>tfw no clingy insecure gf who is obsessed with you and needs your reassurance
What's it like having a gf like this?
How wouId we know?
>>28733742
IT gets old REALLY fucking fast friend, even if you're lonely. 1/10 would not recommend.
>>28733828
Fucking this, clingy is terrible.
have that now, gonna drop her like a sack of potatoes soon
an absolute fucking nightmare
cool maybe for two days, maybe even three
then it's hell on earth
>>28733742
it's shit. my gf is really fucking hot too but it gets so old. I just want to turn my phone off and play video games or shitpost but no. constant texts and when we're together she always wants my attention
RUN WHILE YOU CANNNN (she's a very sweet person tho and her butt is very nice)
>>28733742
It's really fucking awful. You never get a moment to yourself. She needs help with literally fucking everything. You want to play some vidya alone? Too fucking bad. She'll be passively aggressively waiting to turn this into an argument.
This gets compounded if you have a job, because she'll be text bombing you all day, and immediately demanding your attention when you drag your tired, sorry ass through the front door. It's all about her. If you ever fail to remind her how special and precious she is, she WILL skewer you for it.
>>28733940
>>28733953
THESE FUCKING MEN KNOW THE TRUTH
STOP FUCKING THINKING THAT ANIME IS REAL
A CLINGY GF IS LITERALLY HELL
SAVE YOURSELF, GODDAMNIT
at first it's endearing, then it gets stale, then it gets to be a huge fucking pain in the ass and you end up wondering why she is so insecure and it kinda fucks with you
I like my clingy gf, maybe you guys shouldn't have gone for Stacy.
None of these sound clingy, just self-deprecating and attention seeking.
You know how you're insecure and paralyzed by anxiety and need help getting out of bed in the morning?
Imagine taking care of someone like that.
I'mmarriedto one, she has agoraphobia and anxiety. She might be high functioning autistic, I dunno. She's got lots of probs cause she was raised by incredibly strict and sheltering parents. She was both homeschooled and then in her teens went to a private school.She was a virgin when I met her and she was a 21 year old factory worker
>Have to order for her at restaurants
>Even fast food I have to go with her to the counter and order or she panics and orders wrong stuff/runs
>Would never leave the house even for groceries if she could help it and needs to be escorted by me
>At home doesn't know what she wants to do
>Needs to be told by me what she wants to do
>Have to help her figure out if she wants to play vidya, draw, browse something, watch tv together
>Depressed/mopey 1/4th of every day
>Sometimes just sits near me whatever I'm doing and just stares blankly through me even if its video games, building stuff, cleaning, cooking
>Sometimes just says "I'm sad" "I'm lonely" every 5 minutes until I eventually cuddle her and remind her things are alright
>Randomly cries about stuff that happened days or years ago
>Wakes me up sometimes cause of bad dreams and needs me to reassure her that I love her
>Has to be reminded to DRINK OR EAT or she fucking forgets
>Gets mildly jealous of all female contact I have
>Is paranoid I'll go gay and eat dicks with my bros and leave her
>Has to be taught to do literally everything like six times
>Does anything I want for sex though and is an obedient little sub
>>28734103
how did you even meet such a creature?
does not sound like my sort of woman though
>>28734103
I had a gf EXACTLY like this. Whenever I wasn't giving her the attention she wanted, she'd get back at me by flirting with guys on r9k. Watch your back, friend.
>>28733742
Clingy is the best. I wish I had a clingy gf again. Being alone sucks but I wouldn't date a non clingy girl if you paid me. I have no idea what all these people are talking about with clingy being bad. They're dumb
>>28734103
Gross bad
>>28734103
sounds like hell jesus
>>28734141What was her name? Just first one.
>>28734103
>>Is paranoid I'll go gay and eat dicks with my bros and leave her
OH BOY that one had me chuckling like a mad man
>>28733828
Amen. Having to deal with crying because you need to get her medicine, and she's too sick to get up but doesn't want you to leave, that's no fun at all
>>28734187
Sorry anon, happened too recently. People involved still post here.
>>28734131
In an online video game. She couldn't even make friends on FFXI so went around pathetically and slowly solo'ing everything.
She's actually super hot too, I felt like a manga came to life or something. Like there was just no fucking way. Then I realised /how/. She was sheltered and supervised in the extreme, she'd only ever dated someone even once. Her parents invested in a sibling instead of her at 18 so they didn't pay for college, she ended up working alone in a hot shack at an insulation plant as a wageslave. She lived with her parents but they charged rent, and she hated going out so she ate their dinners. Her mother was purposely underfeeding her to make sure she was a slim 105-110lbs at all times to attract a mate (it worked in the end).
Aside from that she's a complete shrimp and looks younger than her age. I've been in threads on here before, and had to admit I almost got in deep shit at work cause of her. I took her to a christmas ball and everyone saw her. Next day I got called into bosses office and the door slams behind me and I'm in there with 3 people. They started grilling me as a pedophile and said they can't have that working here etc. I had to prove to them she was actually 21 fucking years old and just LOOKS like a busty 16 year old.
Even now she's 26, she could pass for 18. She could've been in an FBI bait program or something.
Its a fucking pain to deal with but I know one thing about her. She's different from other women, that may come with all sorts of fucked up issues, and she has her own woman bullshit too. But she wont cheat. I've gone through her skype and emails like a motherfucker and loads of guys have come flinging at her this past half decade, she doesn't consider even for a millisecond. Sometimes she gets offended and blocks forever if an orbiter attempts to begin. On that alone I'm fine to put up with needing to take care of her like a fucking pet.
It's very draining.
>>28734233
Can I get a first initial of the first name at least?
>>28734191
Seriously I'll make a new guy friend and be like "man I like Anon, what a fuckin bro!"
>What
>Do you mean attracted
>I saw you watching Gachimuchi
>Do you like men
>Do you like him
>Would you go gay for him
>Dont leave me for a man please
>Don't leave me
>I love you
>You love me right??
>>28734187
>>28734168
>>28734159
>>28734141
I took forever to type it see
>>28734255
I dunno
Your worst nightmare.
There is nothing more scary than a crazy and obsesive pussy.
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>>28734293
>I saw you watching Gachumuchi
IM FUCK
DYING!!!!!!
>>28734103
>She might be high functioning autistic
Sound likes it.
Orthogonal, spicy oregano
>>28734103
I want this so bad.
Originally
>>28733742
>what's it like
She spends the day fucking someone else, and when you come home a little bit late asks "who is she?"
That's what it's like. Insecure girls seek validation through sexual partners that correspond with their orientation. That's all.
>>28733953
>It's all about her
This. This is why clingy gf are NOT worth it. They don't really care about you. It's always about them. Every fucking time.
It may seem like they care for YOU, but it's more about them feeling bad about THEMSELVES.
>>28734707
They claim to be supportive, but those are just empty words. They don't actually do anything in support of your hobbies, goals, self-interests, etc. In fact, pursuing any of those things usually makes them jealous.
I had one. But she turned out to just seek out others when I got with her. Dumped a month ago.
Its shit
Imagine having to take care of one of you pathetic fucks every day
>>28734770
These seem like they were written by teenagers.
>>28733742
It's annoying as fuck, say goodbye to every last one of your hobbies and passions
>>28734103
>Does anything I want for sex though and is an obedient little sub
I don't speak for everyone here, but that alone makes just about everything above worth it
>>28734844
When you lose your virginity, you'll realize just how little sex changes things.
