Ask someone who just got rejected anything
Who are you taking to prom instead?
How did you ask her out? And how did she reject you?
>>28713175
I've been out of high school for a while now.
>>28713191
We've been hanging out for almost a year now, she's a coworker. I gave her a ride home and bought her dinner and right before she left to get out of the car, I told her how I really felt about her. I didn't get too sappy with it, just told her that I really like her and If she was interested that maybe we could go on a date sometime. She smiled and said she would think about it, and I just got a text from her about a half-hour ago telling me she would prefer to just be friends.
>>28713232
What does it feel like? Describe it in detail.
>>28713058
hows yer mom doing ?
tell er i said hi .
you still a virgin?
awww thats too bad.
>>28713232
>missing the point
You should already have someone else lined up to focus on instead, then the rejection will hurt less. Talk to and flirt with more girls at the same time.
>>28713232
Sorry m8. I've semi sort of experienced something similar, but a lot less 'devastating' than yours. In a way it's worse than being rejected in highschool, because it's still kind of childish in a way. Even though at the time I felt it was important. I don't know. I don't know what to say either.
Maybe things will be better when you realize it's hopeless and you'll probably die alone. Oh well.
>>28713232
>She smiled and said she would think about it
Ouch. Tip for the future: If she ever says "I'll think about it" the answer is actually no and she's trying to buy time/distance to find a good way to reject you.
fuck it man, at least you know where you stand and can move on. dont bother trying with her now, move on to next one.
>>28713232
if it makes you feel better it sounds like you handled it better than she did. At least you expressed yourself in person instead of behind a screen and sent a clear signal.
I don't know about how things went in the year leading up though. . .
>>28713288
This. And the fact that she TEXTED it no less than 30 MINUTES LATER means she didn't even have to think about it, you never had a chance.
>>28713252
It's not the first time rejected, but I really felt like this would work. I carefully planned everything out, but it I can't change someone's mind. I'm a little sad, but I'll get over it soon.
>>28713269
I'm not that kind of person. Plus, my only social life is in my work group, I go to a community college and nobody there is social.
>>28713282
Maybe, but I still have hope for myself. I hope I can improve myself as an individual both physically and mentally.
>>28713288
I'll keep that in mind, thanks.
>>28713330
The year we spent hanging out was nice. We went on a road-trip with her cousin to an anime convention and we had a good time. We've had our disagreements, but nothing so big that it would completely destroy our relationship.
>>28713373
AKA she kept you orbiting. Cut all contact and if she asks tell her you're not looking for friends at this point in life.
she values your friendship and doesn't want to lose a friend to a possible bad relationship. it hurts but try not to be bitter about it. sorry mane :( be grateful you have a friend ffs!
>>28713385
That's a bit harsh. I think we can still be friends, she's pretty much one of the few I have left.
>>28713373
>planning
>carefully
i know that feel, happened to me in highschool. I planned too fucking long though and almost lost my chance from simply taking so long, but I was rejected anyways. Sometimes I think maybe if I was fast enough and did something right off the bat something may have happened. I don't know.
Like I said, it felt like this was the decider of my fate, my future. But I got over it, and now I'm in a dreary suspension of mediocrity with no way out. So in a way I was right, and wrong. Keep trying though desu.
Don't become too cynical and bitter.
>>28713394
Holy shit, is anyone actually this delusional? She doesn't fucking value his friendship, she values his money for food and car rides. She despises him as anything more than a worthless orbiter.
>>28713373
I'm not that kind of person either, and that's why I've done nothing but crush hard on one girl every few years instead of chat with lots of them and brush off rejection as no big deal. It fucking sucks. I feel better now that I started talking to more women and deciding I'd rather face rejection than live in regret. I feel like a scumlord psuedo-Chad not giving a girl all of my attention, but I doubt that any of them aren't talking to several other guys. If things were to progress, we'd both begin to talk to those others less and less anyway.
>>28713411
Harsh is giving you false hope by saying "I'll think about it" when she had already made up her mind.
Harsh is asking you to be friends with her when you clearly feel different.
You deserve better, don't do this to yourself, don't let her do this to you.
Please anon :(
>>28713232
Holy shit you dumb c u c k faggot. You should have established your intentions from the get go. Nobody's going to wait for you be an adult. You bought some girl dinner who you're not dating you stupid beta faggot don't incentivize women to be whores holy shit you deserve it.
PIC RELATED IT'S YOU
>>28713416
>tfw want to pick a specific date to ask a girl out
>mfw she starts a relationship with someone else before that date arrives
stupid asf, just ask when you want to desu
>>28713394
This sounds like something she would say
>>28713416
I'm sorry, man. I'm also trying not to get bitter either, but sometimes its hard.
