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So over the last year l've basically created a livestyle
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So over the last year l've basically created a livestyle for myself that almost completely closed me off from human interaction. I live in a city were l basically know no one and am self employed working from home.
This isolation, while having many advantages made me a complete social retard.
While l was always somewhat dorky, at this point it's just getting ridiculous.
Everytime l outside to buy something l go absolute spagetti when speaking to anyone or even just interacting with a cashier.
How can l fix this?
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Find a video game you like, find friends within said video game, start talking to them over teamspeak/skype, gain social skills.

DESU if you play oldschool runescape and join a pvm clan you can make great friends
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>>28935844
there's no fixing it I can't even wait in line at a store without shaking or sweating.
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>>28935844
>How can I fix this

Desensitize yourself to embarrassment, which is the only thing you have to fear from social interaction. Join a club, pick up girls, go to a bar, do karaoke. You'll make a fool of yourself and pretty soon you'll stop caring too. Once you stop caring it never leaves you, you won't care what people think of you ever again, it's wonderful.
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>>28935844
tell me how I can become self employed so I can also live the dream
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>>28935844
Start playing a few dating sims, you should pick up some social skills from there. Then branch out
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dungeons and dragons was made for this exact situation.

it's like playing house for those past preschool
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>>28938795
no No NO!!! try watching some Real Social Dynamics stuff and go out to apply 1-3 things you've learned there every day.
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>>28935844
pretty much the same thing has happened to me. i spend so much time alone that i can't really talk to people anymore. it's all broken thoughts and i trip over words constantly. it's embarrassing.

apparently this is similar to what prison inmates go through when they spend a lot of time in solitary confinement. isolation just breaks your mind.
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