>>28734103
>Is paranoid I'll go gay and eat dicks with my bros and leave her
This is fucking hilarious but yea. I feel you. I had one way worse. She is 25 and never pumped gasoline in a car. Schizophrenic, bipolar, ocd, depression, and probably a little autistic.
>>28733742
Annoying as shit. Might be bearable if cell phones and internet didn't exist. Small talk texting 24/7 kills me physically and mentally. It's like having a second job.
I really want to have a clingy gf to counter my avoidant behaviour
Feels great man.
The only down side is when you disappoint her. Hurts a lot.
>>28733742
Why would you want that even a little bit? That's basically deciding to throw away your freedom and alone time for the foreseeable future.
>>28733742
I'm clingy and insecure but make up for it by acting callous and unfeeling. I'll only quietly e-stalk you and obsess over you from a distance while fantasizing about killing your close female friends.
clingy girls are fucked in the head and probably won't actually make good gfs. I know because I'm one
>>28735560
This too. Why willingly date damaged goods?
>>28735086
I'd imagine that may backfire, her being too clingy and you wanting to be alone is going to cause issues.
tfw no clingy gf
>>28735599
>wanting to be alone
Do you even understand what avoidant is? We don't want to be alone. We are just uncomfortable around people. One person who we can be comfortable around is literally perfection
>>28734103
>Is paranoid I'll go gay and eat dicks with my bros and leave her
kek
>>28733828
Absolutely this. Once the honeymoon phase is over, you will fucking hate her. I had this girlfriend (who browses /r9k/ "ironically") who i felt like i wanted to "protect." And when we first started having sex and being inmate, it felt so good to smother her in sweet nothings. But once you want a stable consistent relationship, the insecurities froth up, and it shatters the /comfy/ of good relations.
-10/10
>>28733742
I had such girl and trust me mate. It's fucking nightmare.
Bitch will text you each five minutes, if you don't reply she goes mental and claim you cheat her. She will also try to catch you on kid.
>>28735560
I think i have a female friend like this (online)
Everytime i bring up some bullshit that happened from my highschool she'd always say she would kill them, male or female...
>>28735749
kill yourself normie chad
>>28735560
Be my gf if you're in australia
>>28735781
clinginess and jealousy goes hand in hand. surprised she'd want to kill the guys too though
>>28735801
I'm on the other side of the globe
Have a clingy gf who had severe depression and social anxiety. Not the kind of where you just "kinda don't want to talk with people", but more debilitating.
As an example
> we go out together while dating for over a year
> some tourists come up to us asking for directions
> I tell them I don't know and i'm sorry, think it's over
> they specifically ask her
> she starts trembling when eyes meet with the womans
> Tries to speak but cant
> see tears going down her cheeks
> starts hyper ventilating
> excuse ourselves and just drag her away as fast as possible
As for the clingy part it was cute at first, but it basically destroyed my studies and job
Here's how it was for the first 2 fucking years
> start dating and living together
> she only starts feeling safe with me
> i can't go anywhere alone
> come back from college
> find her trembling in her pillow fort
> she instantly runs up to me and glues herself to me sobbing
> says she's sorry
> she can't go to the shop alone
> she can't answer her phone unless its me or her family
> Have to drop studies to be with her
>try working, but it's the same
> have to drop it aswell because she can't get used to it
> she gets major panic attacks
> i have a hard time talking with people aswell but have to drop it for her and fortify myself
> tons of stress
> constant panic and dread
> she can never decide what to do I always have to tell her what to do, what to eat, how to behave
> if the doorbell rings, she hides in the closet or in the bathroom
> when she plays online games and someone messages her, she instantly logs off and gets a panic attack
> spends most of the day glued to my back
> must have any form of physical contact, even if it's just shoulders touching
The only reason we were able to meet was because we managed to talk alot somehow and meet just as she started her medicine for the whole thing. But she got used to them in 4 weeks and they had 0 effect after that.
>>28736228
Sounds perfect to me. I want a girl to be dependent on me. Where can I find a mentally ill gf whowho is NOT a fat feminist?
Fucking annoying and exhausting
>>28736288
Found mine online in a game, but it was pure luck and wasn't looking for anyone. Didn't even know she was a girl for almost a month and we played every day for like 5-12 hours.
It used to sound perfect to me aswell, but it's extremely exhausting. Would be nice if I could switch her moods on and off, but I couldn't. And I wasn't "allowed" to be in a bad mood, simply because she would feel it's her fault and she would start hating herself even more. As a bonus, she would be afraid to be near me because she would be afraid to hurt me.
>>28736391
>Didn't even know she was a girl for almost a month and we played every day for like 5-12 hours.
Yeah I know so many people that found friends on games. I guess then you can get to know each other better and have something in common to talk about. But what games are good? Tbh I've not been gaming recently and sorta got bored of games.
I might start playing eso again soon idk.
>>28736228
Gosh, that is extreme social anxiety
>>28736467
Playedon a wow vanilla private serverthis was abit more than 5 years ago tho. I don't think it's a good idea to start gaming to find a gf. The meetings are too random and even then you're not 100% that it will be a good girl who doesn't have a million orbiters and she gets them on purpose.
>>28736533
> 3 years ago
> she can go to the shop sometimes to get basic groceries
> she comes back from the shop panicking and crying
> she bought an expensive doll
> the major shopping centers leave those shitty dolls near the cash register and they sometimes fall on the whole line and on your groceries
> happened to me multiple times
> happened to her aswell
> she tried saying that she doesn't want it, but started panicking
> overpaid by almost 2x and didn't even take change
> left half of the groceries and ran
> I had to go back and explain the situation
> they had to re-watch the tape to see how it happened
> short investigation
> got the money back
It was easy to sort it out because I knew most of the people working there plus the manager of the center, but it was still upsetting. She didn't go to that shopping center for almost a year after that.
>tfw you were the clingy gf
Well, sort of.
Like I checked the times he worked, and made sure he stayed an hour away from me each day. He used to go to the library I think. I told him not to tell me where he went and to turn off his phone.
So I wasn't fully clingy all day.
I left him eventually, which was probably for the better.
I used to feel so betrayed when he would talk to someone else.
You guys may joke about it here, but it really does hurt. Mostly because I'm inadequate.
I didn't do a fancy degree or get social skills or even get a job.
It feels like guilt. You sorta feel like he *should* be with the other person he's talking to, and that you should just fucking disappear. It sounds like he has more fun with other people.
It's not like I didn't know I was a useless emotional and financial leech.
In the end I just disappeared.
I cancelled my phone service, closed any accounts I had on anything he knew and moved back in with my parents.
I left him a note with "i'm sorry" and left while he was at work.
Hopefully he found a new gf who was better.
I'd call past and check, but I'd be scared of him seeing me.
>>28736758
Yeah but gaming is just an idea. I don't know where else i'd find a gf, especially a shut in one or a mentally ill one. Dating sites look like shit shows, rather avoid them.,
I'd love to take care of a anxious girl.
>>28736819
LOl you probably broke his heart you retarded freak.
>wa wa waaaahn i have a gf but she's too clingy :^(
Cry me a fucking river, you fucking assholes. Pieces of shit scumbags FUCK YOU ALL
>wa wawa i'm eating food constantly but it's only prime rib and I want steak :^( nevermind the poor people who have to eat dirt. my problem is bigger
That is exactly what you fucktards sound like. Kill yourselves, assholes.
