>tfw one friend
>tfw constantly sperg out
>tfw 5'3"
>tfw the ultimate red flag name
Should I just off myself?
>>28778519
Nah, not yet. Focus on working through your autism, once you know how to talk to people life instantly gets a bit better.
If you can't do that, then try pic related
>>28778519
>Admitting weakness to a girl
It's already over m8
If you have no friends just devote your whole time to teaching yourself some sort of skill, like IT for example. Then eventually you'll be raking in cash and getting pussy even if you're still a sperg.
>>28778519
>>why?
>>what I said had no meaning
Jesus follow thru. First text was actually halfway decent. Don't fold because of a little pressure
>>28778825
This. Her vagina dries up the instant you show weakness.
>>28778519
That was a really weak reply to your first question, to be fair.
>5'3"
>can't reach the pullup bars at gym
yeah kys op
>saying sorry for asking a question
gg no re
Mental illness is learned helplessness.
Man up fuccboi.
>>28779638
this
original comment des
>>28778519
Holy shit dude.
This is just one step away from being cringe material
>>28780606
No, we're already there. Fuck this guy.
>>28778519
If he's your friend, I don't understand why he didn't just answer the first question. After "sure" he should have followed up with the title of the book and why he didn't finish it. I don't think you're in the wrong here, OP.
Honestly that's a pretty good conversation starter, which I think would be nice because I always have trouble thinking of things to say when I engage in social interactions via text without a pre-defined topic.
>>28783299
Well, it's a girl. If it was a dude, he would've responded with what book it was and why, but because it was a girl, she has no idea how to have a normal conversation.
>immediately going meta
Learn how to converse with people properly
>>28783329
My (female) cousin told me that if a girl replies with just "sure" or "okay", it means she's not interested. In this case, OP is screwed either way.
OP here, she responded just now. I'll post the whole thing leading up to now.
>>28783762
(1/2 Original Photos)
>>28783784
(2/2 Original Photos)
So what's her problem?
>>28783784
Fuck these kind of posts depress me so much
I don't know what to say OP. You're autistic and she's tired of your shit
>>28778519
>>28783784
>Jonathan
>tfw I'm literally named Jonathan and a 5'3" sperg myself
Get of my body OP
>>28783864
>Get of my body OP
I meant get out of my body
>>28783797
>you're upset
>friend tells you to fuck off because they don't want to feel your anxiety
>friend is upset
>you tell them youre there for them
>>28783944
Not OP, but I personally can't actually tell the line between being a beta and being the bigger person very well.
It sucks.
>>28783960
Generally we choose friends that at least desire to contribute to the friendship as much as we do.
It's like achieving equilibrium. Right now your price is too low and hers is too high, there's some cuckweight loss there, ya feel me?
>>28783784
>>28783797
Playing cripple may give you some sympathy but she still looks down on you. You're never going to get that pity-fuck.
If you want her to like you stop acting like a sissy.
>>28778519
>ultimate red flag name
What's your name?
>>28778519
>someone with anxiety
Why do fags self-diagnose themselves with common human experiences and then use it as a crutch and excuse.
>>28784712
Because if you say you have a disorder, it makes you unable to be faulted for your own failures in life. Instead of being unhappy with your life and too lazy to fix it, you've got depression and literally can't. Instead of just being a normal person with normal anxieties, you've got social anxiety and as such everyone has to treat you perfectly and can't blame you for being rude.
It's essentially a get out of jail free card.
>>28783797
i think i know you, where are you from or something
>>28784951
Well where do you think I'm from?
>>28784963
but then if im right you might lie and say im not cuz u dont want anyone knowing u go on here
>>28784977
Fine, I'm from Texas.
>>28784988
nah it aint u senpai, that is if youre telling the truth........
>>28784585
Jonathan, oregano comment.
>>28785004
I'm telling the truth, I'm an SATX Anon. The girl I'm talking to goes to TAMU.
She sounds like a jerk, I dont think the first text was bad at all, and you certainly don't deserve her using you as an emotional punching bag.
>>28778909
>>28778825
Depends how deep in a relationship you are. Showing a few flaws can be endearing as long as they aren't crushing. They view it as demon you have to fight with, so your other positive qualities seem even better in contrast.
>>28784777
autism is real you know
Aight well I'm gonna make a guess and say you're probably in high school or middle school. Either way, you're still figuring this shit out. This is because you say you're 5'3 and I literally only know one fully grown guy who is 5'3.
Focus on yourself, get some damn confidence. Honestly your opener wasn't necessarily bad but follow up. Mainly, don't apologize all the time (I actualy have the same problem), go lift some weights and do something to make you believe in yourself. Honestly, the best thing to do is to act like this girl is just another one of your friends. It's an issue of mine that I have a hard time closing the deal, but I can talk to any girl I want because I treat them like they're anybody else, not this magical being that has all the answers to my problems etc. This is called "putting the pussy on a pedestal".
Also, this anxiety thing, yeah anxiety is real, and you may be diagnosed with it, but man you can get over it. Don't let it be the be all end all to your life, and don't use it as an excuse. It may be hard to do, but if you honestly realize that you are responsible for your whole life, you'll realize you have to get over it. Fake it till you make it, people generally want to get along and it will be fine. I'll be checking up on this thread later.
This is funny because I am a passerby, I havent been on r9k for years and years. It's still the same though... just with new 14 year olds
She will forever see you as weak. You've lost.
Never talk to a girl over text unless it's about setting up a real, physical meetup. Literally no reason.
>>28785796
Sure, but the people who have it aren't the sort that blame it on anxiety, it's obvious when someone has legitimate autism, they're not just awkward people.
>>28785986
OP here, I'm 19. The Manlet Curse is real.
