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Do you ever get so lonely that you wish you had friends?
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>>28940804
A friend, multiple friends are a meme.
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Sometimes.
My birthday is the worst day of the year.
Why i dont have any friends? Is it because i dont talk much?
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>>28940918
Well I don't know anon, do you not talk much?
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All the time OP
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Even if I had friends, why would they bother to hangout with me? I'm a boring piece of shit. Why bother?
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WISH i had friends? i have them. if you asked any one of them they'd say "yeah he has friends"
but somehow, here i am, alone looking at r9k
it doesn't feel like i have friends.
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>>28941023
>Posting worse Russian
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>>28941093
>love live
jump of a bridge you subhuman, no wonder you have no friends
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>>28941120
>post chuuni trope
>being hostile
Way to prove you shit taste is bottom at the barrel and now I know why you don't have any friends
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>>28941142
I fucking hate you disgusting sack of shit
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>tfw you're terrified to let anyone know what you're really like
>tfw your closest friends have always abused you emotionally and you were too submissive and meek to complain about it, because you didn't want to lose the closeness

Being alone has some genuine perks, but goddamn does it get boring and painful pretty frequently.
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i just want to be in a happy relationship.
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>>28941160
It's ok anon I still like you, even though you are hostile and have shit taste.
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>>28940959
No i dont,i become a shy motherfucker when im around people,it drives me crazy
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>>28941222
are you afraid of people?
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>>28941093
>>28941142
>>28941185
>all these shit tier idols
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i went "no contact" with literally everyone of my friends and i'm moving across the country soon with my neetbux

they could have had a nice cash cow to help pay for meth and stuff if they'd been cool but now they can all fuck off
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>>28941229
Just incredible insecure
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>>28941272
do you get the feeling they're judging every single little thing you do?
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>>28940804
not really,
Ima have to work on that thou
I can't spend the rest of my life isolated.
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i've been friendless for so long now that i just don't really think about it anymore, being lonely is just normal to me. i get fleeting feelings of wanting to be social sometimes but it doesn't happen often and i usually get over it quickly.
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I did once, then I just realized they're just a burden. I'm content on being happy by myself.
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>>28940804
interesting question, I feel lonely but I shouldn't feel sad, because I asked for this.. I reject people to avoid being rejected
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I had a few friends in real life before, when I was a kid. Haven't had a one in almost 15 years.

I do have a really wonderful internet friend though.
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>>28941165

I was in a similar situation and after years of it chose solitude. If you at least have the foresight and decide on a path to take and something to dedicate your time to then what follows that decision isn't bad at all. But this might not be the place for that.
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>>28941281
I get the feeling you are making fun of me
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>>28941392
most people aren't trying to hurt or judge you, its an irrational fear.
what do you have to be insecure about?
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>>28941331
fuck you sugar
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i used to not give a fuck about friends
but now i feel lonely
i want to not give a fuck about friends again
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>>28941473
>most people aren't trying to hurt or judge you

Actually, the way people treat you is entirely dependent on what they think of you generally, which is probably the result of a few simple things that you have no control over, with physical appearance being one of them.

If you're ugly, you may very well be best off being alone.
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>tfw you made a best bud
>tfw you crazy so it ended in disaster
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Im getting nervous.

What if mind altering chemicals arent enough to make it through this lonely life?
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>>28940804
From time to time, yea. Problem is that I've been on 4chan for over 11 years now, so my behavior and sense of humor is really tied to this place but I no longer feel like I belong.
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>>28941580
appearances matter if you're trying to pick up girls, thats undeniable, but most decent people aren't going to treat you different over physical traits.
do you have examples of people being dicks over uncontrollable traits?
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>>28940804
Yes. I wish I had a friend irl that would accept and care about me, but I'll never have it.
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Any weebs here want to maybe be steam friends?
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>>28941790
only if you have less than 10 people on your friends list
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>>28941874
ok post your ID senpaichi
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Thought I'd ask to get some friendly discussion going because I'd never get to talk about this type of stuff IRL. What anime have you been watching lately.
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>>28941931
Go to /a/ you retard
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>>28941790
do people still make friends here?
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>>28941790
post top 5 animu depending on answer will consider adding
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>>28941931
Flying Witch
and you?
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>>28941931
your lie in april