>>28736841
>mentally ill and controlling
>time and money waster
lolno I bet she made his day by leaving
>tfw no clingy gf to spend every moment with
I'd take herl i t e r a l l yeverywhere I went.
>>28735967
>I'm on the other side of the globe
Me too. Where? Be my gf.
>>28736941
>I'd take her l i t e r a l l y everywhere I went.
So basically she'd live in your bedroom?
>>28733742
she bought me steak today and cosplays whoever i want and showers me with blowjobs
>life is gewd
>>28736841
Honestly I wouldn't drop dating sites. She had herself registered on one and she did talk with a few people before we actually met. Most of the messages were mostly "hey bby, wanna FUG?", so there's a shit show going on from both sides. But who knows, I didn't meet her in-game, maybe she would of met someone on the dating site. Eventually.
>>28736941
That'sL I T E R A L L Ywhat you'd have to do. I even had to go with her to the bathroom and shower because she was extremely afraid of living in a new place together and being alone. But I had towear a blindfoldat the start. I was still able tohear her do things which made her very embarrassed and uncomfortable, so I had to have headphones on with music while with her. This lasted for 3-4 months of us living together. Now that I think about it, we started living together so early. No idea what the fuck were we thinking.
>>28736963
har har
I study an undergrad at university.
She could accompany me to lectures and stuff.
I know the faculty dean reasonably well. If I told him she was dependant, he would be like 'thats fucked m8', but he would let her tag along.
I'd also take her for quiet walks in the local national park during the winter.
It's cosy af and usually nobody is there.
>>28737020
>Honestly I wouldn't drop dating sites. She had herself registered on one and she did talk with a few people before we actually met. Most of the messages were mostly "hey bby, wanna FUG?", so there's a shit show going on from both sides. But who knows, I didn't meet her in-game, maybe she would of met someone on the dating site. Eventually
Well all I can see on there is not good. Feminist, trannies, obese, disfigured and normal cute grills who will get enough messages from guys above my leagure. There is a kind of cute fatty on there that would be hot if she lost weight though. Problem with the dating site is they never mention if they are mentally ill (apart from the feminists who are obviously fucked in the head), and that's what I need to know. I don't want to read some fake profile where they lie to talk themselves up.
>>28737020
>I even had to go with her to the bathroom and shower because she was extremely afraid of living in a new place together and being alone. But I had to wear a blindfold at the start.
>I had to have headphones on with music while with her
That's okay, as long as she does the same for me.
Fun, until you want to break up and cant cause she might kill herself
>>28736819
I had a girlfriend like this. She made me feel loved and needed. Sometimes I'd go out with friends and she'd tell me, "Go out have a good time, stay out and have fun." but I always wanted her to say, "Stay home with me." and so I was always happy to come home when she eventually caved and sent a text along those lines.
It broke my heart when she left.
>>28737093
>That's okay, as long as she does the same for me.
All these neet anxious shut in women still end up with succesful guys studying or working etc. Not neets like I am. Not anxious guys. Fuck the system man.
God, I want a skinny, cute and clingy gf. Not fucking fair.
>>28737093
Mine did. Not because I needed her to, but because it would mean she would be alone in the room otherwise. It was uncomfortable. It's okay when it's just showering. Pissing was abit awkward, but kinda cute. Now when it was time to take a dump. Oh boy. That's whereshitgets real. Especially when you've never been more physical with the person that went above holding hands, hugging and very simple kisses.
The good thing is that her following me only lasted for a week or so. Then she found that she can just hide in her pillow fort and stay comfy. When she had to go to the bathroom it was a problem. For some reason she really hated the bathroom.
there needs to be a who framed roger rabbit-style live action-anime mashup where an anime girl like this comes to life and ruins a dude's life. All depressed but kind of getting by and she shows up and everything that would stereotypically snap him out of his funk makes it worse until he's completely destroyed.
>>28737218
Couldn't you get a bathroom where the toilet is a separate room (being physically too small to hold more than one person)?
Then she could just sit out by the door.
it would have to be japanese, not some thing with a weeb, but with a real japanese otaku.
>>28737262
I found the apartment quickly. It was in a good area and for a good price. Wasn't really able to look into too many of them. It would of been easier with how you described it. She would of enjoyed it more aswell, since she loves small /cramped rooms. But that was the past and everything was rushed back then.
Why would you want a girlfriend who enables your robot behaviour? I would much prefer a happy, talkative girl than some distant autist who can't express emotions
>mfw all these people think 2d is real
>>28733828
agreed.
also she was fat and stupid.
so that made it worse.
![Your-sensuously-sensual-kiss[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/QLirFRQ.jpg "Your-sensuously-sensual-kiss[1].jpg")
>>28733742
Fucking great. 10 SMSs from her just to reassure her love. She literally clings to me wherever I go. Lil' petite goddess. For a bonus, she'll do anything for me, and I mean anything. Last time I came buckets in her face after a facefucking session and she spread my goo all over her face and wore it "because it's good for the skin". I drench her in piss and fuck her so ruthlessly hard that it hurts and she screams, but she endures 'cos she likes to see how happy I am after a fuckout and she loves my smile and strong hug after she deepthroats me and I feed her my reeking repugnant seed which she struggles swallowing but keeping down. Full throttle sexual domination for a hug? I say it's a a good bargain.
Needless to say, I treat her like my princess / whore and really love her body and soul.
Something you will never, ever experience in your lives.
>>28737620
>Today in Anon's fantasy world.
>>28737620
Chad or a made up story. But chad doesn't use r9k
>>28737387
Depends on the person. Gonna tell you my own experience. >>28736228
I didn't choose her. We started talking, then dating. I found out very early that she has big anxiety issues, yet I still liked her other qualities. Our hobbies matched and everything else was perfect. Also I never really had my family helping me with anything. They ignored my problems and I learnt to live with it. They had their own stuff to deal with. But she had the same thing only worse. I guess I was kinda selfish, because I wanted to be there for her, when nobody was there for me.
Nobody gave me any emotional attention. Never really had someone say they love me, hug me or do any other expressions of love. My family stopped doing it when I was7 or 8. She was the first so I got attached to her as much as she was attached to me. I was also able to overcome my own shortcomings because I wanted to focus on her while she tried her hardest to help me aswell. At the very least hear me out, which nobody ever did for me. This way she actually helped me overcome a good portion of my robot behaviours. I was forced to do things, so she wouldn't need to. She never asked me to, but I wanted to do it for her. Again, selfish maybe, but it gave me the motivation and drive to change how I interact with people. It made some things worse, but I was able to learn how to tackle problems and how to always focus on the positives, while having a healthy outlook on negatives.
And now i'm happy because I can look back at how we were 5 years ago and how we are now. She can function outside now. We can both do things alone now and it's usually not a problem. It's also amazing that she feels comfortable expressing her opinions. Before it was a case of me telling what she can or cant do. Every single detail. Now we can have discussions and make our points. We both improved and dug each other out of a ditch. Not sure if "happy" people would of been happy with either of us bringing them down.
>>28737666
How old were you when you started dating?
>>28737666
To add to this, most of my behaviour had a very bad outcome. I focused on myself and shielded her from everything. Which made her trust me and rely on me, but I completely destroyed her trust with other people. So while I improved greatly she dived deeper into the hole for a some time.
So if you end up with a clingy girl and she ends up having huge social anxiety, don't shelter her too much. Will make things worse. Unless you want that to happen.
>>28737688
I was 19, she was 20.
