By being born non-inferior.

>how
by spending time with other people? sort of becomes inevitable over 20, 30, 40 years of that.

>>28883529
>there are people that are comfortable spending time with other people
how

How do they get past the overwhelming sense of self-doubt and self-loathing?

>>28883529

I go outside, I have male friends, I go to bars with them, I have female coworkers.

The idea of a woman being interested in me is just impossible for me though.

>>28883557
one step at a time, queer boy.

>>28883559
yeah and i only eat a salad every day and gain 200 lbs per week somehow ;) XDDXD

its impossible because you waste all your time at home and not developing into a human being.

>>28883631

>I'm doing what people say to do
>Lol, no you're not

How helpful

>>28883489
This bugs me too OP
I feel really alien
While I'm capable of having long one on one conversations with many friends, I still find myself incapable of taking a step towards intimacy
Girls just don't look at me

>>28883653
you asked how people do it, i don't give a fuck if that helps you. humans have hormones and a need for intimacy and there is no shortage of people in any community looking for relationships. after tens of thousands of hours of being around each other it's no longer a question of doing something "right" it's just being alive

>>28883489
>It's normal for men to have an IQ of 100

We're just above them all. Someday you'll figure that out, kid.