originalooo
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>>28942073
Been looking for an anime with foot service.
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>>28941931
Shirobako was neat.
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>>28942168
my nigger with good taste
Denpa Onna
any of the gatari series(Bakemonogatari, Monogatari)
chuunibyou has some feet too
Magi
theres alot more which i cant remember
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Any robots here play league?
I was silver last season and was wondering if anyone maybe wants to play some normals?
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i wish i had a BOYfriend more than a friend
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>>28942405
sure i'll add you, doing a few norms then ranked probably
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does anyone want to play rocket league with me
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>>28942449
What's your player ID anon?
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>don't even have any friends online anymore, so lonely
>playing ps3 this morning
>FRIEND REQUEST RECEIVED
>fuck yes someone wants to be my friend!
>check it

>hey wanna play portal 2? i need professor trophy
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>>28942332
Thank you. Will check these out.
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>>28940804
Shit, is it time for Ruby?
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>>28940804
Sometimes. But vidya is enough for me
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>>28942540
No Ruby a Shit
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>>28940804
I want one friend
Any more is unnecessary and too much
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>>28941931
Just finished pokemon and now I'm on Marmite S4 and I love these girls so much.

I haven't even checked the season charts this year.
whats good l8ly?
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>>28940804
I actually had some friends but I slowly grew tired of them. I even had to tell a certain friend to fuck off because he annoyed me.
My online friends have grown tired of my endless bitching, too. Good for them, they deserve better.
Now I can hate myself in peace. I'm not bored because I'm always doing something: fapping, lurking, if I'm walking I start discussions in my mind and get angry when I can't properly convey a point to the other.
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>>28941985
I made a steam friend on here last week, but I'm too awkward to actually message them. Every time I think about it, I remember something else I need to do. I can't tell if I'm too busy or just subconsiously making excuses.
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>>28945001
Do it, they're probably autistically waiting for you to message them first because they messaged you first last time.
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>>28940804

I only feel lonely after finishing a great VN, game, or anime. I mean once I find another one to latch onto, I'm the most popular guy ever.
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>>28940804
no
being around other people is more lonely than being alone
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Yes, but I most than that I wished I had at least one friend not the same to me but the contrary outgoing and such to learn of his experiences and another just as autist like me, who likes me and shares-.

I have been thinking about the facto in another thread of "guys you like" some girls said that eyebags are a cute thing on guys, but I have always tried to get rid of them and I don't I have such heavy bag eyes and dark circles all my life been conscious and hated them and now I know some girls like them, but I hate they said that because probably they meant, eybags ON CUTE GUYS!, I feel even more stupid now.
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>>28945154
Also in the last thread of make friends trough steam everybody ghosted me.
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I fantasize about having friends a lot.
I'd be fine if I never get a gf if I had good friends, you know?
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I deserve this fate.

I don't know why, but I still probably deserve it.
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>>28942153
Same family.

I felt nothing
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>tfw friends replace you with new friends
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>>28940804
I find myself annoyed by most people. Family is enough, and the one or 2 friends I might talk to every year or 2.

Even Steam friends, mostly annoying.

All I wish is that I didn't think so much.
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>>28945625
>All I wish is that I didn't think so much.
This is why I abuse drugs and sleep through entire days. I wish I was able to just shut off my mind at times.
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>>28941072
it's like that with me
i've asked them so many times to go and watch a movie with me in the cinema and they always responded "sorry, no money"
i'm not asking anymore, i just go alone
it's sad
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>>28945295
top anime of all time. I cried
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>>28946070
Started going to the movies alone since SAW V.

Feels weird going to the movies by yourself it's like you're expecting to an adult theater but you're not.


