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>at family party >cant connect or socialize with anyone
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>at family party
>cant connect or socialize with anyone
>they taunt me with shit like "you're finally out of your dungeon, come talk to us! hehehe"
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I envy being alone instead of being dependent on family
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Rheeeeee bump
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>>28908298
>has a family
>they actually talk to each other
wow, how tragic for you OP...
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>>28908298
emo as fuck lmao
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>>28908934
>>28908965

hes complaining about not being able to relate to people

its not emo or edgy, its just sad

but the beta uprising pepe is edgy and emo
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>>28909043
Then he's a true robot, fuck these redditors
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>>28909043
>>28909141
the problem is, they are trying to connect with him. Most families will tease you a bit so they can get you engaged and talking to them. Get you to smile and poke back a little Its the equivalent of two dogs play fighting.They don't expect you to be an emotionally underdeveloped manchild who takes those jabs seriously.

OP is just needlessly victimizing himself.
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>>28909231
pretty much thing oregano commanento
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>>28909231
>families will tease you a bit so they can get you engaged and talking to them.
That's not how it works.

Anon has been pigeonholed as a loner, so now the natural human instinct is to keep him there by mocking any attempt to do something out of the ordinary.
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>>28909469
This , that's exactly what is happening. Family isn't encouraging him to do shit other than stay away
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>>28909231
"Banter" and "playful insults" work as icebreakers on confident, socially comfortable people. Not insecure losers who live in isolation and have trouble even meeting their own family. If his parents want him to re-enter society, they have to accommodate him. I don't get why this is so hard to understand.
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>>28909231
normies like you will never understand

those techniques just reinforce robot insecurities
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>>28909469
>>28909492
>>28909562
>>28909578
Thats because normal people have a hard time understanding why you're still under developed. You can't blame them for that. Its not like they encounter that level of insecurity often.
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>>28909610
Nice bait attempt. Autism is not "still being underdeveloped"
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>>28909633
Most people here aren't autistic. They just suffer from bad parenting.
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>>28909231
this is the most reddit post i've ever seen here
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>>28909633
There's a big difference between people who are genuinely autistic or aspergic and people who simply have very stunted emotional growth for any number of reasons throughout childhood. The former, whilst obviously at a disadvantage, can still (depending on how high functioning they are) act and fit in as a well adjusted member of society, whereas (in my experience at least) the latter group are basically fucked barring some sort of miracle.
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>>28909610
>how was I supposed to know that if I beat him he would flinch when touched
>how was I supposed to know that feeding him junk food when he was sad would make him want junk food when he was sad
>how was I supposed to know that mocking his attempts to change would make him stop trying
How indeed. Humans are a mystery.
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>>28909833
Fuck that hits close to home. I used to get beat and yelled at for ours any time I didn't do anything exactly as my father wanted, now I'm so afraid of failure and it's solely responsible for my failures in education and romance
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>>28909833
>>28909916

like I said, bad parenting. see >>28909675

Boomer generation were mostly terrible parents due to the prevalent "tough love" philosophy of the time.
Doesn't mean you can't use your self-awareness (which you're displaying right now) to improve yourself.
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>>28908298
Show them some scat porn.
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>>28909725
I never had social problems until I was teased and bullied in Highschool freshman year and got into a fight, and endured torture being mocked and shit thrown at me in class. I was never outgoing again .

I'm never sending my kids to public school if I have any.
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>>28910145
>implying kids in private schools don't get bullied
I went to a private school, and lad do I have some bad news for you...
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Family parties are awful. No one makes an attempt to actually connect with me or anything, it's just forced small talk that neither party enjoys. If not making insufferable small talk, I am just sitting. Sitting alone isn't the worst, though, at least I am being left alone. But I'm still in an uncomfortable environment.

A party hasn't been thrown in a while and I've lost a noticeable amount of weight in that time so I'm really dreading the awkward compliments to come during the next holiday gathering.
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>>28910292
Wew lad are you me? The forced small talk shit is dreadful
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>>28910292
Dunno man, I'd be genuinely happy for a family member that improved his or her health. Why do you think the compliments are awkward?
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>>28910661
It's an uncomfortable and embarrassing situation
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