I'm come to terms with it.
All of you virgin cucks watch more than enough porn to have an idea of what you should be doing. Nothing wild of course on your first time, but being judged on knowing what to do should be the least of your worries.
>>28943837
you know you're fucking delusional right?
I never even tried famalam.
I've always been the autistic/special needs child and have more or less been treated as such (at home by treating me like a vegetable incompetent of doing anything properly, at school as that weird kid you should probably try to avoid).
I had friends at some points as a kid but I always ended up getting hurt sooner or later. When I first started isolating myself and wasting away my time on the internet (or on MMORPGs, that's how it started) I felt like I was experiencing great freedom, like it was lifting a burden off me.
Since then I've just kind of kept that lifestyle and I'm sure I'm even less socially competent for it.
>>28943837
You want to believe you will do that, but you probably wont. I had the same thought process at one point too. But best of luck to you
>>28945857
It's okay to be disinterested in sex. There's nothing wrong with that! Having other interests in place of it is enough to make up for it.
I have ADHD-PI and asperger's which was only recently diagnosed because no one wanted to take the awkward looking nerdy teenage boy aside and suggest that he see the school counsellor.
I have no idea how to talk to normies and when I do I seem to annoy them and they all go into contempt mode, curling their lips, talking in a mocking high pitched kind of voice, if not outright verbally abusing me. They seem to hate me for it as though I just broke into their home and took a giant steaming shit on their sofa, so I basically stopped even trying to make friends in high school and then slipped into NEETdom as people made it clear education and job opportunities are for normies only and that I'm a piece of shit who is committing some kind of crime just by trying to interact with society.
A girlfriend is basically at the bottom of my list of priorities. Even if by a miracle I manage to find some carefree belly gf and make her laugh on a date, she will certainly cut me off the moment she realizes I have never had a job and live with my dad.
I've always thought the same as >>28943837
Started to not believe it recently - But the truth still hurts
>>28943901
>>28946962
>>28946992
>>28942195
I'd say I am a fairly average person. Average looks, popular interests and hobbies. However, I have a shitty personality that gets bored quickly with other people. It is difficult to relate to anyone because I expect too much of them. This leads to frustration, disinterest, and a general loathing of social interaction.
Saving for marriage like any decent person.
>>28942257
>open parentheses
Oh I'm triggered m8