>>28713447
Don't feel too bad, anon. That's a smart way of doing things.
>>28713461
She isn't that bad at all. I offered when I gave her a ride and payed for her food. She deserves it.
>>28713439
You have no evidence to believe this other than that no woman has ever touched you.
>>28713058
Don't fear rejection. Look for someone else. Keep trying.
>>28713544
>she deserves it
... I'm speechless, no wonder she wasn't interest.
>>28713601
This, fucking hell
>Letting women have their cake and eat it too in the current fucking year
>>28713601
I don't get what you mean? It's clear that I think she's a wonderful person. She's been through a lot of shit and the least I could do as a friend is give her a ride home and buy her food. It's something that a friend would do.
>>28713622
So it's safe to say youJUSTwanted to be her FRIEND then?
>>28713232
Take it as a learning lesson, then. You honestly cannot beat around the bush if you have romantic intentions.
>>28713622
Holy fuck do you have male friends?
Is she fucking living in the streets or someshit?
I can understand a drink or a cuppa joe but a fucking meal.
CONTACTS
Anon: ATM
>>28713644
You NEETs must be broke as shit if you think paying for someone's meal is a serious issue.
>>28713544
"She deserves it."
HOLY FUCK, no wonder she wasn't interested in you, you beta. How the fuck did she deserve it? For having a cunt? Give me a break.
>>28713640
I don't, but she does and I respect her decision.
>>28713644
I do, and I'd do the same for them. Plus in burger land, meals aren't that expensive.
>>28713651
tendies have always been a serious issue
>>28713651
It's a serious issue when one party didn't forget their wallet you fucking idiot. I don't want my friends buying me food unless it's a combined order like pizza. Even then you would pay him a share or take care of the tip and it's a party. Fucking Christ alive she's a rude as fuck friend.
>>28713058
Do you feel spite towards your Oneitis ?
>>28713674
No
>>28713669
Don't forget, I offered to buy her food, she didn't ask.
>>28713232
>said she would think about it
This ALWAYS means no. They just never want to say no to your face. Bitch n hoes dawg
Op you're a fucking idiot. Nobody dates coworkers. The most you get is a bang and only if you're Chad. Kudos for treating her well like a good friend though and don't lose respect for her because of the rejection. You have no idea how awkward dating a coworker can get, so don't blame her or yourself. And don't listen to the pathetic r9k hive mind who would have you cut contact with her over it - that would be the most unbelievably beta coward thing to do
>>28713232
Had a similar situation except she suggested we go on a date and kept blowing me off when I asked for her number to make plans now I'm over it/her
>>28713660
YOU SAT DOWN IN A RESTAURANT, ATE WITH THE OPPOSITE GENDER, AND PAID FOR A BITCH'S MEAL. ALL WITH ESTABLISHING IT WASN'T A DATE.
what the livid fuck
>>28713680
THAT MAKES IT WORSE
WHY DID SHE ACCEPT
WHAT WOULD A FRIEND DO?
"Nah anon I appreciate it, but if you wanna grab a bite lets go man."
>>28713660
>it's something that a friend would do
>a friend would do
>a friend
>FRIEND
Congratulations, you cucked yourself.
>>28713680
How does it feel knowing you're not part of her social circle and she probably has a go to Chad?
>>28713269
This is what I did
I'm this guy >>28713691
>>28713669
>not alternating payment between your bros
>>28713695
It was a drive-through on the way to her house, damn.
>>28713714
Sure, if you're short cash, but do you think this bitch not only was out money and would pay back OP. Fuck outta here
>>28713729
>eating fast-food too
Wow, you're also fat too, how not fucking surprising
I got rejected too
but the thing is, she loves me, all women love me and I love them
>>28713461
"I'll think about it" is a curve senpai
>>28713729
> bought her dinner
>it was a drive through
You're making it sound like you took her to a 5 star restaurant when in reality you bought her a burger from McDonald's dollar menu and expected a blowjob because of it.
>>28713766
OY VEY, It was only a dollah, like em gonna pay some chutzpah goy more dan dat to make me n mah date a boigah.
>>28713622
>She's been through a lot of shit and the least I could do as a friend is give her a ride home and buy her food. It's something that a friend would do.
lol fucking betas man.
>>28713689
life is so unfair. Chad slays the pussy while betas have to buy a fucking hamburger and go home and play Doom. Sure, it's the "decent" thing to do, but it still sucks balls. From an evolutionary standpoint it's abject failure.