>>28737705
>Will make things worse. Unless you want that to happen.
Exactly... I would want to keep her with me. It's weird. Some people would say that is evil? That is is harmful. But I would still feel love for her. But love is an emotion, it doesn't have to be logical./
Tfw no shut in gf scared of the world.
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>>28737646
>>28737659
Chad, just came here to show what life is. My full autism cousin is a robot, so I come her from time to time to fuck with your mind.
It's incredibly funny for someone healthy to see the retarded functioning in their own denigrating world.
>>28737740
Well it is somewhat evil, but i'm not gonna lie that I didn't do it either. Early in our relationship I used to exaggerate just how bad people are. Basically if she goes anywhere alone she will be attacked. If she talks with guys they will only talk with her to have sex. Girls will make her do stupid shit she will regret etc. There is some truth to all of it, but I made it look like there's no exceptions. I regret it till today, since she still doesn't want to have any friends. I just want her to have 1 girl friend with whom she could hang out together from time to time.
>>28733742
That's just having a gf they are all fucking mental
>>28737800
Yeah, and if she doesn't believe me I'll pay some nigger to assault her when she goes to the shop. Then she'll be mine forever.
i broke up with my clingy gf a little bit ago for a more mentally stable but still pretty clingy new gf
but this new one is nowhere near as clingy as my old one
she would stalk me on all forms of social media, including looking for me on 4chan and stuff, i liked that about her though
shed say stuff like she didn't know what to do or how to live without me, and she still does
she'd cut whenever something bad between us happened
I'm a clingy-type gf.
I've been in two relationships.
My first one lasted a very long time. Almost seven years. But only due to my clinginess. He never wanted to be with me but I forced it. And those years were the worst because he'd always push me away. He never wanted to spend time with me. He cheated on me many times. He just didn't really like me and it felt like he settled for me as some sort of baby maker or some shit. At the beginning of the relationship when we were dating he would go days without talking or messaging me, which would make me feel really shitty. Sometimes he'd avoid me for weeks and even faked an illness to do so. At the same time he'd forbid me from having any male friends (only female friends). He cheated a lot but I stayed because... clingy. I didn't know any better at the time I thought all relationships were like that and everyone was like him. He would constantly break up with me. The last time he broke up with me I was on SSRIs that sort of numbed me enough to start moving on..
Now my relationship is the opposite. I'm still clingy and even MORE clingy than with my ex - because I have a lot of side effects from being neglected in that relationship. But my new partner is SO much more attentive and understanding than my ex ever was. The difference is astounding and I marvel at it every day. Not once has my bf ignored me for days or acted like he hated or me or asked for "space". It's like we have an even amount of give-take going on. Because of this I feel like I actually CARE about him beyond just wanting his affection all the time. I care about him deeply. I've never felt this mutual connection before. Is this what love is REALLY like? Anyway, I feel like clingy people can be sort of pseudo-cured by being in a relationship with people who have similar levels of clinginess.
Sorry for the blogpost.
>>28738627
>I feel like clingy people can be sort of pseudo-cured by being in a relationship with people who have similar levels of clinginess.
Pretty much this. Clingy people generally want the attention of their other half all the time. And they seek it by giving attention all the time. It's win win.
>inb4 normie REEE
I hope it works out for you two.
>itt: retards who can't tell clinginess and insecurity from autism and borderline personality
Clingy and faitful girls are the absolute best. God, I'd kill for one.
>>28738756
They are the best. But clinginess and insecurities almost always come from disorders. You don't just become clingy and insecure for no reason.
>>28738947
Anon, how about the girl simply loving you and not wanting any other guy, because you're a hot chad and also she's catholic or whatever? Girls like that happen and those aren't any disorders.
>>28734103
Both lovely and depressing, and despite being seemingly shatterd, it's really heartwarming to see that despite all, one can melt one's heart anew so it can be molded and chiseled as long as sparks to ignite these flames remain. And some kept dear are eternal as others may be ethereal. Best of luck, happiness and fulfillment for the two of You, Anon.
>>28733828
This 100%
Fvsdb4
Aaahh, this is too much.
Now I feel like wishng best of luck, happiness and fulfillment toalmosteveryone.
What is this, pity or hopeless romanticism of own. Pf..
>>28734103
Anon she's crazy. You should leave her. All those "i'm sad" and "i'm lonely" girls are no good. I used to know a few and now know to avoid them.
>>28733742
Fucking sucks ass! I was sexting with her last night and she wants a video of me cumming. I put time and effort into the picture of my dick. You know I brighten it up so she could easily see it. She sent me a video of her masturbating. It was dark as fuck so, I had to make do. I couldn't say anything because she's so insecure.
I went to sleep at 11:42 last night sweating. It's awesome but, it's hard being a pimp.
>>28739055
> 5'7"
> under 115 pounds
> below average face
> hot chad
I wish.
> I have a loyal, clingy gf, that's always by my side. Bohoo :(
This fucking thread,man. I can't believe you guys.
I would sacrifice some organs for something like that, who the fuck needs two eyes or kidneys.
I would sacrifice everyone "close" to me, shoutout to Griffith.
I would sell my soul for something like that, like "Sure, Satan. You can come drag my ass down in 10 years."
You guys make me sick, crying about something like that.
>>28740165
I'm insanely happy I have my gf. I'm just saying that her being clingy and the way she acted for the first few years is far from "i'm just abit shy, teehee xD". It feels horrible when there's nothing you can do and you see another person be unhappy for obscure reasons. Just because they have you or you have them it doesn't mean things become super happy instantly and things are easy.
Saying "sure guys, go for clingy gfs with mental problems, its fun!" would be a big fucking lie. There's a very good reason why these girls are shunned and alone.
>>28735690
i want to be alone dont we me
>>28734159
>Being alone sucks
You don't understand because you're a lonely loser who is also clingy. A man who has hobbies and passions, whose existence doesn't revolve around external validation, hates really clingy girls.
A certain level of 'clingy' is good. It shows she's invested in the relationship and pair bonded to you.
The kind of clingy where she needs your attention constantly and needs to do everything with you is bad. It's pathetic, restrictive, annoying.
Oh, you feel like going for a hike and she's too tired? Enjoy dealing with either tears or yelling/grumpiness and having your phone blown up by texts constantly.
You're going for a surf and it's too big for her so she can't paddle out with you? Same shit.
Basically if you feel like doing ANYTHING without her, you need to pick between doing it and the girl throwing a tantrum/getting sad and just not doing it to keep the peace.
There's literally no reason to be with a really clingy girl when there are B I L L I O N S of other vaginas out there.
>>28740673
> t. supreme gentlemanthis isn't original tho
>>28734103
Sounds like she has dependent personality disorder.
If I ever get into a relationship I assume it would have to be with a person like that. I imagine only someone that needs another human being to function could ever love or appreciate me.
Never see people like that in the mental illness generals though. Probably because no one tells them to go there. Or maybe I'm just on at the wrong times.
>>28735086
>>28735690
Holy shit, are you me?
I've put so much thought into it, yet I keep coming back to the exact same conclusion. The only problem should be getting close to them in the first place and forcing yourself to drive your relationship forward despite your tendency to run away and hide.
Have you figured out where to find these people? I plan to look for them in the loony bin, but doubt I'll find many.
If anyone with experience of that kind of place is reading this, please tell me if you saw girls like this (>>28734103) during your visit.
OP Here, just got back.