Truth is I'm glad I don't have friends, yes the pain is there from loneliness but you never have to figure out how to keep your "friends" interested in you. I'm not interesting, no one is;
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>Work at a store in a strip mall
>Store is next door to a Chinese nail salon
>For some reason, me and this QT girl end up going on lunch nearly the same time
>Always see her walking out
>Fall in love
>That deep crushing loneliness when I see her and I can't even be courageous enough to speak to her
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>>28940804
I have a friend who I wish was more than a friend, he doesn't want it to be more though.
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>>28946775
at least you have a friend you compaliner
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>>28941093
>not posting the greatest Ukrainian
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>>28941072
If you don't give them a chance, how will you ever know if they hate you?
Why do you think you're boring? You're only boring if you want to be boring! If you would just try, you'd see that there are people who will love you. True, some might not, but they don't matter, all that matters is the people that do love you. I love you, why won't you give others a chance?!
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>>28940804
Sure I do but it's just selfish loneliness talking, I'd make a terrible online/real life friend.
Imageboards will have to suffice.
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>>28947514
>It's a Halpost
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>>28947010
yea but I want to fuck his bouncy ass one day.
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>>28941725
Same, if you are over 30 it sucks being on 4chan. I've been posting here 10 years.

And if you are over 30 and you have no friends, then it sucks IRL as well.

I try not to let this ruin my emotions, but sometimes it's impossible. People aren't designed to be this isolated.
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Sometimes I think it would be really nice to have a friend with whom I could play video games and go road cycling, but that seems unattainable.
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Friendless for 15 years here. Unless you count Friday night magic
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>>28948542
Post steam anon and maybe I can be that friend to play videog ames
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>>28947850
I've lurked but haven't posted.

You're not very good at detecting which posts are actually me. I'm autistic about using proper capitalization and punctuation, for one.
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I lost a great friend a half a year ago, we got in an argument and we both acted immature and childish, although what I did was worse. I was too stubborn to apologize when I had the chance. Every once in a while the feelings come back, I miss them a lot, I hope wherever they are they are happy, and will accept my apology. I don't have anyone to tell this to so I figured I would write it here.
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>>28949724
What was your friends name anon let us into this.
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>tfw having friends is ruined for you
>can't talk to anyone without getting anxiety and distrustful
>now stuck in a state of loneliness where you can't make friends
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Who else wants friends but doesn't want then at the same time?
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> make a friend
> he's the living definition of /pol/
> but he understands me more than anyone else has


> tell him to fuck off
who here /don'tcare/?
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>>28949787
He has no name, like me, we never used names for each other. We were just friend number 1 and friend number 2. Besides, it's not something you would want to get involved in anyways.

>>28949841
I wholeheartedly understand that. It's a lot of time and effort sometimes to maintain friendships with even a few people.
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>>28942405
You still here?
USB
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>>28948330
Speak for yourself normie
jkjk
I have no friends to protect my fragile ego, see I don't take criticism or insults very well in real life I'm also painfully shy so even though we're social animals it's better if I don't have friends so I ghost
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>tfw I made a friend this week
>we went to the gym and played Overwatch

horrible feel when
>3 spots left, anyone you want to invite to the group?
>n-no, they're all eh, playing world of warcraft
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>>28940804

>tfw walking aimlessly around public spaces just to feel like a real human being
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>>28950012
That sounds nice. Where do you live?
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>try talking to someone who previously said i was nice and a friend
>doesn't seem interested in trying to maintain a conversation at all so i end up feeling awkward and annoying
it hurts
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>all these people making friends on steam.
I should get a better computer so I can buy games for it and make friends online.
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>>28950012
what a waste of time
mootblox
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>>28940804
I feel so socially deprived right this moment. Facebook is getting lonely as fuck, I'm about deactivate.
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Is anyone else having a hard time speaking/commenting online?

