how do i meet INTP girls?
i met one and she was amazing but i fucked it up..
i figure there must be more girls that have the same personality style and are cute.. but introverts tend to keep to themselves and are hard to meet so how?
tinder?
bumble?
the library?
top kek. OP you done fucked up
>>28864808
yeah i know but compatibility isnt like 1 in 6 billion it must be something like 1 in 100 or 1 in 30 idk
>>28864682
>the library
Just ask your mom out already...
>>28865077
i wish my mom were hot, i like incest porn a lot but im not into my mom
>>28864913
Get a job. Get a job where you interact with different people on some level. Tons of introverts work so you won't have to break into their houses to find one.
>>28864682
ISFP guy here
pls date me
>>28865139
the thing is the girl that i met was on welfare and totally took advantage of the system (finland) and im kind of doing the same thing and we were both actually really happy with out situation.. im attracted to girls that are like "fuck the system"
>>28865188
sry straight :(
Dont try bumble. Unless you are a chad you wont have any luck whatsoever.
>>28865331
I am attracted to girls who murder guys who say "fuck the system".
All welfare leeches deserve to die.
>>28865343
well i kind of look like a chad but im not one personality wise but i still can fake it with pictures and whatnot
>>28865360
what if youre studying and plan to contribute to society with something more than flipping burgers someday,,,
welfare isnt bad because a lot of really smart people use their time to come up with something much more productive than the usual crap
how many more walmart employess do we need? wouldnt people inventing robots to do meaningless jobs be a better use of human energy?
girl im talking about was a genius waiting to bloom
>>28865370
post a pic leech whos living of the system that you want to "fuck"
>>28864682
How do you guys know people's mbtis? Do you go around asking or something? Nobody I know has ever brought them up
>>28865417
ive already fucked her about 30-40 times and no i wont post pics cause i would hate to betray someone i care about
>>28865433
girl told me within like a day of texting because shes obsessed with psychology
i think im going to sneek it in with any girls i date from now on because i know i only really like INTPs
>>28865442
post a pic of you faggot chad
>>28865488
cant.. goes against all morals, but shes a solid 7/10 (numbers only signify what other guys would think about a girl but everyone knows that if you fall in love theyre a 10/10)
she didnt have a huge ass or tits but her body was skinny and perfect 19 year old tight and im 27
she also had the perfect face for me which was beautifully gloomy
she has kind of a dark and spooky look but super hot IMO like zelda but with dark hair in twilight princess
>>28865562
i think he meant that you should post a pic of yourself since you said youre a chad, idiot
>>28865611
wow fuck u man.. and no thanks this is fucking 4chan im not that dumb
y dont u post a pic fgt?
>>28865816
because i didnt say i am hot fucking leech
>>28865918
i didnt say im fucking either.. i just said i can pass as a chad sometimes just like a fucking trap can pass a girl but yeah im fucked up like everyone else here im not denying that
What are INTP girls like?
I'm an INTP guy and I'm uninterested in relationships but I wonder if I'd get along with a girl who has more or less the same personality as me.
>>28866472
im uninterested in relationships as well or atleast i thought i was
the INTP girl i met was amazing.. she totally understood me and all she wanted was to create our own little world together and she was completely fine with saying fuck the outside world...
it was like we built our only little pillow fort to have sex and play in and she didnt care about the normal stupid things most girls are obsessed with
plus the girl was a literal genius and could basically read my mind
>>28866622
You're a lucky man.
That kind of girl sounds like a dream to me. They don't seem to exist, or if they do, they're 300lbs and deformed.
>a literal genius and could basically read my mind
How so? That's interesting
>>28866645
i live in finland so introverted chicks that arent stuck up and self centered seem to be more prevalent.. its and ideal situation, or atleast i hope
by reading my mind i mean that when we texted she always was one step ahead of me in logic... being a robot i was always asking her for advice because i have constant anxiety
so for example i was worried about being accepted to school next fall and she stopped me and said even if you dont get accepted you can probably learn more studying on your own and i wont leave you ... sensing my insecurity about not being involved with a job or education
she always knew the right answer for any concerns i had and could always put me at ease,, but somehow i still managed to fuck it up..
i probably have borderline personality disorder because i managed to drive away the perfect woman, but im just hoping i can find someone similar or else i should an hero because that was the happiest ive ever been in my entire life and nothing could come close
>>28866750
>i live in finland
Is it as comfy as the memes say? Finland seems so calm and nice to live in.
I see, that's a real gem for sure. How did you fuck it up?
>>28865404
That is where the "leech" part comes in. I am not fond of welfare at all but its tolerable in some of those situations.
>>28865433
Several girls post it in their Tinder profiles.