Whether you perceive having a clingy gf as a negative thing or a positive thing, I read through all your stories and I still want a girlfriend like this. Please God let me get a girlfriend like this. I'm so lonely, I try to hide it, but I need someone to cuddle me and kiss me every day.
I don't understand how any of you Chads are meeting these girls, if they are all so sheltered and have anxiety? I would think they'd be scared if you approached them just like everyone else is to them?
Girls with clingy anxiety bfs don't even need explanation. If a girl approached a guy, it doesn't matter how autitstic he is. He'll love to have a girl talking with him (I should know because I'd love it).
So did you meet them online or something? How'd you be the only guy to make them talk to you?
I love reading these stories about clingy gfs. I think I'd get annoyed by being around them and their dependency, but part of me still wants it in moderation.
>tfw no gf
You either keep being the cuck and doing all and everything to keep her satisfied, and/or she cheats on you/dumps you once you've brought her confidence up.
All women are whores who cheat on you and leave you as soon as something better turns up, clingies are not an exception.
>>28742176
I've wondered this too. Doesn't really make sense to me how some people manage to get to know others that already block off everyone in the first place.
>>28742176
I'm the clingy gf that posted in this thread and I met my bf on r9k but I wasn't looking for a relationship at all. We started talking because we lived really close by and I made it clear to him that I just wanted a platonic friend I think. He was very good in the sense that he didn't flirt at all and didn't seem thirty but we had a lot in common and were friendly for a while. I usually just stop talking to people that get flirty with me. I don't know what happened but eventually we got close enough that I trusted him enough to actually maybe try loving him, and I did.
You don't want a clingy gf that is clingy towards everyone, otherwise she'll just clave you the second someone else shows her attention. You want a girl that is clingy to only you, and I guess that is hard to get since we push people away. All you can do is really be hopeful and get lucky. But if you're seeking one out you'll probably get hurt, and you have to ask yourself if you even want one for the right reasons or not.
>>28742339
I would never cheat on my bf. Even if he started abusing me and cheating on me and all sorts of stuff I'd stay faithful to him. His happiness comes first.
I guess that makes me the cuck but oh well. That would never happen because I picked a nice guy.
>>28736819
I hate you.
I had a girl ghost on me and I still can't stop thinking about her.
It hurts me everyday because we used to work together and being at work reminds me of her every fucking second.
I was contemplating on quitting just so It can help me move on.
>>28742926
Sounds reasonable if you met him here (although I'm not sure why you'd go to /r9k/ to find friends, even I wouldn't do that and I'm a robot).
But some of these guys stories sound unreal. Like "my gf starts crying when people talk to her online or off," yet you somehow met her?
Also, don't be so sure about your bf never cheating on you. All a robot needs is a first time gf before he upgrades to full Chad mode. His confidence gets raised, he starts taking care of himself more, then girls just start flocking to them. I've seen it happen billions of times here.
>>28743315
I wasn't really looking for friends on r9k. I live near a small town and I hardly ever meet people and he mentioned he was from there. I thought it was neat so we started talking and seemed to get along well. The first time we met in person I nearly cried though because I was so nervous.
I *was* his first gf but I don't think he wants to be a Chad or find anyone else. He's kind of a normie so it's not like he hasn't had opportunities in the past.. he seems genuine. We've talked about the whole "practice gf" thing and he's reassured me that I'm not one. He says he wants to get married and have kids and stuff. I know that doesn't stop people from cheating but he seems to be just... not degenerate and have top tier ethics. He's also clingy although less clingy than I am.
I don't know. It just feels completely different from when I did get cheated on by a "robot"-like guy.
>>28734103
But this is exactly what I want
>>28743407
OP here. I also want this. >>28734103
I want a person to depend on me, I want a person who will need my love and compassion and I'll give it to them, as long as they give it to me. Even in bad times, that's what you're supposed to do. Stick together no matter how fucked up she is. Because she's yours and you're hers and you love each other.
honestly, its horrible.
You think its good, but when it happens it isnt. Its fine when you are very bored with nothing to do, but when you have shit to do, a job, or friends and people to visit or just chill out your constantly being fucking annoyed or made put up with someone elses problems.
the sex is good if not better than other girls but as the old saying goes, dont put your dick in crazy. trust me on that.
>>28742176
Met her online. She was a redpilled fembot who genuinely believe women to be inferior, subservient beings. I thought it was cool for a while, but then I realized her worldviews stemmed from violent childhood abuse and it became a whole lot less fun.
>>28734103
I accually know a girl like this, who right now is stuck at home and has strict parents as well, I feel like I'm one of her only male friends and due to her being so reserved I would marry her. She has a nice ass and great tits, short and she's a musican like me, though she is neurotic while I am more positive. Please stop me.
>>28733828
While I agree, what if she is cute?
Only girl to ever get clingy over me was a 3/10 fivehead from tinder
The 7.5/10 pale girl I made out with felt nothing
fuck this world
I invest heavily in relationships so a clingy gf would be perfect for me. Especially since right now I feel so alone and useless.
I miss feeling needed.
>>28744783
>I miss feeling needed.
THIS is exactly how I feel
Okay Anons, here's the thing. You do NOT want a clingy gf, here's why:
>clingy to the point of paranoia & abuse
>generally are abusive any way
>will message you/call you 24/4
>will get anger if you dont reply
>get depressed when you dont reply
>constant need of reassurance
>is/has mental ill/nesses
>a fucking hand full, basically a damn job
>are bat shit insane
I could go on more, but i won't. Clingy girls aren't fun, we ruin lives, and are scum of the earth. Don't date us, don't love us.
CLINGY GIRLS ARE SHIT.
Are only introverted, shy, autistic type girls clingy? Or are there normal girls and even possibly stacies who are clingy?
>>28734103
literally me exept for the married partbeats being alone tho
>>28745261
I still want you.
>>28745261
I've suffered from depression for years and I want to feel needed by another human being on this planet.
I want to date and love you.
>>28745261
I'll shower you with love and give you all the reassurance you need.
>>28745456
>>28745495
>>28745535
Number 1 rule of life anons
>don't stick your dick in crazy
I've done things, and fucked some lives up and i would end up having a break down and leaving you which would ruin you forever. Clingy girl are bad, go for a mentally healthy girl. Trust me.
>>28745608
What have you done? What makes you do it?
![serveimage[1].jpg&sp=4d69653b12f73b780d1897df5581bd1e.jpg](https://i.imgur.com/f5V01Nf.jpg "serveimage[1].jpg&sp=4d69653b12f73b780d1897df5581bd1e.jpg")
>>28745261
Speak for yourself
>meet fembot on r9k thread
>depressive
>suicidal ideation
>never had a boyfriend
>only like one friend
>dropped out of uni
>paranoid
>bit delusional
>clingy
>REALLY insecure, thinking she's not capable and such
>exploit clingyness this to coerce her into improving herself
>"what's what? you forgot to eat a proper meal, well that's ok-whoop, gotta go chase my fridge, ttyl lol (^:"
>make her start seeing a therapist
>make her got on meds
>helping her get back on studies
>doing my best to make her do exercise and doing it myself as well
>motivating her into reading and such
>we've been together for over a year now
>if she is jealous I simply let her know she has no reason to be, if I didn't want to be with her I wouldn't be and I place the highest important on loyalty
>she started REALLY shy in bed, but as time passed she became more and more open to all kinds of stuff, horny more often than I am
>still working on her getting friends
>we celebrated our anniversary a couple weeks ago
My goal is to build her into a self-confident independent human being who functions in societythen will kill myself because I'm a mess and I project my uselessness into helping her improve
>>28743400
I thought the same of my friends gf as well. She was really nice, would always cook for my friend, be nice to me, and was even a church goer.