I can like people's posts but that's all I can do anymore, I also used to be very opinionated but I now have nothing to say about anything. What's happening to me?
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>>28949793
fucking this

originalio
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>>28950333
>"friends" on steam
>online

I'd say some ugly truth right now but I'm in a good mood; it's alright man, it's gonna be alright.
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>>28950912
You want to fuck, cutie?
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>>28951020
>i am incapable of making genuine friends so everybody else must be too
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>>28951127
I have some genuine friends, but you can always one-up me with a couple of more online friends
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I'm more about that one gf I can spend all my time with. I don't need or want friends. They're just tedious.
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>>28940804
I lost all my friends when I started to work more hours at my job. Some of those were love interests that had mutual feelings for me. I tried to make it work, but couldn't keep them feeling the same way as they used to feel about me. I lost them. They broke my heart.

The entire time I was at work today, I kept wanting to kill myself. Maybe it's me. Maybe the world is against me. Maybe I should just vanish from existence. Maybe it's better that I don't exist anymore. Maybe I'm not supposed to be allowed to feel loved and attain happiness in this life. Maybe my life was never mine. Maybe I don't deserve anything. Maybe I am only allowed to give, but never receive. Maybe I'm meant to be broken.
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Hi robots I'm accepting bestfriend applications. Leave some info I'll contact you if interested. Let's cure this disease!
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>>28951199
>they're just tedious
good luck getting a gf, you seem like a charmer
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>>28941725
>>28948330
Another >30 here. I joined with the ADTRW announcement. There was a paranoid schizophrenic girl I used to talk to on AIM a few years ago but she vanished suddenly after some psychotic break. Zero friends since then.

The old culture is dead with the rise of social networking. All good things in my past were accidents, and the circumstances that let them happen are gone now.
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>tfw your friend gets a gf and never talks to you again
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>>28951212
I'm in the same boat.
I lost my only gf to a Chad while I was working 2 weeks with no days off.

It's ok. Now she texts me telling me she made a mistake, but she's trying to make it work.

Life is pain is life the same
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>>28951329
Good luck to you, brother. I wish you the best with her.
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>>28951246
you know what pisses me off about gays and trans and whatever the fuck is hip these days? the way a man drops his masculinity from his grasp, you fuckers should shower in that shit yet you don't know how to run faster from it. Damn shame.
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>>28949724
What was the fight about fampi?
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>>28951782
I'm just shooting in the dark but, are you asking out of curiosity or are you asking because you're afraid I might be talking about you?
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>>28952369
Not the anon you are replying to, but I'm interested to hear as well.
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>>28951782
>>28952450
Well sure, it was really nothing too serious though. When I tell you you will probably start thinking they are crazy. I was just a little short with them because I was tired at the time, and they completely snapped. I actually can't even really quite remember what was said. They went on some massive tangent for days and days afterwards just insulting me non-stop. This is after we had been talking for like a few weeks, we had almost talked for like 7 days, all day. We really had a lot in common and were getting along well. More than I have ever experienced with someone. I think they just had a lot of insecurities and even the slightest hint of disapproval is what made them snap. Anyways, I apologized for being short with them, but they wouldn't take any responsibility for how they treated me like shit for like 3 days straight, and I mean like arguing pointlessly all day. They actually wanted me to take responsibility for it, which I wouldn't do, because that's bullshit. I suppose looking back it was quite obvious from the start this person was abusive, but I feel like on the inside they are still a good person, just very damaged and scared. So anyways, I ended up getting quite angry and then said some really bad things that I don't want to repeat because it makes me shameful. Regardless of whether we could be friends again, I feel the need to apologize for my poor behavior, and I don't expect them to apologize either. I just feel guilty hurting someone who I want to have happiness, even if they don't want happiness for me. We were both just being stubborn and ignorant and I think we equally ruined a friendship that could have been very powerful. I suppose he doesn't need me, or he has convinced himself that he doesn't need me, but I have yet to find another friend who has given me the same rush that he did.
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>>28953111
That sounds very vague on what happened.
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>>28951212
What do you do?

Originale
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I have at least 7 close friends

and I had a gf

but I still feel lonely :'(
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I want someone to go and build forts in the woods with me.
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