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/r9k/ I am a 24 year old guy who has masturbated for the first time in my life over the past few days (have done it 3 times). Nothing at all, at all, felt "amazing" about this like I was led to believe.
I put some lotion in my hand and just rubbed my frenulum until I came (actually stroking my whole shaft is not working, don't even use porn). This wasn't some out of body experience that will "take over my life" like a lot of people say, especially with this whole "no Fap" thing that's popular online. I don't really feel any more or less horny than I did before it, where I've been told that "once you cum, you will look in disgust at yourself and feel completely relaxed and all that" and I felt none of that. I didn't even have some moaning, groaning, gasping orgasm either, i just kind of...cum
Is there something wrong with me? What exactly am I supposed to feel after it?
>>28781581
>What exactly am I supposed to feel after it?
Nothing. Masturbating sucks, but it beats not masturbating so I still do it.
>24 year old guy who has masturbated for the first time
die, you pathetic mastubationless-virgin.
>>28781581
Yes, there is something wrong with you if you don't feel orgasms.
>>28781581
probably because your dick was mutilated at birth. Sorry
>>28781768
It's not that I don't feel them. I definitely feel them and they feel pretty good. But I have always been under the impression that they are some incredible, almost out of body experience
I mean yeah my balls twitched and it felt good pulsing out of me, but it wasn't like some incredible thing, and i didnt really feel different before or after it
oh well i guess my thread is ded
>>28781581
You're supposed to look at porn dumbass. Of course it sucked if you just sat there and tugged it with no stimulation.
>>28782257
no, people have always said that masturbation on its own is great. porn is not required
The fact that you're 24 and just masturbated for the first time does in fact prove there is something seriously wrong with you yes.
>>28781849
>>28782303
Orgasms vary in pleasure. If you don't look at porn and just kind of tug your dick of course it isn't going to be amazing as if you're actually aroused.
It's like having a meal when you're really not hungry. The food's not going to taste as good as it should then.
>>28782257
You have no imagination then.
>>28782371
yeah im the typical autistic robot, no friends, loser, etc
>>28782489
>>28782371
didn't start until I was 23 when I started to receive a little female attention. not all that strange
>>28781849
Like people have said, stimulation is a major factor.
Personally, if I have no access to porn, I like to come up with little stories to justify why I'm jerking off, little scenarios in which I'm getting laid and just what I'd do to the girl. It's actually helped me a lot as a writer, since after doing this for a while you start to think about how much more believable the scenario would be if it wasn't just "chick asks for dick, you dick her".
>>28781849
Imagine OP, that life is so devoid of happiness and pleasure that that orgasm is fantastic compared to someone's daily sheer existence.
That's why they put it on a pedestal.
>>28782661
Believe me man, I am one of those devoid of happiness and pleasure people.
>>28782552
why did you decide to masturbate when you started getting attention
>>28782618
>>28782377
But the orgasm in itself is supposed to be what's pleasurable. i mean, i was just stroking myself with nothing and got hard and came. I was definitely aroused.
>>28782749
>why did you decide to masturbate when you started getting attention
I just started to feel the urge. As if something awakened within me.
But I agree with you that's it's pretty crap. But I thought it's because I have a botched circumcision.
>>28782859
but according to no-fap isnt it supposed to be the opposite? Like, when you start getting attention is when you DON'T want to masturbate instead of the other way around?
also, did you always have wet dreams?
>>28782749
Believe it or not, orgasms vary. Sometimes it's lame, sometimes it hurts, sometimes it's stunning, usually it's somewhere in between.
Having better stimulus helps, and edge more or less than you were doing it. Like everything else in life, it takes practice to do well.
>>28782749
You said the cumming feels good, but you didn't have any attachment to it. You just stroked and came.
Watching porn, your brain starts to run into overdrive. It's not just that it's people fucking, it's people fucking and enjoying it, having unbelievable screaming orgasms. Subconsciously you attach yourself to that, and it makes your orgasm that much better as a result.I'm pulling most of this out of my ass, btw
>>28782889
to be honest, the one i had yesterday when i actually "masturbated" for the first time was amazing. there was a week, maybe 2, of cum buildup and i shot out 8-10 bursts all up my stomach and chest, probably one of the bigger loads most people will see
tonight first time, shot about 3-4 not nearly as high/far, second one tonight (expectedly) just a little dribble, didnt really feel a hell of a lot
How do normal guys do it, just like put down a towel on their bed/chair?
>>28782878
Yes, wet dreams were always very common for me. Not as much now but I still get them because I only fap about 3 times a week and often less. It's funny because I dream of girls I'm not interested in real life but when I wake up I do feel attraction to them.
I can't really tell you about no-fap. But like I said it was like a spark inside that was set off. I really wanted sex for the first time but I couldn't get it so I fapped.
>>28781581
nah, you're perfectly fine.
people just lose interest in the porn they watch after finishing their fap and feel disgusted by themselves.
besides, fapping drains energy from you and is just maximum 5 seconds of addicting pleasure, like a drug, so you're not missing out on much, and there's not much wrong with you in that sense.
Fapping is nice, but it's not an absolutely awe-inducing, mind-blowing, dick-destroying, epic experience. If you do it everyday, you just become accustomed to it and it becomes more of a compulsive habit.
I used to fap at least once a day for years on end, but now control it to once or twice a week just to clean the pipes down there and feel good once in a while.