Then she cheated on him after 6 months in a relationship with him. I've never seen my friend so sad in my life, and never thought she would do something like that. I didn't even believe him when he told me, I thought he was joking.
My point is, you never know what people will do. Even the nicest person in the world can turn on you in a moment. His situation made me more skeptical of women, /r9k/ didn't even need to pill me on that.
>>28745261
>will message you/call you 24/4
But I don't have many friends, always want someone to talk to, and am always happy to get a message from someone.
This sounds like a dream. I would love to have someone to talk to whenever I felt like it. Instead of just holding everything in like usual.
>>28745351
Probably only introverted. Stacies usually have so many friends and betas to hang with. That they don't have time (or even care enough) to check up on Chad.
>>28733742
She's like a battery
You charge her up, and eventually she gets bored of you and leaves you for someone else.
Throwing you away like the useless charger you are.
>>28745608
I don't personally know who else I would date, other than someone who was obsessive. I don't trust anyone for shit, and I'm sick of women in the modern meat market jumping ship for better dick constantly. Either I become someone who is strong in every single area, to such an extent that I am comfortable (unlikely), or I best look for someone clingy. Besides I have a lot of patience.
I literally have no one outside of family and work.
If there are any clingy fembots out there, hit me up.
>>28745711
Then she dumps you and goes for Chad
We all know how it goes, all women are whores
>>28733828
Lol I love my clingy gf. You're self esteem isn't low enough to where having someone constantly show their affection is needed. I'm so depressed that the clinginess only makes my life better.
>>28733828
I'm 6 years in, and too beta to eject her.
-8/8 would not r8 m8.
>>28745730
It's not about how nice people are on the outside. It's about how nice they are on the inside. You can tell if something is off. And I just don't get that sense right now. Maybe I will later, maybe I won't.
>>28745608
As i've stated earlier, most girls who are (super)clingy have some sort of mental illness. For me, one of the illnesses i have cause me to have abandonment issues, so i cling to who/what i love but in fear of the fleeting happiness and fear they will leave i push everything i love away. Leaving myself once more alone, and missing the person/thing.
Cause i have such high emotions, i can make my lovers feel like they own the world but then turn around and make them feel like dirt if they do something i deem bad. I'm manipulative, selfish, and very paranoid.
As for what i've done...a short version of a long-ish story. Shit happened once between me and a guy who i was going to give myself too and spend the rest of my life with. I proceeded to have a mental episode and started to abuse him, cut my initials in his chest(causing scars), broke up with him, and moved away. When we were together i need constant knowing of where he was, what he was doing, who he was with, etc. If we were out he was not allowed to talk to other girls or look at them with out me freaking out.
It's not easy having girls like us.
>>28745853
>>28745623
Accidentally > at my reply and not yours oops.
>dump clingy gf because you got a better normal gf
>clingy ex gf kills herself
>>28745853
>>28745871
What do you think would make you happy and alleviate some of those issues for you? Ideal partner?
>>28745883
Nice pathetic fakepost.
Must be a happy life, making up shit that never happened.
I'll take a clingy gf
Don't really care much about the craziness
Who wants to volunteer
>>28745898
To be honest i don't know. I feel small spikes of euphoric happiness, but it's hard to have those or remember how i felt during those times. Even my therapist has a hard time understanding what will help.
>Ideal Partner
I can't think of anything but someone who can help me in my mental episodes, and life. Who won't mind my clingy-ness, and would be able to put up with my abusiveness and just love me. That's all i really need, i just need a good supporter, and most people i have meet don't do that.
>>28733742
Some of you will think you want that, but unless you are yourself clingy, and obsessive and needy yourselves, it will drive you insane.
>>28745987
If you're honest and loyal then I can be your supporter. Care to chat?
>>28745987
Does abusiveness tend to go with that type of thing. I have a high patience for clinginess and neediness, but a very low patience for taking crap.
>>28745951
Of course it never happened, but it would be funny if it did
>>28745711
Tell us more about what she's like. Appearance and such too.
>>28745987
>and would be able to put up with my abusiveness
Where are you from? This is what I'm good at.
>>28733828
What if you're both clingy?
Wouldnt that be the perfect match?
>>28746051
With the other people in my group therapy sessions i attend out of 7 people 4 of them are abusive as well. So not always but it's an often trait of a person who is clingy. And I've been with partner's who didn't put up with it and would hit me back, and abuse me. I got use to it and kind of like it. It's nice to be on the receiving end of abuse.
>>28746017
I know if i say what my main mental illness is you would runaway, cause r9k hates people with it.
>>28746090
I'm located in the southern United states anon
>>28746122
>I know if i say what my main mental illness is you would runaway, cause r9k hates people with it.
Dunno what you're referring to but I don't hate anyone with any kind of mental illness.
>>28746055
You're a sociopath and I hope no girl ever ends up near you.
People committing suicide is not funny.
I really wish... that girls would be more careful.
>>28736890
Clingy gfs are the reason I am a MGTOW,they are that bad.
>>28733742
It's great for about a week and then it starts sucking balls
>girl became obsessed with me senior year of high school
>her friends literally came to me and told me that I had to at least go on one date with her to shut her up from talking about me all the damn time
>go out on a date, I like her, she's sweet and really into me
>we start going out
>things are really great for about three or four weeks
>then she starts getting serious
>sends me notes in class (she was an office aide so she could walk into classes and give people notes from the principal) saying she can't wait until we get married and she thinks about the kids we're going to have all day everyday
>her sister lives in Iowa, she tells me she's going to visit her sister for the Summer and wants to know my opinion on that
>Apparently this means she's expecting me to stop her from leaving and tell her how much I want her to stay with me
>she doesn't even want to visit her sister, this is all just a fucking test
>I say "well do what you want" obviously since I'm not a fucking controlling sociopath who would tell someone they can't spend time with their own fucking sister
>BZZZZ wrong answer, she gets immediately pissed off and never tells me why
>leaves for Iowa anyway, she literally calls me every single day all Summer long, TWO TIMES PER DAY, for at least an hour each call
>I just run out of things to talk about after a month or so and I start getting pissed at the constant phone calls
>my brothers hear me getting pissed with her and they sit me down and tell me it's "not okay" to get mad at her and that I'm basically a violent asshole for getting mad at the CONSTANT PHONE CALLS
>finally summer ends and she comes home
>I've fucking had enough so I just ignore her
>she cries for weeks on end and stops talking to me
>that's how a year long relationship ended
goddamn I dodged a bullet. I haven't been with anyone since (6 years ago) but I'm fucking glad I'm not still with her
>>28746145
I just hate women
Treating them like trash is the best thing any man can do
>>28737620
Sorry,chad, but I think you meant to post that on Facebook.
>>28746122
Well that's a disappointing number considering that's what I'm into. I always get disappointed by putting what I expect out of a partner into a statistical probability, because it ends up infinitesimally small, it's unfortunate that I have met someone who lives up to all of it to be honest. Sorry to hear that about the them hitting you back thing, that's terrible. That isn't why I am into cling people at all, I'm the opposite. I just don't tolerate abuse, I like the very soft feminine types. If someone was abusive to me I would walk out pretty immediately, I want a partner who is more on the calm side, or at the very least sweet and nice.
