Just failed day V of nofap. Do you nofappers have any tips? I was seriously horny as fuck by the fifth day.
>tfw I'm a weird faggot who shaves his legs and just got done jerking it to femdom porn after gagging/tying myself up.
I feel fucking nasty. It seems like nofap wouldn't even be a problem if I just lost my virginity already.
>>28722410
Yeah, you keep yourself busy with other shit other than sitting around all day.
>>28722445
Sometimes I enjoy sitting around, anon. And the sexual thoughts cross my mind even when I'm doing other things.
>>28722410
>>28722445
this. its the only way. if your sitting around all day on the computer being a NEET your gunna fail.
>>28722410
One rule to salvation:
>Just don't touch your dick.
Slap yourself silly, if you must. You aren't a fucking animal, do something productive- read a book, sow your socks, do work, i dunno, but don't explicitly sexually stimulate yourself by watching grils- that won't to go things. ever.
I'm doing nofap2016, so I'd know.
>>28722496
Whenever I'm out and I see a woman who's even remotely attractive, I fantasize about her tying me up and bossing me around. Escaping the thoughts is impossible. I've sat in one of my college classes on day 5-6 of nofap with such a hardon that my pants were filling with precum.
>>28722410
>tfw your parents are probably going to find you dead, chocked out on your own underwear in the shower, because your into kinky shit :(
>nofap
Hope you enjoy your prostate cancer.
>>28722605
Studies have shown that masturbation SLIGHTLY lowers your risk of developing prostate cancer, but that doesn't mean that you're at HIGH risk for developing it if you abstain from fapping.
Anyone else have the nofap shakes i can barely type this it's getting so bad
>>28722641
First days or 1-2 weeks are the 'hardest'. It's a habit, not a necessity. Get over it.
>>28722410
How fucking addicted are you, retard? Stop being such a faggot
>>28722667
when I can barely change myself or concentrate on anything it seems like it's a necessity.
The headaches I can tolerate, but when it feels like my brain is scrambled then I don't even know how to suffer through this.
>>28722676
Only once a day DESU. But I've been having the same sorts of sexual fantasies since I was 12 or 13. I remember having my first one in music class when I was in middle school. I've become obsessive. I wish I could just find a girl to do this shit with at least once or twice, so I could stop thinking about it.
>>28722719
Do you watch porn when you fap or not?
>>28722699
Nobody can do it other than you, Anon. What's the point in asking for advice, if you're not going to do your part and follow it or try?
Try and try again. I've fapped like 5 times while totally drunk, but the other time I barely get a half-chub looking at grils.
Keep going.
>>28722758
Sometimes. More often than not, I look at pictures. Either that or I do self bondage and look at myself in the mirror and rub one off while getting off on the fact that I'm all tied up. I've become a sexual deviant.
>>28722827
You weren't born one, so you can unbecome one. Focus on getting your life in shape one thing at a time, dude. Nobody's forcing you to do anything.
You're the one that's just now realizing this shit's not good for you, your life, your goals, priorities or whatever. If you really want it, just do it, but trying also becoming an astronaut, president of your of the US and a MMA champion. Focus on one thing at a time.
>>28722908
I've been trying to unbecome one, but the urges can be unbearable. Is it true that they eventually subside after two weeks or so?
>>28722827
Sounds like you need to take some SSRIs to lower your sex drive senpai.
>>28722410
One day when me and my A.I bots will dominate the world I will get rid of your degenerate kind
>>28722935
They do, I myself was very surprise, but you find yourself realizing at one point that "you've stopped counting the days', you stop thinking about a pair of mammaries or whatever you get off to. You like a morning chub and that's all- sexual just thoughts don't occur.
>>28722410
I just broke an accidental week-long no-fap streak by cumming so hard it went over my shoulder and on the bed behind me. Fun stuff.
Not very related to the thread, I just wanted to share.
>>28722938
My therapist has recommended that I see someone who can prescribe me SSRIs for my social anxiety and depression, but I'm not willing to deal with the other side effects. e.g. the rapid weight gain. That would ruin my self esteem if I became overweight.
>>28722993
The morning chub is actually an obstacle for me, because I have trouble getting rid of it.
>>28723014
One time when I was on a long nofap streak, I came and it went at least a foot into the air.
>>28722824
I just wanted to know if there was a way to stop feeling so terrible. I can't eat anything, and I've been getting the chills. I know this will all be over if I just fap, but then I'll lose.
at least you don't get off to illegal stuff, be thankful
>>28722641
I don't really have these but I get shakes when I haven't looked at 4chan in a day. I'm not even lying, it's more addictive than porn
>>28723037
The will the overcome yourself. Tell yourself that you're not an animal, living to just survive, pleasure yourself.
The 'good things' in life are hard, require a conscious effort and are worth it, at least, that's what I've learned from studying, dieting, exercising, etc.
If you're feeling sick, get some chicken soup or meds, or a sweater. Exercising really does take your mind off it and your blood flowing to other, better places.
Reminder that nofap is primarily about porn addiction. Once you complete your 90-150 day reboot, you're free to fap again, just not to porn.
>>28723144
Is that so? I'd honestly be hesitant to get back into fapping, even without porn, if I'd gone for 150 days.
>>28723194
Well, admittedly I'm not an expert, but jerking it is something humans have done for thousands of years compared to porn available at a mouse click, which overloads your system with dopamine.
The main problem is after years of fapping, your brain associates it with porn and doing it without porn will significantly increase the urges to watch porn. Hopefully after several months this will no longer be the case. But really, it's up to you if you want to keep abstaining or not.
>>28723432
Makes sense, I guess. Like I mentioned in an earlier post, I'm not as much addicted to pron as I am to just the idea of certain sexual things being done to me, but I understand your point.