>>28866795
it actually is as comfy as the memes.. truly if not more so
the girls here are so much more tolerant of introversion and there is basically a shortage of men so its so much easier to meet girls than in the states (ive lived in both)
sometimes though making guy friends is tough because people seem to not call eachother as often so if you want to maintain a friendship you actually have to take the initiative.... right now im struggling hence im in r9k
>>28866843
well plenty of people abuse it but i think the net affect is positive
>>28866999
Do you guys have a lot of refugees and whatnot or are you safe from that stuff? Not to turn this into /pol/ or anything, but I'd like to move after I'm done studying.
>>28867032
a lot less than other euro countries and certainly less "diversity" than the states but its starting to happen and in 10 years will probably be the same as everywhere else
next year they are going to pay all citizens a basic allowance of 800 euros so i think poor people from around the globe will be trying to immigrate here
for now though its still a paradise.. i just happen to be depressed at the moment but because the government pays me money im focusing on developing skills for my future instead of slaving away at mcdonalds or some other shit job
>>28866795
oh yeah and i fucked it up because i took mushrooms and had a panic attack and blocked her on facebook and didnt answer my phone for 3 days
it was because i hung out with her the day i took the shrooms and she was just tired or in a bad mood but i took it personally and it sent me into a paranoia spiral
her ex had blocked her on facebook ironically and she had dumped him for it so that actually was some sort of trigger for her
apparently i could have salvaged it but for some reason my anxiety kept me from texting her and she went back to her ex who had been nipping at her heels the entire time we went out
it really was so fucking stupid stupid stupid and so far has been the biggest mistake of my life
typing this makes me so fucking sad desu
>>28867279
That fucking sucks, man. I sincerely hope it gets better for you soon.
>>28867279
when she got back to her ex so fast, its was probably for the better that you broke up.
>>28867337
thanks anon.. its just crazy cause i thought i was never a relationship guy
i was the type who was lucky to have 1-3 one night stands a year but this girl i met changed my outlook
i just really really really hope that i can find someone similar because i know that that love and affection is the ultimate form of happiness and hook up culture is actually not what im about at all
does anyone else believe that there are similar personality types and you can find someone similar to someone else cause thats my only hope right now?
>>28867409
why do you say that?
part of it was because i was neglecting her because i had this bad attitude that i should be fucking other girls but i even tried that and it wasnt 1 millionth as satisfying as actual connection
she caught me on tinder twice and instagram creeping so i think she was just starting to check out and her ex was relentless
also this was a long distance relationship but i managed to see her every weekend, although the weekend before the break up i blew her off for the first time to hang out with other friends (which i regret).
also girls here arent fucking stupid like the states omg after checking facebook the stupid shit people post like "free gucci mane' i cant fucking believe how brain washed people are by corporate "pop culture"
should i just fucking an hero guys wtf?
>>28867477
then youre just a cunt and deserve what happenned, jesus christ why are you even on r9k?
>cheats on girlfriend
>goes on tinder, normiebook etc.
>gets dumped
>cries on fucking r9k
do you even now what a robot is?
>>28867477
also being "relentless" only works when the other person is not completely reluctant. She could have told him at any time that he is a piece of shit and should never contact her again, block him on all media and just ignore that cunt.
>>28866750
Shes cheating on you lol. She senses that insecurity and is taking advantage.
>>28867477
>i'm a robot
>muh insecurities made me cheat on my gf
>i have too much anxiety to appreciate love
you're an entitled cunt is what you are. i think you should actually commit suicide, instead of joking about becoming an hero on a mongolian organ trading website
>>28867527
>>28867769
>>28867786
i never actually cheated on her for the record.. but why are you guys being so harsh
ive been alone for 10+ years and finally met the girl of my dreams but fucked it up cause i have no idea how to handle an actual relationship and had all sorts of egotistic delusions
i mean seriously think about all the maladaptive behavior that your average neet accumulates (i was a neet for 4 years at my worst)... what are the chances someone like that fucks up and squanders opportunity, whether its romance or something else
its super hard guise dont bully im sorry just please learn from me and if you meet a girl dont fuck up plz and yeah i probably should die i know
>>28867596
girls like to have a constellation of guys hanging around them, but yeah she obviously had feelings for her ex and had him on the backburner.. i should have tried harder and done better but we really did have a connection nonetheless
Would you take an INFJ grill?
>>28869074
possibly.. i think the IN part is the most important for me.. but yeah something about cold logic is what turns me on because im so emotionally irrational
but possibly INFJ sounds interesting from the 5 minutes ive researched
as far as physical appearances go im convinced that there is no difference for me between a 7/10 or a 10/10 *i just have to be attracted enough*
what defines you as a INFJ?
i think im INFP actually but yeah something about INTP really gets me.. i know they can be cold but their logic balances me and i just want to break their shell and when we do its the most amazing thing ever