>>28746145
Jesus, what the fuck happened to this place?
>>28746184
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFGhguGdOlk
>>28746143
I suffer from BPD which doesn't seemed like here, but anon trust me im not someone you want to talk or get involved with.
>>28746216
I've grown to like the hitting so it doesn't bother me anon. But there are clingy girl who aren't abusive but the ones i know are very sensitive and scarred. Just be safe if you do get a clingy gf they are a hand full.
>>28746251
This place is just a rotting, hollow carcass of what it used to be.
>>28746251
I've been here since '09 or '10.
Maybe I just grew up and think femanons need to be protected and warned, but I've always thought that making fun of suicidal people is gross. Considering most of this board is full of suicidal people, I don't know why that's so radical.
I'm a robot. The "roooooo normees" dudes are not, they're usually just 17 year old failed chad pricks who cry on here because they haven't gotten laid by Stacy yet. Boo fucking hoo.
>>28746302
BPD is one of the worst conditions to have when it comes to meaningful relationships. It practically prevents them.
Not saying that out of hatred. It's just the truth.
>>28746302
Sensitive is ok, I am patient and gentle. Well I am with partners at least, I am profoundly so actually. With friends and family I am kind of a hard head. I don't feel like it makes me a good match for normal girls, who want entertainment and manipulation out of a partner. I really need a partner who wants someone to give them a ton of love, attention, and patience. That's what I have to give, I don't want to play head games like a Machiavellian with normie girls.
>>28742176
>So did you meet them online or something?
Yes.
>How'd you be the only guy to make them talk to you?
Because I'm attractive and socially dominant. Clingy, insecure girls don't go for clingy, insecure guys :^)
>>28746428
>tfw clingy girl who likes her bfs introvertedness
>>28746368
Yeah no, trust me anon i know. Hopefully i can get put on medication to help, but my doc still is on edge about the meds.
>>28746371
Then just good luck anon, that's all i can really say to you.
>>28734141
does her name start with s?
I think i might know her
>>28746481
How old are you and how long have you been this way?
Not as cool as you'd think.
>Say goodbye to hanging out with friends, especially if there is a girl anywhere in the same room.
>Be prepared for periods in which she'll deny sex because she feels ugly.
>Be prepared to give compliments to her incessently just so she'll feel okay.
>Be prepared to still listen to her insult herself.
>Be prepared for extreme jealousy towards every other women that even glances at you. It doesn't even matter if they are just waitresses or cashiers.
>Be prepared to text her 24/7. Seriously. 20 minutes can't pass without her getting pissed.
I love her, but god damn. It's a bit much sometimes. I feel like most girls are like this to some degree, though. My girlfriend may be bad, but she isn't even the worst case scenario. Some of my friends have it even worse.
>>28746481
Ehh, this is all the hypothetical, I doubt anything will happen for me.
>>28746559
You ask alot of questions anon...
But i'm soon turning 21 and i've been "professionally diagnosed" for about 4yrs, but it has been thought i've been suffering from it since i was young. But you know they can't diagnose child/teen cause they are still in development.
It means your bf will tell you he needs a "break" after 2 years of dating, while he leaves the state for a summer music festival and fucks rave Stacies left and right. It mean that even though he was a large part of your decline into psychosis, he will grow tired of your crying and need for support and comfort. Once he gets tired of laughing at how silly your hallucinations and delusions are and it comes time to be real and try to grow, he'll ask for a fucking "break".Even though you weren't a prude, even though you were willing to do anything for him..And were in fact the one to come to him crying one night asking what's so repulsive about you that you hadn't even been allowed some intimate touching, let alone penetration of any form or oral. haha tfw your perfect virgin bf becomes a virgin no more with some random whore in the midwest lol XD Even though you never guilt tripped, just asked his advice in trying to forget and move on, and were there to offer advice whenever he was going through his own suffering
It then means you will immediately coddle him once he's back, able to tell from his lack of eye contact and tail-between-legs mannerisms that all your fears were realized while he was away. Pretending not to know, saying nothing, assuming the cuck position because you cannot imagine a world without him. You did, while he was away. The psychosis was the worst yet, you thought you were a ghost that people were forgetting more and more each day. But then he came back! He came back and it's real, you are in the same reality, he still wants to be "with" you even if he just betrayed your trust for sexual relations with more beautiful more mentally stable women! So that's all that matters!!
You then go on to somehow make him tolerate you again by bottling up your depression and other memetal illnesses and hiding the psychosis as best as you can.Happy 3 year anniversary, love. I can hide the crazysad, the clingy stays. <3
>>28746615
>You ask alot of questions anon...
I'm just curious. Thanks for being honest though. If you ever need someone to chat to you can hit me up. Not looking for a relationship.
>>28746645
That's fine i don't mind the curiousness, and trust me i'm not looking for a relationship either. I'm not suppose to get in one cause my doctor says until i make a "significant process"
>>28735086
>>28741979
I'm a bit clingy but my boyfriend is totally avoidant, so I do think this influences how I feel a lot. He does what he wants, if he doesn't reply to me I just accept it and wait for him to get in touch and I have no issues with him spending time alone. So I'm kind of clingy but with none of the more damaging traits.
I do regularly check with him that everything is still ok, as I have this fear that he's going to realise he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I really wish I didn't worry so much but as I said, a lot of this is caused by how distant he is sometimes. I try my best to stay on top of it though.
>>28746618
You really describe the demeanour of someone who is cucking you perfectly. Damn.
>>28746705
you sound a lot like me
clinginess is a spectrum -like most things
there's the "wahhh wahhh i cant wipe my own ass without you" clingy and then theres reasonable clingy where theyre the most important thing in your life and you try to show this 24/7, but they themselves are not your life or the /only/ thing that matters.
>>28746618
Welcome to my world. Except my ex married some other dude and moved to maine of all places with her. It's hard not to feel like trash after that, isn't it? It's been 4 years, and every time I think I like someone else, I realize I am just hyping myself up to get distracted, and the crush fades very quickly. Yet how I felt towards her stayed strong over the years, and through the time we were together too. She came to visit, just to see how I was doing, man that feeling when she hugged me tight good bye. There were so many butterflies, when she left I just sat down and cried, because that alone was enough to lift me up much.
>>28746618
Man, it'd be great being able to fuck all these different girls while knowing your crazy gf would never leave
>>28746739
I hope your crazy gf kills you tbqhfam
>tfw I'm the extremely clingy one that can't function without another person but I'm a guy
There's no hope for me
>>28733742
she's also more likely to cheat because she needs constant reassurance.
>>28736228
She needs to get over that shit pronto. Fucking childish
>>28746726
Yeah, I have my own life, my own friends and I'm very independent. I'd never force him to deal with my insecurities but I do feel comfortable enough to talk to him about them.
He's my best friend. I never thought we'd end up in a relationship together and I've risked a lot to be with him. I would hate to lose him, which I think is why I panic so much about it.
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>>28746739
Heh, yes.
"Enjoy" that.
>>28746845
That's mostly BPD, it's not generalizable to ANYONE who's insecure.
>>28746845
This is the worst meme ever.
I'm not likely to cheat at all because I wouldn't dream of jeopardizing a relationship with someone I truly, honestly love.