I fap twice a month.
if i fap on monday i'll fap the day right after and that's it
I did NOFAP for 6 month and it was a success. I work out a lot more. and my creativity is slowly coming back.
I also feel a lot more optimistic and confident
get on my level fagets
>>28722410
I am on day 9 now.
I almost failed multiple times but I installed an app on my phone and so it vibrates once an hour or so.
So whenever I was browsing /gif/ my phone vibrated and I stopped before I would fail.
>>28722410
You morons still don't understand.
"Nofap" only works if you are going to actually get some sex on the regular.
If you arent fucking anyone you are literally just stopping yourself getting sexual pleasure for no reason and increasing your unhappiness
Do you guys still fantasize when you go to bed, or do you try to abstain from impure thoughts all together?
>>28724141
you would be terrific on AA meetings.
"do not stop drinking guiiise! you are increasing your unhappiness !"
most people on /r9k/ are fapping like no tomorrow and are also depressed as rat balls. at this point it's just a coping mechanism.
NOFAP if done succesfully will get you back that real and profound pleasure you seek in the act of fapping. but it has to be under your control. fapping 4 times a day is hardly plesurable.
>went 8 days of nofap
>on 9th day put a condom on a banana with my mouth, lubed up my asshole, and fucked my ass with it while moaning like a girl
>>28724398
that's pretty gay dude
i guess you fell pray to the trap meme
>>28724005
my guess is you also quit internet use or video games in the same period
unless you do that it won't make the difference people claim
>>28724343
I'm not saying you can't wank too much m8 but if you're a KHV who isn't like to get any sex anytime soon, cutting yourself off from the one sexual pleasure you are allowed is madness
>>28724606
maybe some people are born into celibacy and should use it for something other than reproduction and sex at all.
it's true , nofap doesn't fix actual autism or magically give you social skills but maybe some people are meant to forgo sexuality entirely and do something higher
Day 7 here and it's p easy to not jerk off. I just think about 1. How much better I feel, 2. How I dont want to reset and lose my streak 3. How 15 minutes of pleasure isn't worth losing this feeling of testosterone, and how much I want to reset my shit so I'm not a conditioned monkey. Sexual thoughts are hard to overcome but I feel like after a few more days I'll hit a baseline and thats gonna be amazing. Imagine never having sexual thoughts or urges and being in complete control. Thats what I want. Its a self control exercise that untrains your mind for the better and the secret is don't touch your fucking cock or type a porn website in the url. Thats it, thats literally all you have to do. 15 minutes and 2 seconds of pleasure is not worth feeling and acting like an addicted little bitch.
>>28724534
I stopped vidya for a while. and cut Facebook totally.
i still use the internet to find music and read stuff and youtube. i try to avoid /b/ and i stopped going to gif/
>>28724639
do you plan on ever marrying or being in a relationship at all or do you seek to be completely celibate for life
>>28724606
fapping all day if you are a KHV is the best way to stay that way.
>>28724639
I just don't want easy to get sources of pleasure to have control over me. Like drugs, video games, and porn and masturbation. I quit all 3 on the same day and am slowly regaining control of myself. I want to work hard for my dopamine, training myself that hard work = pleasure, instead of sitting in a chair all day = pleasure, which is where my brains at now.
>>28722410
Just remember the old Persian saying "this too will come to pass"
Day 6 famlam, the urges pass.
>>28724699
I just use 4chan and vidya to keep me away from porn, so I guess that isn't much of a change at all.
>>28724639
>15 minutes and 2 seconds of pleasure is not worth feeling and acting like an addicted little bitch.
this guy gets it. too much cucks running around nowadays
>>28724689
Yeah in a couple months when school starts I will definitely be looking for some girls. But I have decided that I dont want sex to ever have control over me, that sex and sexual thoughts have been a downfall of me for a long time and I'm not gonna fall for that anymore. I dont ever have to touch a fucking pussy again.
>>28724729
I hate when nofap people do it to have the goal of getting laid and having lots of casual sex.
that defeats the whole fucking purpose. If you don't want to get married or be completely celibate you're still addicted
>>28724742
I think there's nothing wrong with having actual sex but it needs to be within a lifetime partnership.
But honestly the ancient world had it right with doing arranged marriages. Romance and dating = cuckery.
>>28724824
Yeah I just realized that by never letting sex have control over you, by literally not caring about sex, you take away womens power to control you.
>>28724710
Same here I just browse 4chan and watch movies instead I need to get a job. I have started lifting though.
>>28724754
>that defeats the whole fucking purpose. If you don't want to get married or be completely celibate you're still addicted
true.
>>28724915
>you take away womens power to control you.
and then you can act natural and decide to make her a sexual partner or not. that's pretty based
>>28724754
Or, you know, life doesn't need to be a min max situation. Try to be look at things in a less narrow way.
>>28722410
I've been thinking about nofap, does anyone know if it helps with concentration by any noticeable amount? I'm not interested in the other reported benefits, but my concentration is shit.
I'm pretty sure I've fapped every day for the past 6 years.
Nothing bad will happen, r-right?
>>28726083
quitting 4chan will do wonders for your concentration.
I fapped a lot when I was younger but didn't have serious concentration issues until I started coming to 4chan regularly. Plus you'll probably fap less anyway
>>28726245
not using 4chan is not an option, any other way to improve concentration, or am I just fucked?
>>28722586
This actually made me fucking lol. Thanks
>>28726539
Play/produce music
>>28726539
also, force yourself to use your imagination when fapping and/or use stories instead of images or videos. Visualize it all in your head or even write it out.
I still fap but I'm 2 weeks without porn right now. Still horny but fapping without porn is pretty boring and takes forever. I do think having such easy access to porn is a bad thing.