>>28746739
Nah. This was the one exception. I had never talked to him about it but before this I was going to tell him that, once he got to college, if he wanted to experiment (because maybe it would do away with his performance anxiety and I'd actually get to start doing things with him besides kissing) and get with other girls for one night stands that he'd just have to tell me the night of. But then he pulled this shit and ruined that privilege for himself. If he ever gets with another girl, even if it's just for a night, even if he's blackout drunk, I will leave.Or choke him to deathThe stuff I mentioned happened a while ago. I'm not stable now by any means, but I'm well enough to handle being alone if it's for my own good. I do have some shreds of self respect left. And I know that if he hurts me again it doesn't mean he's going to be the one who got away. It means he was never my one true love in the first place and there's someone better destined for me.
I wouldn't mind a clingy, obsessive and posessive gf who is also shy and has social anxiety but i wouldn't want someone who is extremely autistic and can't function in life, like i have to tell her everything or she is too scared to go outside or has some serious mental illness.
I don't mind if she texts me a lot or secretly reads my email or messages, or monitors what i do. I have no social media accounts anyway.
>>28746885
Would you date someone off r9k
>>28746885
dont know if its a meme but there seems to be some science on this subject, could only find the clickbait sites right now
https://www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=clingy%20girls%20more%20likely%20to%20cheat
>>28746885
As someone with a needy gf, I can confirm they WILL cheat on you. Caught my depressed girlfriend sexting other guys so they would call her beautiful/pretty and she could feel good about herself. It was only AFTER I caught her that she realized she was jeopardizing our relationship.
>get boyfriend
>he is possessive and territorial
>holds me very tightly when we go to sleep
>says he wants to protect me
>tells me he will fuck people who mess with me up
Is he going to beat me?
>>28746716
I do say cuck in the meme sense, though. I would know if he was currently doing anything, trust me.
I didn't think he was actually going to do anything while we were on that break. And it was an agreed upon break so technically it wasn't cheating. I still consider it so, but whatever. If he does it again I'll turn him into dust. Cuck me once it's shame on you, cuck me twice all they'll find is your shoes <3
>>28746980
See >>28742926
>>28747117
Well considering I hate it when anyone calls me beautiful/pretty because I know 100% they are lying, I would never do that. Nor would I sext anyone other than my boyfriend who I'm literally obsessed with. Maybe your gf is just a bpd whore.
The only thing that really makes me feel good about myself is seeing my bf happy. Honestly, HONESTLY I've never been able to make another person happy - before him. It is the most important thing in the world.
Also I've been you, I've been that person. I caught my ex sexting other girls and I felt like my stomach dropped to the earth's core, fuck that shit I would never be the cause of that feeling for ANYONE. I would rather kms than be that person.
>>28733742
>What's it like having a gf like this?
It means constantly praying she'll stop being obsessed with you and needing your reassurance. Hoping she'll grow up and become an adult so you can have a real relationship.
>>28746618
>Happy 3 year anniversary, love. I can hide the crazysad, the clingy stays. <3
How old were you when you met him?
>>28747766
>double dubs
check'd
I was 15, I believe.
>>28747870
>I was 15, I believe.
Do you smoke? Why do you like Satsuki-sama?
>be in this situation
>give girl attention she wants
>she starts acting distant
>tells me im too clingy
>avoid her and give space
>everytime we drink she talks about how she doesnt give a fuck about this relationship and how shes gonna get with some other nigga
>avoid her more (keep in mind we live together)
>she starts flirting with friend of mind (hes not really a friend though)
>stop looking at her completely, no eye contact
>stop telling her i love her
>start ignoring her
>drunk one night she starts punching me in face
>let it go
>happens again
>elbow her really fucking hard in teeth
>lol
>keep avoiding her
>tell her i love her and to have a good night in a glimpse of hope while shes at her dads
>she sends me a song that contradicts what i said saying im acting like a dipshit p much
>does disrespectful things intentionally to c how i react (hold a door open for her, she goes out the other one and grins at me)
>start avoiding her even more than before
>shes mad im not giving her attention
>she asks if i want a foot message
>ive been asking for a back message for the past 6 months because my muscles are so far spread on my back that i cant stretch them properly when doing yoga
>her hands are so bruised from the other night when she was hitting on me that she cant actually give foot message
>she starts crying
>says i dont love her the same
>tell her i love her but how shes a liar and how shes decieptful
>she says shes going to change
what do
>>28748019
>clingy and insecure
Sounds like she's just fucking crazy, dude.
>>28748115
should i just let her go? every week she says shes gonna leave me and pack up her shit, i always tell her to go ahead and she just gets mad.
idk why its so hard to stay peaceful and loving. nothing ever happens i dont do shit to provoke her.
>>28747937
obligatory "smoke what dude lmao"
But yeah. I gave up cigarettes, still smoke weed. I have an occasionally cigarillo or use the tobacco from them for spliffs.
I like Satsuki I guess but Ryuko is cooler, wanna cosplay her regular seifuku outfit someday. Just a good reaction image.
>>28745832
not too late at all. i, too, was in for 6 years. then i cheated, then i cut her loose.
> you WILL miss her, get over it
> you WILL feel like you dropped your 5 y.o. daughter at a nudist beach and left. it's NOTHING close to it.
> i guarantee you will miss the sex
any other way, it was the wise thing to do.
>>28748019
dont stick your dick in crazy is one of the truest dating rules ever and she is crazy as fuck
>>28748577
what do you think i should do at this point?
>>28748633
leave her, god damn
sit down and think about living in that situation for another 20 years
do you want that?
>>28748674
no... but she wasnt like this the first few months of the relationship. she was extremely respectful and sucked my dick and gave messages and cooked me shit all the time and cared about my emotions etc etc... maybe i could get her back on that level in a stronger sense?
>>28748865
*massages
>>28748865
get her a therapist or do something if you conssider living with her the next couple years
>>28748939
wth a therapist gonna do? this is something she has to achieve herself... idk wtf im gonna do mang
this bitch is fucking wack tho. i love her i just dont understand why shes so fucking mentally abusive and draining.
shes diagnosed with bipolar but i think there is definately more to it.
>>28733742
I'd like a gf or trap bf like this
very much so
>>28734255
>Next day I got called into bosses office and the door slams behind me and I'm in there with 3 people. They started grilling me as a pedophile and said they can't have that working here etc.
Holy shit what assholes.
>>28748019
exclusive /bump for advice
>>28749888
I don't know man, it sounds like a loveless relationship.
You either talk to her about why she's like this and if she actually sees a future with you- and tell her to cut the shit and not to flip out or try to make you jealous
OR
You dump her for both of your sakes
Any clingy girls in Australia? You have to not be fat though.
>>28750145
Oh if you are add me on steam. Fucking degenerate is my name.
>>28742176
>So did you meet them online or something?
Yep, met my girlfriend online. Neither of us were looking for relationships, it was just fun at first. We're planning on getting married this year.
>>28733828
This
dated a girl with BPD
Most stressful 6 months of my fucking life
I'm happily friendless again now
>>28749888
sounds like she has bpd tbqh senpai
>>28734103
>>28734633
MISAKI TIER
Not op, but I changed my mind guys, thanks.
>>28736228
Sounds cute desu. Does she live in london?
Just a reminder that women CAN NOT be clingy. They can always find another guy in seconds. I've been with multiple women who claimed to be clingy, but surprise, surprise they left me
>>28751623
Nah man, there are clingy women out there. I went out with one that cut her wrist open and was sent to the hospital just because I didn't talk to her for a day.
>>28733828
how are you supposed to know a girl even likes you if she doesnt act like she needs you
that would make me feel like a cuck
